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RomanceGuys Never Trust A Woman You Have Not Yet Married by Zeal0000007(op): 9:53am On Jun 24, 2020
Pals I'm still trying to live with this shock that my supposed fiancee though I've not engaged her yet but we're planning settling down next two years have cheated severally and I didn't know. This is someone when my friends talks about problems about the problems they faced in their relationships, I will be thanking God for blessing me with someone like her.

I loved this girl with every atom of me and this is our 5ft year together. I love my gal because she's hardworking she doesn't believe that she needs to sleep with any man to feed and pay her bills. she's will be turning 22 by next month while I'm 29 already.

Pals d tin weak me because this is som
eone I assumed I mould right from teenage, someone that was chased out of d house by her sister at 19 just because of me and she took d pains making me promise her that I will never abandon her. Back then the problem was solved and the family now knows my intentions and the are cool with it. I talk to the mom who is in the village and she's currently staying with me fully then partially in her sister's place.

Cutting the story shut, we had a misunderstanding two days ago we humbled ourselves to each other to resolve it. We were emotional after forgiving each other at point of love making I just felt I should make gest, so I told her why she's always lying down like a log of wood during sex no involvement apart from spraying her legs, cos I can remember how she always wanted sex years ago, abi my thing no big enough.

Pals my gal boost my bubbles, telling me that sincerely she has cheated on me once, guys d shock didn't allow me to ask her when was that, if it was when I left for service so I could come back and look for something doing to better our lives, we don too suffer.

I was shocked, she told me to my face that the guy's dick was too big and she doesn't like big dick, that it was terrible in her eyes, so after that day she blocked the guy's number, that she prefers my own always. I shaded tears in my heart then I covered up with smiles, I was like ''no wonder you have not being enjoying me''I covered up with lots jokes and smiles. this someone I could swear I was d only one banging her. I'm still living with the shock.

currently she just returned to my place after visiting her brother for 4 months now, my gal that never asked any man for money before I just found out that she has been asking guys for money as we speak she's expecting about 8k from one guy I believed she met at d brother's place.

Her phone is currently passworded and I warned her that I don't want her phone on password as well as mind, I can't live that way with someone I want to get married to atleast ur phone should be accessible by me she obeyed now she has locked it back again . Pals I know what to do, but I'm just weak after all this years, this is one that has aborted for me, I just got a job offshore since on March this year but I have not started because of the pandemic.Someone I wanted to celebrate by standing by me all this years.I just tire.
RomanceRe: What's Your Opinion? She's 16 And I'm 22 by Zeal0000007(m): 4:41pm On Jun 20, 2020
baba go and read ur books
RomanceRe: Please Guys I Need Your Advice ASAP by Zeal0000007(m): 10:19pm On Jun 16, 2020
aboi go read ur book, leave woman alone at ur age.
RomanceRe: Should I Take Her Back? by Zeal0000007(m): 2:59pm On Jun 15, 2020
Waziced:
This is another new moniker on the dial.
A new chic came around my vicinity to set up a shawarma, grill chicken spot. A hot spot for the both the high and low in my hood.
She and her assistant shared fliers all through the neighborhood for home delivery services.
Now am not the type of guy that is easily fascinated by pretty ladies on the go! I never gave her much attention as I would just order she'll come serve and chipped in one or two jokes. I see other guys in the hood lurking around her every now and then. Got attracted to her too seeing how humble she is how how jovial she could be. Started chatting her up but never made my intention known from the go. She became used to me and would come around my crib just sitting and gusting.
Now, problem started when one of my neighbors saw her sitting outside with me and having fun just gusting. He looked at her and just nodded his head like saying 'you bah'. I got the message immediately and asked her about him and she said he wooed her and said he'll like to marry her. This my neighbor is a chronic womaniser. Whatever he told her I know is just to get in-between her legs. He had a 4 year old son out of wedlock.
She said she rejected his offer because she can't start her home with someone that has a child already. Saw, next day I took her out and made my intention known to her about wanting a serious relationship. She accepted and we kissed that night. Funny thing is that after that I see her and this my neighbor also friend together as usual gusting. After that I asked her if she wants to give in to his demand but she insisted they're just friends as usual. But she said the guy is still pestering her about that. This guy is my neighbor and friend ohh, I thought maybe he would free her for me knowing am making move already, but rather he was getting upset with her during their course of discussion as he noticed our chats on her WhatsApp.
She told me he's kind of upset with her but on the other hand I noticed she's comfortable with his fist. I kept my cool and confronted her but she insisted there's nothing between them.
One fateful day I met with the guy and we talked about her, I told him that if he's interested in her I can free her for him ohh, woman matter is the least on my mind. He said no I should continue with her that he wooed her but she turned him down and now she's the one coming to keep him company oh. That he see that she's undecided.
I met her and told her that I met with one of her crush because she told about other guys in the hood also. She asked which one I told her the chronic womaniser, she got shocked asking why I met him without telling her. Shioorrr. I told her if there's nothing between them then she shouldn't act the way she did. We settled it she slept in my house that night and I gave her hot f*ck back to back that night. She's good.
Next day again she came and I gave her back to back again.
After two days she met with the persistent crush but according to her he just passed and ignored her greeting. This is her first contact with him after my meeting him regarding her. She called me and asked what I discussed with him that made him act the way he did. I told her nothing more than what I've discussed with her.
The next day he also ignored her greeting. This time around she became furious with me ohh. That she's not happy with me meeting the guy. I told her unless if she has something with him she shouldn't bother about him not answering her greeting.
That night she refused me kissing her. And I told her that if she cherishes the guys company more than mine I don't mind freeing her for him. She said okay ohh, they would know how to settle themselves. She stormed out of my house and I never bothered calling her back. That night I deleted all her pictures from my phone and the chat we had. Folded her lingerie she hung in my house and the towel she used and made up my mind to forget about her and hand her her property the next day.
Coming to the next day didn't just want to deliver the clothes to her early that morning, I passed by her spot and she called me that I should please come. I went to her and she hugged me and said she's sorry that its just me she wants not the guy or other guys. I just left and said told her no problem.
Now, I don't know if I should receive her back and truth be told, I already had her in my mind to settle with her.
Sorry for the long read
lol so u know it's a long read. my brother keep it cool with her monitor the situation, it takes two to tangle. if she desires u and u have made up plans for her and she's aware, she will definitely keep it real with u and prays for things to workout well so u guys can settle down in no distance time.
PoliticsRe: Highlight Of Governor Ugwuanyi's 5 Year Term In Enugu by Zeal0000007(m): 1:37pm On Jun 12, 2020
Wow my governor has really done well though It didn't end well between us when I served in his village as a youth corper, I'm gifted in arts, though I did engineering, I spent over 50k, did jobs that he didn't send me but just to appreciate him and I was expectant. I took risk, he collected the gifts and was very happy he promised to call but unfortunately till date he has not called till I left the place since 2018. When ever I see his pictures I have mixed feelings.

HealthRe: 663 New COVID-19 Cases, 166 Discharged And 4 Deaths On June 9 - (2987 Tested) by Zeal0000007(m): 5:45am On Jun 10, 2020
BAZ001:
Chai this number heavy

But how did corona spread from Lagos to other states in Nigeria despite inter state ban?
Could it be that the virus was already in Nigeria before February?

With all wike actions & demolition of hotel Rivers no gree slow down.
Baba even under the lockdown people where still travelling, boarders where still opened to people by our very own security operatives inasmuch u can pay them, so security operative contributed enough to what happening to us. locking down boarders was a huge failure because of our corrupt security operative eg police
RomanceKarma Is A Bitch, Please Help. by Zeal0000007(op): 4:18pm On Jun 09, 2020
Pals when my immediate younger sister was age 12, I'm 2years older than her. I remember one occasion where the house was very dark she came in with this little girl like age 4 who usually plays around, she placed her on her tummy I was on the bed while both of them were on the ground. she never knew I was there, she made d little girl finger her and played on her breast I was shocked, she never knew I was there. immediate I opened the window she was shocked either and I reported her to my mom of blessed memory and she was dealt with.

Fast forwardly to now, she's married and just gotten admitted into university and has a child of 1yr 4months, she's now 27 while I'm 29. Thus she stays with me because I'm in the state where she's schooling, the same school I finished from and her home and husband is in the neighboring state, so she returns home every month end to meet her husband.

Currently she brought in a 15yrs old girl to come and stay with us look after the child while she goes to school, for me I have gotten a job offshore but have not started yet because of the pandemic since march.

Pals the terrible things this 15yrs old gal has been doing to this little child has been so abominable, do u know she has been defiling this my sister's baby boy which is my nephew, before we where suspecting. And it has happening many times.

Right now we don't know what to do, we've been thinking about sending her parking back to the village but it might be very difficult getting someone else, what is this life turning into or should we blame that on karma at the detriment of this little boy. please help pals.
RomanceRe: Please I Need Help ASAP by Zeal0000007(m): 7:01pm On Jun 06, 2020
my dear I'm sorry to say this and I feel ur pains, when we love someone even to their fault and the person does not reciprocate it's worrisome and painful but the truth must be told. I think he's into someone else may be very committed to the person. so ur calls irritates and it's disturbing him, because if u truly love someone you will always want to hear from the person 24/7. If he's serious about you he'll always be the one to be calling you irrespective of the hour,u will always know, so I'll advise u put ur self together and try and move on. such is life, I wish you the best.
RomanceRe: Adorable Photos Of A Beautiful Female Ex-corper That Got People Talking (photos) by Zeal0000007(m): 2:26pm On Jun 06, 2020
@op never say that again and please Change the caption using modified mode. I'm quite disappointed, she's 60% facially beautiful no doubt, but the impression u made, I was expecting big thick booty lady, that's how true African woman should look like, with nice elevated backside that's what true African men like me eat. I don't eat bone. but in contrary what did I see, one dry bony fish. lol.
RomanceHow Do Men In Prison Cope With Sex Starvation. by Zeal0000007(op): 2:15pm On Jun 03, 2020
Naturally men are sex mongers, I hardly see or hear about any man rejecting sex if the environment and scenario is safe. Because of this high taste for sex, many even after getting married still keep concubines aside their wives which is not fair . Thus, even the brothels were created for men and that doesn't stop me being very proud of being a man. it's obvious why many considers men polygamous in nature.

Nevertheless I have been thinking lately how people in prison cope with sex starvation especially ''men''.

have u had this imagination? share ur views.
RomanceRe: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Zeal0000007(m): 12:48am On May 27, 2020
Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.
@op let me help you out here. she might be right about not putting on ring but that doesn't mean she hasn't accepted ur proposal, e. g like in my church redeemed, we don't propose with ring. even during exchange of marital vows in front of the church redeemed don't use ring but bible, u only wear ring when u get to the register to sign d marriage agreement, from there u start wearing ring, so don't panic, she's ur wife. paying of the bills should be done mutually, it's for both of u, have a heart to heart talk, then share the bill,
RomanceRe: I Told A Waiter To Help Give My Girlfriend A Ring, The Waiter Proposed To Her In by Zeal0000007(m): 10:51pm On May 24, 2020
wow nice script, @op who wrote d script?
RomanceRe: Cardi B Unveils Her Tattoo From Back To Middle Of Her Thigh Curve Naked Video by Zeal0000007(m): 1:24am On May 24, 2020
Slimranky:
Oh my God
Such a beauty to behold
I really can't get over cardi and rihanna hot asf
She is rich and gave birth to a beautiful daughter
One of my cravings is to have a 3 some with cardi b and rihanna they are the only two women I can use my tongue to give bj in the world
No doubt her down below is gonna be filled with scintillating fragrance as you can see the thigh is not that Stuffy and there is much room for air to penetrate her vagina she is not like this Nigerian women that is fat anyhow like south African women and they don't take proper care of their puumpuum making their down below dish out repulsive Smell's huh

I can do anything for cardi b to twerk on my dick
But certainly can't sacrifice my left Ball's

Even my client last year for Yankee was happy I couldn't go to lag to meet cardi b because she knew how I'm obsessed with cardi
Baba u need serious deliverance. if ur wife or close relation display like this will u like it?.
FamilyRe: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Zeal0000007(m): 6:07am On May 23, 2020
Modesthy:
I had a good uncle who passed away three years ago. His wife morned him for one year. I lived with that my uncle until I got married and parked to my own house.

I use to visit the house sometimes. After the mourning, his wife called me and told me that I should give her more children. She has only one male child. I refused. But She said I should do it for her because she doesn't want children outside the family because she loved my uncle and our family and that she can't continue to stay with only one child.

I'm completely confused. First I'm married doing that is infidelity, sencondly, the uncle was like a father to me before his death. And I see it as a big sin.

Please somebody should help me, what do I do here? How do I handle this issue? Thanks for your candid advice.
Baba this only happens in some tribes like Igbo may ur culture encourages it. but my advice if you are a Christian don't do it. If otherwise do it'
HealthRe: My Experience As A Covid 19 Survivor. by Zeal0000007(m): 1:23pm On May 15, 2020
GodPunishBiafra:
Is that so?

Covid19 truly exists, no doubt.

But in Nigeria, na scam!

The one true person I know that died from the virus in Nigeria is Abba kyari (Mind you, I'm not disputing that he's the only one that has died from it).
All these other politicians are just deceiving themselves.

If you have any fever, flu, cough etc and you mistakenly cross path with NCDC, they will tag you a corona patient.

Remember in Tanzania, pawpaw, goat and engine oil are testing positive for the virus...
Food for thought.
continue living in the dark.
RomanceDo You Call This Love Or Madness.???? by Zeal0000007(op): 8:44pm On May 12, 2020
Guys ur thought on this, my guy and his girl have been together on a relationship for the past two years now, infact ever they've been dating, two years now they've been staying together. unfortunately this guy has been on one menial job to another just for both of them to survive, he didn't complete his university education because of some setbacks. Thus, the gal in question could be so demanding almost every time not minding the unemployed status of this guy. Though they really love each other.

Right now how they're both surviving is that those facebook admirers and other guys around who are willing to put any cash just for the gal to sleep with them, the gal scam them and collect money from them and that's what they have been doing just to survive.
It's worrisome hearing that my gal is seeing some sort of man at an eatery let alone allowing her to be seeing men.
And I keep on asking myself to what point could this gal in question maintain this without going afterwards and be sleeping with this guys.
As I know there's a point a man will shower a woman love and financial favour and the gal might loosened it irrespective if she's in a serious relationship or not, cos some could be funny, and I see that really happening soon .
I can't even imagine that in my relationship, a relationship as serious as mine. psychologically it will disturb me let alone granting her permission to meet them in an eatery, what happens after then no one knows, one will still argue that she's not having sex with them but who knows.
Pals my fears is that I see this my guy's gal leaving my guy for a richer guy with time If he continues permitting her do this cheating will be inevitable in her part her, and I don't know how to advise him without putting pressure on him or making him feel bad.
RomanceRe: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Zeal0000007(m): 8:51am On May 01, 2020
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?
Baba go and read ur books.
RomanceRe: Can A Responsible Girl Do This In A Serious Relationship? by Zeal0000007(op): 3:21pm On Apr 28, 2020
steve279:
Relationship of 5years and the said lady is 22, which means u started dating her at the age of 17. I'm sorry bro as at that age, the lady barely knows what she wants from a man, she's got no standards for the kind of man she wants in her life. All what she wants at that age is to have a boyfriend so she doesn't feel left out among her peer group. Now @22, maturity is beginning to set in, she now knows the quality she's looking for in a man and probably can't settle for less. My brother, let her be. There's this saying that if u have a bird let it go, if it goes nd come back that means it's meant for u but if it thus goes and never come back it means it's never met for u. #Say safe#
Guy thanks but I'm her first experience, and worst thing that can happen is allow miss up herself then allow her come back to me, I can't accept that. it's better to open up to me than trying to be funny, I'm not bad looking neither I'm I unemployed, what she's having with me many girls and willing to even do more just to be with me. but I respect my relationship and I respect her too.
RomanceRe: Can A Responsible Girl Do This In A Serious Relationship? by Zeal0000007(op): 3:14pm On Apr 28, 2020
iamjames2222:
[b]Your post depicts so much ignorance in terms of relationship, but I will give you some benefit of doubt and assume you are probably a novice or not a smart human.

Switching off phone or putting it on flight mode while with your partner is a sign that she is avoiding taking some calls while with you. if you are in a relationship and the person is switching off his/her phone or putting it on flight mode, it's a red flag that there's probably a call or calls she can't take in your presence because of the intimacy she needs to express on such calls.

My Advice; when next you are together and she wants to put her phone on flight mode, insist she leaves her phone on. and since you guys have a relationship you should be opened to each other, one of which is taking calls comfortably in each other's presence. If she's not okay with it, then she's probably cheating on you or about to.
And try and find a way to get access to her phone when she's not with awake. 5mins with her phone is enough to know if she's cheating on you. Check her WhatsApp and search some key words there,(sex, Bleep, Enjoy, happen, etc,) in that order, any of those words could easily lead you to what you want to see.[/b]
Guy thanks allot
RomanceRe: Can A Responsible Girl Do This In A Serious Relationship? by Zeal0000007(op): 3:09pm On Apr 28, 2020
James4bright:
You are a man and not a woman.


Kindly ask her to give you her phone.

In her face scroll through her WhatsApp and start viewing some chats.

It seems weird but yeah. But I've done this with a good number of girls, and it has saved my ass a lot.
Guy this one is a good one. thanks alot.
RomanceRe: Can A Responsible Girl Do This In A Serious Relationship? by Zeal0000007(op): 1:08pm On Apr 28, 2020
MXD5050:
Are you having watery sperm, quick realize of sperm, are you a female finding it hard to get orgasm during sex? Or you are having relationship or marriage issues Talk to a counseling psychologist Mr. Big T via WhatsApp on 0806 472 9707. No drugs, no prayers just have a dedicated mind to help yourself. While i tell you the kind of foods to eat and sexual techniques to help you come out of your problem. Just consult me with a fee as low as 2,000 naira only to start up a counseling process. Give this a try, i swear you would join thousands of my clients that ends up almost worshipping me.
guy why this now on my post?
RomanceRe: Can A Responsible Girl Do This In A Serious Relationship? by Zeal0000007(op): 12:44pm On Apr 28, 2020
Bola146:
grin grin grin Maybe she was talking to a pilot grin grin Since your house is an aeroplane grin grin Sir, how old are youhuh lipsrsealed
please I need advice, not jokes, I'm 29 and she's 22
RomanceCan A Responsible Girl Do This In A Serious Relationship? by Zeal0000007(op): 12:34pm On Apr 28, 2020
with my little experience to share. my partner of 5years now in this our supposed serious relationship, often puts her phone on flight mode when it's 10pm especially when she's with me since we stay together. most times she often goes out to answer her calls. this is a girl I'm planning settling down together and she has been very supportive. Do we say she's being respectful or could it be there's something fishy she might be doing that she doesn't want me to be aware of.

Going through her call history in her cell phone there're often constant callers. I don't want to make mistakes of others, she's always conscious of her phone. most times she might put it off and put it under her pillow knowing I might come for it.

guys please have u witness this before and please share your experience and advice me accordingly.
RomanceRe: My Friend Is Confused by Zeal0000007(m): 1:25am On Apr 07, 2020
Abeg police promotion doesn't come by having sexual relationship with colleagues or senior officers as ur friend thinks. it comes in due process though most of them do have sexual affairs with each other. and married women are respected unless d ones wey want mumu. To the story, I think ur friend doesn't love her anymore and has wasted her time, he should open up to her. though it's not fair
RomanceRe: Ok by Zeal0000007(m): 6:13pm On Apr 06, 2020
Millenniumlady:
How on earth she allow you play her up to this level is what i don't understand sad well i'm glad she's starting to think like a real lady and i think the best thing for her right now is to divorce you and move on cause no woman deserve to be in this terrible situation.....hope she finds love again from a REAL MAN
sista weldone ur mates are supporting their men with good advices, finance, prayers , care and love etc. be deceiving ursef.
RomanceRe: Ok by Zeal0000007(m): 4:44pm On Apr 06, 2020
southniyikaye:
8 years, 8 solid years of sacrificing my effort, support, care was shattered in just few minutes.
Got her as my girlfriend in 2012 and we got married in 2016.
Have been the one taking care of both of us since then, worked, and sacrificed my all. Almost died because of her 4times not gonna go into details.
She was arrogant, stubborn and disrespectful but I was able to keep those attitudes in check.
We go two kids together and have been doing my best as a man, they never lack anything. But last year things got worst and she have to go stay with her parents this year Feb while I aquat somewhere trying to get my life together and start all over.
Am this type of person that put people above me, I put even strangers needs above mine, am 300% soft and take things to heart, a confirmed simp like ubunja will call it.(I wish the redpill will actually be a tablet to swallow) cos all I read couldn't help me cos I take things to heart too much, have taken this relationship to the heart.
The fact that I gat kids and a understanding wife still kept me going not minding the financial problems I have cos I believe one day things will change for the better.
I don't have friends, right from sec sch days, that's how have been, 1 man squad have been my thing. I can stay indoor for years without going out, I am not gonna feel it a bit. Enough of the stort(but just letting you know the type of person I was.)
2days ago so I was chatting my wife and telling her things gonna be okay soon that I am hopeful and I want us to restrrategise and plan for our future and that of our kids, I said a lot of of things that can shape our future but I was wounded by the answer she gave me like
WHATEVER SUIT YOU
tried to make her smile
And she was like, any problems?
Her answers, her attitude, her behavior was so cold to me, like someone who was already tired but just don't know how to say it.
I know she always want to live a flashy life, a life without stress, worries and pain.
Believe me, I can vouch for her, she is not promiscuous, but the way she spoke was like she already found an alternative or someone was already talking to her and she is almost convinced or sort of.
Have been shattered since then and I just feel like Ie was gonna have an attack. It really hit me so hard.
Maybe if I had been a bad boy from inception, It won't affect me this much. I can't just think straight, high BP, couldn't eat.
Pls guys advice me am going insane sincerely.
Eight good years and I can swear on my life, I have never cheated not even flirt cos I find it extremely difficult to cheat.

Cc ubunja

And yes I spent almost 10hours going through all ubunja's topics, tried to form the hard guy and just wave everything off and move on and pretend like ita never happened but I can't.
Wish REDPILL WAS ACTUALLY A TABLET I COULD USE.

Cc rocktati
Cc farano

She has since stopped replying my messages and chatting me
And I always see her online
Brother I feel ur pains, ur mistake is that you ignored all those signs when you were dating her, I'm currently dating someone like that. she gets angry easily, sometimes she could be disrespectful, but she's very supportive ,she backs me up allot and I love her alot, but because of her lack of manners and respect irrespective of my love for her I can't settle for a woman like that. right now I'm thinking about settling her and moving on if she doesn't change for good . I don't wanna make mistake of others, so my advice for you just man up when ever you talking to her. set the rules for her to abide, don't be soft, make her make understand that you guys need to put heads together and work things out for the future, else u might leave her. and believe me she will be at d disadvantage just wish u luck, u don't need all this u deserve better and there better women out there. u need to be happy man.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by Zeal0000007(m): 5:00am On Apr 03, 2020
primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.


I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...huh

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly
guy my candid advice ur woman still want to explore take it or leave it, all u need do is take her less serious, or try to get another relationship she will sit up give her a competition by u trying to be with another woman. for now nothing u go talk wey go change her.
RomanceRe: What Every Girl Likes. by Zeal0000007(m): 4:59am On Apr 01, 2020
Really!!!! I think ur Brain is leaking, please check your self.
RomanceRe: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Zeal0000007(m): 1:44am On Mar 27, 2020
geedee4real:
Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!
my brother that's my condition now, I and girl has been together for 5years now.she's very supportive and very caring but she lacks manners and she Is disrespectful and I can't continue with that anymore cos it's causing my joy now that things are beginning to get better . but I'm looking for a way to compensate her and move on since I can't change her. so you see, it not all you will get married to when u blow and it's not your fault.
HealthPraise Be To God As Covid -19 Is Coming To An End by Zeal0000007(op): 7:40am On Mar 24, 2020
As prophesied by prophet TB Joshua that after the rain that the pandemic virus will be gone and it's coming to pass. Wuhan, the centre of the coronavirus outbreak in China, has loosened its two-month lockdown on citizens with movements partially restored as they are gradually overcoming the virus and returning to normal life.
According to the UK Guardian, small groups of residents in the central Chinese city were seen on Monday leaving their residential compounds, going to grocery stores and walking along the streets for the first time in weeks.
The publication disclosed that the first train arrived in the city ferrying more than 1,000 workers from elsewhere in the province back to the city for work at the weekend.
There were also reports of traffic jams in Beijing on Monday morning.
This comes a day after local authorities said residents could begin returning to work if they did not have a temperature and could provide a green health code, signifying their virus-free status as well as a certificate from their employer.
The city would be “gradually” reopened and public transportation would resume. Non-residents, those stranded in Wuhan since the stringent travel restrictions went into effect on 23 January, could also begin applying to leave the city, city authorities said.
The authorities also confirmed that locally transmitted infections in China have dropped dramatically over the last weeks, but imported cases continue to rise.
On Monday, China reported 39 new cases from the previous day, all of which were from imported cases, according to the National Health Commission.
There have now been over 81,000 cases in China, and the death toll has reached 3,270. Globally, there are 350,457 cases of coronavirus with 15, 317 deaths, while 100,354 people have recovered from the disease.
PoliticsRe: Duoye Diri: Pastor Adeboye Told Me I Would Recover My Mandate by Zeal0000007(m): 2:46pm On Mar 07, 2020
hisexcellency34:
Are you now saying T.B. Joshua who endorsed David Lyon is a fake pastorhuh??
Oga T. B Joshua did not say Lyon will win, he said Lyon should not celebrate yet until after inauguration, He T. B Joshua saw it.

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