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Babe follow your heart. If you guys are cool with each other go ahead. Who knows the break up was so you both can appreciate each other. Because your friend dated him then you can't? Love has no barrier.

End time prophets!!!!! Their doom is near. All those saying prophecy can be thwarted are you alright? A thwarted prophecy is definitely not from the almighty God and his words never go unfulfilled. Read isaiah 55: 10 & 11. People go to church but don't know what their bible says.

fbtowner:
Lord have mercy

then I ask myself what crime have these ppl committed to deserve this kind of death


I feel God doesn't interact with man anymore. We just need to fight for ourselves so the human generation won't go into extinction.

Which way my ppl

. the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one- satan, besides time and unforseen occurrence befalls men- 1 john 5:19

Am sorry to say but I have debunked the idea of a right time. From my experience there is nothing like a right time just the right person. The moment the person is right you both from within won't see why you should keep wasting time legalising your union, you don't need all the money on earth, so ladies be sure you and ur guy are on the same page otherwise don't wait, he will simply kill your dreams of getting married. When a woman is right for a guy he doesn't waste time to get it done.

deeptesting:
Marriage does not cure loneliness, if that is the only reason for getting married then take a chill Pepsi big bottle and relax because many are married and still lonely.. Secondly, what people say or think about you at 37 should not be your business, neither should it force you to get married... Bro i simply want you marry because you understand the purpose of the contract called marriage.. "Solitude is a gift".

you are very much on point bro but I want to add a word or two.

OP has a valid point too. I got married at 38. I understand the feeling. But I blame myself. The problem most of us have is we sometimes miss the right person at the right age. No particular person is a destined right person. The moment you see certain qualities that make that individual right. But we always feel we can get someone better in the end though we may actually settle for less( regarding marrying a Very gorgeous and beautiful lady for guys and a wealthy and handsome guy for ladies).
Money and beauty isn't a guarantee for peace of mind. I can say my wife may not be as pretty as the ladies I dated but she remains my best because am with the best team mate and partner, someone that has my back, ready to build with me.
If you find a good person in time marry early, it has more benefits.

Some ladies were actually their own curse!! Knowing a lady is bound by time and yet they become extremely selective and lacking manners at the same time. In the end though everyone will carry his load. We have all wasted opportunities some may never be made up for. So be wise.

When I read responses like this it becomes clear such persons never embraced the four walls of the university, going by the 7 months spent by this administration out of their possible 48 months that's a meagre 15% or less time used. I have seen people make a 2.1 or second class upper even when their first and second year performances had been woeful. Anyone coming up with conclusions like this at 7 months needs to have their brains checked, the entire year 2018 is enough to turn things around if appropriate groundwork had been laid. Harsh critisms can be accepted from mid 2017. Anyone complaining now should go and join bob marley and the wailers band!!!!! Am non partisan, am simply a realist.

@ OP,

Nice write up, but why should one be leaving a fake life!!!! now I see why many marriages crumble!!! people don't just tell themselves the truth. if he cant handle you pooing then sorry for you.

Dreambeat:
Ofcourse you will not hear because he is a snake.Who do you think sponsored some of those Ojota dancing parties in the name of protest just to discredit the previous administration.Tinubu and his likes are very deceptive,the more you look,the less you see.

my brother the previous administration discredited itself, when you fall your enemy will simply pounce. have you seen a lion kill a standing giraffe?

funny responses, that was how they said yara dua wasn't dead until he finally died, whenever rumours of death comes echoing, it means death is actually and may be almost inevitable, I wish you speedy recovery madam.

the comments here sometimes shows the hatred that exists in this country. winning a guerilla warfare like this isn't easy, go and ask the US what happened in Iraq and Afghanistan.

people come here and talk crap, yes PMB is old but the last time I checked the candidates who contested the last presidential election he was the best, if anyone could do better why didn't they come out, for some one to oust an incumbent administration should tell any dickhead the power of his candidacy, all you guys should just shut up, talk is cheap, am not happy when I hear of such deaths and am sure no one is.

may be I should say you are your problem, and the solution lies with you, I find it difficult to believe that we cant find a solution to our problems on our own if the problem is known.

I was once in your shoes, always falling in the hands of ladies who end up just for my money just because am not tightfisted and i believe anything am told because i just wonder sometimes why would someone tell a lie , but my problem was i love very hot and classy babes , and i got it really hot.

your solution:: when you say you like guys that are cool, i guess you mean handsome? if it is, then try settling for average guys. when a guy is cool you need to understand that NO BE ONLY YOU GET EYES TO SEE GOOD THING!!!! other girls do as well, if you are as cool as you think an average looking guy will take you serious if you have a decent personality, then try not to commit your emotions too fast, you could start out just as friends to see if he is someone you can cope with and if he is willing to sacrifice for you and not just one selfish animal.

i hope these few lines help

Gbawe:
Abi OOO. The "foolish woman" does not know it is always the defence of you ethnic affiliate before anything else. Nonsense and Iranu !!!!

your generation is finished. I can see its you that is the obvious fool. when GEJ was president how did it increase the number of meat in your stew? I am ashamed of you.

lordthree:
wasn't her time to die.. Maybe if she went with them they Wouldn't have died

are you kidding me? go climb the 12th floor of bar beach tower and drop from there lets see when its your time or not.

Glamourv:
They were drunk,when dere where coming back 4rm bar,dere wanted 2 celebrate one of dem whose dad bought her a new car,

if your statement is true then I guess the problems we are having in our society today is from our parents. very poor parental upbringing.you sent a child to school and you giving them a car in naija? don't get me wrong you can still read your books while having a car but most times these youngsters get carried away because they simply lack the maturity to handle it, besides they will very easily find themselves in the midst of wrong friends. very cheap way to die I will.

naaaa count me out. am not moved by it one bit, unless I can use it to get a loan from a bank period.

even if the car was hired for a day they will still fall. when I see such folks all I say in my mind, another cheap bleeping.

OZAOEKPE:
"your money". Quote me anywhere

you are wrong my dear, if she doesn't love you she will stick with you because of your money but will be screwing a poorer dude, take it or remain in a fools paradise.

madridguy:
EFCC should face their primary assignment by arresting and prosecuting our politician. This is the problem of we Africa, we like taking panadol for someone else headache. When last did FBI, Interpol or any of their yeye agency paraded any White for their crime on Africa soil. Millions of Barrel of crude oil continuing to leave our shore to their land, Trillions of stolen money in their various bank and yet they are doing nothing and when they claimed they are helping they will release 1 out of 10. Abacha loot is a clear example. I am not supporting SCAM but Oyinbo are not saint too.

what is your point? let the stealing continue? right , and some idiots are liking your trash.

deadZONE:

He did well..
Better than buhari that couldnt visit the scene
of the bomb blast in Abuja.....


I never wanted to make FTC
Now i would look like a jobless guy*

wnich is better ? visiting the bomb blast scene or visiting the victims in the hospital? next me before you type think. and some wailers were clicking like because their brain is stupidity customised

gboss4sure:
So you are admitting that the change mantra was a scam?

You are supporting buhari just because of tinibus interest?


Heheheh, small small una go de confess

how many of them ? only one.

begging Nigerians to pray for you? when Nigerians were begging you not to take what doesn't belong to you, did you listen? those statements of plea doesn't have a conscience, your actions led so many unaccounted persons to their early graves. don't beg Nigerians , beg God for forgiveness because when you're declared guilty you shall be jail bound. nothing in life stays the same.

looking at that guys(kolawole) eyes I can perceive this battle hasn't ended, if I were him I will walk away and throw the bitch out to her parents, now you have deformed yourself, the bitch will still keep bleeping, I don't know why people cant just come out and tell some one its over when they know they cant continue, we will have less issues like this, marriage isn't by force.

gassdon:
Amaechi, & Fashola are Nigeria Premier coded thiefs.

Principal financiers of PMB election.

Rigging lords!

kindly tell us who isn't a coded thief? if you cant I would rather you delete your earlier comment.

even to lie aint easy. false story.

I still don't understand the grieviances of rivers people for amaechi ? he was miles ahead of odili regarding performance, so I don't get it

Hannysmilez:
The best managers often may not be the appropriate ones,it's not about being the best. It's more about being 'the one'. If it costs the managers so much,why don't they leave instead of condemning the person?

true to that.

Hannysmilez:
How do you know she treats him like poo? I can bet my left hand that if the lady in question opens a thread,she is also going to tell us her man is selfish and blah blah and we would tell her he does'nt deserve her and rain insults on him.
One man's meat is another's poison. Maybe she is just opinionated and bossy or independent,we never can tell but I can assure you that there's a man out there who is looking for a woman just like her(it could be you). As someone said 'the problem is not the problem. The problem is your reaction to the problem.' She is not 'flawed', she just is different. The OP cannot handle her 'selfishness' does'nt mean he has to condemn her now. He should just find the one he can manage. Afterall,there are plenty other girls out there,he should stop bringing himself down.

are you aware some persons cant be managed, or will cost the best managers so much to have them in a relationship?

bro let me help you out on this, I have been on that part before, you may take my advice or not, simple fact is she doesn't love you enough, she feels she is more than you , I guess she has something that gets into her head may be she is very pretty or something, I once dated a chic like that, because she was always complimented on her beauty she felt she was doing me a favor dating me, her personality was crap, I endured shit to keep the relationship, she appreciates nothing, today she is almost 36 and still single, some ladies will never learn. if you continue I can bet you will die before your ideal time, if I hadn't dated her I would have been better of today, beware some people are destiny killers, I was saved somehow, you better learn from my experience or you die on yours.

Eluwilussit:
Serves the f.oolish youths very well. Some of us who witnessed the first coming of PMB as teenagers, warned the idiotic youths but they wouldn't listen. Analogue president gotta work with analogue ministers of course. Did anybody expect anything else?

why not shut up and wait till 2019? if you had warned people about GEJ in 2011 we wont be here today.

NextGovernor:
Analog ministers in Digital era. lol

so who were the digital ministers? deizani Alison madueke, right? your statement stinks. you say baba doesn't have certificate yet ur ogogoro drinking PHD brother was worse than him.

believe it or not bokoharam will be defeated.

DedeNkem:
Religion is a joke.

what is religion? its what you believe. that's what they believed.