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Romance / Re: Name Your Favourite Nairalander Members ? Share Your Own. by Zither(m): 12:48am On Oct 25, 2020 |
Magnoliaa Airsaylongcom Ishilove Sambarry Explorers Ayoswit my favourites because they are affable treasure boxes of maturity. Could say more but that should suffice. 3 Likes |
Science/Technology / Re: Mutant, One-Eyed Albino Baby Shark Found In Indonesia (Pictures) by Zither(m): 10:32pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Romance / Re: Why You Can't Beat A Woman Into Submission...(graphic) by Zither(m): 10:22pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
StacyO: have you met an incorrigible fellow - guy or girl? exercising moral authority on such a person is like singing to a snake to avoid being bitten. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: TASUED Student Stabs His Girlfriend To Death, Runs (Graphic Pics) by Zither(m): 8:14pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
WoundedLamb: I did not mention or condemn the man and that makes me a misogynist? Where did I condemn the lady? I highlighted the passage in the report which prompted my address to the women folk? Please, next time, read and re-read before you make hasty conclusions. |
Crime / Re: TASUED Student Stabs His Girlfriend To Death, Runs (Graphic Pics) by Zither(m): 4:14pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
WoundedLamb: Oga, you are barking at the wrong tree. Misogyny, blame, sexism, woman basher, illogical, and insensitivity...these epithets and misplaced verbs are products of your half-understanding of my comment. According to Online Sources Who Notify News Crew, The Deceased, a 200-level student of the same institution, had been in a toxic on-and-off relationship with the suspect and her father, who is a lecturer in the same school, was aware. My statement was borne from the above lines of report in addition to the Lilfrosh saga as well as my personal experience where I witnessed something similar to this. The girl in my experience was lucky to be alive but the guy beat her up the way a power drunk soldier beats up a defenseless civilian. I was dumbfounded when days they were seen cuddling each other. A saner human would have given the bloke a long distance. Don't be surprised to find Lilfrosh and his girlfriend are back together despite his abusive tendencies. Rihanna suffered the same predicament in the hands of Chris Brown but was not willing to let go of him till she discovered he was set in his violent ways as a result of which she broke up with him for for good. Oga, I won't school you on the ways of the opposite sex. Go and do your research. Who do you think is happy with what most ladies go through in the hands of abusive men? Violence should be condemned but my post was addressed to the general women folk who choose to endure abusive relationships till they become unrecognizably battered or, worse, turned to corpses. Read between the lines before you start off on a wrong trail of admonishing. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: TASUED Student Stabs His Girlfriend To Death, Runs (Graphic Pics) by Zither(m): 1:34pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
@ topic her death was easily avoidable. why do girls shun good guys and stick with guys who disrespect them, guys who physically and emotionally abuse them? this is so bothersome. the long trail of dead bodies owing to this aberration of selection has done nothing to stem the tide of female corpses that keep littering the long passage of our history. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Crime / Re: TASUED Student Stabs His Girlfriend To Death, Runs (Graphic Pics) by Zither(m): 1:25pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Kestolove: tribal bigotry is a senseless disease that eats its host like worms feed on a corpse. besides, it should be written "hot," not "hurt" 22 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why You Can't Beat A Woman Into Submission...(graphic) by Zither(m): 1:06pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
real women do not slap or beat men...only beasts do. You can't physically abuse somebody and not expected to be treated in the same coin. men who beat women are beasts as well. it goes both ways. 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Zither(m): 10:21am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Very true. Most outlined their specs that should precede acceptance and almost 100% of them did not fail to include beauty as a qualification. Truth is it can't be helped. It is the same for the female gender. They, too, are easily attracted to a guy's looks or appearance. His pocket takes consideration only after his looks. I bet the girl who woos a guy does so because he is good looking. Yes, guys miss out on very productive relationships with the opposite sex owing to the absurd standards they set for the opposite sex to meet. Absurd because they who set the standards are also wanting. This is one reason many ladies would rather die in silence than approach a guy. They feel inadequate, that they don't measure up, and they expect to be rejected. They, too, miss out and may end up with someone far less than what they actually desired. A beautiful garden may have pretty flowers but that is where it ends...on the surface, and only gives one an aesthetic appeal. A less attractive plot of land may have tons of gold buried beneath its surface and makes the owner a wealthy person. It takes only wisdom to look beyond beauty to what lies beneath. Fact is we are all looking in the wrong place for value....it is skin deep. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Men!...what Are Your Biggest TURN OFF In A Woman? by Zither(m): 6:56pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
padi94: This post is everything wrong with nairaland. Ignominious and unsolicited expression of verbal fever. Like my post was written with the intention to net the opposite sex... |
Romance / Re: Men!...what Are Your Biggest TURN OFF In A Woman? by Zither(m): 6:49pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
StacyO: Sadly, they are. It is quite a tall task to come by someone who meets some of the qualities listed above... someone with all is just pushing my luck. I have cast my coin into my wishing well. |
Romance / Re: Men!...what Are Your Biggest TURN OFF In A Woman? by Zither(m): 6:40pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Men are, by design, creatures of sight. We are moved first by what we see. This is a nod in agreement with your statement I have modified in bold ink. However, without a doubt, there are always exceptions to the rule. When you discover that many times beauty is only a cosmetic source of attraction which is a fragile shell housing a body of intolerable qualities you will willy-nilly redefine your specs as regards the opposite sex. Have you not seen the spouses of famous Nigerian actors? Why do they usually end up with women far less physically attractive than the prettier ladies they get to work with or interact with? Are the excused when they marry "intelligent baboon" because they are famous? No offence none taken 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: EndSARS Protesters Dare Policemen To Open Their Gates In Benin City. by Zither(m): 6:18pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Romance / Re: Men!...what Are Your Biggest TURN OFF In A Woman? by Zither(m): 6:49pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
I'd rather say the qualities a lady possesses that easily get my attention: she is supportive even when all looks bleak she is down-to-earth and unpretentious she has flaws but works on them she is intelligent. This is why I am a sapiosexual she helps me to become a better version of myself she doesn't fritter away her time on non-productive activities such as bbn, bba, telemundo, community gossip and the likes as some ladies have made them their favourite pastime she is creative in conversation, problem solving, communication, as well as in her chosen field of vocation she has vision and purpose she pursues diligently she is supportive physical qualities like beauty, fashion, hairdo and the likes are important but secondary to her innate qualities as a lady. yeah I began and ended it with the lady being supportive. That alone makes a woman overly dear to her spouse. can't overemphasize this. in this list also lies my biggest turn-offs in a lady. 4 Likes |
Investment / Re: MBA Investors Forum by Zither(m): 10:07pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
acceptbtcpay: look at this full time simpleton who is putting in overtime in retardation. if you want respect then buy it with your ROI...also buy common sense while you are at it. it will help you to stop thinking through your anus. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Chichi Eze: Lady Dies; Was Proposed To With 3 Rings In 2019 by Zither(m): 4:59pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
at this stage, that she was killed by unnamed friends is only at best a speculation in the absence of autopsy. nevertheless, I feel the pain of her family and friends. not easy to lose someone so dear. RIP lady. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Investment / Re: MBA Investors Forum by Zither(m): 4:52pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
airsaylongcom, honestly no one will give you an iota of blame should you leave this thread so that folks can appreciate your absence if they won't appreciate your voluntary contribution here. my second ROI landed earlier today. I will sound like a broken record by saying mba trades is the real deal. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Zither(m): 3:25pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: you deliberately overlooked his primary concern for her which is for her to be financially independent of the man SO she can cater for herself and her children should something happen to the husband (not anyone's wish or intention). It is already a rainy day in her life and she is little prepared for it due to her financial constraints...but it is not too late to save...rain may get worse. This has nothing to do with gender role or duties in marital institutions. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Zither(m): 8:19am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Practical solution. I hope you know it is not everything you must confine to spiritual practices. You take logical, practical steps to solve a problem while backing it up with prayers. If you are hungry isn't it illogical to call God to provide food for you when you already have the resources to satisfy your need? @Op, I think you should look up to see if there is any group for those who once were alcoholics and are living sober now so you and your husband can join them. Their experiences and interaction with him could make him see things in a much different light resulting in a positive change from his alcohol addiction. Make a research of folks who have given up the bottle and why and how they were able to achieve that. it may help you (him). There is something though. It is dangerous to live under the same roof with someone who is given to drink. He may commit a crime and not know till the effects of the drink have washed away much much later. Let him know you do not feel safe with his drinking habits anymore and threaten to seek separation from him if he does not desist from drinking. This is just to know his reaction... If he really loves you he will stop it gradually or at once. Lastly, like Righteousness89 said, pray for him, for his liberation from the stronghold of drinking addiction. Always maintain positive thoughts about him. You always get what you say or imagine. Wish you all the best. 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: Any Other African Nationality Here On NL by Zither(m): 6:11pm On Sep 30, 2020 |
.............there goes another promising thread......a stillbirth. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Have Been Getting Death Threats On My DM From Guys Here by Zither(m): 5:42pm On Sep 30, 2020 |
Casalindal, your credibility is already dead and buried. Why kill what is already dead? Beats me 2 Likes |
Education / Re: ASUU To Call Of Strike After Independence - FG by Zither(m): 5:08pm On Sep 30, 2020 |
Using misleading thread topics to attract readers is counterproductive in the long run — take note, Op. The title should express a possibility, not a certainty. 3 Likes |
Crime / Re: Girl Going For Morning Mass Murdered In Delta, Corpse Dumped In A Nearby Primary by Zither(m): 8:12am On Sep 28, 2020 |
MVLOX: do you now understand why it is said that no news is good news? may her soul rest in peace and her killer(s) brought to justice - in prison or not. 1 Like |
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Zither(m): 8:38pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
thatigboman: bros, why the hate nah? |
Education / Re: Fg And ASUU Finally Reached An Agreement, To Call Off Strike In 24hrs by Zither(m): 10:41pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Op, who paid you to peddle fake news? |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Thousands Of Birds Drop Dead From The Sky In New Mexico (Photos) by Zither(m): 10:57am On Sep 17, 2020 |
I suspect radiation poisoning. |
Business / Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 20 by Zither(m): 5:33pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Pipsbasketings: With a heart full of appreciation I want to thank you for making good your promise. Wishing you many more baskets full of pips. |
Celebrities / Re: .. by Zither(m): 4:52pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
If death is like a huge trap lying in the furthest reach of mankind, man would still seek it out and walk into it... man has and will always be suicidal. RIP to the dead. |
Romance / Re: I Dropped Out Of Uniben 5 Years Ago. Can I Go Back And Continue? by Zither(m): 8:12am On Sep 16, 2020 |
Wow. The same experience of a friend of mine. It is possible only IF you applied to pause your academics. Where no time frame was stipulated in your letter to pause your academic program the maximum allowable is two years otherwise you stand the risk of forfeiting your admission. You should begin by going to your school to make enquiries...specifically, the school's Senate. You should be guided on what to do and expect. You should make an appeal to your school's Senate to be reinstated into academic program explaining why you were away for so long. In this case, I hope your grades before you left are average at least....better if it is more than that. Never think or say it is impossible. Don't let negativity affect your dream. I wish you best of luck. That friend of mine, after 5 years away from school, was reinstated to continue his academic program. 5 Likes |
Business / Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 20 by Zither(m): 2:03pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Pipsbasketings: Just getting to see this. Sent a dm. Many thanks for the offer. 1 Like |
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