Cum=money

Coded olosho

She will choose money over her blood

I am confuse along with your bro
Please don't put your all in all until you are certain

Because they want to seduce you and collect all your money

So each pick any lady and teach her French

Spaced booked

Do your findings very well

It is no no if I am a lady

Respect55:


U have done well. Thanks for the time. Sincerely I don't bear grudges. I don't hate her. I'm not even happy that all our efforts have gone down the gallows. But you see, I have learnt to accept the things I can't change. It's not about me, it's about my heart. My heart is no longer there. This thing called love is one funny thing. You can imagine a situation whereby the person you used to look forward to seeing makes your mood bad at present. It's not my fault

I still went with her people this afternoon to see her. I asked how she was doing she said fine then turned her face to the wall. I didn't say anything again.

I have no ill feelings whatsoever towards her. The love isn't just there anymore. It comes naturally.

I understand you bro
Just please be open minded don't just lock your heart
More wisdom

I love the way you handled the whole situation

Respect55:

Thanks. I appreciate. Happy new month

Good evening bro, I have been following this trend all this while now waiting for the step the lady will take.
Bro i know you have stand your ground of not taking her back, I respect your decision and I know your have right to stand your ground, and truly if u insist that she is no more coming back nobody can blame you
But let me remind u, life is not all about right and wrong sir
we use to offend God he use to forgive us
This lady, to me have tried, although she might not do it the right way In which most of us expect ( coming to u, bring all her family etc) but she shows you mean the world to her.
She could even try to take her life cause of u, (forget the term she is trying to black mail u, Who joke with poison?, her pride is just taking the best out of her) anyone can make a mistake. I believe she will learn from this and it even an opportunity for you to shape her to who ever you want her to be because with this she already knows where her heart belongs.

Bro, to a spiritual man everything is spiritual, don't mind me, it might be devil sees you guys great future together and want to scatter it...
Do u know the next lady u are going to meet? As the matter of fact that lady will also had one time made mistake in the past or u will be her own mistake also, it a stage we will all pass thru in life

No sin is too big to forgive. To err is man
On a final note : A devil we know is better than an angel we never knows.

Bro Pls forgive if you truly love her
Love covereth all sins

SteveOfu:
you?

I am sorry

you don eat period with vegetables

Sorry bro, go for deliverance

I love this write up hallelujah

who just broke your heart ma'am?

he is taking it to far?

he is even making it looks like it is that sex he is after

ichuka:

You guys are missing it
If you are truly save and the Spirit of God is in charge of your life then where comes the sins?

so you are telling me you don't commit since again?

You better stop lying to yourself

Don't try in Nigeria oo
You might go home been disgraced

TheSkyIsBlue:
My Sister Is About To Commit A Serious Taboo All In The Name Of Marriage

Hello Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just want to pour it out the way it is in my heart.

I am seriously confused and worried about what is happening in my family and I will appreciate your candid advice.

There is this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he actually asked her hand in marriage and decided to come see my parents for introduction, about some months ago. My family decided to take their time to find out more about the guys family background as is required in Igbo tradition.

After several questions asked, my family came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, everybody in my family told my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the relationship because it is a big taboo to get married to an Osu in my place . If you do, no family member or friend will attend your wedding or even have anything to do with you again.

But my sister refused to listen to anybody claiming she really loves the guy, that they have been together for a very long time and that she is not getting younger anymore (mind you, she is in her early thirties). Everybody (my parents and extended family members) tried to talk her out of it but she still didn't listen.

After much pressure and her continues insistence, my dad decided to give them his blessings, although against his wish (my dad is actually not really deep into tradition). Now the guy has done all the traditional rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is coming up soon.

But the problem now is, according to tradition and from what I heard, if she was allowed to go with the guy without my dad giving them his blessings, the stigma would have just been on her and she alone would have been considered Osu, since she insisted to continue with the marriage. But now that my dad has given them his blessings, it is considered that all of us (her siblings) will also have that link of Osu too. Except if she decide to put an end to the relationship and discontinue with the wedding, which I don't think my sister is ready to do.

I am really worried and depressed about it, cause I don't want anything that will affect me tomorrow when I want to get married just because of my sister's mistakes.

I will really like to get opinions and sincere advice especially from those that are familiar with tradition, cause I'm seriously bothered. Thanks!

osu? In this century? Give her another husband, go and try relationship of just 3 and half years that you have invested in and someone should tell you osu that u should leave the girl, try it if u won't regret it... Please don't subject yourself under bondage which you are not subjected too

ichuka:

Hi bro
These topic had been trashed here in NL.
Christains need to understand the full/correct meaning of Mercy/Grace of God.
Even in the OT the Mercy of God in the life of David was SURE!!thats no matter what David did,Mercy covers all.
That's the sole reason the Kingdom wasn't taken away from his linage.
Isaiah55:3..,Incline your ear, and come to Me. Hear, and your soul shall live; And I will make an everlasting covenant with you— The sure mercies of David.

eyah
Romans 6:1 What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound?
Maybe you should know that out of 12 tribes of Israel, 10 were taken away from his generation only two they end up with his son?


Don't change, u will know that there what we call hell and day of judgement, it not day of moimoi

solite3:
The answer to that question biblically is a resounding, clear, emphatic, joyful, glorious “No.” A born-again person cannot become dead, cannot be unborn again. I will give some biblical thinking here, trying to be as textual as possible, and not just theological.

No Dropouts

The life that is imparted in the new birth is precisely eternal life. “This is the testimony, that God gave us eternal life [has given us eternal life], and this life is in his Son” (1 John 5:11). So he didn’t give us temporary life. He gave us eternal life. We are already participating in the life of the age to come.

“If you are called, you cannot lose your salvation.”

Here is another crucial word: “Those whom he predestined.” This is from Romans 8:30: “Those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.” Now, glorification is the final state of permanent salvation. This verse says that all the called — with nobody dropping out — are justified, and all the justified — with nobody dropping out — are glorified.

So the answer is this: If you are called, you cannot lose your salvation. And I am going to argue that being called and being born again are identical biblical categories. We will be justified, and we will be glorified, because we have been called — that is, we have been born again.

Beckoned to Life

The kind of call Paul is talking about in Romans 8:30 is the call of Lazarus, by Jesus, from the grave: “Lazarus, I know you are dead. Now come out” (see John 11:43). The call creates the life, and that is what happened to everybody who is a Christian: God’s sovereign call created the life. That means that there is a promise attached to the call.

Here are a few texts that show this connection. First Thessalonians 5:23–24 says, “May the God of peace himself sanctify you completely . . . at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. He who calls you is faithful; he will surely do it.” So the logic here is: If you have been called, God is faithful. You will be kept for the last day.

Or here it is again in 1 Corinthians 1:8–9: Christ “will sustain you to the end, guiltless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of his Son.” So now you can go back and see why (in Romans 8:30) all the called are justified, and all the justified are glorified — because God is faithful. There is nothing automatic.

Preservation of the Predestined

A lot of people think eternal security is like a vaccination. They think, “When I was 6 years old, I prayed, and God vaccinated my arm. Therefore, I can’t get the disease of damnation.” That is not the way it is. Rather, it is more like entering lifetime therapy with a doctor who says, “You are my patient. You will do what I say, and I will get you to the end, whole in the last day.”

Here is Jeremiah 32:40, which has to be one of my all-time favorite verses on perseverance: “I will make with them an everlasting covenant, that I will not turn away from doing good to them. And I will put the fear of me in their hearts, that they may not turn from me.” So the new covenant that Jesus bought with his blood is a covenant of preservation. It is not just security in some mechanical way. It is preservation in an active way. God is active in my life.


“Perseverance in faith is the evidence that we have been made part of Christ.”



When I ask people, “How do you know you are going to be a Christian when you wake up in the morning?” a lot of people are kind of shocked by the question. They respond, “Oh, because, you know, it is like being human.” No, it is not like being human. You will wake up a Christian tomorrow morning because God is faithful. God will wake you up and awaken in you his faith.

Faithfully He Keeps

Here are a couple more verses that highlight God’s faithfulness: “I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion” (Philippians 1:6). The reason Paul talks like that is because of the way God’s faithfulness connects to his call, his new birth.

Or Jude 24: “Now to him who is able to keep you from stumbling . . .” I preached on this verse a while back, because I was, at age 67, just finishing up my pastoral ministry. I am overwhelmed by the fact that God kept me.

He kept me. He didn’t let me fall down and bring reproach upon his name and destroy the church. I don’t look back on that and put my thumb in my armpits and say, “What a good boy am I.” I say, “Amazing! Amazing! Now unto him who kept me and will keep me . . .”

Anchor of Our Assurance

This leaves, I think, only one key question that people always have and should have: “Well, what about people who are in the church? They have been deacons or elders, and they look like they were saved in college. Here they are five years later, and they have thrown it all away. Some of them die in that condition. What about them?”

I think there are two key verses that people should think about long and hard. First John 2:19: “They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us.” The words of us in that verse surely mean “born again with us, grafted into Christ with us” — and they weren’t. They looked like they were. They said some of the right things. They had “tasted . . . the powers of the age to come” (Hebrews 6:5). But they were not born of God.

“You will wake up a Christian tomorrow morning because God is faithful.”

Additionally, Hebrews 6 is a big stumbling block for people about the kinds of spiritual experiences a person can have and still be lost. But Hebrews 3:14, I think, is an absolute key verse in that book: “We have come to share in Christ, if indeed we hold our original confidence firm to the end.”

The author doesn’t say, “If you hold your confidence firm to the end, you will get a share in Christ.” He says, “We know that we have had — from the beginning of our lives with Christ — a share in Christ, because we endure to the end.” This means perseverance in faith is the evidence that we have been made part of Christ.

And when that perseverance doesn’t hold, then we were never in the assurance. Here is the key: The assurance, therefore, is not automatic. It is assurance rooted in our confidence in an absolutely sovereign, covenant-keeping God, who gave his Son on behalf of sinners so that, as we look to him, the Holy Spirit testifies to us that we are the children of God (Romans 8:16).

www.desiringGod .org.com

nonsense from the pit of hell

What has happened as has happened

They can't kill her, it her private life, almost everyone is guilty of that privately


So they should just talk sense to her and strength her to move on

Congratulation sir

Just sense making

They have the language women understand
Money
Money
Money
More money

Ladies and Money
Ladies and Food

who should now be responsible for the children?

how will they both be committed and grow what they knows they will end someday?


i wish marriage could go back to God's blue print for marriage

i no understand

korope i beg work o, they should resolve this before evening. else the student will suffer it

see question?


she no fit hold body ni?

masturbation will end up leading to cheating

LolaO:


That sometimes he just wants to be left alone, because he is an only child. And I should understand.

He’d get in touch when he’s out of his lone state.

This is someone I’ve known for 5 years, and suddenly he wants to be left alone?

If he’s going through stuff, shouldn’t I know? If there’s a secret he’s hiding, shouldn’t I know?

Too many questions...

and what are you still doing in lagos? if truly your know much about him the you will know how to handle him...
why don't you just leave for where he is to find out what wrong and save your relationship?

Some people have problem ooo

Chai, the person above me needs special attention