gift0123:
It shouldn't be a thing of concern, she missed you, that's why... Mind you whenever a woman is opening leg like that, just desiring you, abeg she is into you..... They is difference between desiring your man and just trying to have sex to satisfy him.....
Meanwhile, dont listen to some of those yeye advice I am seeing up there....
Udooo....

thanks dear

Kriss216:

That's not true. If she's doing it with a pro, she will automatically lose interest doing it with her amateur boyfriend.

I'm guessing she's exploring all that on porn videos. While the guy is away, the girl is busy exploring sex styles online. She must be a heavy masturbator.

She's a good girl. My kind of girl .

OP, if you're not interested in her again, DM her number to me. Thanks.

guy thats my fiancee we are talking about, though I'm still scared

Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing.
I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.

My imagination is trying to tell that she might be having it with someone that is very good in bed while I was away, pals this is giving me a lot of concern. Soon I will be going back in matter of days, from my observations since I came back I have not seen strange number calling her.

Dizzyish:

Thank you. Please what would you suggest? I was thinking maybe I should do a pgd in chemistry or chem engr. (if that's possible) so at least I can have a fighting chance applying for shell, moni pulo or maybe nnpc because oil& gas is why I choose chemisty, I don't know..

guy no oil company picks up a graduate irrespective of ur grade in school for an office or administrative role so take off ur mind from there. U can't get oil company job because u have good grades or master degree. Employment in oil companies are done Internally, the select from themselves, or those at the high arachy can pick their relatives or those that they're touched to help irrespective of ur grade school, so majorities working there came out with pass in school, oil company jobs is through man know man not grade and thats Nigeria for u.
Instead of going for pgd if u really want to work there, go and learn things like crane operating, u can work there as a specialist, u can equally learn how to operate fork lifts. there are alot of companies u can work as an operator. Be a specialist, this days no company want to employ any graduate to keep u in d the office to do administrative job, that side is filled , the will always ask apart from being a graduate what else can u do ? So go for a skill and apply as a specialist eg crane operating u might even get offshore job, thank me later I stay in Portharcourt too, call if u need to 08165859931

Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

vickyfrancis1:
What most people don't understand is that Intimacy is an intricate part of a successful relationship/marriage... Don't let any over zealous religious person tell you otherwise...if you are not sexually compatible, talk to her and if she maintains her stance, then call it off. because issues like this when unattended will become a very big problem later.

No be later now u start to Dy cheat unnecessarily and she go wan treat ur f**up.

friend please thanks but what do you think I do.

RisenPhoenix1:
She's trying to establish an early line of authority in your relationship. Maybe you plead with her for sex and she has understood that she can use it to control you. Don't give in to such behaviour. You're the man, you control the home; including how much sex goes on. Next time she refuses you, tell her you want some space and move out. When the time to come back is ripe, inform her that you will only marry her if she is open to a possible polygamous arrangement in future. If she refuses the condition, find another woman to marry. They are all over the place.

Good luck.

baba please thanks for the advise, the gal don really frustrate me my life, weda she thinks I can't go out there to get someone else.

Pals I'm really fade up on my woman, next year supposed to be our marriage introduction, we've been together for 5years now. I engaged her last 3month ego. over two years now I've been struggling so hard to have sex with her she barely allowed me touch her. she gives allot of excuses during sex, she almost like write down the number of times we have sex in a week. should we have time table for sex?

I can't have access to her body when I want to, and we're staying together, I'm not a wood. It's always one excuse or the other just to avoid sex, she's really frustrating me, and this is someone I want to get married to in months, and I don't want to Cheat on her either because I love her and want the best for us. we're having issues like this now that we are not married what about when we are married. l'm thinking of quitting. she's 22 while I'm 29, she love sex before ,even more than I do, l'm just surprised at this development for the past 2year now, why is it different now, women do all they can to keep their men to themselves, why is mine pushing me away, from my observation there's no one or anything distracting her, she just being wicked to me and stubborn, pals I don't know if there's another option, I wanted to quit or give her a competition by bringing in another woman if that will make her sit up, I'm just fade up.

tosyne2much:
I find it amusing that some people actually believe this crap NCDC is dishing out day in day out


Don't be deceived! there's no Covid-19 in this country.. It's all a sham or would you tell me Nigerians have the best immune system in the world or we have the best medical services to curb the virus like it hit. America?

baba inasmuch we know that Nigerian system as failed us many times does mean we don't know the truth. I know of someone who survived it. the bottom line is that you should protect yourself.

I and my gal are willing to take loan to start up a provision and foodstuff business. The shop was provision store before managed by a woman who just passed on a month ago and the husband of the late woman doesn't want to manage the shop again. so therefore we talked to him and he's willing to let us in. we have the money for the rent, then the 100k we want to loan will be for the provision and the foodstuffs we want to introduce.

Pals so I'm asking, is it a right step at a right direction? has anyone start up that kind of business with a loan before and will the money be enough? lastly anyone that is on this kind of business please share your templates of what and what is your shops. what are they things we need to buy that's the provisions and the food stuff. hence we have fridge and generator which the late woman left which we are going to pay the husband later on for it. pals please help us, share some ideas.

Deborah98:
Wow 5 years together,she must be the patient type,wife her we are only 10 in Nigeria , don't quote me on this, anyways congrats bro,more wins.

lol thank you my brother I appreciate ooooo the rest of the comments too, I appreciate you guys for the love.

Guys I'm taking a bold step today to do the needful, I'm proposing to my gal after 5years together, nothing really dey ground though, I'm a marine engineer who got a job since on march though the pay is small but it's promising that with time it will get better,, and since on march I got d job I've been at home because of the pandemic hope the will call us soon.

so today I just want to surprise my gal she travelled and she's back, I just want to do that at home that I'm managing between both of us, as many will advise that you mustn't get all money in the world before taking that step, I just believe things will get better, please advise and tips to make better thanks.

Gaggii:
My best friend told me he wants to break up with her g.f, because she has added weight and now has a big ass, which irritates him. He dislikes ladies with big butt.

But the babe is my exact spec, I love fat and thick ass. I would even propose to the girl within six months of dating, because we already know each other, so there is nothing to study.

But, I don't know how to do this without ruining our friendship. Because he might think we have been dating before he broke up with her.

at op, don't mind what these fellas are saying. since you have a good intentions of marrying her. I will advise you wait for proper break up, but don't pray for it, if it happens strike, and make it open to your friend so u could seek his blessings and awareness . I wish you luck. you are my type, I like it thick, wit bigger hips and elevated back side, that's what real African men eat, we don't eat bone.

RaiStar95:
Lol, i'm in PH, thanks though

owh nice one, call me then let's hang out if less busy that's if u are nterested, I'm equally in ph too.

I discovered that most women can't do without cheating even the ones you claim they got morals and standards still fall cheap.
I have slept with a girl who has about 4 very serious suitors who are well to do compared to me who weren't even ready . Interesting thing is that as at that time I had nothing, there was nothing I was offering her. Though I won't say I'm bad looking.

And I have been with couples of them like that who has serious relationships, with their partners offering them best life could give including good sex and romance if that could count, but yet still, they can't do without visiting a male friend Who in turn they might claim is their bestie but finally will fall emotionally and will afterwards open legs for, trust men for that one for the one that will fall victim, they will hang it.

I have been pondering in my mine, could it be that they are easy to convince and lure into bed, could that be their nature, I have respect for women though or could it be that it's a phase every woman most go through before settling down? finding true love even when they have someone very serious in their lives.

could it be that my relationship of many years my partner could be doing same when I'm not around. Guys ur view on this.

RaiStar95:
Hello guys, i created a new account for this purpose. I need your advice. I am going to be 25 years old in a few months time but i am currently not in any relationship. in fact i have not being in any relationship since my former boyfriend broke up with me, two years ago. i moved to a new city early 2019, and have been working there now for almost two years, but no one has seem to pick interest in me. Sometimes, guys start to pick interest but the moment i show that i'm interested, they just back off. It gets lonely atimes and i have been tempted to get back together with my ex, but it did not last because i could not let go of how much he had hurt me in the past. I do not know what to do anymore, but i am scared, i do not want to be alone when i am 30. I am not desperate, but i just want to know if there are other ladies in my shoes. I don't really go out apart from work, weddings and church, i'm an indoor type. I have been advised to go out and hangout more, but that's just not me. Please help, am i the only one in this position?

interesting call me let's chat 08165859931

OgaVoltron:
Don't mind those ITK up there. You want the candid truth? That lady is not for you. Find someone else who has the same level of libido or can accommodate your requests. Someone who doesn't complain. Else by the time the doors are only opened twice a month & that's after like a week of pleading, grovelling and gnashing of teeth from you, it might be too late for you considering you don't fancy sampling outside.

thanks my brother but it's not as if it's everyday. but couples do it everyday and we are intending couples, should the be time table for sex? I don't think so

Billionsclub:
don't go and make money, you think sex is everything. I think you are always thinking about sex. I feel you should direct your energy to make money. hustle my brother. I am serious. making money is better than making Hot

baba Thank u . but I didn't tell u I wasn't making money if only u can read between the lines of my write up and equally I remember saying only mature minds. so next time always read between the lines before commenting

A woman that stays with her man, the man fends and take care of her including her needs, I have no business (relationship) outside except her. one should feel sex shouldn't be what should be deprived of such a man no matter the number of times but here, my gal feels we have too much of sex.

whenever I turn and look at her I get turn on especially when she's asleep or undressing, we fight most times because of sex. I want to engage her next month after 5years together and it will be her birthday intending to settle down 2022 that's next two years, that's what I have on my mind.

Pals do we say on the sex aspect that I have high sexual libido ? considering that she's the only one in my life and she's always available and if I get turned on I must force my way to have it with her, I mean body no be firewood like they say. Knowing that some guys despite serious commitment with their gal they still keep side chicks that will carry their some of their sexual needs as they believe. I'm I over labouring her with my sexual needs since she's d only one in my life.

secondly since intending to propose to her next month on her birthday and settling down next two years is it too long for someone to stay proposed to cos I didn't want her staying longer anymore, Atleast make she wear ring. why I wait for things to get better for proper marriage next two years.

Pals please who got experience on this should share with me. she's just 22. I'm 29, mature minds only

peterangelo:


Thank God the girl tell u.

About the password, u should have told her to tell u her password so that anytime u want to access her phone it won't be a pitfall.

What if they steal her phone that u have been diaturbing her to remove her password n redraw all the money in her bank acct ?

Finally, if u really lurve her what she said won't bother u atall.



Sex is a game!!!
U don't expect a beautiful girl to stay off men or men not to chase a beautiful lady.

Baba I don't know ur age but in a man's life a time comes u will want to settle down, so u need to choice a life partner someone u can trust, someone even if u leave for one month u come back she's still intact and that's what gives a man joy, so no be every u go just chop. grow up man.

Catabolism:

Even in marriage these things happen.It is very risky to build a relationship on deception.As a young girl, she is looking out for independence.She is trying to explore her youthfulness that comes with its attendant exuberance.Don't go on with the marriage if you don't trust her.E get reason.Broken relationship is better than domestic violence and broken marriage.

Baba thanks but exploring youthfulness at the expense of her serious relationship isn't that appalling?

Pals I'm still trying to live with this shock that my supposed fiancee though I've not engaged her yet but we're planning settling down next two years have cheated severally and I didn't know. This is someone when my friends talks about problems about the problems they faced in their relationships, I will be thanking God for blessing me with someone like her.

I loved this girl with every atom of me and this is our 5ft year together. I love my gal because she's hardworking she doesn't believe that she needs to sleep with any man to feed and pay her bills. she's will be turning 22 by next month while I'm 29 already.

Pals d tin weak me because this is som
eone I assumed I mould right from teenage, someone that was chased out of d house by her sister at 19 just because of me and she took d pains making me promise her that I will never abandon her. Back then the problem was solved and the family now knows my intentions and the are cool with it. I talk to the mom who is in the village and she's currently staying with me fully then partially in her sister's place.

Cutting the story shut, we had a misunderstanding two days ago we humbled ourselves to each other to resolve it. We were emotional after forgiving each other at point of love making I just felt I should make gest, so I told her why she's always lying down like a log of wood during sex no involvement apart from spraying her legs, cos I can remember how she always wanted sex years ago, abi my thing no big enough.

Pals my gal boost my bubbles, telling me that sincerely she has cheated on me once, guys d shock didn't allow me to ask her when was that, if it was when I left for service so I could come back and look for something doing to better our lives, we don too suffer.

I was shocked, she told me to my face that the guy's dick was too big and she doesn't like big dick, that it was terrible in her eyes, so after that day she blocked the guy's number, that she prefers my own always. I shaded tears in my heart then I covered up with smiles, I was like ''no wonder you have not being enjoying me''I covered up with lots jokes and smiles. this someone I could swear I was d only one banging her. I'm still living with the shock.

currently she just returned to my place after visiting her brother for 4 months now, my gal that never asked any man for money before I just found out that she has been asking guys for money as we speak she's expecting about 8k from one guy I believed she met at d brother's place.

Her phone is currently passworded and I warned her that I don't want her phone on password as well as mind, I can't live that way with someone I want to get married to atleast ur phone should be accessible by me she obeyed now she has locked it back again . Pals I know what to do, but I'm just weak after all this years, this is one that has aborted for me, I just got a job offshore since on March this year but I have not started because of the pandemic.Someone I wanted to celebrate by standing by me all this years.I just tire.

baba go and read ur books

aboi go read ur book, leave woman alone at ur age.

Waziced:
This is another new moniker on the dial.
A new chic came around my vicinity to set up a shawarma, grill chicken spot. A hot spot for the both the high and low in my hood.
She and her assistant shared fliers all through the neighborhood for home delivery services.
Now am not the type of guy that is easily fascinated by pretty ladies on the go! I never gave her much attention as I would just order she'll come serve and chipped in one or two jokes. I see other guys in the hood lurking around her every now and then. Got attracted to her too seeing how humble she is how how jovial she could be. Started chatting her up but never made my intention known from the go. She became used to me and would come around my crib just sitting and gusting.
Now, problem started when one of my neighbors saw her sitting outside with me and having fun just gusting. He looked at her and just nodded his head like saying 'you bah'. I got the message immediately and asked her about him and she said he wooed her and said he'll like to marry her. This my neighbor is a chronic womaniser. Whatever he told her I know is just to get in-between her legs. He had a 4 year old son out of wedlock.
She said she rejected his offer because she can't start her home with someone that has a child already. Saw, next day I took her out and made my intention known to her about wanting a serious relationship. She accepted and we kissed that night. Funny thing is that after that I see her and this my neighbor also friend together as usual gusting. After that I asked her if she wants to give in to his demand but she insisted they're just friends as usual. But she said the guy is still pestering her about that. This guy is my neighbor and friend ohh, I thought maybe he would free her for me knowing am making move already, but rather he was getting upset with her during their course of discussion as he noticed our chats on her WhatsApp.
She told me he's kind of upset with her but on the other hand I noticed she's comfortable with his fist. I kept my cool and confronted her but she insisted there's nothing between them.
One fateful day I met with the guy and we talked about her, I told him that if he's interested in her I can free her for him ohh, woman matter is the least on my mind. He said no I should continue with her that he wooed her but she turned him down and now she's the one coming to keep him company oh. That he see that she's undecided.
I met her and told her that I met with one of her crush because she told about other guys in the hood also. She asked which one I told her the chronic womaniser, she got shocked asking why I met him without telling her. Shioorrr. I told her if there's nothing between them then she shouldn't act the way she did. We settled it she slept in my house that night and I gave her hot f*ck back to back that night. She's good.
Next day again she came and I gave her back to back again.
After two days she met with the persistent crush but according to her he just passed and ignored her greeting. This is her first contact with him after my meeting him regarding her. She called me and asked what I discussed with him that made him act the way he did. I told her nothing more than what I've discussed with her.
The next day he also ignored her greeting. This time around she became furious with me ohh. That she's not happy with me meeting the guy. I told her unless if she has something with him she shouldn't bother about him not answering her greeting.
That night she refused me kissing her. And I told her that if she cherishes the guys company more than mine I don't mind freeing her for him. She said okay ohh, they would know how to settle themselves. She stormed out of my house and I never bothered calling her back. That night I deleted all her pictures from my phone and the chat we had. Folded her lingerie she hung in my house and the towel she used and made up my mind to forget about her and hand her her property the next day.
Coming to the next day didn't just want to deliver the clothes to her early that morning, I passed by her spot and she called me that I should please come. I went to her and she hugged me and said she's sorry that its just me she wants not the guy or other guys. I just left and said told her no problem.
Now, I don't know if I should receive her back and truth be told, I already had her in my mind to settle with her.
Sorry for the long read

lol so u know it's a long read. my brother keep it cool with her monitor the situation, it takes two to tangle. if she desires u and u have made up plans for her and she's aware, she will definitely keep it real with u and prays for things to workout well so u guys can settle down in no distance time.

Wow my governor has really done well though It didn't end well between us when I served in his village as a youth corper, I'm gifted in arts, though I did engineering, I spent over 50k, did jobs that he didn't send me but just to appreciate him and I was expectant. I took risk, he collected the gifts and was very happy he promised to call but unfortunately till date he has not called till I left the place since 2018. When ever I see his pictures I have mixed feelings.

BAZ001:
Chai this number heavy

But how did corona spread from Lagos to other states in Nigeria despite inter state ban?
Could it be that the virus was already in Nigeria before February?

With all wike actions & demolition of hotel Rivers no gree slow down.

Baba even under the lockdown people where still travelling, boarders where still opened to people by our very own security operatives inasmuch u can pay them, so security operative contributed enough to what happening to us. locking down boarders was a huge failure because of our corrupt security operative eg police

Pals when my immediate younger sister was age 12, I'm 2years older than her. I remember one occasion where the house was very dark she came in with this little girl like age 4 who usually plays around, she placed her on her tummy I was on the bed while both of them were on the ground. she never knew I was there, she made d little girl finger her and played on her breast I was shocked, she never knew I was there. immediate I opened the window she was shocked either and I reported her to my mom of blessed memory and she was dealt with.

Fast forwardly to now, she's married and just gotten admitted into university and has a child of 1yr 4months, she's now 27 while I'm 29. Thus she stays with me because I'm in the state where she's schooling, the same school I finished from and her home and husband is in the neighboring state, so she returns home every month end to meet her husband.

Currently she brought in a 15yrs old girl to come and stay with us look after the child while she goes to school, for me I have gotten a job offshore but have not started yet because of the pandemic since march.

Pals the terrible things this 15yrs old gal has been doing to this little child has been so abominable, do u know she has been defiling this my sister's baby boy which is my nephew, before we where suspecting. And it has happening many times.

Right now we don't know what to do, we've been thinking about sending her parking back to the village but it might be very difficult getting someone else, what is this life turning into or should we blame that on karma at the detriment of this little boy. please help pals.

my dear I'm sorry to say this and I feel ur pains, when we love someone even to their fault and the person does not reciprocate it's worrisome and painful but the truth must be told. I think he's into someone else may be very committed to the person. so ur calls irritates and it's disturbing him, because if u truly love someone you will always want to hear from the person 24/7. If he's serious about you he'll always be the one to be calling you irrespective of the hour,u will always know, so I'll advise u put ur self together and try and move on. such is life, I wish you the best.

@op never say that again and please Change the caption using modified mode. I'm quite disappointed, she's 60% facially beautiful no doubt, but the impression u made, I was expecting big thick booty lady, that's how true African woman should look like, with nice elevated backside that's what true African men like me eat. I don't eat bone. but in contrary what did I see, one dry bony fish. lol.

Naturally men are sex mongers, I hardly see or hear about any man rejecting sex if the environment and scenario is safe. Because of this high taste for sex, many even after getting married still keep concubines aside their wives which is not fair . Thus, even the brothels were created for men and that doesn't stop me being very proud of being a man. it's obvious why many considers men polygamous in nature.

Nevertheless I have been thinking lately how people in prison cope with sex starvation especially ''men''.

have u had this imagination? share ur views.

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

@op let me help you out here. she might be right about not putting on ring but that doesn't mean she hasn't accepted ur proposal, e. g like in my church redeemed, we don't propose with ring. even during exchange of marital vows in front of the church redeemed don't use ring but bible, u only wear ring when u get to the register to sign d marriage agreement, from there u start wearing ring, so don't panic, she's ur wife. paying of the bills should be done mutually, it's for both of u, have a heart to heart talk, then share the bill,