olyivy:


Like I said before, there are many like Okija Juju, those whose mother followed hausa soldiers to the north for protection. Hausa have rejected him and igbos rejected him and he is undergoing identity crisis.

Igbo people call bastar-ds like that BAT(usu)

"usu abughi anu elu, abughi anu ala"

i still insist that the true paternity of this so called okija_juju guy be checked.

her mother played away match with one dirty aboki nama

freecocoa:

My own is why did they leave naija for libya in the first place? I keep saying it,if not for the mumu B H hediots,police and Nepa,naija is better than many other countries to live in.

GBAM !!

Plus the facts that nigerians who live in nigeria are very pompous. They accept far much less menial jobs when they travel abroad.
but cant do such jobs to earn a living in their country.

the list is not complete without Eziachi but in his absence i will vote for onlythuth

Where is Eziachi on the list of nominees biko

nagoma:

Is Mrs. Chima a man or a woman? Sorry but I have to ask this question.

not sure she's a married woman. though she wish she's

very cheap and lame propaganda.

just two weeks and the issue is making news headline.

Gov. Rochas make sure you tight all the loop holes criminals use to loot Imo treasury. its no longer business as usual.

THUNDER STRIKE YOU ONCE MORE INSIDE THE PIT OF HELL

AWO MY FOOT

that yarinya thought she has seen a husband she dnt know Jim is not ready for marriage.


Like someone said earlier, this is a typical case of LOVE gone bad

chamber2:

I am as confused as the FG now!

My wife has just been posted to JIGAWA state!!!

I don't know what to do.

Just confused

confused you said?

si-lly  statement.

would you have allowed your wife to go and serve in the far north?

not only yansh.

men equally look/admire well packaged full breasted chiks

if she fc**k another man !!!!!!!

no way for me.

Didn't Obj made a similar remark in 1999 about his own people?
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If OBJ said he can rule Nigeria without you yorooobas and they failed to make him taste his poo, thatz your pot of ewedu.

Igbos are not cowards, they cant take such sh.it.

If MKO actually said he "can rule Nigeria without the Igbo's"

I praise anyone who made sure he taste his poo.

i doubt if a politician can make such a silly and stu.pid statement.

Ride-on Gov. Rochars.

Definitely your reforms will affect a lot of fraudulent people.

@ mundus(mr. bona fide citizen of imo state)
If your mother loose her job now; will your family collapse within 2 weeks?

If it takes extra 2 weeks for all proper verifications to be concluded in order to weed out  ghost workers
before uploading workers salaries that should be understandable.

On the right track.

Demdem:

i just av a simple and serious issue with this guys. anytime it rains or serious weather changes, the decoder stops. that shouldnt be

DSTV transmit signals using KU-BAND, KU-BAND signals is usually affected by atmospheric conditions(in this instance - rain)

The Ku frequency is designated solely for communications use via satellite. That means no competition or signal interference from other communications systems.

Typically, the Ku band operates at a higher frequency (11.7 - 12.2Ghz) for downlinks and (14.0 - 14.5Ghz) for uplinks. This higher frequency produces a signal with a shorter wavelength that's more powerful and focused.

Usually all that's needed is a 1.2 or 1.8 meter dish for most locations.

Consequently, the ku-band is excellent in delivering spot beam coverage from the satellite. The downside is the service coverage area is not as broad as C-band. Additionally, the higher frequency spectrum of Ku band operation makes this service more likely to be affected (usually from atmospheric conditions) by signal degradation than C-band satellite service.

Ku-band satellite equipment costs about half as much as C-band equipment. Also, because Ku service utilizes more powerful transponders on the satellite for operation, bandwidth capacity is more expensive which means that ku band service packages generally cost more.

In summary: there is nothing they can do about it, that's how the technology is designed. During heavy rains you will definitely notice signal degradation.

texazzpete:

@Beaf
'Computers'?
'e-education'?

You Do realize we're talking about Primary schools, don't you?

even at that.

how much does it cost to set-up  an e-education center?

dont mind them na wayo-wayo people, the thing dey their blood.

you can adopt a male child instead and put your mind @ rest.

horny4u:

You are one of the reasons some women marry late.
At 31 my school cert father already had a house, wife and children he was feeding.
Which economy? Economy can never stop a real hustler man,
tough love here .
The school that employed your arsse is forsaken or you wey no find better to do, or open a school yourself
more tough love
Your attitude is the problem , you have a self pity attitude eatting away at your you
See Nairaland was built by a then small geek then , NOW A BIG MAN [s] [b]if they pursue me from nairaland na you o[/b][/s] was he employed to do it , hell no
If you continue to depend on the economy and self pity you will be ringa ringa rosy and wasting some girl's time.

[s]I donot like coogar he is always ff my tail light[/s]

See the way a man thinks at coogar's advice , you work as a teacher for a year, save money up, go for a prince2 course or NIIT , become certified , find a job with it after 3 years establish your own company employ people to save your personal time,
No body is here for you, only you can help yourself,
Your reasoning is off and not success oriented at all
Lastly good things donot happen to ungrateful and sad people,
You speak and write good english so i guess the background is there
If the owner of the school had your kind of attitude , there will not school and no job for you, be grateful to him no matter what he gave you an opportunity
If your skills are worth more than N15000 you will be earning more.

Ok you either take this as the constructive criticism it is or you bite me , which ever way , i am investing my sterling.

You said it all.  truth is bitter but someone have to say it.

what you said is in-depth and some parts require deep meditation and concentration.  

Man's greatest enemy is not the  economy, govt, environment etc etc but SELF (INDECISION, DOUBT  & FEAR).  the day you conquer your self is the day you conquer the world.

a lot of people don't think outside the BOX.

junegirl:

I don't know why people make such a big deal out of nothing! What's the big deal in living on your own if it is more convenient for you? That a girl lives alone doesn't automatically mean she is loose; I think such mentality is very backward and ill-exposed. You can still be under your parent's roof and be wayward if you so choose, it all depends on the upbringing and background of the girl in the first place.  





www.heal9ja..com

Which upbringing are you referring to in this case. No NYSC and  no job yet. if she had finished NYSC your likes will put up a lame excuse that she saved a lot of money during her service year.

How did she get the money she will use to rent a flat, feed herself, pay NEPA bills etc without her parents support.

I'm surprised you are talking of backward and ill exposed mentality when in the actual sense you are the one in those shoes

@OP
You never talk wetin de hungry u

this topic has reduced my respect for Mrs Chima.(less 5% only)

its in the news. Channels just spoke about the bomb blast now

Owerri, Enugu and Calabar

the first thing you have to do is DNA test of the two kids you claim she had for you.  she probably might have never stopped dating that guy.

If you confirm the kids are biologically yours, then you can begin to look for a solution to the problem.

DNA test does not cost much.

Good Girl:

Her happiness cannot be pegged on her marrying a Nigerian. That is probably the mistake she's been making over the years and I will [/i]discourage her. Just glance at what the males on this forum have been typing about her. Do you seriously think they are capable of making ANYBODY happy, let alone the OP? Just be honest with yourself! Can any form of happiness emanate from those venom-speaking men who just lash out at a woman for the simple reason that she's 40 and unmarried (like she chose to be in that situation in the first place)?

ZE, about white guys not having "sweet priks" as you've put it; do not underestimate your opponent. I've also heard that the white boys have their own strengths in the art of love-making. _{I repeat, I've heard}. They are not as lousy as you'd want to believe. It's all in your head. There are many things which give pleasure to a woman beyond "priks" and the white boys do not hesitate to explore those options. That [i]Black Men are Good in Bed saying should not get into your head; it's a myth that fellas need to stop spreading because it inflates the egos of the lousy lays.

I still insist that the lady should try out dating other races or other African nationalities. She should avoid jerks.

@ Good Girl
you only heard but those who had dated oyibo and blacks gave a first hand account of their experience. they said oyibo prik no pass the exam(e de do yobo-yobo). Please dont deceive the OP its her happiness.

oyibo's are hardworking, intelligent, honest, financially very ok. but she said she want a black guy. she can still get a black guy that will make her happy.

Good Girl:

I think the mistake she made was to shut out other races; and two, I think her relatives mis-advised her. Why would they advise her to do a "husband-search" in Nigeria? Look at the all the replies she got from the clique of men she was supposedly advised to marry from. A human being labeled with a "Date of Expiry" sign like a product in the market? Seriously? And she thinks she's missing much by not being married to these soulless fellows?

If I were in her shoes, I'd get baby (or two) or I would start dating the very men I've shut out; i.e. White Men. Yes. . . .I said it - WHITE BOYS!

I'd also advise her to avoid the fellows in here who are giving her email and phone contacts. ".[/b]

@ the bolded

the OP is looking for a black man for marriage. you people should not discourage her. her happiness is very important at the long run.

most  of these white guys that eat only carrot and cabbage: was told their prik no de sweet. She would have tested both b4 making up her mind. i beg make una leave her alone.

please come to Naija. Guys full ground.

Ivynwa:


Don't listen to the people feeding it down your throat that you have spirit husband, spirit this and that, you don't sweetheart. You have not expired dearie, you are a beautiful woman. You may even live longer than these persons saying those to you and can still have all these that your heart desires soon to the surprise of all of them. May God grant you the desires of your hearts.

you are very correct but looking at the bolded you might appear to be flattering(or deceiving) her.
the op never cared to upload a picture or drop a valid email address. how did u know she is a beautiful woman?

most comments here are very harsh ooo.

is it because OP stated her real age?

a lot of girls in their 40s still claim 28 here

@ all hopes are not lost but you have to take a lonnnnng vacation, change your strategy and act fast.

PresidKing:

I guess EBONYVIBE is in serious dilemma, at first she hated all men and ran away from her hubby, now she is back with pregnancy and is seeking advice from Nairaland on way forward.  Adultery and adulterous

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-738889.0.html

Even if she is your friend and not you, same people, same story line, same species, same blood pigment, same lineage if traced from Adam or Allah, birds of same feather have same problem.

This is why before you marry, you need to trace origin from Archeologist and expecially people from EBONYVIBE VILLAGE or  descendant.

Una no go finish me with laugh for this nairaland.

wonderful!!

meaning if the actual person is not EBONYVIBE definitely they are birds of the same feather.