I'll clock 31 by October and she clocks 22 September which means am 9 years older than she is. Is the gap too much? Some people maximum difference should not be more than 5 years. Pls help ooo. Am confused.

if @ 31 u r confuse what do u espect from a 22?
what is the confusion about?
is she not physically and emotionally mature to be a wife?
there are some girls @ 22 thou age youg but physacally mature,
responsible and can manage a family.

Are you in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship? ? If your ans is YES, then confusion is not the right word to use, but fo olishness.

For me to express myself with such language, you should am walking towards marriage. So I have only asked for advice, not insult. If you cant advice, please press backspace.

For me to express myself with such language, you should am walking towards marriage. So I have only asked for advice, not insult. If you cant advise, please press backspace.

leyom234: For me to express myself with such language, you should am walking towards marriage. So I have only asked for advice, not insult. If you cant advice, please press backspace.

sorry I just can't help it

joeydozzy:

sorry I just can't help it

Loool

Do ppl still ask such silly questn?
Beta look for anoda reason to dump ha as$, cos i see dats wht u wants to do. U r nt yet ready for marriage boy

leyom234: I'll clock 31 by October and she clocks 22 September which means am 9 years older than she is. Is the gap too much? Some people maximum difference should not be more than 5 years. Pls help ooo. Am confused.

she too young 4 u

LOL..funny people

Kenistry: Do ppl still ask such silly questn?
Beta look for anoda reason to dump ha as$, cos i see dats wht u wants to do. U r nt yet ready for marriage boy

You think so? Well.. Thats not the case, girlfriend. I dont dump girls. But since its a lifetime thing, dont you think I need to really do what will make me happy

leyom234:

You think so? Well.. Thats not the case, girlfriend. I dont dump girls. But since its a lifetime thing, dont you think I need to really do what will make me happy

So what will make u happy? Send her away and marry a 31yrs old girl?

leyom234: For me to express myself with such language, you should am walking towards marriage. So I have only asked for advice, not insult. If you cant advise, please press backspace.

For you to have given an unclear story about yourself makes me think your too weak to have a wife. Oh, you think I'll waste my medulla power thinking if its 'marriage'/ 'dating' ?
I don't think your type can get married so soon. Marrying a 22 year old girl would even make you more dumber and weaker..

I was 23 when I married my husband who is 11years older than me.

It all depends on the persons involved. If you match, you match. If not, leave.

Help with what now?

I do not think so.Actually depends on what both of you are doing or aiming at.

22 is thinking school,career,work. What's on your mind?

Give her time to study,work and mature mentally cz when she hits 27 you will be 36, assuming it lasts between both of you.

27/36 looks ok.

frank3.16:


So what will make u happy? Send her away and marry a 31yrs old girl?

Send who away? Oh make I dey work make I e be say wife school fees go dey disturb the chilren school fees?

Still wondering why the op is asking for help!

leyom234: For me to express myself with such language, you should am walking towards marriage. So I have only asked for advice, not insult. If you cant advise, please press backspace.

Buhahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

pendo89: Help with what now?

I do not think so.Actually depends on what both of you are doing or aiming at.

22 is thinking school,career,work. What's on your mind?

Give her time to study,work and mature mentally cz when she hits 27 you will be 36, assuming it lasts between both of you.

27/36 looks ok.

Thanks for the advise. But the truth is the reason why am not married yet is my income. If I want to get married now, i'll manage with the job at hand but the deal she has NCE and wants to do part-time degree. There is need for another job although am expecting something better very soon.

cindyrella: Still wondering why the op is asking for help!

Well, he is asking for opinions because he would not get married and start borrowing money to do some things that need get done. Pls be objective about this issue. I have come to learn that love is not the only thing that matters. Yes, so many other things matter. Financial needs versus financial ability.

JallowBah: I was 23 when I married my husband who is 11years older than me.

It all depends on the persons involved. If you match, you match. If not, leave.

Ok thanks. You actually helped out.

You're both adults. But because of the age difference you're likely in different life stages right now. That shouldn't stop the two of you from making it work though.

leyom234:

You think so? Well.. Thats not the case, girlfriend. I dont dump girls. But since its a lifetime thing, dont you think I need to really do what will make me happy

will age diff make u happy? Does it make any sense? Get ur priority ryt & stop makin such fuss

acidosis™:


For you to have given an unclear story about yourself makes me think your too weak to have a wife. Oh, you think I'll waste my medulla power thinking if its 'marriage'/ 'dating' ?
I don't think your type can get married so soon. Marrying a 22 year old girl would even make you more dumber and weaker..

Mr Perfect, I neva told a story. I asked a question which i know there are so many out there that need answers to a similar situation. No matter what some ITK like you sha, I no surpose mind. Thanks all the same. At least, you self sabi internet.

leyom234:

Ok thanks. You actually helped out.

Just look at what you both want now, and in five years from now And if you THINK she dont want the same, ask.
Thats what my husband did, told me straight up; if you dont want to be a wife and have a baby before 3years from now, we can not work. I dont want a girl I want a wife.

In any age-difference, its important to be at the same place.

Yield: You're both adults. But because of the age difference you're likely in different life stages right now. That shouldn't stop the two of you from making it work though.

Thanks