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@ obagermo,

next time you upload such pic i will move  a motion for a ban.

what ailment were you treating when you took that pic? HND or what?

jkpretty:
Saying i won't marry, someone that is not my dream man does not mean i'm creating some image from fantasy island. My dream man is realizable. I did not ask God for too much. (Dint he even say ask & u shall be given) That many people did not marry the men of their dreams does not make them me or me them. Ama make this dream realizable because its not far fetched. Its not going to remain as surreal, it'll come out life & well achieved

AMEN

waterworks:
kaiiii but that boy fine sha!!!!!!!!!!

whats with this fine boy thing sef?
are they scared of the kind of children they will have?

dont our young girls of today(tomorrows mothers) want to be called something like:the mother of the ex president, ex- this and ex- that.

that is why in my opinion heart break will linger forever.

men should marry the women they love , while women should marry men that love them.

a womans love shouldnt be more, at worst

adeboo:
Someone that loves me and one that i love.

Dear nairalanders,

fraud will never be condoned, even in it least form.


The name above uses the bank account number below  to swindle people off their cash ($40 or less)N6000.

UBA Account Number:04610520000112

He also uses the mobile number:08038772364.

please be warned.  YOU TRANSANCT WITH THE ABOVE NAMED INDIVIDUAL AT YOUR PERIL

jkpretty:
If he's not my dream man

i appreciate the topic, the different posts, but something about life is less than 5% of married couples married their dream mates. A research was carried out. do i say the result is the high divorce rates, well i dont know.

what have i got to say : YOU CANT HAVE IT ALL, at a stage you have to blend,  rather than do the blending.

candies:
@ zheroes,
I feel you, but I just won't change my mind about these things.
I hear some big guys out there made 3rd class in school, if he made a 3rd class and gets a second degree like Wole Soyinka did and he excels, then, the 3rd class is no longer his only degree. I could make excuses for him.
But if that is all he has to offer, sorry, i just won't marry him, rich or poor.

if you see me , you will change your mind

candies:
Tell me though, why won't you marry her?

if i dont feel attracted to you, if we dont blend or if the problem i can see has no remedy, otherwise am all with you

candies:
There have been a lot of posts on things we love about men and other such posts. I think things we like will make us marry them, but this is just the opposite.

There are a few other things I don't like, but these ones above are things I can't stand! I won't marry him, trust me, no matter what other likes of mine he posesses.

Tell me though, why won't you marry her?

Besides, when I said Bill Gates, I was talking money!

i understand you better now, but do you know what candies, life has got its natural limitations, i wont advise anyone to add artificial barriers, do you get.

if you tell me muslim, i will hear you out cos its on religious ground. what if the guy was younger actually but his attitude and reasonaing is very matured and manly? you will most likely consent.

what if he never told you he made a 3rd class and he is so comfortable that he can sponsor your siblings overseas for their undergraduate programmes? you will most likely consent.

i get you point, but i guess some excuses can be made up for.

candies:
I read a post yesterday where a guy said he was dumped by his girlfriend because he's an HND holder.

I guess there are some reasons we've sworn never to marry a guy for.

For me, I can't marry a guy who made 3rd class in school
A guy who is younger than me
A muslim

If a guy has these 3 qualities, trust me, even if he's as rich as bill gates or as handsome and sexy as George Cloony, I still won't marry him.
Comon people, tell me why you won't marry him/her?

you havent told us what you like in a guy that will make you marry him, obviously, when there a mixture of the likes and your dislikes , sista you will consent. na today.

myopic people.

te[b]ll me who bill gate is[/b]?

brownbonno:
If the Holy Bible is the only point of reference that means 99% of Nigerians will never go to heaven.What then happen to rest of our muslim,jews etc.
Please wake up

hi, am on now

kingsikaz:
CAN YOU MARRY MAN WITH A BALD HEAD?

is it a barrier? i don't think so, there are lots of likeable baldheaded guys i know.


your not being bald, is it your doing?

brownbonno:
@Zheroes

Thanks for your input on this thread,its really straight from the heart.
But i have a question on franchising, we are trying to arrange a lease with an independent marketer for a 2 years term in Delta state.What is your advise.

Sorry for staying abit long, had problems with my connection.
there is nothing wrong about it but it depends on the agreement , dont know how convenient it would be to talk on yahoo messenger, my email is on my profile, i guess the communication will be faster but if you want me to go ahead i may not be abe to respond adequately

court wedding: accepted by GOD. it protects in a legal sense.
traditional wedding: accepted by GOD: its the tradition of the land where you are from or whatever.
church wedding: accepted by GOD. You will all agree with this.

if i say all 3 are accepted why the conflict:

because in nigeria or do i say in africa or whatever most people get married three times unknown to them.

in the days of our fathers were there church weddings ? i guess no, except on rare occasions. why were they cohabiting and bringing forth kids? because it was moral.

ANY ONE OF THE ABOVE WEDDINGS CAN STAND ON ITS OWN WITHOUT THE NEED FOR THE OTHER, THE PROBLEM IS WE ASSOCIATE THE CHURCH WITH GOD'S BLESSING AND PURITY.

IF YOU START SLEEPING WITH YOUR WIFE AFTER THE TRADITIONAL, THEN FORGET ABOUT THE CHURCH, BECAUSE WHEN YOU GO TO THE CHURCH YOU WILL START TAKING YOUR MARITAL VOWS AFRESH.

when will guys learn?

[quote author=edu_austin link=topic=104686.msg1845182#msg1845182 date=1200149246]@Zheroes, from d post before your last one, u did mention quote in bracket, [ guess those are just the basic differences, but you have an edge if you can build a second filling station, all you do is one for independent, the other for the major, your generation may hardly beg for bread.] are u sayin that he can as a major marketer, sell some of his products to his other filling station which was opened as an independent marketer and make more cash? If he's got the cash to open two filling stations,[/quote]yes thats exactly what i mean, you can send some to your independent station and sell at a higher price, although thats without the knowledge of the major marketer you are into dealership with infact at a stage they should be happy because you are helping to exhaust their quota with NNPC.

Dosman:
Please can anybody try to epain the importance of front seat in a car as I am very surprised to see people throwing out to this topic?

1. when you where younger(2-8yrs) , what did you do when dad kept you behind? you stood at the back so you could see what was happening in front and probably so you could be seen.
2. try driving a car or your car from the back seat, i guess it gives a clue of the importance of front seat.

its should be down always, the ceramic body is always too cold to sit on so the plastic should be down, guys should squat like the females when they want to pee so they don't mess up the seat.    

wanaj0:
It is not a profitable venture except you are into supply of diesel. margins are fixed and small. Imagine running on generator and being made to sell at ridiculous price?

to an extent you may be right, if its in area around abuja, i will insist on good location otherwise you may fold up because the eyes of the nation is on you, you sell above regulated price you get sealed

FemiATL:
@ Zheroes You mentioned
Is there a difference in being a dealer with the major marketer and also being an independent marketer? What are the pros and cons of being an independent vs being a dealer with a major?

yes there are.
advantages of independent marketer.
As the name implies, you are independent, in a deregulated economy like ours you peg your price to maximize profits, you can purchase from anywhere and sell at any price.
you get the products at cheaper vrate compared to the major dealers.
you need lesser capital compared to the major dealers because of the quantity the NNPC will allocate to you at the end of the month.
disadvantage
the major disadvantage is the quantity you load from the NNPC is so minimal, that is why you see independent marketers wanting to have a kill from any product they are able to load from the depot, sometimes you may not load for a whole month, i know of independent marketers in port harcourt depot that loaded only 4 trucks of petrol the whole of last year, because  the depot is so unsanitised.

advantage([/b]major)
you can load as much as you can sell, infact you can load up to 15 - 20 trucks ( 450,000litres- 600,000litres) of petrol a month, that was why i said you will need up to N10M-12M for product purchase,they are more dependable because they are regularly loaded with products so your customers can bank on you. less profit oriented compared to independent marketers.

[b]disadvantages
you are overly regulated by the company you are into dealership with, because you are selling with their name and logo so they try to protect themselves, you buy at a higher price compared to independent marketers, infact the difference may be up to N250,000.00 for every truck purchased, but you tend to make up since you have more products to sell that is why i always insist on  LOCATION, I don't mind spending N30million to purchase the land in a good location, i bet you in less than 2 years you will make it up. you are also made to sell the lubricants of the company you are into dealership with, and they will insist on selling at the government regulated price.

i guess those are just the basic differences, but you have an  edge if you can build a second filling station, all you do is one for independent, the other for the major, your generation may hardly beg for bread.

@ciaralover,
look for

Muscle
Must be a Christian
Money
Mature
Clean
Independent
SEXY and CUTE
Loving
Kind
Ghetto
Have Tatto
Have goals in life.

you want to kill somebody? all from one guy?all that will go for 3 girls

i love the responses from the ladies.

the part that interest me most is you never get it all in a single guy.

may be they will need to arrange it in order of preference.

@ poster,
please i would suggest you reveal less informations here, you know we are in "space", let it not be the date am having this weekend is your babe oo. well just keep on moving forward until SOMETHING STOPS YOU. such is life.

@ poster,

i didnt read your previous post when she told you of another toaster, that she needs fresh air, please give her winter

guy, what if you didnt go beyond secondary? or what if you didnt have a job?

let me tell you poster: someone , somewhere is asking her out and she very likely prefers that guy, dont feel bad, its a phase in life. you have a job, babe no suppose be your problem, even most guys without jobs these days no longer see it as a problem, atleast you can better channel your resources for positive use.

WONDERFUL EXCUSE

felixweah:
Guy, it will cost you nothing less than 50 million.

Guy, it wont cost you more than 50million