Snok58:


I was pissed and I am still pissed.

Let me tell everyone about my plans and how much you have disrupted it. By October my investment in kenfarms matured with about 10m. The farm is in crisis now. This was my first disappointment.

I move, bought a car of 1.6m with the remaining small savings I had, I started uber in August and I planned to recoup the money. I decided to stash the remaining in a legit investment, I opted for about 2.5m to be 3m in a year. I just kept about 100k for my daily expenses and my uber supports my business. The day I told her I invested she was not happy, selfishly talking about opening a shop. I told her I'll support her business from my uber.

Then she can attest to the fact we planned trad by this year end, at least I'll have some money remaining from my investment.

How much can this go now she's pregnant and I have to set up a family, wedding and upkeep and I have limited time and pressure, who won't be livid?

Can she tell the house how much she has to support this new status, I'll be surprised if it's up to 100k. Vicky you have no plan. I started saving from 200k in my nysc days, I've done ntb, fixed deposit, digital agriculture, uber and catfish business just to compound my inflow.

All in all, I'm trying to liquidate my investment and loose the interest and I'm also trying to figure out a monthly fee to pay.

But Victoria, will you be assertive without this pregnancy? Bring your financial books so our inlaws will judge your preparedness.

Guy, you just have to man-up and be responsible.
But the truth is you are not sure if you want this lady to be your wife.

Stop making these more difficult for your self and the pregnant woman.
I understand your dreams and aspiration. But bro, you aren't God. Life is not 1+1
Just take the blessing and build your home. You will surely get to where you are going.
Stop all these already.

No 6. When you have enough money

aboyaji:
Thank you Bros. Your input is really what's lacking on this thread. Thank you.

Most of them arrogant, wayward and uncouth ladies don't have anything. Nothing. Just get angry and mood swings.

Please don't mind the person quoting you ooo. if anything happens to your brother the lady will leave and it will be you guys lost--- God forbid.

safe your brother on time

it will end up your problem. Please, do something on time

Anigreat:





Dick wasn't made for one woman, it was made and designed for multiple women. So you'll be a failure if you stick to one woman in the name of being married to her and she bears the title " wife"

If King Solomon with all his Wisdom in abundance that was a divine wisdom given to him from above couldn't settled with one woman even two women, then why should i, an Olodo, that knows nothing settle with one pusssy, no, i can't and it can't happen...not in this life or next life, if there's any next life.

Opportunity presented itself to you to drill some pusssy and you fuckenly scared because you have a wife. You have disappointed your ancestors even our father King Solomon. Failure like you.

try and ask Google the age king Solomon died despite no battles, Peacefull life against is father David that even used almost all of his life to fought battles


Don't lay your hands on what won't let you last long.

1. Encourter with God- relationship with him personal

2. God should be my light and my salvation and wrap me with love


3. God should help me

Amen amen Amen

wunmi590:



Honestly, I have not even started at all, my problem is that, I don't want to rush and build my house, because I want to make my forever home more and over comfortable, that I won't be looking back in 5years to rebuild something else...

ah, what kind of thinking is this!! That your first home, you will build another one, forever ke

Selfishness

She be mumu, she started coming without you making advance payment!

Candidlady:


drugs will make a man/woman of 20 look 50!!

i have not won my own battle o, but istil dey fight am

change your circle of friends

snazzie:

God bless you for this advice

Amen

Havilaah1:

Thanks sist, i told him he knows I'm very introverted and shouldn't expect me to act the way other's do. He said I'm an introvert fine but i have few friends, i have people i call and chat with on a daily basis.
One thing i certainly didn't do was apologizing, cos I'm not doing anything wrong. I only told him i will try.

Aunty, i wish you can seek wisdom from the elderly ones apart from some people here that have no experience.

the truth is in marriage, you arent married to you boo oo, you are getting married to his family. it better you learn how to make them your own family now. if you change now and start to familiarize yourself with them now, they wont see it like you are pretending at all...
i wish you can see a marriage cousellor on this and ask, you are getting married to his family

fight for your relationship and start calling these people and apologize for the distance simple- forget "me and my husband" rubbish o. you will need these people, they determine lot of things as in lots

life no hard

Peace...
Guy man needs that

Did they tell you they are idle before!

What is the source of the moneyl?

That will determine what I will do

brizziedos:
Value that damn thing

things like these needs special skills

Benard5050:
I'm 29 yrs old, I had a breakup with the girl I've been dating for 4 yrs this year April. Since then it has been so hard for me 2 be in a relationship cos I think my ex could still come back cos I still love her.

I had a brief relationship with a lady last 2 months but didn't last long cos I'm still yet over my ex.

There's this lady that joined my working place and also my next-door neighbor, she's kind and her character has been so gud for d six weeks she started working at my place of work.

I think I'm loving her but I will not want what happened with d lady I had a brief relationship with to happen again.

Guys do u think I should go ahead and ask her out?

I'm scared of d negative that might arise cos we are working in d same establishment even though I'm a senior colleague to her there.

Guys is this advisable? I'll be on d tread to answer any question u might want to ask. Thanks.

please take your time to heal, yuu need to heal right now, just make friends

makavellidon:
Good evening nairaland, please there is ds girl am currently seeing now but the problem nw is that she liability 2 me. She always bring all her problem 2 me if she does not cloth today she we ask for another or the other she even ask me to pay for her house rent, am getting tire i dont knw how 2 tell her that i want 2 quit because she has been telling people that she my gfrd and ds is a girl av nt bleep at all. I want 2 quit dont no how 2 tell her pls advice

it is a pity

Better face it and quit now before it gets out of hands

Typical of what she is going thru

Simple rule, don't go/do that far if you aren't married

illicit:


Please help me like this post on the link below
https://www.nairaland.com/6837037/20-giveaway-closes-5p.m-uk#107374895

Cc zyzxx

done bro

The money is very sweet ni

Bro, my simple advice for you is go and make money...
Because las las you will eat breakfast
She will leave your for some that has money


Chase your dream now o

Lord i am grateful for everything.
you have been wonderful to me

Sir, you are highly favoured.

I receive grace amen

I pity you ooo

Truly is sacrificial not killing

LordReed:


Here we go with the dundee analogies again. Keep wishing for what will never happen, we can see you are nothing but a dummy.

Good morning sir, pls, don't forget to come and apologize to those you have abused, when you finally know the truth.

And also preach the gospel

Jesus christ love you

Happy birthday a fulfilled MOG: to our Father, Mentor, Role Model

More grace in Jesus name Amen

Blessings27:


But The poster said "opposite sex", so it's can be anybody of the opposite sex... Abi?

But my boyfriend broke up with me sha because of that, cos he thought I was dating him, but I only gave the guy the money because he is an orphan and was begging for food on the dept. group chat... That's why I mentioned it "as the most expensive gift" cos it cost me my relationship and money.

Wow, this indeed was an expensive gift, I am sorry about that.
You didn't discuss with your boyfriend at all ni, abi why will he be that insecure?

God will surely repay your kind gesture back.