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Romance › Re: Name Your Favourite Nairalander Members ? Share Your Own. by Zither(m): 12:48am On Oct 25, 2020

Magnoliaa
Airsaylongcom
Ishilove
Sambarry
Explorers
Ayoswit

my favourites because they are affable treasure boxes of maturity. Could say more but that should suffice.

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Science/Technology › Re: Mutant, One-Eyed Albino Baby Shark Found In Indonesia (Pictures) by Zither(m): 10:32pm On Oct 15, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
To slap that Shark dey hungry me

go slap im papa

Romance › Re: Why You Can't Beat A Woman Into Submission...(graphic) by Zither(m): 10:22pm On Oct 12, 2020

StacyO:
Just exercise moral authority over her.

have you met an incorrigible fellow - guy or girl? exercising moral authority on such a person is like singing to a snake to avoid being bitten.

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Crime › Re: TASUED Student Stabs His Girlfriend To Death, Runs (Graphic Pics) by Zither(m): 8:14pm On Oct 12, 2020

WoundedLamb:
I am not countering whatever you are saying. People have different reasons for sticking to one man against all odds. Heaven knows that the moment they move on, people who don't know the whole story will still say "these hoes are not loyal". But that's not an excuse for risking one's life and like I said, that could be their shortcoming and you might be right. But the fact that you chose to emphasize on the shortcomings of the women instead of the shortcomings of the abusive men on a thread like this where a woman is the victim is an action of someone who is shying away from calling out his fellow men.

It wouldn't hurt if you spared a line to tell men to stop abusing their partners. Just a line out of the two paragraphs you used to talk about women and their shortcomings. We can't always be correcting women for both thier actions and the actions of men. Each time a man misbehaves, the woman is reconfigured to adapt. It is time to talk to men. Tell them to appreciate women who stick by them. Just a few days ago, a thread was created about a woman that killed her man and everyone was about how women are wicked and can't control thier emotions. Nobody blamed the cheating man cause cheating doesn't justify murder. A thread was even created on how women should warmly correct cheating husbands. Now, a man has done something similar and we are still on what women should do or not do. Nobody is calling out men. At best, we see comments like "this world is turning into something else". Men are not computers, let's hold them accountable too.

I did not mention or condemn the man and that makes me a misogynist? Where did I condemn the lady? I highlighted the passage in the report which prompted my address to the women folk? Please, next time, read and re-read before you make hasty conclusions.

Crime › Re: TASUED Student Stabs His Girlfriend To Death, Runs (Graphic Pics) by Zither(m): 4:14pm On Oct 12, 2020

WoundedLamb:
Can you imagine how you guys reason in Nigeria. When girls commit crime, you shout "fear women!", "olosho", etc.. When men commit crime, you still find a way to blame the women. Why did she fall for the guy.... this is what came to your misogynistic mind after reading this terrible news? Not even a word against the living criminal but you'd rather blame the dead victim. You think sexism makes you any more manly and confident as a man? Did you know her before now? Do you know about her love life and whom she has turned down before? Did you woo her and she turned you down? Being a woman basher doesn't mean you should be illogical. Your comment reeks of insensitivity.

Oga, you are barking at the wrong tree. Misogyny, blame, sexism, woman basher, illogical, and insensitivity...these epithets and misplaced verbs are products of your half-understanding of my comment.

According to Online Sources Who Notify News Crew, The Deceased, a 200-level student of the same institution, had been in a toxic on-and-off relationship with the suspect and her father, who is a lecturer in the same school, was aware.

On Sunday, October 11, Bukky was allegedly invited by Johnson to settle their differences. She went to his house in Abapawa, Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State, and he beat her up and stabbed her, leaving her for dead[/b], Reports.

My statement was borne from the above lines of report in addition to the Lilfrosh saga as well as my personal experience where I witnessed something similar to this. The girl in my experience was lucky to be alive but the guy beat her up the way a power drunk soldier beats up a defenseless civilian. I was dumbfounded when days they were seen cuddling each other. A saner human would have given the bloke a long distance. Don't be surprised to find Lilfrosh and his girlfriend are back together despite his abusive tendencies. Rihanna suffered the same predicament in the hands of Chris Brown but was not willing to let go of him till she discovered he was set in his violent ways as a result of which she broke up with him for for good. Oga, I won't school you on the ways of the opposite sex. Go and do your research.

Who do you think is happy with what most ladies go through in the hands of abusive men? Violence should be condemned but my post was addressed to the general women folk who choose to endure abusive relationships till they become unrecognizably battered or, worse, turned to corpses. Read between the lines before you start off on a wrong trail of admonishing.

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Crime › Re: TASUED Student Stabs His Girlfriend To Death, Runs (Graphic Pics) by Zither(m): 1:34pm On Oct 12, 2020

@ topic

her death was easily avoidable. why do girls shun good guys and stick with guys who disrespect them, guys who physically and emotionally abuse them? this is so bothersome.

the long trail of dead bodies owing to this aberration of selection has done nothing to stem the tide of female corpses that keep littering the long passage of our history.

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Crime › Re: TASUED Student Stabs His Girlfriend To Death, Runs (Graphic Pics) by Zither(m): 1:25pm On Oct 12, 2020

Kestolove:
Okoro with hurt temper..

tribal bigotry is a senseless disease that eats its host like worms feed on a corpse.

besides, it should be written "hot," not "hurt"

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Romance › Re: Why You Can't Beat A Woman Into Submission...(graphic) by Zither(m): 1:06pm On Oct 12, 2020

real women do not slap or beat men...only beasts do. You can't physically abuse somebody and not expected to be treated in the same coin. men who beat women are beasts as well. it goes both ways.

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Romance › Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Zither(m): 10:21am On Oct 12, 2020*

Sixfeetbelle:
If you'd be kind enough to peruse through this thread from page 1 to 3 at least, I'm sure you'd see evidence of the point I was trying to pass across to you about men and beauty.

At least 80% of men will lose out on a woman because of lack of beauty. Most won't even bother being friends with her to start with. It's that bad. And if he rejects a lady for being ugly, how else can he discover her innate qualities?

I need a convincing reply.

Cc: Zither

Very true. Most outlined their specs that should precede acceptance and almost 100% of them did not fail to include beauty as a qualification. Truth is it can't be helped. It is the same for the female gender. They, too, are easily attracted to a guy's looks or appearance. His pocket takes consideration only after his looks. I bet the girl who woos a guy does so because he is good looking.

Yes, guys miss out on very productive relationships with the opposite sex owing to the absurd standards they set for the opposite sex to meet. Absurd because they who set the standards are also wanting. This is one reason many ladies would rather die in silence than approach a guy. They feel inadequate, that they don't measure up, and they expect to be rejected. They, too, miss out and may end up with someone far less than what they actually desired.

A beautiful garden may have pretty flowers but that is where it ends...on the surface, and only gives one an aesthetic appeal. A less attractive plot of land may have tons of gold buried beneath its surface and makes the owner a wealthy person.

It takes only wisdom to look beyond beauty to what lies beneath. Fact is we are all looking in the wrong place for value....it is skin deep.

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Romance › Re: Men!...what Are Your Biggest TURN OFF In A Woman? by Zither(m): 6:56pm On Oct 10, 2020

padi94:
Simp Alert!

This won't get you any Nairaland Vagina, they will still hand it over to the one that hv money

This post is everything wrong with nairaland. Ignominious and unsolicited expression of verbal fever. Like my post was written with the intention to net the opposite sex...

Romance › Re: Men!...what Are Your Biggest TURN OFF In A Woman? by Zither(m): 6:49pm On Oct 10, 2020

StacyO:
Only comment I read so far.

These are just mere wishes.

Sadly, they are. It is quite a tall task to come by someone who meets some of the qualities listed above... someone with all is just pushing my luck. I have cast my coin into my wishing well.

Romance › Re: Men!...what Are Your Biggest TURN OFF In A Woman? by Zither(m): 6:40pm On Oct 10, 2020

Sixfeetbelle:
Inasmuch as you tried to be unconcerned about physical attributes when listing the qualities you want in a lady, we all know physical beauty attracts a man first, and most times determines if he stays to discover the rest of you. The innate qualities you mentioned, as agreed, determines if he abides with you AKA marriage, so unless you're comfortably okay with marrying an intelligent baboon, I'd say your list up there looks like a complete hogwash.

No offence.

Men are, by design, creatures of sight. We are moved first by what we see. This is a nod in agreement with your statement I have modified in bold ink.

However, without a doubt, there are always exceptions to the rule. When you discover that many times beauty is only a cosmetic source of attraction which is a fragile shell housing a body of intolerable qualities you will willy-nilly redefine your specs as regards the opposite sex.

Have you not seen the spouses of famous Nigerian actors? Why do they usually end up with women far less physically attractive than the prettier ladies they get to work with or interact with? Are the excused when they marry "intelligent baboon" because they are famous?

No offence

none taken

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Celebrities › Re: EndSARS Protesters Dare Policemen To Open Their Gates In Benin City. by Zither(m): 6:18pm On Oct 10, 2020

Oxtonguy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2ggLBvwXGA

Romance › Re: Men!...what Are Your Biggest TURN OFF In A Woman? by Zither(m): 6:49pm On Oct 09, 2020

I'd rather say the qualities a lady possesses that easily get my attention:

she is supportive even when all looks bleak

she is down-to-earth and unpretentious

she has flaws but works on them

she is intelligent. This is why I am a sapiosexual

she helps me to become a better version of myself

she doesn't fritter away her time on non-productive activities such as bbn, bba, telemundo, community gossip and the likes as some ladies have made them their favourite pastime

she is creative in conversation, problem solving, communication, as well as in her chosen field of vocation

she has vision and purpose she pursues diligently

she is supportive

physical qualities like beauty, fashion, hairdo and the likes are important but secondary to her innate qualities as a lady. yeah I began and ended it with the lady being supportive. That alone makes a woman overly dear to her spouse. can't overemphasize this. in this list also lies my biggest turn-offs in a lady.

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Investment › Re: MBA Investors Forum by Zither(m): 10:07pm On Oct 07, 2020

acceptbtcpay:
yen yen yen! niggas sucking his dick incase they have issues later they can quickly run to to him.FUCKING SIMPS. OUR ROI PAYS YOUR SALARY. RESPECT INVESTORS

look at this full time simpleton who is putting in overtime in retardation. if you want respect then buy it with your ROI...also buy common sense while you are at it. it will help you to stop thinking through your anus.

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Romance › Re: Chichi Eze: Lady Dies; Was Proposed To With 3 Rings In 2019 by Zither(m): 4:59pm On Oct 07, 2020

at this stage, that she was killed by unnamed friends is only at best a speculation in the absence of autopsy. nevertheless, I feel the pain of her family and friends. not easy to lose someone so dear. RIP lady.

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Investment › Re: MBA Investors Forum by Zither(m): 4:52pm On Oct 07, 2020

airsaylongcom, honestly no one will give you an iota of blame should you leave this thread so that folks can appreciate your absence if they won't appreciate your voluntary contribution here.

my second ROI landed earlier today. I will sound like a broken record by saying mba trades is the real deal.

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Family › Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Zither(m): 3:25pm On Oct 04, 2020

CHoccolaTE:
A woman should be financially independent of her husband but a man can depend on his wife for everyday cooking, childcare, market going, running the house, cleaning up even cleaning his piss from bedsheets sef..... but a wife should not expect financial support from her husband.

Wickedness no go kill Nigerian men.

you deliberately overlooked his primary concern for her which is for her to be financially independent of the man SO she can cater for herself and her children should something happen to the husband (not anyone's wish or intention). It is already a rainy day in her life and she is little prepared for it due to her financial constraints...but it is not too late to save...rain may get worse. This has nothing to do with gender role or duties in marital institutions.

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Family › Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Zither(m): 8:19am On Oct 04, 2020

Righteousness89:
Launch yourself Fully into God ...
Stand in Gap for your Home and Husband In Prayers.
At midnight call call on the GOD of Heaven
Prayers Changes things..
When He sees a New you, that Could Just be the Tonic..

Practical solution. I hope you know it is not everything you must confine to spiritual practices. You take logical, practical steps to solve a problem while backing it up with prayers. If you are hungry isn't it illogical to call God to provide food for you when you already have the resources to satisfy your need?

@Op, I think you should look up to see if there is any group for those who once were alcoholics and are living sober now so you and your husband can join them. Their experiences and interaction with him could make him see things in a much different light resulting in a positive change from his alcohol addiction.

Make a research of folks who have given up the bottle and why and how they were able to achieve that. it may help you (him).

There is something though. It is dangerous to live under the same roof with someone who is given to drink. He may commit a crime and not know till the effects of the drink have washed away much much later. Let him know you do not feel safe with his drinking habits anymore and threaten to seek separation from him if he does not desist from drinking. This is just to know his reaction... If he really loves you he will stop it gradually or at once.

Lastly, like Righteousness89 said, pray for him, for his liberation from the stronghold of drinking addiction. Always maintain positive thoughts about him. You always get what you say or imagine. Wish you all the best.

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Romance › Re: Any Other African Nationality Here On NL by Zither(m): 6:11pm On Sep 30, 2020

.............there goes another promising thread......a stillbirth.

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Romance › Re: I Have Been Getting Death Threats On My DM From Guys Here by Zither(m): 5:42pm On Sep 30, 2020

Casalindal, your credibility is already dead and buried. Why kill what is already dead? Beats me huh

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Education › Re: ASUU To Call Of Strike After Independence - FG by Zither(m): 5:08pm On Sep 30, 2020

Using misleading thread topics to attract readers is counterproductive in the long run — take note, Op. The title should express a possibility, not a certainty.

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Crime › Re: Girl Going For Morning Mass Murdered In Delta, Corpse Dumped In A Nearby Primary by Zither(m): 8:12am On Sep 28, 2020

MVLOX:
Every time you listen to news it's mostly bad news....

do you now understand why it is said that no news is good news? may her soul rest in peace and her killer(s) brought to justice - in prison or not.

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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Zither(m): 8:38pm On Sep 27, 2020

thatigboman:
Even with microphone on his mouth, ebuka couldnt hear very tiny skinny little thing, very ugly, very short, very black, very sick sickler, mentally unbalanced, visually impaired with speaking problem, dwarf in a giant's clothing, weed, eiye cultist laycoon

bros, why the hate nah?

Education › Re: Fg And ASUU Finally Reached An Agreement, To Call Off Strike In 24hrs by Zither(m): 10:41pm On Sep 24, 2020

Op, who paid you to peddle fake news? undecided

Foreign Affairs › Re: Thousands Of Birds Drop Dead From The Sky In New Mexico (Photos) by Zither(m): 10:57am On Sep 17, 2020

I suspect radiation poisoning.

Business › Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 20 by Zither(m): 5:33pm On Sep 16, 2020

Pipsbasketings:
For those of you that took this call yesterday according to the threads below: you should be on good pips by now, I',m currently on +75pips (see pix).
Reduce your SL gap to about 24pips. What that means is we have reduced our risk from 88pips to 24pips...GREAT.
I asked you to set TP, go ahead and remove it; I intend that we ride this short till it is exhausted, only God knows.

With a heart full of appreciation I want to thank you for making good your promise. Wishing you many more baskets full of pips.

Celebrities › Re: .. by Zither(m): 4:52pm On Sep 16, 2020

If death is like a huge trap lying in the furthest reach of mankind, man would still seek it out and walk into it... man has and will always be suicidal. RIP to the dead.

Romance › Re: I Dropped Out Of Uniben 5 Years Ago. Can I Go Back And Continue? by Zither(m): 8:12am On Sep 16, 2020

Wow. The same experience of a friend of mine.

It is possible only IF you applied to pause your academics. Where no time frame was stipulated in your letter to pause your academic program the maximum allowable is two years otherwise you stand the risk of forfeiting your admission.

You should begin by going to your school to make enquiries...specifically, the school's Senate. You should be guided on what to do and expect. You should make an appeal to your school's Senate to be reinstated into academic program explaining why you were away for so long. In this case, I hope your grades before you left are average at least....better if it is more than that.

Never think or say it is impossible. Don't let negativity affect your dream. I wish you best of luck.

That friend of mine, after 5 years away from school, was reinstated to continue his academic program.

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Business › Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 20 by Zither(m): 2:03pm On Sep 15, 2020

Pipsbasketings:
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Shalom

Just getting to see this. Sent a dm. Many thanks for the offer.

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