madu97:

he isnt that much older than me. he turned 28 in may n i turned 15 in january so he is just like less than 13yrs older which isnt to bad bcus my dad is 15yrs older than my mom. n i dont look 15, i matured b4 most of my mates n my bf says im more mature than most 25yr olds.

madu97: okay today im pretty happy. my mom actually talked to me today! i was so happy that i hugged her and i started crying. she was crying too. we talked about everything. i told her that i was sorry and i know that her and daddy were disappointed in me and that i regret everything. she told me she knows but it is hard for her to see me going through this while my mates are in school facing their studies. she says she never dreamt that i would fall pregnant as a teen. she said that she's sorry for not talking to me and she wants me to know that she still loves me but she is just heart broken that i ended up getting pregnant because she had me when she was 17 and her life wasn't the same. she had came to america at 12yrs wit her family and she met my father when they were both 16. she said that she initially had plans on being a psychologist but after she became pregnant with me she couldn't continue with school. she and my father got married. she had to post pone schooling in order to take care of me and then she ended up having my siblings so in all she spent 10yrs taking care of us. she said wen my aunt called her n told her the news that she almost broke down because she wanted a better life for me, she wanted me to go to university and become a doctor. she says thats why her and my dad are goin to give the baby up for adoption, she says they think the baby will have a better life with parents already established and she wants me to still be able to go and accomplish my goals. she told me that she loves me and my siblings and my dad but if she could do everything over then she would have waited before having a family until she had finished her education, she says she doesn't want me to go thru wat she had to n das y she suggested adoption for me. i never knew this was wat my parents went through, i am so glad that my mom shared this wit me, now i understand why her and my dad were so upset. this is the first time me n my mom has really talked in like 5yrs because she is always too busy wit her work. she says that she will schedule a doctors appointment n she will go wit me to all of my pre-natal appointment, sexual abuse organizations, and teen pregnancy organizations. i feel more closer to my mom than i have in a very long time. i promised her i wud never contact Quinton again and that i wud never have sex again but she laughed and told me dat after i give birth then she will put me on birth control pills because she doesnt want me to fall pregnant again. i love my mom soo much right now.

madu97: okay today im pretty happy. my mom actually talked to me today! i was so happy that i hugged her and i started crying. she was crying too. we talked about everything. i told her that i was sorry and i know that her and daddy were disappointed in me and that i regret everything. she told me she knows but it is hard for her to see me going through this while my mates are in school facing their studies. she says she never dreamt that i would fall pregnant as a teen. she said that she's sorry for not talking to me and she wants me to know that she still loves me but she is just heart broken that i ended up getting pregnant because she had me when she was 17 and her life wasn't the same. she had came to america at 12yrs wit her family and she met my father when they were both 16. she said that she initially had plans on being a psychologist but after she became pregnant with me she couldn't continue with school. she and my father got married. she had to post pone schooling in order to take care of me and then she ended up having my siblings so in all she spent 10yrs taking care of us. she said wen my aunt called her n told her the news that she almost broke down because she wanted a better life for me, she wanted me to go to university and become a doctor. she says thats why her and my dad are goin to give the baby up for adoption, she says they think the baby will have a better life with parents already established and she wants me to still be able to go and accomplish my goals. she told me that she loves me and my siblings and my dad but if she could do everything over then she would have waited before having a family until she had finished her education, she says she doesn't want me to go thru wat she had to n das y she suggested adoption for me. i never knew this was wat my parents went through, i am so glad that my mom shared this wit me, now i understand why her and my dad were so upset. this is the first time me n my mom has really talked in like 5yrs because she is always too busy wit her work. she says that she will schedule a doctors appointment n she will go wit me to all of my pre-natal appointment, sexual abuse organizations, and teen pregnancy organizations. i feel more closer to my mom than i have in a very long time. i promised her i wud never contact Quinton again and that i wud never have sex again but she laughed and told me dat after i give birth then she will put me on birth control pills because she doesnt want me to fall pregnant again. i love my mom soo much right now.

friedmeat: [b][/b]

Be safe and don't forget to always eat fried meat and GARRY

obowunmi:

Fried meat with ayamase and dundun...with some palm wine to flush it down.

maclatunji: My people, this drama no get Part 2.

maclatunji: ^ Here's the thing, the people who don't believe you do so because from their experience or lack of it. They can't relate with your story. I find you thoroughly believable, I just want you to realise that you have made big mistakes and need to work hard to put your life back on track. I wish you the best moving forward from here, you need to learn fast.

obowunmi: Who do I need to pay to ensure Madu97 returns

What happens when popsi returns from work..... **sips guinness - loosens belt on trousers, rubs sexy potbelly**

madu97:

i think my bf can allow it bcus he says age is nothing but a number. i kno my bf loves me, he tells me everyday n he has been with me for more than a yr now. i dont kno what he will do if i tell him about the pregnancy, thats y im asking u all for advice. im sure he doesnt have anyone else bcus he tells me that i am the love of his life and that we belong together n that he has never met someone like me before. i have been to his apartment many times n i havnt seen any other woman. i trust my bf. i started havin sex this yr after i turned 15, most of the girls at my school have already been havin sex but its not fair that i waited to have sex n im already pregnant.

maclatunji: ^ Here's the thing, the people who don't believe you do so because from their experience or lack of it. They can't relate with your story. I find you thoroughly believable, I just want you to realise that you have made big mistakes and need to work hard to put your life back on track. I wish you the best moving forward from here, you need to learn fast.

madu97: since everyone thinks im lying then i guess ill take my problems elsewhere. im sorry for disturbing you guys with my problems. u guys are making me sad now, i hate it wen people say im lying wen im not. i guess i have to find some other website where i can make new friends n vent out my problems, mayb a teen pregnancy forum where i can get advice from other people goin through the same thing. i only came here for advice because u guys are nigerians so i thought u guys wud b of help since my parents r nigerians. thank you for the advice you guys have given me since, i am grateful that it has opened up something between me and my mom. but since everything i say, u guys think its a lie then i guess i wont disturb u guys any longer. i am sorry for taking up your time, this is my last post and u wont have to worry about hearin from me again. thank you for all the advice, i am grateful. bye! im gonna miss u guys tho

safeact:
Madu, what is ur facebook username, i want to se.e ur pix so that we can interract more!