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pureguide:
lols. Now he is mouth watering. Why sound rude? Na me put you for ur condition?

You are really pitiable. What makes you think your condition is better than mine!

Is it that your nairaguide.com type of website that you are charging 100k for. Dey there, reality will soon dawn on you! Nigerians are waking up!

I am about to do a website for 50k that somebody was charging 200k for. I would rather get 30k in 100 places than 300k in one place!

Dey there O! Is it not insecurity that made u highjack my thread?

All of this arises from the over dependence on oil and mismanagement of the money made from same! I hope Nigeria is learning!

http://www.mylgcharity.com no open o, u see life?

You see how people disgrace themself!

pureguide:
Website for 7000?
Chai! Na people like u dey kill this industry. And beside no any standard professional website designer can design a website for even 10k. Talk less of 7k
Even my last project which. Is www.mylgcharity.com was 100k.

And ur here claiming its blogger. Rethink

If you are as informed as you claim, you will be aware that these days it is possible to set up a website with a template without hiring a web designer. Are you angry that I am not like you, deceiving clients instead of adding value!!

sCun:
www.nytimes.com/1984/11/18/world/around-the-world-nigeria-said-to-execute-40-soldiers-plotting-coup.html

Guy, plan a coup against even Goodluck Jonathan as a Military Ruler and see what will happen!

What happened when a coup was planned against Babangida?

These guys did not just plan a coup, they wanted to Assassinate their commander in chief and top officials, their superiors.

Also Consider the Bloodbath the country could have been thrown into if they made their attempt and Buhari's loyalists fought back. They would probably still have died after plunging the country into a bloody chaos! Have u not seen it happen before in Africa?

aaronson:
Its just one of the those things in business/service rendering but it hasn't gotten to the stage which you came on a public forum to tarnish their image knowing fully they still upcoming and haven't find their feet in the business in this part of the world after all they still took you to your destination but with delay and not as if they scammed you out your money so why the badmouthing?

I am sure u work for Discovery!

We are talking about Air Travel which is about life and death. Do you know what their mediocrity and inefficiency can cause in future?

Again, the question is, how did they get their license?

Godmother:
My dear, I design websites too and know about the hours put into the job. That's why I don't understand you charging such an amount. Don't you pay for hosting? Even if you are customizing a template, you still put in some hours, so what's your gain.

Truth be told, no one who is looking for a good quality website will take you serious

If you are confident about the value of the price tag you are attaching to your website design, then sell your own [on your own thread] and let me sell my own!

Godmother:
My dear, I design websites too and know about the hours put into the job. That's why I don't understand you charging such an amount. Don't you pay for hosting? Even if you are customizing a template, you still put in some hours, so what's your gain.

Truth be told, no one who is looking for a good quality website will take you serious

That depends on what you mean by good quality website.

The websites I do are good quality, and anybody get get them for the price I charge or slightly higher!

Stop writing posts out of bad belle! You are not the only web designer on this forum!

I actually anticipated this kind of response to my thread!

I am just saying many Nigerians that need websites are not getting websites because of their false belief that it must be expensive!

mcgman025:
Ladies you all need to read this letter, as in, you won't believe some of the things you are about to read. Lol.

For those who don't know her, Karrine Stefans (pictured above) is a former video vixen, who was married to Darius McCrary (Eddie Winslow of popular 90s TV sitcom - Family Matters). The two divorced in 2011, and three months later, Karrine was married again, but this time, to an unknown dread-locked dude.

A few days ago, Ms Karrine posted a letter on her website to her husband. Read it below
Sometimes, in relationships, the pleasure is all theirs. Alone, I am a superhero. With you, I am a mere mortal. You deplete me. I’m tired of being your upgrade. We are not equally yoked. You really deserve someone more basic. I’m tired of pretending your mediocrity is okay with me. I’m tired of pretending I don’t miss G650′s. I’m tied of pretending you’re not a burden. I’m tired of pretending I don’t deserve a f-cking BOSS! I’m tired of you driving my car. Stop telling me you love me as if you’re doing me some sort of favor. I don’t need you to love me. I love me.
Please continue,


I’m tired of pretending like you shouldn’t be intimidated by the other men in my life. Cuz you should. I’m tired of pretending as if I support your bullshit dreams. I’m tired of pretending your d-ck isn’t the smallest d-ck I’ve ever seen in my life. Cuz it is. I’m tired of pretending your favorite rapper didn’t just beat it up on Friday. I’m tired of paying for everything. I’m tired of you taking all this sh-t for granted as if you ever deserved any of it. Give me my Mac back. For real tho. I’m tired of washing your wack ass clothes. I hate your whole face. I’m tired of acting like the sex is good. I hate when you roll all the way over onto my side of the bed to hold me. I’m over here for a reason. Did I mention I’m tired of paying for everything? Okay.I’m tired of giving you the game.I’m tired of pretending you’re anything more than a bum. I should’ve just hired you as a cook and kept it moving. I’m tired of congratulating you for accomplishing minuscule sh-t. I’m tired of you begging
I’m tired of moaning when I can’t feel anything!I’m tired of having to think about someone else to get off. I’m tired of having to lock my phone when you’re around.I’m tired of taking showers with you. Can I get a moment! Damn! Yes. He’s better than you. Next question. All night. ‘Til 6 in the morning. Next question.Yes. And I didn’t have to pay for none of it. Next question. Presidential suite. Next question. About 10 inches. Next question.69. Next question. Like a boss. Next question. Balls deep. Next question. I’m tired of having to pretend you’re not the 3rd worst decision I’ve ever made.
You should really be with that one chick who bagged our groceries this weekend. That’s more your speed.
Oh dear, so not fair to the guy! What a biatch! Lol. But why marry him in the first place?

http://lindaikeji..com/2012/03/karrine-stefans-letter-to-her-husband.html#more

Some guys will kill her and kill themselves for this kind of humiliation!

She will pay for this one day but she may not remember! The guy must have stupidly married her out of love, thinking she will bear with his faults as he bore with hers!

These are the kinds of women who get frustrated when a guy delays in putting a ring on their finger, and now this!

phrancyking:
Am 22 years old. I 'ave dated three girls, they all left me because I told them I would never have sex before marriage.. the first girl accused me of impotency.. the second girl was blunt she told me she can't cope.. the third one left without a comment ..

I need a girl Buh don't wanna have sex. please I need your advice

Advice: Don't even bother saying that to today's girls, even if they claim to be born again!

They will think you are hiding something!

If a woman does not express a conviction about no sex before marriage on her own and without your declaration, leave her alone, so you don't get heart broken and have a chain of girls saying funny things about you!

It's a troubled election contest already. A possible religious extremist versus a corrupt liar. WHAT A SHAME FOR NIGERIA!

Juliaann:
Somebody should tell that gworo chewer stinky old man to Shut the hell up!,if Nigeria will be in trouble if PDP should win,what happens if APC wins (of course that will be in the Dreamland because its never happening)

well I choose PDP over APC any day anytime

Haba, why all this venom and emotion over politics! I saw your profile!

You want to die for a politician that can never die for you?!!

Samwell247:
Sex is everywhere. It permeates
television shows, the Internet, and
magazines.
Even children’s movies often
have thinly veiled sexual overtones.

Today, society’s carefree thinking on sex
out of wedlock is simply, “Why not?”
Believing that “most are doing it
anyway,”

Most people say we're in
the 21st century and that's now legal, but 99% of
things that are legal are not right.

Is this a bad thing? Most say no. To
support this position, some cite the well-
documented health benefits of being
sexually active.

some even say ""does sex belong only inside a
marriage relationship""? What is wrong
with reaping all the physical benefits of
sex outside of wedlock so long as one is
“smart” about it?

hmmmm but I tell u, there are dangers for the
sexually active person: transmission of
diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and
potential emotional scarring from a
promiscuous lifestyle of multiple
partners.

see our generation where teenage pregnancies are
rampant.
you meet young people “where
they are” and talk openly about sex.
Educators hope to arm teens with
enough information to dispel the
mystery of sex so they can “decide when
they are ready” to lose their virginity.

“One of the things young people say a lot
is that the sex education they get is
virtually meaningless, it’s too biological
and doesn’t relate to how they are
feeling.

Essentially, parents have concluded
they are no longer able to stop children
from having sex. The best they can hope
to do is teach them about it.

sexually transmitted diseases
have reached an unprecedented level.

Even the “safest”
sex can result in unintended pregnancies
This can lead to the tragic decision
to end the unborn child’s life through
abortion, something a woman will carry
for the rest of her life.

If the couple decides to go ahead with
the pregnancy, children of unmarried
parents are often susceptible to a host of
physical and emotional problems.

children born to women who
did not intend to get pregnant have been
found to have lower birthweight, poorer
mental and physical health, lower
educational attainment, and more
behavioral problems than do children
whose births were intended.”

Men and women who are products of
broken homes often have children out of
wedlock as well, which leads to a vicious,
multigenerational cycle of unhappiness.

Couples who wait enjoy
significantly more benefits than those
who had sex earlier..

A healthy, happy marital relationship
produces similar relationships in the
lives of children who come from them. In
short, happy couples produce happy
children.

It is a parent’s job to proactively teach
about sex. Yet parents have to compete
with what their children learn from this
world’s “sexperts”—the hyper sexualized
media, permissive sexual education at
school, misguided how-to websites—as
well as their peers.

While these sources
may supply some correct information
about purely physical aspects, the
majority of what they teach includes
much error. Add to this the pull on
young people to learn by their own
experiences, which can be painful.

Because of these factors, many parents,
who do not truly understand the purpose
of sex, are perfectly happy to outsource
the difficult job.

On the other hand, well-meaning parents
who seek to discourage premarital sex
might simply say: “Because I said so!” or
even, “Because God said it’s a sin!”
Others, feeling it is inevitable that their
child will have sex, may hand their son
or daughter a condom and tell them to
“be safe.”

In both scenarios, parents merely pass
along what they feel is right or what
others have told them—without ever
proving the truth for themselves.

By comiting to premarital sex you risk.....

1. The risk of disobeying God and letting Satan
get a foothold

The Bible, time after time tells us to flee sexual
sins. Why? Because it is a major strategy of the
devil to sabotage God's work on Earth.

2. The risk of shame

Premarital sex imputes a spiritual state of shame
that becomes a major weapon of Satan. God
forgives you, but you will still face the fruit of the
sin and you'll still be vulnerable to Satan's
whispering accusations on your worth as a
person and your value as an active individual.

3. The risk of sexual dysfunction

People spend millions of dollars to correct sexual
dysfunction through drugs and psychotherapy.
Why? Because they entered marriage with
unresolved sexual issues. For example, a man
may think that he will be free from the curse of
pornography once he gets married, only to find
that the problems are even more noticeable and
controlling.

4. The risk of placing your future children in
spiritual harm's way

The Bible clearly speaks of
the concept of generational sin. What you sow
(plant) spiritually may be reaped in the life of
your children. Break the power of Satan's curse.
Remain pure before God and you'll be
tenaciously guarding the future of the next
generation.
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5. The risk of depression

Those who participate in premarital sex
experience emotional damage that may lead to
an increased chance of mental depression and
emotional despair.

6. The risk of permanently damaging your
testimony as a Christian or Muslim

You'll never be able to honestly say, "I was a
virgin before I was married." You'll never be able
to live as an example of committed purity.

7. The risk of damaging the destiny of your
future marriage
There is no way that premarital sex of any kind
could be a plus for your future marriage. It only
causes suspicion, mistrust, and regret.

8. Risks of incurable disease

Imagine that you have found that one special
person with whom you want to share your life.

And now you are forced to break the news that
you have an incurable disease.
Even though such
diseases like herpes are generally not considered
life threatening, there are no cures.
Not only is it
incurable, it fills a life with worries, awkward
revelations, and continuous need for medication.
Herpes and other STD's are everywhere.

Why risk contracting an STD?

9. The risk of lost relationships

When you choose to develop a sexual
relationship with someone, you have immediately
changed the entire definition of the relationship.

God's intent was for a man and woman to enjoy
sex throughout the course of a lifetime. There is
no such thing as casual sex.
Once you have
developed a sexual relationship, that relationship
turns a critical corner. After the relationship
ends, you and your partner will experience the
guilt and pain of promises broken.

10. The risk of death
No one can deny that having sex before marriage
can have grave consequences.
disease like AIDS and its likes kills its victims.

The choice is yours...

Your message would be more effective if you don't attach it to what may be categorized as religious beliefs! Not all young people actually care about that!

I think my greatest argument against premarital sex, aside from disease and unwanted pregnancy, is that premarital sex often creates an illusion of love and compatibility that is often dispelled when the 2 people eventually get married! Because they enjoyed the premarital sex, they were deceived into thinking they will make a happy married couple . I think this is happening a lot, leading to many divorces!

Godmother:
So...my aunt came few days go and went on and on advising me not to marry a handsome guy. According to her, when your husband is handsome, lots of guys will try to snatch him from you. He will also not be caring , thinking he's all in all. She says handsmome guys are never faithful and so a handsome husband won't be.

All the while she talked I just kept on thinking:

1. Are there no faithful and caring handsome guys out there?

2. Don't ugly guys cheat too?

If I'm to follow her advice it then means I will automatically reject every handsome guy that comes my way, without getting to know if he has a wonderful personality inside.

Truth is, if u choose not to marry a handsome guy when looks actually matter to you, you yourself may not appreciate the guy u marry and may be tempted to cheat when you meet a really handsome guy!!

Marriage no be game O!

Godmother:
7000 naira web design People like you are the ones killings the web design business. Smh

I advice you to restrategize! Websites are not meant to be expensive except for those that can afford the expensive ones!

Listen to the song Dance with my Father by Luther Vandross.

That may have contributed to his ending up gay!!

sucess001:
Came across the picture below and a part of me wasn't ok with it.


Parents in the house..do u tink its ok for mothers to tongue kiss children? Even if its for fun?

I think mothers today need to be very careful O!

Children must be helped to clearly differentiate what is sexual from what is play!

You may mean it to be innocent, but what about your child??!

Imagine this picture. It is real!

Response is impressive, even though it may be a good attempt at political correctness in order to win votes!

Politicians are Politicians afterall!

Euroclydon:
http://pmnewsnigeria.com/2013/09/06/nigerian-ladies-worry-over-scarcity-of-men/

Scarcity of husbands is unavoidable!!!!!!!!!!!

You see, today's girls want equality!

Before a man can love and marry you with peace of mind, he wants at least a bit of real control!

Can u reconcile equality with control?!!

phone sold. bye!

phone sold. bye!

Airforce1:
Boy friend upon boy friends year in year out no sign of marriage

whatever u think about her. She is actually a good actress!!

adtiezy1:
Good start burning dem..i hate cheaters ..aarrrggghh..my future wife had better remain faithful..

Pray my broda, Prrrayyyyyy!!

gneisss:
.our police instead of searching for the man pinned a notice on his door to report to the station.... like seriously who does dat....person commit murder com stroll go police station abi??...it is well

I tire O! I tire!! Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!

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