A friend of mine who works with an Insurance firm which is rated on of the first 3 in the country as been lamenting of the urge to get married urgently.

He stays in a very big 2 bedroom apartment on the mainland and stay all alone.

Every time we get talking via chat, phone call or one on one. Majority of what his bothering him is the need to settle down with his fiancee and start a family.

Bear in mind that he has been dating this lady for 5 solid years and he has made love to her only ONCE.

She avoids coming over to his place for fear of being to ramantic with him and the possibility of having se*x a second time with him.

The issue is this guy have cheated severally on this is girl which I didn't blame him. In my own opinion, she has totally neglected him.

He intends settling down with her before the end of the year but his biggest fear is if "she won't end up starving him with s*ex".

A lady who have only gone intimate once in 5years of their relationship might just starve him for a life time.

Hmmmmmmm!

Sijo01: Hmmmmmmm!

Talk joh!
Which one are you hmmming like a crocodile?

Sijo01: Hmmmmmmm!

Same here!

Hmmmmm.....

@op
Did dey agree on celibacy b4 dating?

This one na story? Nonesense passing jare

acidtalk:

Talk joh!
Which one are you hmmming like a crocodile?

Bros talk nor let me talk.....i yam jst speechless....wish michael jackon ws still aliv, he wud hv undasnd me beta.

Once in five years. Is the girlfriend born again or what. Is she wood or was she getting it from somewhere else. But i wouldn't advice him to in ahead.

mrkels: This one na story? Nonesense passing jare

Its not story but you had the entire time to read through, click on the 'reply' button and typed the above.

I must confess your life is pathetic.

IZUKWU: Once in five years. Is the girlfriend born again or what. Is she wood or was she getting it from somewhere else. But i wouldn't advice him to in ahead.

Well...he loves her pieces so anyone telling him the reasons why he shouldn't just go ahead might make one look like an enemy.
He knows the truth deep down but is just too scared to face it.

Idowuogbo:
Same here!

Hmmmmm.....

@op
Did dey agree on celibacy b4 dating?

Well even if they did, the scary thing is she never gets jealous or even shows an iota os suspicion on the guy.

Even though she loves him darely too.

Wel she has her reasons and may be she wants to wait till when she is married or the guilt of premarital sex is what she can't handle esp if she is frm a very religious background where intimacy b4 marriage is condemned. Atleast he knws she is nt promiscious bt he should try and find out her reasons before concluding

nne3870: Wel she has her reasons and may be she wants to wait till when she is married or the guilt of premarital sex is what she can't handle esp if she is frm a very religious background where intimacy b4 marriage is condemned. Atleast he knws she is nt promiscious bt he should try and find out her reasons before concluding

Won't such a lady end up denying her husband intimacy after marriage?

That's certainly his biggest fear.

nne3870: Wel she has her reasons and may be she wants to wait till when she is married or the guilt of premarital sex is what she can't handle esp if she is frm a very religious background where intimacy b4 marriage is condemned. Atleast he knws she is nt promiscious bt he should try and find out her reasons before concluding

i had similar issues wit my ex who believed that being intimate is d only way u show ur love bt i was nt ready so he moved on though i loved him then. So the fact that she is nt sleeping wit u does nt mean she doesn't love u or wil starve u wen u ar married. I knw smbdy who dated his wife for 7years without sex bt now they ar hapily married wit 3 kids and honestly na d man dey complain say d wife 2 like 2 dey ''do'' lol... I pray it turns out wel 4 ur frnd @ post

nne3870:
i had similar issues wit my ex who believed that being intimate is d only way u show ur love bt i was nt ready so he moved on though i loved him then. So the fact that she is nt sleeping wit u does nt mean she doesn't love u or wil starve u wen u ar married. I knw smbdy who dated his wife for 7years without sex bt now they ar hapily married wit 3 kids and honestly na d man dey complain say d wife 2 like 2 dey ''do'' lol... I pray it turns out wel 4 ur frnd @ post

I pray so too.
'Cus he is freaking scared.

Acidtalk and his friends= complexities

bennyraz: Acidtalk and his friends= complexities

I'm telling u

It's annoyingly hilarious when guys blame girls for their urge to cheat with flimsy excuse such as 'she neglected me' lines (just like the op's pal here).

My message to ur friend Op, tell him to GROW THE F[b]U[/b]CK UP!

bennyraz: Acidtalk and his friends= complexities

He always has some story to tell. Very interesting individual.
@TOPIC- Why hold back after doing the deed? Maybe she gave her life to Christ . They'll be fine jor. Don't bother your head.

Rocktation:

He always has story to tell. Very interesting individual.

interesting and complex. He's the only complex person have come across on Nl.. While Tisabone is a confused chick.

I don talk am b4...make dem remove all those se..x toys wey dey market so women go dey feel the real tin...dem get toys home boyz get soap and baby oil....e no make sense o

bennyraz: interesting and complex. He's the only complex person have come across on Nl.. While Tisabone is a confused chick.

*eavesdropping from behind the window*
My mum told me to always forgive those who gossip about me.
So I have forgiven you.

Csami: I don talk am b4...make dem remove all those se..x toys wey dey market so women go dey feel the real tin...dem get toys home boyz get soap and baby oil....e no make sense o

SMH!!_which among dm do u pertake in?

Roseey0:
SMH!!_which among dm do u pertake in?

Jesus christ! I don't do soap and baby oil please.

Please o but what is wrong with not even doing it at all in 5-10 years? is it strange, weird or abnormal?

nne3870: Wel she has her reasons and may be she wants to wait till when she is married or the guilt of premarital sex is what she can't handle esp if she is frm a very religious background where intimacy b4 marriage is condemned. Atleast he knws she is nt promiscious bt he should try and find out her reasons before concluding

I totally agree with you. Girls like that are for keeps. @Op, Question is: will you cheat on her when you eventually marry her?

From personal xperienc, I wz once in a rship wit a veri religious gal who luved me 2 pieces n I d same. She gav me all d sex I wantd until she came 2 her senses n dat well dried up. it wz until later she confesd 2 me she alwzs felt guilty n dirty afta each encounter n it alwzs bore on her mind n she myte nt b compatible wit me sexually among oda tins. Truth b told no amount of punnies I hav had afta her hav eva replaced wat I STILL FEEL 4 HER n ryte now I am ready 2 go 24 yrs wit no sex jst 2 have her wit me again. If u ask me,he shud go along wit his plans,cos she will def open up 2 him sexually wen dey r 1 body. She is jst stayin true 2 wat she believes as concerns no sex witout marriage n he will b a FOOL 2 let her go, cos seems 2 me frm ur tale she is jst as committed 2 him.

5 years gini

I cant even endure it for 5 days not to talk of 5yrs.

Something is wrong somewhere. . .

ACIDTALK= English/second Version of Lefu

in my own opinion, i think there is lack communication between the two of you..you are somehow not disusing what need to be said..if you are so serious about her a truly want to marry her...start talking

Csami: Jesus christ! I don't do soap and baby oil please.

wetin Jesus do u na?,hw cm ur so grounded wit de options

Booty4me: ACIDTALK= English/second Version of Lefu

Oh I agree

Sex is meant for marriage!!!!!!!!!! Just because she was cheap to do it once with him doesn't guarantee she will be cheap forever by doing it again. Place ownership("marriage") on her before you have access to her body.