Mcslize:
You cannot tame some girls. Just understand the kind of girl you're dating. Is she the kind that loves social media attention so much? If she is then don't waste your time trying to tame her or make her remain faithful to you.

The fact that you've spent so much on her as if you are married to her have given her the ease to move on faster than you, should you break up. It's you that will feel all the emotional pains cuz you still finding it hard to walk away.

The truth still remains that she won't change any time soon. Just start looking for another more reserve lady that you know still believes in faithfulness and start a relationship with.

Terminate that thought of marrying that toxic lady. Remove that marriage thought from your mind right away. She is a toxic partner because you have given her all of your power as a man. Her honey well does make you lose control.

You don't need to beat a woman to be able to gain her respect. The whole issue is your fault. You can't control your sexual urge around her and she is using that to manipulate you. The moment you learn to control your sexual urge and desire, that's the day you gain your freedom from the manipulation of ladies.

Free yourself of that toxic relationship and curtain your sexual desires. Focus your mind and energy on more better things and try improving yourself on a daily basis.

Stop spending frivolously on any lady you are getting on with as a man. Spending on a lady doesn't make her stops seeing other men.

The more you spend on her, the more you find it hard to walk away even at the point of her killing you with hypertension. She knows you care too much for her, hence the level of disrespect.

Don't let your emotions override your logical thinking. Have some balls brother and end this toxic relationship. There are many other girls out there. While killing your mental health with just 1 out of all the millions of girls out there? Not that she is even well mannered.

You don't fall in love with ladies like that. They ain't good as wives.

If after all these advice, you still end up being seduced by her pussy and fail to walk away, have yourself to be blamed. Toxic relationship can deteriorate a man's mental health.

Walk away without looking back no matter how sweet the pussy is. She isn't in any way a wife material.

thanks my dear,

Moh247:
Pay for another apartment without letting her know and just park out after your rent expires, change your phone number too and block her everywhere

Peace of mind is sacred

thanks bro thats what I have in mind , my rent will be expiring by April next year, and I'm planning packing out to somewhere new, thanks for d advice bro

frozen70:


You are too weak, that's all I can say
You have not seen anything yet

madam power I hail u, it's your type that encourages men to hit women , women of ur type, so u fit get sense, but I'm aren't like that, pls if u have nothing to tangible to contribute next time just read the story and move on, u mustn't contribute thanks.

Ahmed0336:
What a SIMPle young fella.
Keep it up

baba na advice I needed especially now that I'm down, not to cast stones.

For a serious relationship leading to marriage , do you encourage going through your partner's phone for trust to be built ?.

I discovered my partner has been flirting with other guys online, thanks to the fact that I always go through her phone when she's asleep. I have done alot for this gal, just disappointed while gals wouldn't be faithful in their relationships.

This is someone I wanted to wife next year, and I love her so much despite her flaws .

I swallow alot of her flaws, like whenever we have issues she will abuse me from head to toe, on occasions like that I will ask her out of my life and my house but she'll be so bent in staying that nothing can separate us after how many years according to her "over her dead body" she wants to eat her cake and have it back.

I'm really stalk, after abusing me up and down at night I find it very difficult resist her body, I will still try to have sex with her especially when I see her nudes, I be flesh and blood.

I can't continue like this 2023, Guys please don't cohabit with a gal you haven't married.
Now I have issues of driving her way or I relocate to somewhere far just to have peace of mind. I can't continue like this next year, God forbid.

If she was coming and going ending this toxic relationship would have been effective. This is someone I have paid two sessions school fees for, care for her like she was my wife in my own little way, as we speak I have written her final year project for her chapter one to five, its just left for her to type it and present it.

I don tire for this relationship I really need a way out, I want to leave her cos its no longer healthy for me, though I really love her. She lacks respect for me , she still flirts online, she's very abusive . I have told her if you feel you have seen someone better than me, kindly move on or you feel we have stayed long enough and you can't wait anymore kindly move on, I won't hold anything against u. But you can't be staying in my house and be seeing someone else, frustrating me all round.

Sometimes when we want to have sex , neighbours must hear us because of fight over sex, but she has her good side, she wasn't like this when we started. I'm really tire, God help me next year, cos I can't continue like this.

For a serious relationship leading to marriage , do you encourage going through your partner's phone for trust to be built ?.

I discovered my partner has been flirting with other guys online, thanks to the fact that I always go through her phone when she's asleep. I have done alot for this gal, just disappointed while gals wouldn't be faithful in their relationships.

This is someone I wanted to wife next year, and I love her so much despite her flaws .

I swallow alot of her flaws, like whenever we have issues she will abuse me from head to toe, on occasions like that I will ask her out of my life and my house but she'll be so bent in staying that nothing can separate us after how many years according to her "over her dead body" she wants to eat her cake and have it back.

I'm really stalk, after abusing me up and down at night I find it very difficult resist her body, I will still try to have sex with her especially when I see her nudes, I be flesh and blood.

I can't continue like this 2023, Guys please don't cohabit with a gal you haven't married.
Now I have issues of driving her way or I relocate to somewhere far just to have peace of mind. I can't continue like this next year, God forbid.

If she was coming and going ending this toxic relationship would have been effective. This is someone I have paid two sessions school fees for, care for her like she was my wife in my own little way, as we speak I have written her final year project for her chapter one to five, its just left for her to type it and present it.

I don tire for this relationship I really need a way out, I want to leave her cos its no longer healthy for me, though I really love her. She lacks respect for me , she still flirts online, she's very abusive . I have told her if you feel you have seen someone better than me, kindly move on or you feel we have stayed long enough and you can't wait anymore kindly move on, I won't hold anything against u. But you can't be staying in my house and be seeing someone else, frustrating me all round.

Sometimes when we want to have sex , neighbours must hear us because of fight over sex, but she has her good side, she wasn't like this when we started. I'm really tire, God help me next year, cos I can't continue like this.

Kollins11:
Your useless Nigerian girlfriend kpekus wey guys dey use cure konji for street, E reach your turn you dey monopolize & privatize am.

I would advice you to kill every useless emotions you have for her. Infact let me teach you how to treat a useless Nigerian girl.

Deceive her that you will marry her, then put her kpekus on auto Knacking, fvck her like an animal that she is. Then after Knacking, give her some overdose of postinor2 to swallow everyday. You can even grind some overdose of postinor2 and put it inside her drink secretly. Make sure her womb is damaged beyond repair.

Do this for like 7 months, then after 7 months don't hesitate to bundle her like firewood and kick her useless kpekus and damaged womb out of your house.

SIMPs love damage products, so they would definitely accept her damaged womb and worn-out kpekus.

someone will do exactly this or worst thing you've just written to your family member either your daughter or sister will suffer this same fate. For wishing someone's daughter this , this will come to you too, I just imagine how useless you're in real life. Mama born pikin, na this type .

yorubaCOWARDS:
Is alright..

Meanwhile..

GOD BLESS MAZI SIMON EKPA ..

God bless mazi Simon ekpa for doing what ? For killer poor and struggling Igbo people. I don't blame u , I blame the south easterners for nurturing and growing a serpent called ipob who has become a monster called ESN, autopilot, unknown gunmen, when they started the were all hailing them, now they're their own.

How can someone who base in Finland be controlling me over here , telling me to go kill and burn down police station and other government facilities, what if I get caught or killed .

Dimples2022:
I wonder who was servicing your girlfriend that morning while you sat outside like a bitch PMSL!

Are u trying to be funny, or u are trying to insult yourself ?? Na ur type dey vuck aboki, get out

ahnie:

Nne this table you wantu shake so has tiri legs.
No make bros go dey look his babe one kain one kain o.
No spoil relationship o

lol I trust my babe die. Though never swear for any woman

SenecaTheYonger:
I've seen this phenomenon before. It's mostly in girls that are drop that beautiful, almost flawless. There's one next to my compound, very fair calabar girl. Complete body package, from boobs to ass, and very young too, not more than 18. But this girl doesn't talk to any guy in the neighborhood, she only prefers those aboki's that follow LAWMA. She's extremely friendly with them. I know they would be fucking if not that she's staying with her mom. It's so bizzare.

It's like beauty and the beast syndrome. They have this fatal attraction for their exact opposite. I don't know what cause this.

Bro are u serious , say no more

Braveboi1:
Nigerian women can fu,ck a goat as long as he gives her money that's where most get their std they are carrying.
Imagine she could stoop low to an aboki, aboki wey no deh bath, Aboki wey dey bend down piss like woman, aboki wey deh smell.
Tufiakwa! women!

Bro I said I didn't believe it when my woman told me, cos d gal too fine, some people wey dey patronize ashawo go fit pay up to 100k to have that gal even for one nite cos the gal too fine, with her good shape, fair and fine in complexion, but imagine her stooping so low to having aboki dig her, and she's very happy why her neighbours dey shame for her fellow including women.

ahnie:
My concern right now is that....2 pure water is now #50 in delta state.

Are u just here to mess up the post, if u have nothing tangible to comment , pls sit back and read other people's comment, I saw how u messed up other people's post, pls shift to one side, na only u dey buy pure water

Pals wonders shall never end, my woman stays distance off me, but I visit often same with her, infact she prefers me coming over, as we are preparing to settle down together.

One of those days in my apartment during our little gossips, my gal told me about this her neighbour that is into sexing a particular "aboki" guy those ones that patch and sew torn cloths on the streets, I was very shock . she told me she has witness it twice she couldn't believe her eyes.

Infact that she has lost respect and love she had for the gal, how can she stoop so low in having relationship with an aboki, people that barely bath, most of the them are very dirty and smelling, what could have pushed her into that.

Me from where i was, was speechless as well cos I know the gal, this gal in question fine die, fair , very fresh like today bread lol thick with elevated backside, she's indeed my kind of woman, infact the gal too fine and she happened to be Igbo by tribe and she should be 21 to 24yrs still young. I use to see her as someone that is classic because of her dressing whenever I visit my gal, she appears elegant always, no way she couldn't have had better taste for guys, yet I didn't still believe my gal.

on a particular fateful day I went to my gal's place to check on her since her phone was switched off, I didn't see her I decided to wait a little outside. Behold my doubt was cleared while waiting, I saw the So called aboki with his sewing machine coming to the gal's house and no one was around cos it was in the morning but the gal was inside. The gal coming outside sighted me I did as if nothing concern me , I was sighting the gal. After greeting each other she brought some cloths and gave to him, aboki while sewing was entering the room and coming out, to and fro.

I was like make I see the end of this, behold after sewing aboki went inside finally for like 30mins, another neighbour of her's came back saw the sewing machine outside and the owner was no way to be found, the guy just nodded his head and smile in disappointment and looked at me and I smiled back.

After the fun time aboki came out sweating and looking tired, he must have had alot of fun, the charges for the job on the cloths wasn't paid instead the aboki guy with his dirty body had to gift her some money, what I'm I saying ? Of course they're boyfriend and gal friend, I heard he the aboki visits like 2 to 3 times a week.

If someone ever told me someone like that gal ever friended aboki I will doubt, but what's my concern the guy is having fun of his life , with fresh kpekus as u guys call it, what many guys cannot do aboki is doing it lol.

But take home question for me was that ,
1. why stoop that low, despite her beauty , she would have gotten a guy with a flashy car and beautiful things of life, like the way other gals could think.
2.Could it be that this guy is there just to solve her sexual urge problems and available whenever she needs him since he's always on the street ?
3. Could it be that she has a serious boyfriend outside who is not aware of this extra relationship, and providing he daily needs while this one is seriously servicing her ?

4. Could it be that she's trying to solve her fantasy, I learnt that core Muslims like that aboki are uncircumcised perhaps she wanted to have a fair share with experience and then keep one to herself by having uncircumcised dick digging her.
5. Could it be a syndrome problem that she needs to fight against.
6. Could it be that her friends are into it. ?
7. Lastly could it be that she has suffer heartbreak from so-called more responsible and civilized guys so she had to settle for aboki.

Note: pls this post is not to depict or drag any religion or tribe, be civilized in your comments while you share your thoughts and experiences.

FOOTSOLDIER2:
I pray one day, God will give me my own husband too, until then, no rush.

hmmm if u are cooled headed and humble good men will come your way, as for me I'm looking for a very big yansh woman ��� to marry, just as they say marry who u are sexually attracted to , I want my wife to be fat behind cos I don't want to cheat on her �����, I love her thick.

SmartPolician:


First of all, the most marginalised tribes in Nigeria are those who control the resources of this country. Funnily enough, you rarely see South South people demanding their own country like the South East.

Bros, we cannot wash our dirty linens in public, so I will choose my words carefully. However, what IPOB should have done would have been to team up with other regions in the South that are calling for restructuring. South West and South South want this country restructured. The government won't have a choice but obey.

If ordinary Wike can make the almighty Sultan of Sokoto to come down to Rivers State and beg him to support Atiku, imagine what would have happened if IPOB, Niger Delta militants and OPC gang up and threaten Nigerian government that they will shut down the entire South if the country is not restructured.

Like I always tell those who care to listen, one tribe cannot successfully pull out of this country because others will come for you (through the military) and destroy your land. I don't want to believe that we didn't learn from the mistakes of 1967.

bro it baffles me how igbo people are killing their citizens over the order of sit at home by Simon ekpa. They kill their elites who suppose to talk on their behalf, they kill their brothers and sisters who are in military uniform even kill their children going for exams, they chase priest out of church auditorium and from their map they included Akwa ibom , Delta, Rivers, Cross Rivers, Bayelsa, Edo the core Niger delta states, knowing that we Niger delta can't be ruled by them. We can't be under any Biafra. If the give them their own republic, they should get ready to give us our Niger delta republic.

Simon ekpa has eaten more than he can chew. For a second thought , why will someone sitting in Finland instruct me here in Nigeria to burn down police station and carry arms, some igbo youths I just tire for Una, some of them have even lost their lives trying to commit those atrocities.

Our Fathers had it simple getting our mothers to marry them with little they were doing and as at then, getting something doing was very easy compared to now were graduates are roaming the street, some that has business ideas, no funding, some are still building their careers not there yet e.g someone like me.

These days the narrative has changed almost all the gals I come across with wants already made men. They can't settle for less irrespective of the guys future and prospect.

No one wants to suffer with any guy for the time being. All the want is now, now , now, not later. Do u have a flashy car, do u have well furnish apartment ? Which area are u staying they ask. And what's baffles me is that majority of them are searching, some are even close to menopause, everybody dey fine place wey dey good, like they say who like suffer forgetting that there's sowing and ripping time says the bible, no one wants to sow with any guy so as to ripe together.

You read about most celebrities whom their current wives stayed with them when there was nothing on ground, why can't our young gals emulate that, any gal that will love to stay with "yet to make it guy" will be cheating on the poor guy to gain favours from other guys, they can't never stay faithful especially they so-called beautiful ones.

My ex ones told me she needed to keep other guys to pay some of her bills, and I asked how many of them she said just 2. This is someone I have been with for long and was about sealing up d relationship by proposing, and I have sacrificed alot already for her.
She told me one out of the two guys was disturbing her and that the so-called guy has traveled out , I was like, so because he disturbed you that was why you had to open your legs for him, so does that mean anybody that disturbs you , u must open your legs for them to enter ?. Tears roll out of my eyes.

This is why some guys are brutal to them when dem blow, but I don't want to tow towards that direction, one woman guys like me yet to blow, pls share your experience why can't we just see a good gal that will stay faithful without looking outside if not for anything but for your prospect.

Our Fathers had it simple getting our mothers to marry them with little they were doing and as at then, getting something doing was very easy compared to now were graduates are roaming the street, some that has business ideas, no funding, some are still building their careers not there yet e.g someone like me.

These days the narrative has changed almost all the gals I come across with wants already made men. They can't settle for less irrespective of the guys future and prospect.

No one wants to suffer with any guy for the time being. All the want is now, now , now, not later. Do u have a flashy car, do u have well furnish apartment ? Which area are u staying they ask. And what's baffles me is that majority of them are searching, some are even close to menopause, everybody dey fine place wey dey good, like they say who like suffer forgetting that there's sowing and ripping time says the bible, no one wants to sow with any guy so as to ripe together.

You read about most celebrities whom their current wives stayed with them when there was nothing on ground, why can't our young gals emulate that, any gal that will love to stay with "yet to make it guy" will be cheating on the poor guy to gain favours from other guys, they can't never stay faithful especially they so-called beautiful ones.

My ex ones told me she needed to keep other guys to pay some of her bills, and I asked how many of them she said just 2. This is someone I have been with for long and was about sealing up d relationship by proposing, and I have sacrificed alot already for her.
She told me one out of the two guys was disturbing her and that the so-called guy has traveled out , I was like, so because he disturbed you that was why you had to open your legs for him, so does that mean anybody that disturbs you , u must open your legs for them to enter ?. Tears roll out of my eyes.

This is why some guys are brutal to them when dem blow, but I don't want to tow towards that direction, one woman guys like me yet to blow, pls share your experience why can't we just see a good gal that will stay faithful without looking outside if not for anything but for your prospect.

lhordspy:
Legend has it that:

If you are destined to collect slap in Kogi state. and your flight is on its destination to Abuja. Enroute abuja, when you reach Kogi. You will jump down anyway and anyhow so as to collect that slap. It is destined.

A man who is destined to Embarass himself will always find a way to collect the embarrassment. Even if it is going from one place to another wey dem no invite am.

Reality check: If you watch the video, they all laughed at Obi after Apkororo said those words not jokingly but seriously. This is awakening to reality i am always talking about that has started manifesting.

No Christian vote anywhere to depend on. The true Christian believers believe the only way out of this current Nigeria situtation is to vote a competent man like Asiwaju , a proven candidate. Not depending on trial and error like Obi, who is not practical about even the quotes and figur7es he is dishing around. A man without manifesto. Someone that cant even honour his Political engagement and rallies. Skipping it like a spoilt brat missing lectures.


Nigeria are wiser now. It is no more that country where you can use religious partioning and division to attain an unrealistic political ambition. Apkororo is from south-south i guess and also a Christian. I spoke to my Ijaw friends yesterday, they said same thing. That the whole south-south rural areas are tilting to the tent of Tinubu. Even some south-south nairalanders are confirming it here themselves.

With the rate this is going and turning out. Peter obi will not even win a single state in South-EasT.

baba I dey shame for u for this thing wey u write, still can't believe that I read what u wrote, still can't believe youths like you really exist, what a shame indeed , with tinubu's health condition, poor speech presentation before the general public on campaign grounds, cos he's very old and needs rest his brain can't process more than what he has being gaffing, controversies in age, wealth, indicted in drug case. Someone that should be resting with his grandchildren but because of his greed and selfishness he doesn't want to rest.

He succeeded in buying the APC delegates , he should come and buy d electorates too, in a sane society someone like tinubu should have been disqualified long ago because of circumstances surrounding him, but here the reverse is the case, Emilokan indeed, Mr desperado, renting crowd here and there. Anybody youth supporting tinubu is enemy of Nigeria, spit!!!!!!!!! I shame for this generation youths, what a pity.

Residents of nasarawa state, please who has idea on the current price of Egusi in a bag both peeled and unpeeled in nasarawa , pls those inline of the business should help a friend, it's urgent. And which market is the cheapest, I know of ashangba , agyaragu, kasuwa alamis, pls which is the cheapest, pls help a fellow

Residents of nasarawa state, please who has idea on the current price of Egusi in a bag both peeled and unpeeled in nasarawa , pls those inline of the business should help a friend, it's urgent. And which market is the cheapest, I know of ashangba , agyaragu, kasuwa alamis, pls which is the cheapest, pls help a fellow

NigeriaIsGreat:
JAGABAN

The love i have for this man eh gosh, I super love this smart politician sincerely

The tormentor of ndi jubril of Sudan will give Ahmed Lawan or Osinbajo the party ticket

The tormentor of ndi the north will vote for their own person

The tormentor of ndi TINUBU is just a figure head, Shetima is the president

I also love these social mobs for one thing, they're pro in spotting the next president from afar reason why they tremble at the mention of JAGABAN


Biko i can't wait for February to come

we all know the love u have for agbado president, but try write something else, previous thread u wrote d same thing, come up with another write up, I dey shame for supporters of the desperado man . shameless youths

FILEBE:
There wasn't any pain being rejected for a job to be honest. I moved on and worked on myself. Told a company about how their ideas won't work and they got me fired the next day .
The idea never worked .

When life throws lemon... make a lemonade. How sweet will thy success story be without pains and bottlenecks?

Op. Calm down and see these obstacles as chanlenges u need to overcome . If things come so easy.. you won't appreciate it. Tomorrow always come with a new opportunity, Right now it is all about you. No send anybody o. Do whatever legit job you can to raise Capital for your business . Small small...everything go set.


If people tell you what they have done to be where they are today ehn... you will know yours is a child's play.


Then ... I am going to say this. Never ever never ever compare yourself with someone or them intimidate you. Don't let your junior,senior or whoever's wealth make you sad . Remember, overtaking is allowed.

. Own yourself with pride. Na money u no get ...u no kill person . The money self ...u go get am soon.

your advice dey sweet me for belle, I wish u be woman wey I know I for don marry u, weldone bro

alanto:
Giving indeed is from the heart.. I dont think this guy has half Obi's money but he donated a whooping 10m while Obi was giving out Noodles...

baba pls get ur facts right next time , peter Obi gave 55m

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

bro what kind of lying is this, we go run for u, did u mean 30k or 300k , pls expantiate

I don't know why u guys are surprise by the number of children and at the very age of 21, knowing too well that up north that's the norm, they marry under age over there

kingscare1:
let your friend travel. Simple as A, B, C, D. I mean for a long time, change location. An she go tire.

bro thanks I think this is the best advice I guess for him, this was what I was considering .

My friend as been victim of a toxic relationship, despite the fact both him and the gal in question have been together for long and he cares and love the gal.

The both stay together in an apartment my guy rented, he wanted to go see the gal's parents for proper introduction but the gal's attitude spoilt everything, so he had to pause the process. My guy loves this gal so much despite all her flaws , they barely stay a week without issues.

The gal is saucy, insults my guy at every provocation, no respect at all. Often times he has asked the gal out of his house but d gal will always refuse, I had to step in but no avail. The gal said she can't leave him to anyway or for anybody after all she had passed through with him, spending many years with him, that she will kill my friend if he tries any attempt to push her out of the house or by any chance end the relationship , she doesn't mind going to jail, and she meant it. I felt for the poor guy, bad relationship could lead to death this gal could starve my guy of sex for weeks, most times the gal will bully him, hitting him on the face just because he wants to have sex with her, she lacks respect, she's abusive though hard working.

Guys what's your take on this, your advise could safe a soul. He has learnt his lesson, currently he vowed not to allow any woman stay with him again unless they're married. Cos right now he can't bring in another gal in, cos it will be disastrous. And the current gal wouldn't want to leave either. I can't image myself stay with such a gal who doesn't respect me, at every provocation will be abusing me , tufiakwa . very stubborn and doesn't want to leave as well, advise pls.

Just pondering ever since Rev father mbaka spoke ill against peter Obi and he was called out my caring Nigerians , because of this, his church was sanctioned, since then no one has heard about him. Pls what else happened to him , I'm just curious . How come no one has heard any more about him.

Food for thought , never touch the anointed , the choice of the people is the choice of God.

Just pondering ever since Rev father mbaka spoke ill against peter Obi and he was called out my caring Nigerians , because of this, his church was sanctioned, since then no one has heard about him. Pls what else happened to him , I'm just curious . How come no one has heard any more about him.

Food for thought , never touch the anointed , the choice of the people is the choice of God.

I wanted to be a pilot, but because of high school fees of around 7m, mehn I find another alternative, today I'm a marine engineer and practicing.

Lamanii22:
She probably just read an article on how to spice up your sex life... if you see me in person omoor I am innocent looking but in the room lol you know what I mean..... a girl may be a lady on the street and a LovePeddler on the sheets..... op why not enjoy your sexual life since you have no evidence on cheating... Thank you....

thanks babe u too much