I've had it quite the hard way.

I met this beautiful girl whom my roommates wouldn't stop talking about, I later discovered that her name was always on everyone's lips; which was the actual reason I noticed her. ( I'm a big time snob )

Most guys were turned down probably because she's an actress. She featured in some Nigerian TV movies. I had to observe her for months before making my move.
NB: I fell for her because my friends couldn't stop b*tching about her and forcing her into my head!
We met, got together and I got played.
She actually hooked with me just to make fame of herself. I never knew until it dawned on me.

We later separated, and I fell for her Best friend who has been really nice to me all those time I was down. We got together and started dating but later made it open.

The actress girl wasn't cool with it but pretended to be, so she decided to hook up with me and explain everything. I later agreed and so, we hooked up for the explanation.

To be Honest, I still had crushes for her (the actress). Which was one of the reasons her best friend warned me never to contact her.

We hooked up on BBM and we talked about so many things.. She started giving me the "I want you back talk", I declined; but then she requested I tell her how I really felt about her.... Which I told her and that was how she ruined my life for Good.

She copied the chats we had and claimed that it was special to her knowing that I loved her. She used the chat as her profile picture; and her best friend stumbled upon it.

The worst part was that she didn't ask for an explanation. She just called our relationship off because the things I said in those chats were extremely private and was never meant to be said outloud.

Now! I'm clearly confused.
I don't know what to say or do to convince her that it was a set up.. As I always delete all my chats.
She wouldn't even pick my calls or talk to me in school.

What do I do to convince her?

Earn her trust.

ArQueBusieR: Earn her trust.

How?

davidcobi:
How?

Mann! You just had to ask the dreaded question...wait for the romance gurus.

all I have to say is. . . go back to school and read your books. .

Acidosis: all I have to say is. . . go back to school and read your books. .

Lol - d dude is datin genevive
So he sure nid no books

Poster you got what you deserve, so deal with it. Between, why will you go on and date her after the (Actress) broke your heart? You never had any feelings for her in the first place but rather, you only used her to cushion the effect of your heartbreak (rebound). So please just let her be because even if you eventually make up with her, there is still that part of you that is yearning for that (Actress). You can't eat your cake and have it bro!

You fell into her traps. Since you dated, you should've known what she was capable of or perhaps you weren't that observant. Then again, she's an actress, so she's good at putting up a front. Her best friend (now your ex too) warned you, but you didn't listen. Drama's never far away when you get involved with an ex's best friend. The actress didn't force you to say those things; she asked and you replied out of your own freewill. It's a great idea to leave both of them and move on.

Dondav stop chatting shyte! U and I no dats some scripted bullshitzzzz u have dere.

Idowuogbo: Dondav stop chatting shyte! U and I no dats some scripted bullshitzzzz u have dere.

wot wil u nw believe?

to hell with all these Nollywood scripts i really can't take it anymore. shiiit

Give six months severe break with both friends. Approach the best friend after then and try to convince a fresh start on a clean slate. Best of luck

Yield: You fell into her traps. Since you dated, you should've known what she was capable of or perhaps you weren't that observant. Then again, she's an actress, so she's good at putting up a front. Her best friend (now your ex too) warned you, but you didn't listen. Drama's never far away when you get involved with an ex's best friend. The actress didn't force you to say those things; she asked and you replied out of your own freewill. It's a great idea to leave both of them and move on.

I think I love this lady's intellect.I hope I ain't falling for her yet.
*rubs eyes.

^when would you ever know wat 2 do

@Op, So You Don't Know What To Do, Are You A Learner??

190-the-clown:
^when would you ever know wat 2 do

I know u'll probably talk me into not accepting the actress, but I've got a thing for her.

Stevez32: @Op, So You Don't Know What To Do, Are You A Learner??

Eerm, Define Learner?

davidcobi:
I know u'll probably talk me into not accepting the actress, but I've got a thing for her.

Davido - quit this moanin
Dis topic bore me
Dis is fairytale fantasy #
There are no actresses
No girl
No davidcobi btw

Just relax and sip some soda uve tried

You are a confused young man who thinks women exist for his pleasure. How about you go with the one YOU like and leave the best friend alone? If you don't like someone, stop stringing them along. It's unfair.

fresh_dude: You are a confused young man who thinks women exist for his pleasure. How about you go with the one YOU like and leave the best friend alone? If you don't like someone, stop stringing them along. It's unfair.

U get time o! Dey dia dey advice invisible characters.

Idowuogbo:
U get time o! Dey dia dey advice invisible characters.

Hmm.

U got dumped, so? Thought u're a snob? Why don't you continue with ur life because u got what u deserve and read ur books or better still get a new girlfriend.

u go do work it men. U dated her b4 the break off cos of her friend right. Then pester her life witout stalking her

ArQueBusieR: ......wait for the romance gurus.

Like Bado?

Idowuogbo: Dondav stop chatting shyte! U and I no dats some scripted bullshitzzzz u have dere.

Never knew sey u don show before I recommended u!
.
So, dat tin na script?

LMAO!
An Anti-bullshit or Anti-nollywood squad is needed ASAP!!

ayobase:
Never knew sey u don show before I recommended u!
.
So, dat tin na script?

No 1 Blockbuster!

ayobase:

Like Bado?

And who might that be?

Every spirit of confusion,i cast out of dis dude's life in Jesus name.dude let d relationship go.dont accept anybody,nor beg dem.lol