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Family › Re: She Is A Single Mother Because A Coward Took Off by Zither(m): 8:52pm On Jul 24, 2019

S.h-i.t happens. As long as there are those who think love is the currency to purchase a happily-ever-after there will always be fools and single mothers and broken jars.

Family › Re: My regrets. by Zither(m): 1:46pm On Jul 21, 2019

iGod, forget that we post comments on topics and appear as if we have everything rosy. Most of us are going through hell in life but pulling the plug is not only cowardly but also not the solution to your problem. Whatever you think you are going through there are peeps going through much worse but they go through life knowing eventually they will overcome their challenges. This is a given. Don't be selfish thinking about yourself only; if you love your mother and your sister and would want to spare them pain and agony of your loss then reconsider your thought. Hope you are reading this, bro.

Family › Re: Who Remembers Belinda Song(1984) By Hardy Harrell? by Zither(m): 8:06am On Jul 03, 2019

Chai, Chai, this song unlocks the door to memories of the 80s. One of my childhood songs we used to sing. I used to sing it as Mirinda eehh Mirinda ooo Mirinda. Lolz. The 80s are the best moments of my childhood. Thought it was a Nigerian who sang it.

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Celebrities › Re: UNIZIK Student Gifts Broda Shaggi A Well Drawn Portrait In Awka by Zither(m): 4:16pm On Jun 28, 2019

broda Shaggi my main man..extremely hilarious

Romance › Re: What Will You Do In My Situation? by Zither(m): 7:48am On Jun 21, 2019

mp3ree:
good day
i have an issue and i need urgent help.I just did traditional marriage to my girl friend , [b]found out later that she did introduction with a guy some weeks ago but later called it of two months before our traditional marriage[b] ,also found out the ex fiance has been sleeping with even after she called the initial introduction off.up to the extent of sleeping with the guy four days to our traditional marriage.
am confused on what line of action i should take,she does not know have found out all this

please advice needed ,no insult.

The bolded is illogical. Did she do the introduction some weeks ago, or you found out some weeks ago that she did introduction (time unspecified but months ago according to her calling off the engagement)?

My advice: she will continue to sleep with the guy - at his place, in hotels, in your bed, and your kids may not really be your kids...in fact, will not be your biological kids. Can you live with that? Your next line of action based on this knowledge is my advice.

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Romance › Re: Is This What Women Go Through? So Sad!!! by Zither(m): 6:15pm On Jun 15, 2019

My big problem now is how to recover the mb I used in viewing this stupid thread. sad

Family › Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Zither(m): 12:58am On Jun 12, 2019

Family › Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Zither(m): 12:50am On Jun 12, 2019

kennygee:
The moment you start keeping things like going out with the opposite sex from your husband, you have started allowing cracks in your marriage be that.

If it was you who saw two cinema receipts in his pocket, and you know it wasn't you he took to the cinema, how would you feel?

Your husband was totally wrong for hitting you, especially in your condition. But are you really sure you didn't notice his temper during courtship? If you did, then you should have known that keeping stuff like that from him will lead to stuff like this.

When you're courting someone and you come to see their flaws or some violent tendencies, courtship is where you decide if you can live with these flaws for the rest of your life. If he's showing violent signs in courtship and you still proceed to marrying him, it means you're okay with the consequences that comes with his temper or you're willing to walk around the landmines to ensure there will never be an explosion.

Did you notice his violent tendencies during courtship?

She well did. That was the reason for my comment.

Family › Re: Close Your Legs Women!! by Zither(m): 8:14am On Jun 10, 2019

Why the attack at the Op? Is it that the message cut in deeper than intended? Is it that people are too close-minded to see beyond the letters to the gem of the writeup?

The attackers have overlooked the fact that when she talked about a husband she meant someone that one could trust, someone with whom one can build a solid friendship and companionship, someone with whom one can build a happy family, a good man, not just any dick or harry. This she did by STRESSING the fact that you should not just give your body to any guy for the sake of trying to keep him...such move is counter-productive. Get to know him better first and that WILL take time. This will open the door for a fruitful and rewarding relationship. Is it such a bad thing, abeg?

Secondly, her post is borne out of concern for the plight of the female folk in a patriarchal society like ours where the only value that women are perceived to possess is one where they are seen as objects of sexual gratification. She used her experience to convey her longing for the preservation of the dignity and worth of her gender. Relationship being the subject matter of her post, she confronts this issue indirectly by advocating that the female folks CREATE THEIR OWN VALUE FOR THEMSELVES and let that value reflect in their being picky or selective of the person they choose to date, and eventually marry. The indignifying perception of the female folk as sex objects by the male folk will eventually decline. Is that a bad thing?

Get this, however, this message is not intended for everyone.

Bretha, a most commendable and enlightening piece. Nairaland has a litter of junks but THIS IS NOT ONE OF THEM. Bravo.

Bretha, the only issue I have with your post is your thread topic. Please, re-title it. It is offensive and demeaning to say the least. Whatever good intention you portrayed was negatively eclipsed by that title. Please do something about it. That apart, lovely post.

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Family › Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Zither(m): 3:31pm On Jun 08, 2019

SUMK, I do not pity you. You deserve him and he deserves you. You saw the danger sign on the door and you still made a conscious decision to enter hoping the sign will change. What a fool. I am really pissed at ladies who only employ less than a quarter of their cognitive capacity because they delegated their decision making capacity to their emotions. Do not cry foul now. It is too early. The bottom has not been reached. You will know the bottom has been reached when preparations are made for your funeral.

In the same way, a friend of mine is in a grossly abusive relationship where the guy hits her like when Anthony Joshua is defending his title against an opponent. She confides in me, but if and when she eventually marries the guy hoping he will change I will cut off my association with her. Whatever happens to her stays with her.

I love my sisters and female pals so much that I can NEVER accommodate for a second the thought of hitting them or hurting them. I would rather be hurt by them and take it like a man than dish blows out to them. Such man is a BEAST and the woman knowing a man has such tendency and still decides to marry him for whatever reason is nothing but a certified IDIOT.

You are the only lady I have ever talked to this way because I am extremely fed up of listening to and reading stupid sob stories of ladies who foolishly rendered their lives useless after seeing the danger signs ahead.

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Phones › Re: The Camera Thread (picture/wallpaper thread) by Zither(m): 8:34pm On May 01, 2019

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Christianity Etc › Re: Back For A Bit. Whats Up And What's All The Madness About? -hardmirror by Zither(m): 9:25am On Mar 23, 2019

HardMirror:
dumb people. They dont know who they are dealing with.

I understand your reference to Jesusjnr, but I want to ask you to let Michellekabod1 alone. She has done nothing to deserve your bitter string of labels. Anyone can turn Christian or atheist without unnecessarily being subjected to a barrage of criticism.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Thank God! Finally I Don Port! From Atheism To Jesus! Update* Conversion Story. by Zither(m): 8:32am On Mar 23, 2019

Just great. This thread has turned into a free-for-all

Christianity Etc › Re: What Is The Usefulness Of My Foreseeing Capability? by Zither(m): 10:00pm On Mar 22, 2019

hmmm. Interesting gift. Why not seek God to help you understand the gift better? We are not to be led by gifts but by the Spirit of God. Why? For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are the sons of God (Romans 8:16).

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Romance › Re: Young Lovers Hang Themselves Because Of Their Parents(photos) by Zither(m): 11:53pm On Mar 21, 2019

Riele:
but these is an old pics nah

Was expecting someone to say this...it happened years ago.

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Family › Re: New Japanese Device Allows Dads To Breastfeed Their Babies by Zither(m): 8:02am On Mar 21, 2019

I will never be caught dead in that thing angry

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Christianity Etc › Re: American Relocating To Nigeria! by Zither(m): 7:53am On Mar 21, 2019

Avled, if you have peace in your heart as regards setting up a ministry in Nigeria, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't come. There may be many churches in the world but very few shepherds. You are welcome to preach the Word of God anywhere the wind of the Spirit takes you.

Crime › Re: Man Attempts To Kill Himself After His Girlfriend Dumped Him In Delta by Zither(m): 7:58pm On Mar 20, 2019

The girl will be thanking her stars for ending a parasitic relationship with a grade A psycho

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Christianity Etc › Re: I Just Cant Go Through This Anymore, I'm Done Waiting For God. by Zither(m): 3:33pm On Mar 20, 2019

This, right here, is the very definition of faith as opposed to what many think faith is supposed to be — an order-and-takeout process to our desires. It takes patience to unlock your miracle.

So then those who are of faith are blessed with believing Abraham — Galatians 3:9

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Christianity Etc › Re: Thank God! Finally I Don Port! From Atheism To Jesus! Update* Conversion Story. by Zither(m): 3:52pm On Mar 19, 2019

budaatum:
I take your word on faith whilst praying that I live up to your view of me. Please don't hesitate to let me know when my fruit is bad. And thanks tons. I love you.

You're welcome, budaatum. God will increase you in strength and wisdom so that you become, not only his fisher of men, but also his leader of men, a workman not ashamed and rightly dividing the word of truth into abundant fruit for the kingdom. That's my prayer for you, budaatum, and amen to that.

Even when we disagree on a matter or subject it does not make a dent on my opinion and perception of you. God bless. One love.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Thank God! Finally I Don Port! From Atheism To Jesus! Update* Conversion Story. by Zither(m): 3:38pm On Mar 19, 2019

I hope....even against hope....that his imagination does not make him see all Christians as though their only ambition is to crucify him — the one true Christian in the world.... As ludicrous as this sounds it is quite possible for him to think so.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Thank God! Finally I Don Port! From Atheism To Jesus! Update* Conversion Story. by Zither(m): 3:27pm On Mar 19, 2019

budaatum:
There is choice in the matter. One must choose to become as a child to be born again. But as is said, it is harder for a camel to enter the eye of a needle than for the self righteous to enter the KoG. Still, amen.

Indeed, budaatum. I perceive spiritual maturity in you. This is the quality that indicates the mix of a reader, a thinker, and a teacher in that order blended nicely in following God. I may be wrong but I'm known to say how I feel. Not flattering you. Merely stating facts.

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Christianity Etc › Re: What Is The Wage Or Salary For Your Current Work? Do You Want A Better Wage? by Zither(m): 2:59pm On Mar 19, 2019

amyblessed:
Laughing at "Tasteless". It's not tasteless o. Everyone of you have been adding your own salt in different ways to make it tasty.

I'm highly flattered. Others...yes, but me? Me wen no contribute anything. The little I gather a school of atheists will just come and scatter it as if they have been monitoring me with binoculars. I give up. I have resorted to relaxing and sipping from the fountain of the likes of your pen....

Christianity Etc › Re: Thank God! Finally I Don Port! From Atheism To Jesus! Update* Conversion Story. by Zither(m): 2:45pm On Mar 19, 2019

amyblessed:
I cant just imagine this kind of attitude, I felt so bad while reading his replies and comments. God will help us.

God will help us....however, that depends on if he recognizes that he, as with every other person, needs the help. Nevertheless, amen to your prayer.

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Christianity Etc › Re: What Is The Wage Or Salary For Your Current Work? Do You Want A Better Wage? by Zither(m): 2:33pm On Mar 19, 2019

Am very happy to hear that. I am sure your presence will add some salt to this "tasteless" section. May be one of the reasons why your absence was just impossible to ignore. Welcome back, Amyblessed.

Christianity Etc › Re: Thank God! Finally I Don Port! From Atheism To Jesus! Update* Conversion Story. by Zither(m): 2:06pm On Mar 19, 2019

Amyblessed

Just let him rant...At a time, it dawned on me that reasoning with him is a fool's errand.

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Christianity Etc › Re: What Is The Wage Or Salary For Your Current Work? Do You Want A Better Wage? by Zither(m): 1:52pm On Mar 19, 2019

[quote author=amyblessed post=76794518][/quote]Life is friendly and kind. Your absence was impossible to escape notice. Hope you are good.

Romance › Re: Would You Buy This Perfume For 471 Million Naira? by Zither(m): 9:46pm On Mar 18, 2019

I would....if I saw someone that is willing to buy it from me for 942 million naira..

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Romance › Re: Girlfriend Snubs Her Man After He Proposed To Her in Shoprite, Onitsha by Zither(m): 3:59pm On Mar 18, 2019

see what happens when you forget your sense at home.... cheesy

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Crime › Re: Armed gangs WIPE OUT 15 villages in mass Christian slaughter in NG -TelegraphUK by Zither(m): 8:31pm On Mar 17, 2019

This fire started by the machineries of evil in high places with the aim of wiping out Christians shall be the grave of those who started it, who encouraged it, and who played blind to it when it was in their power to quench it. This is not a curse. What goes around comes around.

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