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 Romance › Re: Did I Do Well Giving In To Her Sex Demand by Zeal0000007(op): 2:00am On Mar 05, 2020 |
Giftexx:abeg that's too much, I can't exchange my gal for her, I'm 28 my gal is 21 and she's 35 ,I only did that because she needed it, no feelings attached though she claimed she is falling for me. I can't marry now... |
| Romance › Re: Did I Do Well Giving In To Her Sex Demand by Zeal0000007(op): 3:20pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
[quote author=laivwire post=87155181][/quote]really |
| Romance › Re: Did I Do Well Giving In To Her Sex Demand by Zeal0000007(op): 6:05am On Mar 04, 2020 |
ultimatenath1:what do you want to know |
| Romance › Re: Did I Do Well Giving In To Her Sex Demand by Zeal0000007(op): 10:29pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Baba say that again, I see you draw the first stone. |
| Romance › Did I Do Well Giving In To Her Sex Demand by Zeal0000007(op): 9:21pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Can't believed what happened today. I teach two part time students both in 100level, one is a guy he owns is own automobile repair company strictly on Mercedes, he's a big boy on his own. secondly is a 35years old lady who has been frustrated becuz of issues of life. According to her story she was in Abuja doing very well, she could rent a hotel for a year and run it with her workers, she does that and sent 2 of her younger ones to school who are now in their early 30s, she opened a business for her elder brother which is running into millions now. she was duped of millions she almost ran mad because of the trauma , she went back to nothing, right now she's squatting with her siblings she helped and they're treating like a piece of shit. they call her illiterate. they don't regard her as anything and she's even caring for the brother kids that lost their mother, she always stressed up with chores here and there ,doesn't even have time to go out as a woman and people assume she gave birth to those two children making her chance of getting married slim. straight to the point, I usually go teaching her in her house before going to the guy's company. When leaving there yesterday she told me she has something to tell me, but that she can't say it but that she will text rather and I didn't see anything as at yesterday like she promised, getting there today she managed to Tell me that she has grown feelings for me that she doesn't have a boy friend and she's in her ovulation, she did the whole of that writing that she was shy to say it. Pals I was confused not knowing what to do and from the looks of things she really needed sex, so I decided to compromise and I try banging her real good and she thanked me later and apologized and I told her there's nothing to apologize for. Pals right now I'm living in regrets, with guilty conscience, I'm a responsible guy and I got a serious relationship of 5years before me, I just got an offshore job I have been praying God for, and I don't know if to continue teaching her again or just continue with the other guy cos I see this happening again, though soon I will be leaving for my dream job offshore ,is there any advice I can give to her |
| Romance › Re: Please Help, Despite Our Commitments, She's Still Giving Green Light Outside by Zeal0000007(op): 6:50pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Meeyankee:guy please enough of the bashing, though I expected it, we are all learning. |
| Romance › Re: Please Help, Despite Our Commitments, She's Still Giving Green Light Outside by Zeal0000007(op): 6:04pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Collyweed:wow I see, in this life nothing is impossible, may be you can allow ur wife or partner to do that, but oga I can't let mine, there's what they called exclusive relationship and that happens when two mature individuals, working together in relationship , who knows what they want,who decides to stay together against all odds, being faithfully sexually and otherwise, that's what I want, I demand total faithfulness from my Partner, yours can be sleeping around. OK? |
| Romance › Please Help, Despite Our Commitments, She's Still Giving Green Light Outside by Zeal0000007(op): 3:38pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Pals ur candid advice on this issue bordering me. I complained initially about my gal. We have been together for 5years now and I intend marrying her next year as things gets better, she will be turning 22 this year while I will be turning 29. last I wrote about her many advised me to give her chance to breathe since she has been behaving like someone who still wants to give other guys green light and attention, she keep on saying that I have not been giving her chance to associate with other guys, and I keep on asking what kind of friendship do you want with other guys, is it the one that will drift us apart? though, she loves and doesn't want to lose me to anyone not after all that We have passed through all this years, even right now that I'm still struggling. Right now she has started schooling in the university though the same town with me and not far away from my place. Pals what she does now is when ever she returns from school in evening, when it's like 10 pm she puts her phone on flight mode, currently she goes to school from my place, I make transportation available to her weekly and there's always food in the house. putting her phone on flight mode always when it's late hour, I don't see that as sign of respect. Just two days ago, she forgot to put it on flight mode as usual and someone called by 10:50 I answered the call and told the individual to call back the next day that she's asleep. The next morning she asked me why I picked her call and I explained, she wasn't happy at all. she's does not feel save giving her phone to me, coz if I see anything fishes she will need to answer to it, Right now one of the things she does again is that she doesn't keep chats, she deletes chats especially those she knows I'll be suspecting, she doesn't even allow me watch movies with her phone, she has cheated on me before when it was just like two months to end my service it wasn't easy on me, to a point of depression but just that they didn't go sexually yet because the guy traveled away from town. so pals what I'm I to do, this thing is a threat to a point she even had to hid her phone under the pillow even after putting it on flight mode. she can even protect that phone with her life and it's way too much. l'm a marine engineer and all jobs I'm seeing are offshore jobs,there's alot of traveling on water and I need someone who is Fidel with integrity , many say it's because she's still tender, but I have seen those younger than her in a committed relationships. There's nothing as sweet as travelling for like a month or two and coming back you still meet ur woman intact, some times I ask myself if she doesn't know how to talk to other guys without releasing phone numbers to them, And I'm not really afraid of break ups, it's better to be open than trying to keep secrets relationships when you know you are committed to someone,that will be mean, and the relationship is real. cos both my family and hers knows each other. 1 Like |
| Sports › Re: Kobe Bryant: The Life Of NBA Icon In Pictures by Zeal0000007(m): 3:42pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
Ebenezar2020:mumu, |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Adewale Martins: Mbaka May Be Barred From Preaching By Catholic by Zeal0000007(m): 4:59pm On Jan 17, 2020 |
tophumble:please don't be deceived father Mbaka is a fraud, that is how he said that buhari is a God sent, today this government is the worst government with suffering every where. |
| Romance › Re: Help, She Seduced Me by Zeal0000007(op): 8:52am On Jan 17, 2020 |
crackkhaus:my dear I'm just learning, I wouldn't have asked her the next morning, but I was trying to protect my own interest, let it not look as if I was the one trying to rape her, to protect my self and my reputation that is why I had to ask her about what she did, if she was aware of it, but she bluntly told me she was aware. but I have learned that now |
| Romance › Re: Help, She Seduced Me by Zeal0000007(op): 7:51am On Jan 17, 2020 |
AwkaetitiBabe:things like that isn't easy to go by, I'm a very responsible person but I know I would have fallen to that temptation, it wasn't easy especially with that kind of romance, but for her claiming she wasn't aware of what she did, I see that as a lie. I guess she's trying to give me a green light but I love my gal so much and can't trade for anything, and we have been together for 5years now |
| Romance › Re: Help, She Seduced Me by Zeal0000007(op): 7:50am On Jan 17, 2020 |
AwkaetitiBabe:things like that isn't easy to go by, I'm a very responsible person but I know I would have fallen to that temptation, it wasn't easy especially with that kind of romance, but for her claiming she wasn't aware of what she did, I see that as a lie. I guess she's trying to give me a green light but I love my gal so much and can't trade for anything, and we have been together for 5years now, |
| Romance › Re: Help, She Seduced Me by Zeal0000007(op): 7:40am On Jan 17, 2020 |
nlPoster:menh I don't know what to think but she was really calling by how she romanced me from the leg. first with one hand later with two, now she is claiming that she wasn't aware of what happened, I guess she lied |
| Romance › Re: Help, She Seduced Me by Zeal0000007(op): 7:38am On Jan 17, 2020 |
nlPoster:menh I don't know what to think but she was really calling by how she romanced me from the leg. first with one hand later with two, now she is claiming that she wasn't aware of what happened, I guess she lied |
| Romance › Help, She Seduced Me by Zeal0000007(op): 1:48am On Jan 17, 2020 |
Pals please I don't know what to call this, but anyone could have had that experience please kindly share with me, On a fateful evening, I decided to check up on my gal if she has returned from the market because after returning from school in the afternoon pending when lectures will end she usually goes to help the sister in the boutique sale. so I didn't get responses and it was like 10pm and I have been calling, and so many began going through my mind, so I decided to go see her because I was getting scared already and she's someone l'm settling down with. On getting there, I met her level mate, someone she met like two months ago during acceptance and clearance exercise, though, I have met her once when she brought her my house, so she decided to help her stay in her place for few weeks until she finds her way, after explanation from my gal why she didn't pick her calls which was satisfactory, I wanted to go back but she pleaded with me to stay since it was late already. time to sleep my gal and I decided to sleep on the floor while her friend sleeps on the bed, about to sleep her friend prayed on her own for some minutes before sleeping which was OK, guys while on ground and sleeping my leg was by the side of the bed and it's convenient to me that way. Pals while sleeping around 1am late hour, this gal on the bed began to romancing me on my leg with one hand almost to where my balls was and I shoke off her hands and in my entire life nobody has ever romance me like that, Pals this time around she came with her two hands, and I couldn't withstand it anymore I had jumped to the bed ,while going to the bed she had to jump up immediately too, and it really looked as if I was the one trying to rape her, I was so ashamed of my self .Guys I'm a very responsible guy, all of a sudden while she rose up she went to ease her self, coming back she told me to go down so I had to cover up that I was feeling cold down there but I finally did, so in the morning before she left because I was feeling ashamed and guilty which I know she should be the one to feel that way, so I had to ask her why she did what she did at night, and this gal had to deny that she not aware of what happened that night, so I had to explain everything she did that night. she told me innocently that she's not aware, and question I keep on asking is this, could it be she likes me and did that on purpose trying to seduce me that night, or she was actually doing that with a sleeping eyes not knowing that she actually did that, please guys your opinion on this, |
| Romance › Re: The Agony Of My Love Story! by Zeal0000007(m): 2:49pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Guy allot of changes has taken place in her life, if she truly loves you nothing will change despite she's in school, but you see she might not consider you now because she believes her class has changed, but if you use to support her don't stop. |
| Romance › Re: Must All Women Go Through Several Relationships Before Choosing A Partner. by Zeal0000007(op): 7:37am On Jan 11, 2020 |
Headlesschicken:thanks but I don't buy into that school of thought, I can't imagine her with someone else then after getting messed up, I now accept her back, she's not the only girl in the world, just that I love her so much and 5years no be play, I have really gotten used to her, but if she ever hurt me again, I will just let her go, 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Must All Women Go Through Several Relationships Before Choosing A Partner. by Zeal0000007(op): 7:31am On Jan 11, 2020 |
kunleweb:Bro thanks but I can't let her go outside and get messed up then before gradually returning back to me, I can't allow that happen, note I'm her first experience, had it been I met her when when she must have messed up her self then it will be easy to accept her back but here I can't allow her get messed up then I accept her back I won't accept her back she's not the only fish in the river, for goodness sake I'm a her serious date. many girls are out there seeking and wishing if they only had someone faithful to them. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Must All Women Go Through Several Relationships Before Choosing A Partner. by Zeal0000007(op): 4:57am On Jan 11, 2020 |
I and my gal have been together for 4 years now going to 5, and I have intentions of cementing our friendship this year Atleast with a proposal when I secure my first job and I did marine engineering and have processed my papers to go onboard,my gal has been a blessing to me cos she's understanding, caring and very hardworking, she will be 22 this year while I will be 29 . I met her as a teenager, now adult, I'm still there, I opened her eyes to the world positively. infact the first bank account she ever had was opened by me, I guided her through life till this time, her family has not been really supportive but I keep on trying my best to help and she does the same too for me, she was there right from my 200level till 500 now I'm a graduate. at a point i was like a father, since she has non, I was like an elder brother, husband best friend and lover,. I'm her first experience, pal we've really gone through thin and thick together and I can't wait to give her the best within my capabilities as God gives me strength in this life. But pals my fears wants to finally come to pass. over the past 1 year she has always felt I'm not giving her chance for her to meet and make friends with make folks, and I keep on asking what kind of friends does she wants to make with other guys, is it the one that will drift us apart? but come to think of it, there was no time I stopped her from making friends with make folks, and over the years she has always felt I'm controlling her, since I'm a one woman man and there was no time I dated two women at the same time and I expect that from my woman. Pals since last year August I came from service I have been facing allot of threats from this relationship. and it looks as if,if I give her a single chance she will so much cheat, and I will not believe it. I broke in into something that was almost as serious as what I'm having with her with another guy. that was when I came back from service and the guy in question wasn't in town and they were seriously calling themselves every second to check on each other, I was really going through pains till we resolved that and my gal would have visited that guy as soon as he returned back to town if I did not returned back too that's if she has not gone there before , so to build back trust we had to exchange phone passwords, so I could know who she's was talking with and any constant caller I would want to know the individual vice versa cos as a man that I am and who knows what he wants, I demand absolute faithfulness from my partner and this time no privacy so it has been smooth but I keep seeing threats and for the fact that she has betrayed me before. pals and question I want to ask is this, is it in every gal's/women's circle that they must give in to every tom and dick that wants relationship with them, is it a must that every gal must go through several relationships before settling down, must they always go through heart breaks before making a choice, I have seen even those younger than her having good relationships or is it in the age? and believe me most of these guys just want to sex with her that is all, and I really wanted to do something on her head this year, but the threats keeps coming and she just got admitted, soon be leaving for school though the same town with me, and this has been on my mind, as soon as possible, I might be leaving for offshores, right now I'm even contemplating leaving her cos I feel she might be lost completely now that she will be leaving me for school, and she's this type that longs for material things, and after the last one she did I made up my mind that the might not be another chance again with me if she hurts me again. Pals please your candid advice, cos I keep seeing this tendency in her wanting to explore not minding her serious relationship with me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Celebrities › Re: Muma Gee, Prince Eke And Their Children Step Out For Lunch by Zeal0000007(m): 6:42pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I keep on asking what do people really see in each other before they decide to get married only to stay months then quit especially so-called celebrities, 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › She Can't Go Into Prostitution Just To Develop Herself, Please Advise by Zeal0000007(op): 2:43pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
Pals please your advice and counseling will go a long way , I and girl have been together for 4years now, I met her when I was in my 300level, then she was just a secondary school leaver. all this years she has been a backbone, support anything good, u can call her. we have really helped each other along the way, after my final year I went into teaching so I could pay my bills and stay alive. I was able to pay for her Neco (olevel) exam in the school I was teaching of which she passed, shortly I left for service(nysc), I then send some money for her to register for jamb, because of the nature of her job leaving 7am in the morning and coming back by 8pm I wasn't really expecting to her to score high but the experience will help her next time, and rewriting it the second time believing God I must have had something better doing and she will need to stop working so she could have time for her studies. thus after all said and done she got 160 ,she cried and weeped so I had to comfort her that next time will be better, before I could knew it she went for change of institution processed Post ume form to a university of education that accepts that score all on her own, now I'm back still struggling to find my feet, and she has been given admission. Pals my gal's elder brother and sister they are well to do but non want to assist her, right now she has began acceptance payment, about 70k she has had in her account she has emptied everything, now who is going to pay for school fees, accommodation, feeding, upkeep, reading material, what about other sessions, I have cried, weepped, talked, there's nothing I have not told this gal, that as we have accepted the admission let us differ the admission till next academic session, she adamantly refused, still insisting of moving forward with the plan and I don't know what to do again I'm still yet to find something to do and her family has turned back on her and she's the only one in her family that want to go this far all the believe is business but everyone cannot do business , pals please I need ur counselling, going to school to be educated is wonderful but u can't go into prostitution with the hope of developing your self , the aim will be defeated she needs a sponsor if she gets none, prostitution is inevitable and I don't want that for her. she's a struggle girl and the way she's pushing with this school stuff might lead her to prostitution because she must survive in campus, by the time I'm not sending no one in the family is sending either she must find alternative especially now that terminal sickness is everywhere and when I see that she's seeing someone else apart from me it will lead to our separation. and the idea was to grow together, she's 21years, pals please ur advice. |
| Politics › Re: Attahiru Jega Joins PRP (Peoples Redemption Party) by Zeal0000007(m): 3:17am On Aug 03, 2019 |
EzeIgboNwaChukwu: |
| Music/Radio › Re: Davido's 'Blow My Mind' Ft. Chris Brown Hits 1m YouTube Views In 11 Hours by Zeal0000007(m): 3:28pm On Jul 31, 2019 |
lol road to hell is broad now |
| Celebrities › Re: Ebube Nwagbo Wears Her "Boyfriend Destroyed Denim" by Zeal0000007(m): 1:17am On Mar 20, 2017 |
Someone called her ashawo. Hw u take knw. 1 Like
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| Christianity Etc › Re: Jehovah's Witnesses: 17 Facts People Should Know About Them by Zeal0000007(m): 1:37am On Nov 09, 2015 |
Lol,,wot can i say, those who seems 2 love & like dem are nothing but blind & daft,''jehovah witnesses'' are noting but ''anti-christ of our time''soon they'll b telling me that ''Jesus christ is the Arc Angel '' Angel Micheal'' or perhaps they'll tell another 1 that ''Hell is a common grave of man, dat it isn't a place of torment''or if not dat they'll propose dat it is only 144,000 people will inherit heavens,that there isn't any multitude of people from all race of d earth as d bible discribe it,,mmm,they're noting but false teachers, twisting & omiiting several portions of d scriptures 2 fit their false teachings, c the length they go just 2 decieve people,their founder charles failed rite from d beginning when he prophesized & it never came 2 pass , he died leaving dem in doubt since then i've follower ''jehovah witness & their publishers called watchtower'' they're nothing but false teachers ,,pls stay away from dem,,dn't welcome dem into ur house,,beware of ''jehovah witness'' they're false teachers 3 Likes |
| Jokes Etc › Did Your Mom Did This To U? by Zeal0000007(op): 3:14am On May 24, 2015 |
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| Christianity Etc › Re: The Man Pastor Chris Oyakhilome ::. by Zeal0000007(m): 3:26pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
who ever madeup this story should clap 4 his or herself,,welldone .. Bravo !!!! What a fairy tale .. Truestory .. Before i start my articulations ''first & foremost '' Pastor chris Oyahilomi of Christ Embassy is termed '''Controversial Pastor''' Ever since he emerge 2 d eyes of people in the diaspora ,, making matter worse, his television programmes on NTA television was baned during obansenjo's tenure also in south Africa.. What can we say of a Pastor who doesn't respect the his marital vows he made on d supposed altar of God.. U knw wot i'm talking about.. His younger brother incharge of south african church impregnating a young choristers, & it was covered up today she's a minister..or is it 1 of his sermons he gave green light 2 ''masturbation & drinking that it's not a sin ...A church that teaches & forces members on how 2 speak in tongues,,wic is suppose 2 be the work of the ''Holy spirit'' the shining star in d church that sings bringing down the glory of God called ''Sinach'' right nw she's no longer singing just because ''Daddy chris'' baned her from singing because she didn't married the man of daddy's choice ''nonsense''what have we not heard '' Imagine a pastor selling salvation on d nite of 31st of every yr ...He orders d collection of gatefee b4 u enter d church on 31st nite,abomination what christ took time 2 stop..If people lik dis does not live by example 4 his followers I wonder who will.. His members are so blind in such a way that whatever he does is noting to them ...what a pity ... Eg the person who poster this ...pls i'm out |
| Politics › Re: Confirmed Results: Wike Leads In Rivers - Vanguard by Zeal0000007(m): 5:46pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
God has finally vindicated ''Our amiable president Goodluck Ebele Jonathan'' putting shame 2 watering mouth ''Gov Ameachi'' & his betrayal ally''Blessing Rivers people with dis incredible Governorship result..just like PDP accepted presidential result pls APC people concede & accept dis result so dat we can move on ...God bless Rivers people... 1 Like 1 Share |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Chris Oyakilome Allegedly Bans Singer, Sinach From Singing In His Church by Zeal0000007(m): 6:47pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Nigerians righeous people,our problem is that we're so cajoled in believing whatever we're being told by religious leaders ...even wen i catches my pastor on top my sister..they'll tell u ''touch not my anointed & do my prophet no harm .. Don't judge & d pastor goes free.. Just because sinach married a man of her choice she as been pick by the pastor ... The same pastor that got a divorce by his wife .. |
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