In today's relationships we find out that a lot of partners hardly bond deepely.
Most partners are in a relationship just to change ther status to "Engaged or Married" without deep bonding being in place.

Ladies and Gentlemen, whats the best way to bon with a partner you both didn't start off as friends before entering the relationship?

Could it be watching television together, listening to music together or shopping alot together?

This particular topic will be extremely useful for those who were match-maked and those who desperately need to settle down.

Just like any relationship you always start as strangers. Even if you were friends, the things you will learn about a lover will be different than what you knew as friends. Getting to know a person takes time and being desperate to settle down is no excuse to jump to marriage with a person you don't know. Oh yeah who the hell still gets matched these days

Anyway you should bond by talking to find out if you share similar interests and you can do activities to build and create memories together that way you wont just be lovers but friends.

omega25red: Just like any relationship you always start as strangers. Even if you were friends, the things you will learn about a lover will be different than what you knew as friends. Getting to know a person takes time and being desperate to settle down is no excuse to jump to marriage with a person you don't know. Oh yeah who the hell still gets matched these days

Anyway you should bond by talking to find out if you share similar interests and you can do activities to build and create memories together that way you wont just be lovers but friends.

Thanks.

But in a situation where you were being matchmaked by your parents and theirs just so much pressure to get something started.
The friendship thing wont be so smooth to build.

Am speechless

Sex is the easiest/fastest way.

...find common grounds/interests and explore them together...
Simple!

Guy,did a fake prophet promise you will get richer the more you create threads on here?btw,av u gone to collect ur laptop?

So how did it go with your father-in-law, has he forgiven you yet??

This shld be your 101st thread right? Cos d 100th got bad wit your supposedly father-in-law. Guy, madness dey worry u

KINGwax: This shld be your 101st thread right? Cos d 100th got bad wit your supposedly father-in-law. Guy, madness dey worry u

deeplow: Guy,did a fake prophet promise you will get richer the more you create threads on here?btw,av u gone to collect ur laptop?

Tolaaaaannni: So how did it go with your father-in-law, has he forgiven you yet??

lmao!y'all free the guy and concentrate on topic abeg!

@TOPIC- Do everything that you can together.

shymmex: Sex is the easiest/fastest way.

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Ma guy na so o no time..
Don't mind me just being a jerk uhm for every successful there has to be bond or wha we call chemistry without this ingredient u are going no where with the relationship

Communication²

Adhesive, glue, celotape, gum etc

Have your people in the village finally chosen a wife for you?
What of that your "ashewo politician" father-in-law? Has he forgiven you?

Yield: Communication²

^5

slimyem: lmao!y'all free the guy and concentrate on topic abeg!

Please let them keeping showing the entire world how stup*id they really can be.
Afterall in reality fooools like this are needed to help the topic make 20pages.

Rocktation: @TOPIC- Do everything that you can together.

People like you actually prove it to be a fact the Wisdom is really a scarce thing in Nigeria.
God blessed few people like you type with it.

Thanks dear.

Ishilove: Have your people in the village finally chosen a wife for you?
What of that your "ashewo politician" father-in-law? Has he forgiven you?

I found out YOU were the village wife so I kicked against the marriage.
Its a taboo in my family to marry an idi*otic person like you.

slimyem: ...find common grounds/interests and explore them together...
Simple!

Correct babe
*thumbs up*

Blugreen: Am speechless

Erm Oga, you are always speechless

cindyrella:
Erm Oga, you are always speechless

He won't be anymore.
I have purchased the Form for him to enrol in the Deaf and Dumb school.
He will start being able to demostrate very soon.

acidtalk:

Please let them keeping showing the entire world how stup*id they really can be.
Afterall in reality fooools like this are needed to help the topic make 20pages.

So you can still open another thread, despite the fact that you have lost credibility on this forum? By calling people that found you out in your lies 'stoopid', you have just shown to the whole world that you are just an idle,puerile attention seeker who is badly in need of a life outside NL.

Dude,go get a life. Sheesh

Ishilove:
So you can still open another thread, despite the fact that you have lost credibility on this forum? By calling people that found you out in your lies 'stoopid', you have just shown to the whole world that you are just an idle,puerile attention seeker who is badly in need of a life outside NL.

Dude,go get a life. Sheesh

Is your life so pathetic?
What credibility are you talking about?
Oh! So you are just like sexkills that will do anything just to be known on nairaland.
So b*itch the real world is out there and not on nairaland so lick your stucking butt.

Did Seun tell you he enjoys my 'credibility'? Just right after that thread, another one made it to the front page. And watch out for many more....


See how pathetic and bitter you are, so posting on nairaland will give me a life out there? Don't be like you gay boyfriend bi*tch. Reason before posting.

Ishilove:
So you can still open another thread, despite the fact that you have lost credibility on this forum? By calling people that found you out in your lies 'stoopid', you have just shown to the whole world that you are just an idle,puerile attention seeker who is badly in need of a life outside NL.

Dude,go get a life. Sheesh

from your signature is is obvious you are ANGRY with life.

Who won't deny you when you are so nasty.

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try witchcraft! its magical cos its winch!

OP use Aradite Glue,it bonds like magic and both partners will lap like skin on the body.

acidtalk:

Please let them keeping showing the entire world how stup*id they really can be.
Afterall in reality fooools like this are needed to help the topic make 20pages.

oh, crap! Who is displaying foolishness now dude? Everybody knw u to be a fuckin fake poster, like i said, madness dey worry u and na inherited gene

acidtalk: from your signature is is obvious you are ANGRY with life.

Who won't deny you when you are so nasty.

okay, alright, u can shut it now. This's what happen when animals are allowed to mingle with humans. U might claim not to be wild but God knws a domestic animal is also an animal, animal.

You guys here should leave the OP alone, if you don't like his thread just hit the back button or engage yourself with something else.

Just channel your energy positively, take what will benefit you and leave the rest.

Sometimes the critics makes it interesting but i see some people are really taking all these very seriously.

yall need a glass of chilled milk!