Dear Nairalanders,
I Love my girlfriend so much, she is like a sister to me and she is also my life. I mean no harm for her and I am determined to marry her in future but my major concern right now is that she is 10days pregnant for me, its my dream that she be the mother of my unborn kids but we are not ready for this particular one, she is still serving, I am not married to her yet and I am a bit financially down now, I don't want her to suffer cos she is like my eyeball. What do we do?

One Love.

Whatever we say would make no difference..

Follow ur mind cos no one on nairaland will advise you to abort a little girls pregnancy.. Meanwhile congratulations., baba tinuke

Go ahead and marry her,children are gift from God.Don't even think of terminating the pregnancy.

BTW, why did you do without na,when you know fully well that you are not ready for the outcome?

when you dey bleep without protection,you no no say na pregnancy im go lead to.
Before you bleep her you know consult us for nairaland,after you bleep her you still no tell us,na when im com reach belle,na im we com dey important(C me C wahala).
You no do s*ex education in biology for secondary skul ni.
As for me,flushing the baby is equivaalent to murder and it attracts a penalty of death by hangiing(lol),I wont advise that,so you left with one more option,let the baby be,so do that,that's what I will advise.Afterall you should be able to take responsibility for your action.
You not alone,you have joined the league of father's.
Congratulation Baba Ibeji,remind us on nairaland when the time comes for naming(infact I should do the math,pregnancy is 10 days old,delivery is 9 month and naming takes place 7 day's later,lol).

Op will be a father soon c'mon cheer up.

Man, to me, 10 days is too short to ascertain that a woman is pregnant. But sorry, you might not be the only one sleeping with her... You may love her, but she might actually be paying you back with deceit. just relax man, and be careful about this Ish

since u claim to love her so much go do introduction and the wedding follows when u are financialy stable. Baba tinuke invite us for rice and chicken o

Congratulations op, you will be a papa soon!

Erm I go like come chop rice o!

You should be asking nl for child support .
I personally pledge one pack of pampers every week for 6 weeks, if you name the cute boi after me.
Skin to skin sweet o

Op's gonna be a daddy soon. Congrat man, e nor easy.

Sijo01: Op's gonna be a daddy soon. Congrat man, e nor easy.

Sweedy , When is our coming up.
When it is 20 days old , tell me o

^
C'on shuga, no cause for alarm. you will be kept posted.

been financially down aint a problem though .......... she's serving rite ? den dont allow her abort the pregnancy ..... just allow her put to bed ...... meet wifh her parents first, now that is early .... discusss with dem and geh their consent ..... aftawards wenn u re bouyant enof for marriage u den go ahead with the marriage ... same happened to my cousin .... my dad went wifh him to see dey babe's parent .... dey sorted the whole fhing out .... making it vewie simple that dey'll get married wen she's delivered and the guy financially okay ..... :dont abort the pregnancy: go with ur parents or an elder to meet wifh her parents .... IMO

how can you have erectiion when you are broke?

The future is here Op. Congratulations

av nufin 2 say other than just let us know when its time for naming ceremony sooo we can come and eat rice o!!!

Are you so broke that you could not afford a condom? You did it and you are here asking what you should do.
If you are grown to have unprotected sex, then you should be grown to face the consequences

wonlasewonimi: how can you have erectiion when you are broke?

This has to be the funniest post of the day! Couldn't help laughing, funny but kinda true.

lmfao

HOTCASSY:

BTW, why did you do without na,when you know fully well that you are not ready for the outcome?

thats the problem with most men....very annoying