₦airaland Forum

CondenseMilk:
I feed on condensed milk, do you need one chilled bottle?

gimme one crate abegi! I be bigman!

CondenseMilk:
No be Lagos again

Fake life everywhere!

How much do you spend on food everyday?

They all were mocking her in this video. Now we are all paying more for food. Na wa o




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5hmweKq70o

Meerahbel:
Yes you really should mind your business.
To be honest, nothing said or done here will prevent the next prostitute prom prostituting him/herself, in fact societies, man himself, evolved with prostitution the practice I believe is recorded even biblical times and it’s not going away now. Your fuss though, again it’s not your problem /concern. I don't care what other people do, I just hope they use contraception and avoid diseases.

na my business. Because na the selection pool of future wives dey do ashawo now.

so i suppose talk

Dimaya:
The problem with this your assessment is that there have always been prostitutes since the beginning of Nigeria. So you can't say it is because of hardship that girls are into hookups.

Simply put, the barriers to sex work have been removed. There's mobile dating/hookup apps, mobile transport apps, Airbnb and mobile money. These have all eliminated the friction in booking sexual experiences- it is easier for a female student today to meet clients who want hookups than in the past.

That's what's driving the rise.

i dont agree.

With the current financial difficulties in Nigeria, everyone is struggling to make ends meet. This is affecting the dating pool as now more girls are being lured into hookup out of survival.

The Young men on the podcast discuss the dilemma they face with selecting a good girl from the current shark-infested dating pools filled with hookup girls and single moms

So, nairalanders- over to you. Are you faced with a similar dilemma? Why?

And if you're married, how would you advice the young men to proceed?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc

dem no get chill at all o.

DImaya. that's why you need to clarify stuffs. that caption is too sensational. Before you know it, you go hear say LASU students don begin burn tyres for street. Na like this e dey start o.

I suggest you change the caption of the video. something like LASU student cooked inside podcast session.

You can't stop a woman from
Flushing a baby,the same way she can't stop you from masturbating.

You also posted this in the romance section under a different title.

Dimaya:
In another video that is going viral, a man is lamenting that his girlfriend will never find another lover like him because she decided to abort their baby against his wishes. She said since she was still awaiting university admission, she wasn't ready to be a mother

In response, he thinks it's a great thing to have kids early so that by the time they're in their late-thirties, the children are grown.

Please watch and let him know: is there anything a man can do to prevent a woman from aborting his pregnancy against the man's consent?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8fSDYJove2Y


Nlfpmod

Odogwu! How many naija women you sabi wey neva flush belle?

I dey follow some poly chicala talk. Na almost evri don commot belle. Na nothing naw.

Some girls dey use am do contraceptive

No stress yasef on top woman Maya.

Girl wey all of us dey enjoy. E reach your turn, you come give am belle

With the ongoing subsidy removal, most families are having to find ways to make ends meet.

In this viral video, the speakers analyze how an increase in the woman's earnings places extra stress on the men. The boss babe disagreed and got destroyed with hard facts. DO you agree? What has been your experience? Are you placed under stress if your wife out-earns you? Does your husband feel stressed because you out-earn him? How do you manage the stresses that money imbalance brings?

Please watch the video and let us know your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

With the ongoing subsidy removal, most families are having to find ways to make ends meet.

In this viral video, the speakers analyze how an increase in the woman's earnings places extra stress on the men. The boss babe disagreed and got destroyed with hard facts. DO you agree? What has been your experience? Are you placed under stress if your wife out-earns you? Does your husband feel stressed because you out-earn him? How do you manage the stresses that money imbalance brings?

Please watch the video and let us know your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bq2Gbeb9qjY

Dimaya:
She was just young and naive. She should just move on and take the learning. She should stop blaming herself. That's the cross we as human have to bear especially women. Pray for divine intervention in marital affairs. Parents should also pray for the girl child after doing their best in upbringing
Shalom

99% of women only realizes that they were actually the problem in a relationship after break up, while in there they won't accept or realize it.

If you like call the whole community to talk to her, instead of owning up to her mistakes she will use manipulative emotions to curry pity to her side

All these Men-are-Scum feminists are actually the scum in any relationship, they hardly learn!

Okafor’s law is always paramount tho..
Infact, it’s very much alive here. The lady is wanting some d of that ex as we speak..

Dimaya:
Women are programmed to believe there is someone better out there for them.

What happened was a normal situation and it happened to many, first of all she was young and I bet the marriage would have crashed if the had gone ahead because the feeling of being chocked would have been there, and she would have continue to look for freedom to experience something different. Secondly, she is only regretting because she has experience the other side , if she has not experience the other side, her decision then would have been the best in her mind till now.

Zigzagman:
make i no talk

She's obviously still fukin different dicks and monitoring the poor guy's life. What a pity

Dimaya:
Lmao your breakfast was hot ehn? This is just all talk for now when you move on you will go right back to your old ways.

There is a reason billionaires and millionaires go for pretty women. How a man’s woman look is a direct reflection on the man. That is why rich men like to take their pretty wives/gfs to lavish parties etc automatically there’s this level of respect that come with been seen with a pretty woman.

make i no talk

Dimaya:
Dem don serve u breakfast, move on to dinner

After my last experience in relationship, I will, don't go for looks or body features, you will end up regretting it...

When dem dey rush you market, if you get Sense sell am, make He no go be say customer go finish you go come dey regret why you no take some deals.

Dimaya:
This generation sha undecided

Kids
Don't worry she'll calm down.

What did she expect. The man is from benue state.

The relationship was even long distance.

who engages in a long distance relationship with someone living in benue state?

Dimaya:
I have always said that women are not designed to take care of men financially

and when did she realise he was lazy?

just be direct.

if the guy has no plans, him go vamooose immediately

Persephone1:
There is a simple rule in relationships people tend to overlook it is: If you still want to make decisions on your life independently then be alone. The moment you are entangled, you consider the other person in your decisions.

Very silent and simple rule people find difficult to acknowledge.

this is hard to follow in nigeria. women are not designed to understand a man's problem. All men who try to carry their wives along, it always ends in tears

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

Baba, listen to this guy's story and you will figure out what to do. He was exactly in your situation. Thank me later


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sryz0jjIXlU

In this interesting video, a young man quit his high-paying job and followed his passion. How his girlfriend reacted will surprise you.

Did she do the right thing? Would you act in a similar manner?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sryz0jjIXlU

Persephone1:
I don't know about Instagram but must female tiktok users I follow are either into sales, skit makers, arts, interior deco, dance and only random shake yansh. They really don't focus on men do this, men should do that, men are this, men are that. . They have lives.
No, it is the only writing forum that discusses women like petrol price.

Romance discourse should be mutual nah

why don't you open a post on what men must do?

Dimaya, I have already copied this to the romance section

Persephone1:
I don't know about Instagram but must female tiktok users I follow are either into sales, skit makers, arts, interior deco, dance and only random shake yansh. They really don't focus on men do this, men should do that, men are this, men are that. . They have lives.
No, it is the only writing forum that discusses women like petrol price.

Romance discourse should be mutual nah

women discuss men matter for inside hair salon. If you hear where dem begin finish man eh, you go fear fear [color=#990000][/color]

pansophist:
Is it just career women? Dating is worse for every gender. The rot affect most people equally.

But specifically on this, men love language is respect. If he perceives a woman as an ally, instead of a competitor, you can make him do anything.

Furthermore, hypergamy is a woman's best friend, and her worse enemy. If she is a high status/earning woman, then the selections of men will be fewer. Average earning woman? Then the selection of men will be many.

So it's either this women sacrifice their hypergamy for a good average man, just as men have always done by marrying low. And for men, the top always feels better because as he rises in finances, his pool of women increases.

It's no brainer that a man in his 30's for example will go for a 23 years old chick, than his colleague who are of his age range and single. Youthfulness is really important to men, not a woman's status.

The part that got to me was the pretty female banker complaining she didn't have time to find love.

In this lagos where love plenty berekete


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lT62gdKcI0c

It's the girl at the beginning for me

great video. still watching though. These women are hilarious