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Car Talk / Re: Are Manual Cars Faster Than Automatic Transmission Cars? by zelaws: 6:35pm On Oct 04, 2023
Can shift between gear 1 to 4 within 3 poles with manual, not sure its possible with automatic within the same distance. Manual gives the control to switch your speed promptly while automatic gives the glide.
Travel / Re: My Wife Younger Brother Invited Me To USA; Please I Need Guidance/steps by zelaws: 8:31am On Mar 12, 2023
nounpastquestio:
Good day Nairalanders,

Please I sincerely need your help/assistance/advice to help me secure US VISA

My wife younger brother that’s a doing a Masters Programme in one of the Universities in USA will be rounding up his programme by May, 2023 and the school gave him 3 slots opportunity to invite his family members and he gave me a slot of invitation to the USA.
From the mentioned date, I have limited time to get all things available.

NOTE:
1. I have valid Passport
2. Though I have been refused USA VISA far back 2012
3. I have Business name with account with GTB Bank. I have steady flows of cash on it, but not in million
4. I have 2 kids

Please what steps should I take now and how do I get the required documents without me spending much?


US Consular won't request for your account statement. Infact you won't go in with any document. They only want to know if your have people and things you values back home that will make you come back home after the event.
Your interview won't go beyond 10 minutes maximum.
Married with 2 kids are strong connection.
Your job is another
Knowledge of what you are going to the US for is another.
What made him give an invite or impact you have or had in your wife's brothers life is one technical questions you need to work on before your appointment date.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Bolt Driver Or Bank Teller by zelaws: 1:41pm On May 24, 2021
nnamdi65:
Good morning

Please I want to start a temporary business as a Bolt Driver before I got bank teller offer of ₦70,000 monthly.

A friend told me as a Bolt Driver you can earn up to ₦40,000 to ₦60,000 comfortably 6days in a week.
And if I work harder 7am to 7pm I could earn upto ₦80,000 weekly on Bolt.
But I need to invest by buying my own ride (I've just ₦700,000)

And with the Uber or Bolt I can get to meet many people and I can even freelance Real estate or Housing Agent while driving unlike the bank work that doesn't give you enough time.
Note: I just married and I need to Carter for ther family.

Please what your advise.

It is quite easy with bank teller job initially while as a driver it will be difficult. As a teller you just do what you are asked to do as a bolt driver you determine the what you do.
On the long run you master your art as a bolt driver and will be more interesting if you own your car. As a bank teller you will become frustrated and become empty of idea if care is not taken.
With the amount you have you can get a car with which you can start the uber business with and grow onward depending on committed you are.
I wish you all the best in the best decision.

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Literature / Re: Choices: Another Perspective by zelaws: 12:17am On May 01, 2020
Happy birthday solomonbrown64. I wish you success, good health,longlife and peace. May God preserve you till the total fulfillment of your destiny.
Literature / Re: Choices: Another Perspective by zelaws: 11:12am On Mar 15, 2020
What a wonderful piece. Solomonbrown64 no dey disappoint sha. I am sure Debbie's excuse about her kids future if her hubby's attention get drifted finally to the other woman is not a reason for going down with Alex. The fact is that she wanted it with him long ago. She is only looking for the best opportunity which Oro has finally presented. Meanwhile Alex is the oloro and did not fail to perform. Although he has just opened or expanded the web of problems in that house.
Anita doesn't look like heads over knee with Alex, kinda have her hidden plans.

Solo it's been a longtime no comments but def reading this as ever.

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Literature / Re: Choices: Another Perspective by zelaws: 10:13am On Jan 27, 2020
AH!!! shocked solomonbrown64 at 10AM on a Monday .

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Romance / Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by zelaws: 9:21am On Jan 23, 2020
mrbenjame:
I think I need matured minds to advice me because I’m very confused right now. Please take pains to read my story.

I dated a lady called Susan (not her real name ). For 4 years. I loved her so much and she did too. I met her when She was preparing to enter the university. 6 months into the relationship I went for service. Came back and it was already clocking 2 years. Whenever she visits I always try to make her comfortable. So she took advantage of my care and always wanted me to serve her all the time. Even when she visits from school she would be operating her phone and watch me do what on a normal terrain she should assist me do. As a young guy I try as much as I can to let her know that at least once in a while it would be nice to get my meal served by my woman even if I prepared it (since she doesn’t like entering the kitchen). Most time I overlook it because probably she’s very tired and all that. Sometimes I thought I was just being selfish but I really wanted to feel that woman attributes but I wasn’t seeing it.

Each time we fix time for a date she comes very late and that piss me off to my bone marrow. She never keeps to time. I endured this for a long time because she never turned up early in any appointment. She calls me at late hours and when I try to explain to her that it’s late she gets angry ( I’m talking of 12 am or there about) and I’ll go to work the next day. Anytime she offends me she would want to be romantic so I’d forget her wrongs just to calm me down. But I was suffering inside.

I felt very weak emotionally and decided to take things easy.

Until I met this lady called Benita (not her real name). I liked her. I admired everything about her. So I approached her while we were going back home from work. We had good conversations and I was happy because she was fun to be with. We exchanged contact and we started chatting. Forgive me because I became happy again just talking to her. Whenever we say goodbye when she gets off the bus she times when I’d get home and immediately I step my foot in my house she calls.( already I’ve told her when I’d be home). I invited her to a date in an eatery and she turned up 10 minutes to the time. I was shocked.

I became more involved with her. I invited her home. She went to my kitchen and she said “ your plates are not washed why? I just smiled and told her I’ll take care of that. Before I knew what was happening she’s started washing the plates. I begged her to stop because I didn’t send her to do that and besides it’s her first time in my house. But she refused. I let her (though the plates were not much but I was happy). She started visiting often with food items to cook. And I obliged to assist her. She refused again. We argued until she had her way. I just sit with her in the kitchen and gist while she cooks. To me I felt I was punishing her because all I wanted is that things of such can be done by her once in a while. (I sabi pity person o. Lols!). And secondly I’m not used to a woman doing things for me for a very long time now.

She calls all the time. Talks so lively and very funny. She’s not the miss romantic type but very smart and reserved.

After a while, you can’t cheat karma. Susan found out. She came to know about Benita. And since then it wasn’t easy settling between two of them. But Susan won’t just give up and I think I’m cool with Benita.

Today Benita is in her 100 level while Susan is about going for her service.

Now I’m trying to be responsible to settle down. I talked with my mum and some close friends of mine but they’re tipping Susan for me because she’s out of school and it would make things much easier for me than settling with Benita. But I love Benita now. She makes me happy. What do I do?

I am sure you already made up you mind on who is best for you . Go for it . When a woman offer only sex as the solution to any problem no that she has nothing more to add to your life than sex and bearing kids.
Literature / Re: Choices: Another Perspective by zelaws: 1:24pm On Jan 08, 2020
solomonbrown64.
weh done sir

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Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by zelaws: 4:38pm On Nov 27, 2019
burggerx
You are who you are. Nothing changes.
What you do now is the same thing you have being doing for years in different forms at different places.

Your mum has warned you.
Literature / Re: Choices: Another Perspective by zelaws: 11:57am On Sep 25, 2019
solomonbrown64
Following closely bro! I just sent you a message on whatsapp

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Literature / Re: Last Gang Standing 2: Killers and Fallen Kings.(Crime). by zelaws: 7:07pm On Sep 16, 2019
WoW Ironkurtain na back to back.
Literature / Re: The Last Wolf Series: Whispers From The Void by zelaws: 10:31pm On Sep 07, 2019
solomonbrown64:
Oya oh....food don ready oh....wey my people them? Preciousbouy, Oladim001, Hadampson, greatsound, sleemoon, vickkydgreat, boladex1, datafa98, kingin55, wiz0isaac, quadri956, emarkson, donkelz, afz9095, tobsonlove, leiykong, remiseyi, femigold081, akanji44, babtuna1, zelaws, demilolaq99, selimdeon, charlesdock, pemzylabi, ayomidex01, macwytt, korel, china14, daxking, rafic, sammyendowed, guardian1860, cyber5, davidpaul, mightyraw, elmacho, mhizdherbee, iaremozelle, chizzymaris, chidera1915, wizsolzy, lankyannie, maryclaire1, oluwabuqqyyolo, babtuna1, aashik, kendo60, ebonyqueen001, lordtay, iamharkinwaley, precidope, sltn, ziloux01, pioneer18, fazemood, whizlight, devilmaycry1, ayodipths, derexon1234, adebayor717, ekoroprince, magicseed......

been Like ages bro!
Romance / Re: Help! I'm Emotionally Wrecked! by zelaws: 10:19am On Aug 12, 2019
Shadbay:
I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.

Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup.
I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.

I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.

I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.

The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.

I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.

I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.

I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.


Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".

I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.




If you believe your spouse will make you happy you are falling for a big SCAM.
Learn from that experience and build your happiness . It doesn't depend on anyone else but you.

If you are still angry and depressed by her actions it is your choice. What ever you turn too good or bad using your past experience as the excuse is your choice.

Stay with your choice. Choose the path that defines you and be happy all the way not minding what people say.

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Literature / Re: Last Gang Standing 2: Killers and Fallen Kings.(Crime). by zelaws: 6:04pm On Mar 23, 2019
Ironkurtain! Last last Eric don enter all the way from Bloodline .
Lovely
Religion / Re: How Prominent ‘men Of God’ Misfired: All The Failed Prophecies On 2019 Elections by zelaws: 2:42pm On Mar 16, 2019
They misfired because they are fake. They did not hear a thing from God but make up all these prophecy from calculations and permutations of the events around us.

Jeremiah 23:16,26
Thus said the LORD of hosts, Listen not to the words of the prophets that prophesy to you: they make you vain: they speak a vision of their own heart, and not out of the mouth of the LORD.
Literature / Re: The Last Wolf Series - Broken Vengeance by zelaws: 11:54pm On Feb 16, 2019
solomonbrown64:
Oya oh....food don ready oh....wey my people them? Preciousbouy, Oladim001, Hadampson, greatsound, sleemoon, vickkydgreat, boladex1, datafa98, kingin55, wiz0isaac, quadri956, emarkson, donkelz, afz9095, tobsonlove, leiykong, remiseyi, femigold081, akanji44, babtuna1, zelaws, demilolaq99, selimdeon, charlesdock, pemzylabi, ayomidex01, macwytt, korel, china14, daxking, rafic, sammyendowed, guardian1860, cyber5, davidpaul, mightyraw, elmacho, mhizdherbee, iaremozelle, chizzymaris, chidera1915, wizsolzy, lankyannie, maryclaire1, oluwabuqqyyolo, babtuna1, aashik, kendo60, ebonyqueen001, lordtay, iamharkinwaley, precidope, sltn, ziloux01, pioneer18, fazemood, whizlight, devilmaycry1, ayodipths, derexon1234, adebayor717, ekoroprince, magicseed......
.......Oya oh, another chapter don come.

Longtime bro!
I ve been around from day one.
Career / Re: Do You Know Any Successful Person That Didn't Attend Any School? by zelaws: 3:17pm On Feb 14, 2019
bilms:
Do you know any succesful person in Nigeria that didn't go to school?

By school, i mean secondary and higher institution.

If you know any, kindly name them, even if they live in your village.

Thanks

Nike Davies-Okundaye (Nike Seven-Seven). Owns Nike Art Gallery
Literature / Re: Penance by zelaws: 4:12pm On Jan 08, 2019
What a cool way to start the year!
popcorn in hand.

Apollux oya na

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Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 8:32pm On Nov 29, 2018
It has been an exciting moment all through. Spotted Apollux for the first time sometimes in April 2017 when Memoirs of Blood and Steel hit the FP on NL. Then the Executive Sanction, in between which I had to go back to the first part of Marvel Chronicles.
The Character, place , events even the weapons in all the story came with the kinda description that gives a visual or should I say a life expressions to work.
Fighting have Technics , guns have types/models, the vehicles, clothings have styles even hair cuts. et al.
Thank you Apollux this is a big IP.
Trust you have/working on the protection..
Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 8:32pm On Nov 29, 2018
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Travel / Re: Payment For Trolley At Murtala Muhammed Airport, Lagos by zelaws: 1:57pm On Nov 29, 2018
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Nairaland / General / Re: Something Is Generally Wrong With Nigerians!!! by zelaws: 8:42am On Oct 22, 2018
daveP:


By May Ebute

https://thenews-chronicle.com/there-is-something-wrong-with-nigerians/

Don't you agree? Seems we need the military strong arm again!!?

Look closely at the campaign bill board covering traffic light

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Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 10:56am On Aug 31, 2018
oh! Cyborg.

Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 3:37pm On Aug 24, 2018
To be candid, my day is not complete without checking out for updates on this series. It is more than a story/fantasy.
Lot's of education about possibilities. The recent awareness of the cyborg about the self improvements in his machine body just opened another chapter to the Marvel Chronicles.

Apollux , in which season are we going to get the source of the Ion crystal.

My Cyborg Salute to you: Wehdone Sir!

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Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 6:06pm On Aug 14, 2018
Is Jeffrey really dead! seems he died too easily though.
Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 10:29am On Jul 25, 2018
Appollux:
Apollux:

Welcome back, it's been a while. Glad u like the sequel as much as the 1st one.
I wanted this part to be short but it's getting too long. It's already more than 200 pages. Though I should be sending some updates today

ME:

Travel / Re: How Oversized Medians Contribute To Traffic Bottlenecks On Lagos Roads (PIX) by zelaws: 10:36am On Jun 26, 2018
autojosh
I have an observation on the construction of Oshodi Abule egba or should I say Lagos/Abeokuta expressway.
The danger from the road construction to human lives is very high. The contactor is totally unprofessional in the handling of the job. Users of the road are endangered with the various unprotected excavation on the road. All HSE protocols are completely avoided as there are no safety signs throughout the length of the road. The pace of the construction is generally slow.
Lagos state's presence is totally invisible on the construction site as the parking of heavy duty vehicles are done unabated and without order.

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Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 6:01pm On May 17, 2018
Apollux the great thanks for the wonderful updates.

This James obviously is a dummy in military clothings wondering how come he rose to such position? Could it be that he has been paid to act that way. Marvel and his super team, superheroes to the rescue.
Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 6:17pm On Apr 24, 2018
So sure Marvel escaped death despite the explosion reaching him.
Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 12:46pm On Mar 19, 2018
Thanks Lord Apollux!!! What a way to victory for Marvel. The Giant did not measure up to Marvel's tactical dexterity in the fight though. Seems long years in the afterlife without exposure to enhancement facilities account for that.
Waiting to hear from the 10 bounty hunters hope they are still alive and not those wasted before Marvel could meet jade.
Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 6:07pm On Feb 11, 2018
Jade here is in real trouble. There is a conspirator in the top echelon of the earth security or someone trusted.
Literature / Re: Marvel Chronicles 2 :executive Sanction by zelaws: 6:04pm On Feb 01, 2018
WOW! Finally after several days of torture.

Apollux wehdone sir!

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