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Jesuspistol:
That's exactly the proper thing. Intimacy is another name for romance and inspired by God. Allows u to crack jokes, get used to each other, yab each other and smile at each other bla bla and yet on one part of ur mind u know u shouldn't relinquish ur responsibility/duty at the slightest chance. It has limit and balances pleasure with discipline. Familiarity is invented by human nature. It is intimacy without limit or discipline. Its a problem that springs up from civilization and sometimes poverty.

Talking about many years. The beginning determines that. Its hard to stop what u've started but easy to start what u've not started. There should be a policy from d beginning. However the man is in a better position to help his wife achieve this cus she's weaker, correcting her in tenderness when she's fast forgetting how to hold up. There shouldn't be a sensation of I want all pleasure. There should rather be a sensation of I've not gotten it yet. It keeps one to hold on. Marriage never answers all life question before

I think not being familiar with your partner is one of the worst things that can happen to a marriage. Marriages don't thrive on policies, they actually last because of understanding and mutual respect.

I boldly wrote copied, Check LIB blog if u don't believe it.

According to a few Nollywood practitioners who were present at the
Best of Nollywood Awards, which held last night in Port
Harcourt, Gov. Rotimi
Amaechi practically insulted Nollywood practitioners to
their faces.
Governor Rotimi said that people in Nollywood are products of circumstances/necessity. He said that the only reason they are in Nollywood is because they couldn't find other jobs, that if they had, they won't be actors. Rotimi said these actors studied sciences, law, medicine etc but because they couldn't find jobs, they embraced Nollywood.
Governor Rotimi also blasted two top actresses,
He told the crowd that he gives Joke Silva and Kate
Henshaw bags of money whenever they come to Rivers
state. And then claimed he was the one who encouraged
Kate Henshaw to go into politics.
Like that wasn't enough, Governor Amaechi then said he
went into politics for money. #COPIED.
I think these actors are doing well for themselves, most of them even earn more than their mates who got good jobs back then.

please where is Colombia and what is their contribution to the world economy.

Jesuspistol:
Wow. I must admit your points are facts. Really says quite much of who a man should be.

However in any relationship, intimacy shouldn't be mingled with familiarity. The former strenghtens the relationship while the later fades it out.

But I've realized when you get so close to some women even in a marriage relationship (not bf/gf), they don't seem to understand that what u want or what can keep up the standard of the relationship is an unfamiliar intimacy.

In yoruba, to start with..the 'eh' she uses for u becomes 'oo'. Now that sounds fair enough but unfortunately that's the starting point of familiarity as it quietly creeps in. And soon it gets to a point of 4getting to wake up @ least an hour b4 the husband to prepare breakfast.

Some even call their husband Goat before allowing him make love to them and they say its a joke just bcuz he's asking for it often than she wants it, 4getting that its one of a woman's way of keeping her home and one of why she was bought with a price

On the long run @ middle age and above, there's almost no submission anymore simply bcuz she has become mama and has amassed respect from a lot of ppl calling her mummy and cuz the children are grown up so d fear of 'my husband looking out is little' (so she thinks) and probably bcuz she has made some achievement than she had when she was a new wife, her level becomes high...so she automatically thinks submission is no more necessary. Most men look out for a young new wife cuz of this.

Well I'll advice that fiancees set up a standard 4 demselves b4 they marry -a standard they shouldn't break at any point in life (in spite of their intimate funs, pleasures and liveliness) except as a matter of necessity and learn to know that someone (could be husband or wife) has to have a more absorbing/tolerant ability than d other. It has always being like that. No matter how much ppl say both of them must tolerate each other, one is still always more tolerant.

Pls are u by any chance suggesting that husbands should make sure that there is no element of familiarity btw their wives and them even after living together for many years.

The conflict in Edo state House of Assembly is almost 3months old and still this Law BREAKERS are not ready to end it. This same set of people are already campaigning for Federal positions. Now they want to go to the federal house of reps to continue their law breaking activities. Shame on Edo lawmakers.

xtervaganza: i smell lies

or just your usual mouth odour smelling

As a child i was called Boo boo, everyone called me dat because i was so Fat. Now as an adult am so slim dat its lyk i ve quarrel with fat.

Money= Money trap

Mooney= Money trap

vizkiz: wrong advice...i don't think communicating with her so fast will work.

OP, just act normal and don't call/text her for like a week(believe me, she will be expecting a call from you)...and when next you see her in church just say "HI" and don't act like something happened...#take this advice and find yourself being a "god" in the game

This doesn't always work, if a guy takes my no doesn't call me within the first three days, he just becomes history to me.

If any man wants to fight because of me feel free but as for me i cant fight because of a man.

lahami: Also heard hallmark at sapele rd is receiving cv.any interested can drop by.

Hallmark is not accepting CVs . But you can go submit and they will just dump them at the Secretary's office.

kixo: The highest score in Edo north was 46 and the highest score in Edo central was 42. The names were arranged according to the highest to the least....

what was the highest score in Edo South

no he didn't.

Elkristo: and if he responds afta u must hav given up?

his response would no longer matter.

not every guy knows how to recognize green lights o. When i am giving a guy green lights i try to catch his attention, I try to make eye contact, i always dress to impress wen i kno there is a possibility of seeing him that day. one tym i even went as far as borrowing his bulletin in church and if he still doesn't respond. i give up

[quote author=Eyop]Your girlfriend(not even wife sef) didn't do well at all. She met your sister already occupying the front seat,she would have respected herself by moving to the back seat. If both weren't in the car in the 1st place,then courtesy demands that your sister gives her that respect by going to the back seat. Timileyin,a girl you aren't married to yet is giving orders like this and you couldn't address the situation by doing the needful Your girl friend is the case here and not your sister.[/quote
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Leetunechi: are you takin him serious ?

Didn't know he was just kidding.

you should have told her abt ur feelings b4 now. i think u should still tell her abt it, she might also have feelings for you. just tell her in a reasonable way.

good story teller, OP abeg come finish wetin u start here.

who is this Groom more attracted to, his beautiful bride or Tiwa?

sss just messed up o, imagine i just got home now becos we started our exam in edo by 8pm and finished some minutes to 10.pm.

Boko Haram's leader Abubakar Shekau has announced the creation of an Islamic Caliphate of Gwoza in Borno state. According to this man, Gwoza is no longer a part of Nigeria. Naija which way forward?

#Team Edo tomorrow is the main day, pray we are successful.

Interesting story

OP you need to start thinking straight, except u don't mind sharing your wife with other men, don't marry her.

In Benin my parish priest deliberately omitted d give each other a hand of peace and dis resulted in confusion among the parishoners. they still exchanged handshakes though with almost everyone laughing. Ebola scare is so real

i also got a call this morning telling me to use salt to bathe , better to try it than to be sorry sha.

See as God is Blessing this Blessing o. Go girl its ur time to shine.

egopersonified: 1. He feels fulfilled(rest of mind) , that a part of his life is secured.
2. Wife cooks three square meals, while he probably used to cook only in the evenings or weekends. (take note; normally u eat more quantity of food and more often at home than when u eat out).
3. Little or no chores anymore.
4. Has someone who keeps him company, so tendency of sitting back and relaxing is increased.
5. Where the wife contributes to the home, less responsibility for him.

See how important a woman is in the life of a man, she has to do all this things for him. Thumbs up to all the women in the house.

lonngmann: lolz. .is dis an excuse ppl tell themselves for been short

Being short is not a crime, be u tall or short i think u are just unique the way u are.