AwkaetitiBabe:
So you would have taken d advantage if she had agreed? Not minding your so-called girlfriend was in the room too nawa

things like that isn't easy to go by, I'm a very responsible person but I know I would have fallen to that temptation, it wasn't easy especially with that kind of romance, but for her claiming she wasn't aware of what she did, I see that as a lie. I guess she's trying to give me a green light but I love my gal so much and can't trade for anything, and we have been together for 5years now

AwkaetitiBabe:
So you would have taken d advantage if she had agreed? Not minding your so-called girlfriend was in the room too nawa

things like that isn't easy to go by, I'm a very responsible person but I know I would have fallen to that temptation, it wasn't easy especially with that kind of romance, but for her claiming she wasn't aware of what she did, I see that as a lie. I guess she's trying to give me a green light but I love my gal so much and can't trade for anything, and we have been together for 5years now,

nlPoster:
Are you saying she was sleeping and did not give consent?

I dont get your point.


Its not really nice to joke about these things. Not good at all.

menh I don't know what to think but she was really calling by how she romanced me from the leg. first with one hand later with two, now she is claiming that she wasn't aware of what happened, I guess she lied

nlPoster:
Are you saying she was sleeping and did not give consent?

I dont get your point.


Its not really nice to joke about these things. Not good at all.

menh I don't know what to think but she was really calling by how she romanced me from the leg. first with one hand later with two, now she is claiming that she wasn't aware of what happened, I guess she lied

Pals please I don't know what to call this, but anyone could have had that experience please kindly share with me, On a fateful evening, I decided to check up on my gal if she has returned from the market because after returning from school in the afternoon pending when lectures will end she usually goes to help the sister in the boutique sale. so I didn't get responses and it was like 10pm and I have been calling, and so many began going through my mind, so I decided to go see her because I was getting scared already and she's someone l'm settling down with. On getting there, I met her level mate, someone she met like two months ago during acceptance and clearance exercise, though, I have met her once when she brought her my house, so she decided to help her stay in her place for few weeks until she finds her way, after explanation from my gal why she didn't pick her calls which was satisfactory, I wanted to go back but she pleaded with me to stay since it was late already. time to sleep my gal and I decided to sleep on the floor while her friend sleeps on the bed, about to sleep her friend prayed on her own for some minutes before sleeping which was OK, guys while on ground and sleeping my leg was by the side of the bed and it's convenient to me that way. Pals while sleeping around 1am late hour, this gal on the bed began to romancing me on my leg with one hand almost to where my balls was and I shoke off her hands and in my entire life nobody has ever romance me like that, Pals this time around she came with her two hands, and I couldn't withstand it anymore I had jumped to the bed ,while going to the bed she had to jump up immediately too, and it really looked as if I was the one trying to rape her, I was so ashamed of my self .Guys I'm a very responsible guy, all of a sudden while she rose up she went to ease her self, coming back she told me to go down so I had to cover up that I was feeling cold down there but I finally did, so in the morning before she left because I was feeling ashamed and guilty which I know she should be the one to feel that way, so I had to ask her why she did what she did at night, and this gal had to deny that she not aware of what happened that night, so I had to explain everything she did that night. she told me innocently that she's not aware, and question I keep on asking is this, could it be she likes me and did that on purpose trying to seduce me that night, or she was actually doing that with a sleeping eyes not knowing that she actually did that, please guys your opinion on this,

Guy allot of changes has taken place in her life, if she truly loves you nothing will change despite she's in school, but you see she might not consider you now because she believes her class has changed, but if you use to support her don't stop.

Headlesschicken:
If u love something let it go if it comes back then it's yuhs if it doesn't then so let it be...

thanks but I don't buy into that school of thought, I can't imagine her with someone else then after getting messed up, I now accept her back, she's not the only girl in the world, just that I love her so much and 5years no be play, I have really gotten used to her, but if she ever hurt me again, I will just let her go,

kunleweb:
The devil has sowed his seed and is still somewhere in the middle. My dear the moment we start demanding passwords from ourselves trust is gone. You're just trying to manage a sick situation. Give her time to go and explore. It's better she feels she's in charge of her life than feeling controlled. It's the way with women. They easily get mentally distracted. I advice you both deal with this before moving further or go your separate ways

BTW there are people who desire a wilderness process of good and bad and evil and ugly before they settle down. It's wired in psychologically and mentally. Some people want to get lost lose their way go through burns otherwise they'll feel unfulfilled and controlled. And as long as this itching is there you're in trouble. You can't mentally cage a person lest you breed a beast. Allow her roam. After she suffers some shark bites, she'll come back to you. With her heart mind and spirit in the right position. If you keep her forcefully. Sorry

Bro thanks but I can't let her go outside and get messed up then before gradually returning back to me, I can't allow that happen, note I'm her first experience, had it been I met her when when she must have messed up her self then it will be easy to accept her back but here I can't allow her get messed up then I accept her back I won't accept her back she's not the only fish in the river, for goodness sake I'm a her serious date. many girls are out there seeking and wishing if they only had someone faithful to them.

I and my gal have been together for 4 years now going to 5, and I have intentions of cementing our friendship this year Atleast with a proposal when I secure my first job and I did marine engineering and have processed my papers to go onboard,my gal has been a blessing to me cos she's understanding, caring and very hardworking, she will be 22 this year while I will be 29 . I met her as a teenager, now adult, I'm still there, I opened her eyes to the world positively. infact the first bank account she ever had was opened by me, I guided her through life till this time, her family has not been really supportive but I keep on trying my best to help and she does the same too for me, she was there right from my 200level till 500 now I'm a graduate. at a point i was like a father, since she has non, I was like an elder brother, husband best friend and lover,. I'm her first experience, pal we've really gone through thin and thick together and I can't wait to give her the best within my capabilities as God gives me strength in this life. But pals my fears wants to finally come to pass. over the past 1 year she has always felt I'm not giving her chance for her to meet and make friends with make folks, and I keep on asking what kind of friends does she wants to make with other guys, is it the one that will drift us apart? but come to think of it, there was no time I stopped her from making friends with make folks, and over the years she has always felt I'm controlling her, since I'm a one woman man and there was no time I dated two women at the same time and I expect that from my woman. Pals since last year August I came from service I have been facing allot of threats from this relationship. and it looks as if,if I give her a single chance she will so much cheat, and I will not believe it. I broke in into something that was almost as serious as what I'm having with her with another guy. that was when I came back from service and the guy in question wasn't in town and they were seriously calling themselves every second to check on each other, I was really going through pains till we resolved that and my gal would have visited that guy as soon as he returned back to town if I did not returned back too that's if she has not gone there before , so to build back trust we had to exchange phone passwords, so I could know who she's was talking with and any constant caller I would want to know the individual vice versa cos as a man that I am and who knows what he wants, I demand absolute faithfulness from my partner and this time no privacy so it has been smooth but I keep seeing threats and for the fact that she has betrayed me before. pals and question I want to ask is this, is it in every gal's/women's circle that they must give in to every tom and dick that wants relationship with them, is it a must that every gal must go through several relationships before settling down, must they always go through heart breaks before making a choice, I have seen even those younger than her having good relationships or is it in the age? and believe me most of these guys just want to sex with her that is all, and I really wanted to do something on her head this year, but the threats keeps coming and she just got admitted, soon be leaving for school though the same town with me, and this has been on my mind, as soon as possible, I might be leaving for offshores, right now I'm even contemplating leaving her cos I feel she might be lost completely now that she will be leaving me for school, and she's this type that longs for material things, and after the last one she did I made up my mind that the might not be another chance again with me if she hurts me again. Pals please your candid advice, cos I keep seeing this tendency in her wanting to explore not minding her serious relationship with me.

I keep on asking what do people really see in each other before they decide to get married only to stay months then quit especially so-called celebrities,

Pals please your advice and counseling will go a long way , I and girl have been together for 4years now, I met her when I was in my 300level, then she was just a secondary school leaver. all this years she has been a backbone, support anything good, u can call her. we have really helped each other along the way, after my final year I went into teaching so I could pay my bills and stay alive. I was able to pay for her Neco (olevel) exam in the school I was teaching of which she passed, shortly I left for service(nysc), I then send some money for her to register for jamb, because of the nature of her job leaving 7am in the morning and coming back by 8pm I wasn't really expecting to her to score high but the experience will help her next time, and rewriting it the second time believing God I must have had something better doing and she will need to stop working so she could have time for her studies. thus after all said and done she got 160 ,she cried and weeped so I had to comfort her that next time will be better, before I could knew it she went for change of institution processed Post ume form to a university of education that accepts that score all on her own, now I'm back still struggling to find my feet, and she has been given admission. Pals my gal's elder brother and sister they are well to do but non want to assist her, right now she has began acceptance payment, about 70k she has had in her account she has emptied everything, now who is going to pay for school fees, accommodation, feeding, upkeep, reading material, what about other sessions, I have cried, weepped, talked, there's nothing I have not told this gal, that as we have accepted the admission let us differ the admission till next academic session, she adamantly refused, still insisting of moving forward with the plan and I don't know what to do again I'm still yet to find something to do and her family has turned back on her and she's the only one in her family that want to go this far all the believe is business but everyone cannot do business , pals please I need ur counselling, going to school to be educated is wonderful but u can't go into prostitution with the hope of developing your self , the aim will be defeated she needs a sponsor if she gets none, prostitution is inevitable and I don't want that for her. she's a struggle girl and the way she's pushing with this school stuff might lead her to prostitution because she must survive in campus, by the time I'm not sending no one in the family is sending either she must find alternative especially now that terminal sickness is everywhere and when I see that she's seeing someone else apart from me it will lead to our separation. and the idea was to grow together, she's 21years, pals please ur advice.

lol road to hell is broad now

Someone called her ashawo. Hw u take knw.

Lol,,wot can i say, those who seems 2 love & like dem are nothing but blind & daft,''jehovah witnesses'' are noting but ''anti-christ of our time''soon they'll b telling me that ''Jesus christ is the Arc Angel '' Angel Micheal'' or perhaps they'll tell another 1 that ''Hell is a common grave of man, dat it isn't a place of torment''or if not dat they'll propose dat it is only 144,000 people will inherit heavens,that there isn't any multitude of people from all race of d earth as d bible discribe it,,mmm,they're noting but false teachers, twisting & omiiting several portions of d scriptures 2 fit their false teachings, c the length they go just 2 decieve people,their founder charles failed rite from d beginning when he prophesized & it never came 2 pass , he died leaving dem in doubt since then i've follower ''jehovah witness & their publishers called watchtower'' they're nothing but false teachers ,,pls stay away from dem,,dn't welcome dem into ur house,,beware of ''jehovah witness'' they're false teachers

who ever madeup this story should clap 4 his or herself,,welldone .. Bravo !!!! What a fairy tale .. Truestory .. Before i start my articulations ''first & foremost '' Pastor chris Oyahilomi of Christ Embassy is termed '''Controversial Pastor''' Ever since he emerge 2 d eyes of people in the diaspora ,, making matter worse, his television programmes on NTA television was baned during obansenjo's tenure also in south Africa.. What can we say of a Pastor who doesn't respect the his marital vows he made on d supposed altar of God.. U knw wot i'm talking about.. His younger brother incharge of south african church impregnating a young choristers, & it was covered up today she's a minister..or is it 1 of his sermons he gave green light 2 ''masturbation & drinking that it's not a sin ...A church that teaches & forces members on how 2 speak in tongues,,wic is suppose 2 be the work of the ''Holy spirit'' the shining star in d church that sings bringing down the glory of God called ''Sinach'' right nw she's no longer singing just because ''Daddy chris'' baned her from singing because she didn't married the man of daddy's choice ''nonsense''what have we not heard '' Imagine a pastor selling salvation on d nite of 31st of every yr ...He orders d collection of gatefee b4 u enter d church on 31st nite,abomination what christ took time 2 stop..If people lik dis does not live by example 4 his followers I wonder who will.. His members are so blind in such a way that whatever he does is noting to them ...what a pity ... Eg the person who poster this ...pls i'm out

God has finally vindicated ''Our amiable president Goodluck Ebele Jonathan'' putting shame 2 watering mouth ''Gov Ameachi'' & his betrayal ally''Blessing Rivers people with dis incredible Governorship result..just like PDP accepted presidential result pls APC people concede & accept dis result so dat we can move on ...God bless Rivers people...

Nigerians righeous people,our problem is that we're so cajoled in believing whatever we're being told by religious leaders ...even wen i catches my pastor on top my sister..they'll tell u ''touch not my anointed & do my prophet no harm .. Don't judge & d pastor goes free.. Just because sinach married a man of her choice she as been pick by the pastor ... The same pastor that got a divorce by his wife ..