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NigeriaIsGreat:
JAGABAN

The love i have for this man eh gosh, I super love this smart politician sincerely

The tormentor of ndi jubril of Sudan will give Ahmed Lawan or Osinbajo the party ticket

The tormentor of ndi the north will vote for their own person

The tormentor of ndi TINUBU is just a figure head, Shetima is the president

I also love these social mobs for one thing, they're pro in spotting the next president from afar reason why they tremble at the mention of JAGABAN


Biko i can't wait for February to come

we all know the love u have for agbado president, but try write something else, previous thread u wrote d same thing, come up with another write up, I dey shame for supporters of the desperado man . shameless youths

FILEBE:
There wasn't any pain being rejected for a job to be honest. I moved on and worked on myself. Told a company about how their ideas won't work and they got me fired the next day .
The idea never worked .

When life throws lemon... make a lemonade. How sweet will thy success story be without pains and bottlenecks?

Op. Calm down and see these obstacles as chanlenges u need to overcome . If things come so easy.. you won't appreciate it. Tomorrow always come with a new opportunity, Right now it is all about you. No send anybody o. Do whatever legit job you can to raise Capital for your business . Small small...everything go set.


If people tell you what they have done to be where they are today ehn... you will know yours is a child's play.


Then ... I am going to say this. Never ever never ever compare yourself with someone or them intimidate you. Don't let your junior,senior or whoever's wealth make you sad . Remember, overtaking is allowed.

. Own yourself with pride. Na money u no get ...u no kill person . The money self ...u go get am soon.

your advice dey sweet me for belle, I wish u be woman wey I know I for don marry u, weldone bro

alanto:
Giving indeed is from the heart.. I dont think this guy has half Obi's money but he donated a whooping 10m while Obi was giving out Noodles...

baba pls get ur facts right next time , peter Obi gave 55m

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

bro what kind of lying is this, we go run for u, did u mean 30k or 300k , pls expantiate

I don't know why u guys are surprise by the number of children and at the very age of 21, knowing too well that up north that's the norm, they marry under age over there

kingscare1:
let your friend travel. Simple as A, B, C, D. I mean for a long time, change location. An she go tire.

bro thanks I think this is the best advice I guess for him, this was what I was considering .

My friend as been victim of a toxic relationship, despite the fact both him and the gal in question have been together for long and he cares and love the gal.

The both stay together in an apartment my guy rented, he wanted to go see the gal's parents for proper introduction but the gal's attitude spoilt everything, so he had to pause the process. My guy loves this gal so much despite all her flaws , they barely stay a week without issues.

The gal is saucy, insults my guy at every provocation, no respect at all. Often times he has asked the gal out of his house but d gal will always refuse, I had to step in but no avail. The gal said she can't leave him to anyway or for anybody after all she had passed through with him, spending many years with him, that she will kill my friend if he tries any attempt to push her out of the house or by any chance end the relationship , she doesn't mind going to jail, and she meant it. I felt for the poor guy, bad relationship could lead to death this gal could starve my guy of sex for weeks, most times the gal will bully him, hitting him on the face just because he wants to have sex with her, she lacks respect, she's abusive though hard working.

Guys what's your take on this, your advise could safe a soul. He has learnt his lesson, currently he vowed not to allow any woman stay with him again unless they're married. Cos right now he can't bring in another gal in, cos it will be disastrous. And the current gal wouldn't want to leave either. I can't image myself stay with such a gal who doesn't respect me, at every provocation will be abusing me , tufiakwa . very stubborn and doesn't want to leave as well, advise pls.

Just pondering ever since Rev father mbaka spoke ill against peter Obi and he was called out my caring Nigerians , because of this, his church was sanctioned, since then no one has heard about him. Pls what else happened to him , I'm just curious . How come no one has heard any more about him.

Food for thought , never touch the anointed , the choice of the people is the choice of God.

Just pondering ever since Rev father mbaka spoke ill against peter Obi and he was called out my caring Nigerians , because of this, his church was sanctioned, since then no one has heard about him. Pls what else happened to him , I'm just curious . How come no one has heard any more about him.

Food for thought , never touch the anointed , the choice of the people is the choice of God.

I wanted to be a pilot, but because of high school fees of around 7m, mehn I find another alternative, today I'm a marine engineer and practicing.

Lamanii22:
She probably just read an article on how to spice up your sex life... if you see me in person omoor I am innocent looking but in the room lol you know what I mean..... a girl may be a lady on the street and a LovePeddler on the sheets..... op why not enjoy your sexual life since you have no evidence on cheating... Thank you....

thanks babe u too much

gift0123:
It shouldn't be a thing of concern, she missed you, that's why... Mind you whenever a woman is opening leg like that, just desiring you, abeg she is into you..... They is difference between desiring your man and just trying to have sex to satisfy him.....
Meanwhile, dont listen to some of those yeye advice I am seeing up there....
Udooo....

thanks dear

Kriss216:
That's not true. If she's doing it with a pro, she will automatically lose interest doing it with her amateur boyfriend.

I'm guessing she's exploring all that on porn videos. While the guy is away, the girl is busy exploring sex styles online. She must be a heavy masturbator.

She's a good girl. My kind of girl .

OP, if you're not interested in her again, DM her number to me. Thanks.

guy thats my fiancee we are talking about, though I'm still scared

Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing.
I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.

My imagination is trying to tell that she might be having it with someone that is very good in bed while I was away, pals this is giving me a lot of concern. Soon I will be going back in matter of days, from my observations since I came back I have not seen strange number calling her.

Dizzyish:
Thank you. Please what would you suggest? I was thinking maybe I should do a pgd in chemistry or chem engr. (if that's possible) so at least I can have a fighting chance applying for shell, moni pulo or maybe nnpc because oil& gas is why I choose chemisty, I don't know..

guy no oil company picks up a graduate irrespective of ur grade in school for an office or administrative role so take off ur mind from there. U can't get oil company job because u have good grades or master degree. Employment in oil companies are done Internally, the select from themselves, or those at the high arachy can pick their relatives or those that they're touched to help irrespective of ur grade school, so majorities working there came out with pass in school, oil company jobs is through man know man not grade and thats Nigeria for u.
Instead of going for pgd if u really want to work there, go and learn things like crane operating, u can work there as a specialist, u can equally learn how to operate fork lifts. there are alot of companies u can work as an operator. Be a specialist, this days no company want to employ any graduate to keep u in d the office to do administrative job, that side is filled , the will always ask apart from being a graduate what else can u do ? So go for a skill and apply as a specialist eg crane operating u might even get offshore job, thank me later I stay in Portharcourt too, call if u need to 08165859931

Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

vickyfrancis1:
What most people don't understand is that Intimacy is an intricate part of a successful relationship/marriage... Don't let any over zealous religious person tell you otherwise...if you are not sexually compatible, talk to her and if she maintains her stance, then call it off. because issues like this when unattended will become a very big problem later.

No be later now u start to Dy cheat unnecessarily and she go wan treat ur f**up.

friend please thanks but what do you think I do.

RisenPhoenix1:
She's trying to establish an early line of authority in your relationship. Maybe you plead with her for sex and she has understood that she can use it to control you. Don't give in to such behaviour. You're the man, you control the home; including how much sex goes on. Next time she refuses you, tell her you want some space and move out. When the time to come back is ripe, inform her that you will only marry her if she is open to a possible polygamous arrangement in future. If she refuses the condition, find another woman to marry. They are all over the place.

Good luck.

baba please thanks for the advise, the gal don really frustrate me my life, weda she thinks I can't go out there to get someone else.

Pals I'm really fade up on my woman, next year supposed to be our marriage introduction, we've been together for 5years now. I engaged her last 3month ego. over two years now I've been struggling so hard to have sex with her she barely allowed me touch her. she gives allot of excuses during sex, she almost like write down the number of times we have sex in a week. should we have time table for sex?

I can't have access to her body when I want to, and we're staying together, I'm not a wood. It's always one excuse or the other just to avoid sex, she's really frustrating me, and this is someone I want to get married to in months, and I don't want to Cheat on her either because I love her and want the best for us. we're having issues like this now that we are not married what about when we are married. l'm thinking of quitting. she's 22 while I'm 29, she love sex before ,even more than I do, l'm just surprised at this development for the past 2year now, why is it different now, women do all they can to keep their men to themselves, why is mine pushing me away, from my observation there's no one or anything distracting her, she just being wicked to me and stubborn, pals I don't know if there's another option, I wanted to quit or give her a competition by bringing in another woman if that will make her sit up, I'm just fade up.

tosyne2much:
I find it amusing that some people actually believe this crap NCDC is dishing out day in day out


Don't be deceived! there's no Covid-19 in this country.. It's all a sham or would you tell me Nigerians have the best immune system in the world or we have the best medical services to curb the virus like it hit. America?

baba inasmuch we know that Nigerian system as failed us many times does mean we don't know the truth. I know of someone who survived it. the bottom line is that you should protect yourself.

I and my gal are willing to take loan to start up a provision and foodstuff business. The shop was provision store before managed by a woman who just passed on a month ago and the husband of the late woman doesn't want to manage the shop again. so therefore we talked to him and he's willing to let us in. we have the money for the rent, then the 100k we want to loan will be for the provision and the foodstuffs we want to introduce.

Pals so I'm asking, is it a right step at a right direction? has anyone start up that kind of business with a loan before and will the money be enough? lastly anyone that is on this kind of business please share your templates of what and what is your shops. what are they things we need to buy that's the provisions and the food stuff. hence we have fridge and generator which the late woman left which we are going to pay the husband later on for it. pals please help us, share some ideas.

Deborah98:
Wow 5 years together,she must be the patient type,wife her we are only 10 in Nigeria , don't quote me on this, anyways congrats bro,more wins.

lol thank you my brother I appreciate ooooo the rest of the comments too, I appreciate you guys for the love.

Guys I'm taking a bold step today to do the needful, I'm proposing to my gal after 5years together, nothing really dey ground though, I'm a marine engineer who got a job since on march though the pay is small but it's promising that with time it will get better,, and since on march I got d job I've been at home because of the pandemic hope the will call us soon.

so today I just want to surprise my gal she travelled and she's back, I just want to do that at home that I'm managing between both of us, as many will advise that you mustn't get all money in the world before taking that step, I just believe things will get better, please advise and tips to make better thanks.

Gaggii:
My best friend told me he wants to break up with her g.f, because she has added weight and now has a big ass, which irritates him. He dislikes ladies with big butt.

But the babe is my exact spec, I love fat and thick ass. I would even propose to the girl within six months of dating, because we already know each other, so there is nothing to study.

But, I don't know how to do this without ruining our friendship. Because he might think we have been dating before he broke up with her.

at op, don't mind what these fellas are saying. since you have a good intentions of marrying her. I will advise you wait for proper break up, but don't pray for it, if it happens strike, and make it open to your friend so u could seek his blessings and awareness . I wish you luck. you are my type, I like it thick, wit bigger hips and elevated back side, that's what real African men eat, we don't eat bone.

RaiStar95:
Lol, i'm in PH, thanks though

owh nice one, call me then let's hang out if less busy that's if u are nterested, I'm equally in ph too.

I discovered that most women can't do without cheating even the ones you claim they got morals and standards still fall cheap.
I have slept with a girl who has about 4 very serious suitors who are well to do compared to me who weren't even ready . Interesting thing is that as at that time I had nothing, there was nothing I was offering her. Though I won't say I'm bad looking.

And I have been with couples of them like that who has serious relationships, with their partners offering them best life could give including good sex and romance if that could count, but yet still, they can't do without visiting a male friend Who in turn they might claim is their bestie but finally will fall emotionally and will afterwards open legs for, trust men for that one for the one that will fall victim, they will hang it.

I have been pondering in my mine, could it be that they are easy to convince and lure into bed, could that be their nature, I have respect for women though or could it be that it's a phase every woman most go through before settling down? finding true love even when they have someone very serious in their lives.

could it be that my relationship of many years my partner could be doing same when I'm not around. Guys ur view on this.

RaiStar95:
Hello guys, i created a new account for this purpose. I need your advice. I am going to be 25 years old in a few months time but i am currently not in any relationship. in fact i have not being in any relationship since my former boyfriend broke up with me, two years ago. i moved to a new city early 2019, and have been working there now for almost two years, but no one has seem to pick interest in me. Sometimes, guys start to pick interest but the moment i show that i'm interested, they just back off. It gets lonely atimes and i have been tempted to get back together with my ex, but it did not last because i could not let go of how much he had hurt me in the past. I do not know what to do anymore, but i am scared, i do not want to be alone when i am 30. I am not desperate, but i just want to know if there are other ladies in my shoes. I don't really go out apart from work, weddings and church, i'm an indoor type. I have been advised to go out and hangout more, but that's just not me. Please help, am i the only one in this position?

interesting call me let's chat 08165859931

OgaVoltron:
Don't mind those ITK up there. You want the candid truth? That lady is not for you. Find someone else who has the same level of libido or can accommodate your requests. Someone who doesn't complain. Else by the time the doors are only opened twice a month & that's after like a week of pleading, grovelling and gnashing of teeth from you, it might be too late for you considering you don't fancy sampling outside.

thanks my brother but it's not as if it's everyday. but couples do it everyday and we are intending couples, should the be time table for sex? I don't think so

Billionsclub:
don't go and make money, you think sex is everything. I think you are always thinking about sex. I feel you should direct your energy to make money. hustle my brother. I am serious. making money is better than making Hot

baba Thank u . but I didn't tell u I wasn't making money if only u can read between the lines of my write up and equally I remember saying only mature minds. so next time always read between the lines before commenting

A woman that stays with her man, the man fends and take care of her including her needs, I have no business (relationship) outside except her. one should feel sex shouldn't be what should be deprived of such a man no matter the number of times but here, my gal feels we have too much of sex.

whenever I turn and look at her I get turn on especially when she's asleep or undressing, we fight most times because of sex. I want to engage her next month after 5years together and it will be her birthday intending to settle down 2022 that's next two years, that's what I have on my mind.

Pals do we say on the sex aspect that I have high sexual libido ? considering that she's the only one in my life and she's always available and if I get turned on I must force my way to have it with her, I mean body no be firewood like they say. Knowing that some guys despite serious commitment with their gal they still keep side chicks that will carry their some of their sexual needs as they believe. I'm I over labouring her with my sexual needs since she's d only one in my life.

secondly since intending to propose to her next month on her birthday and settling down next two years is it too long for someone to stay proposed to cos I didn't want her staying longer anymore, Atleast make she wear ring. why I wait for things to get better for proper marriage next two years.

Pals please who got experience on this should share with me. she's just 22. I'm 29, mature minds only

peterangelo:
Thank God the girl tell u.

About the password, u should have told her to tell u her password so that anytime u want to access her phone it won't be a pitfall.

What if they steal her phone that u have been diaturbing her to remove her password n redraw all the money in her bank acct ?

Finally, if u really lurve her what she said won't bother u atall.



Sex is a game!!!
U don't expect a beautiful girl to stay off men or men not to chase a beautiful lady.

Baba I don't know ur age but in a man's life a time comes u will want to settle down, so u need to choice a life partner someone u can trust, someone even if u leave for one month u come back she's still intact and that's what gives a man joy, so no be every u go just chop. grow up man.

Catabolism:
Even in marriage these things happen.It is very risky to build a relationship on deception.As a young girl, she is looking out for independence.She is trying to explore her youthfulness that comes with its attendant exuberance.Don't go on with the marriage if you don't trust her.E get reason.Broken relationship is better than domestic violence and broken marriage.

Baba thanks but exploring youthfulness at the expense of her serious relationship isn't that appalling?