My girl friend wants me to start her marriage plan now and probably do the marriage next year. And if i dont, she will broke up with me. But the problem is i am not ready for marriage now, because i am not through with my education and i am not satisfy with my per time job salary. This is a girl i love so much and i have spent so much on. So what should i do in this situatin.

I am 25 and she is 24. But she will be 25 dis month.

At 25, you are still young for marriage considering the fact that you don't even have a stable source of income.





_{Don't allow her broke up with you oh}

^you took my mouth out of d words

Couldn't have said it worse

If u where in my shoes wot will u do?

Well talk to her! Tell her u love her so much, she is wat u want ur future to be, but u ve to work 4 dat future, u ve to complete ur education and get a good job so dat u can adequately provide 4 her nd d lovely kids she ll bear u.

Assure her dat der is no ulterior motive behind d wait, dat she is d only one dat rocks nd ll cont to rock ur boat, dat u want to be a man/husband dat she ll be proud of.

Talk to her and make her listen nd see reasons but make sure u really mean all u say!

girls and marriage this days

geepy: My girl friend wants me to start her marriage plan now and probably do the marriage next year. And if i dont, she will broke up with me.

*Sighs*

Do you have full understanding of what marriage entails?

Marriage isn't something you rush into...it requires proper planing and good investment.

Your reason for early marriage shouldn't be because your girlfriend pushed you into it...if go down that lane, I'm afraid your marriage would be filled with regrets.

geepy: But the problem is i am not ready for marriage now, because i am not through with my education and i am not satisfy with my per time job salary.

You must be having a hallucination.

So you know you're not ready for marriage, and you're fully aware that your income is nothing to write home about...then if I many ask, what do you and your bride intend to survive on if eventually you get married?

geepy: This is a girl i love so much and i have spent so much on. So what should i do in this situatin.

I would suggest that you wait till you're ready.

geepy: I am 25 and she is 24. But she will be 25 dis month.

Your age isn't an issue here...the main issue is for you to be financially, matured, socially and responsibly ready.

Good luck.

my dear, dis is ma advice for u kk..u dont need to boder urself over dis isue, explain the situation to her, if she pretendz not to understand u, den dont talk about it again, i believ wen the time comes if she is truly urz she will wait....rte now my brother is facing that kind of problem, his girlfriend wanted marraige but his not ready, the girl in question is 25 as well nd she is not working, no handwork no qualifications at all, all she wanted is marraige, am like a younger sister cos am 23...nd i gav a piece of ma own advice but she wounldnt listen to it. u will be the one to suffer for it in future, career first as a guy before thinkin of marraige, remember in marraige it is for better for worse..dont start wot u cant finish...hardworking guyz av been asking ma hand in marraige i told them to wait in 4years time....i need to achiev wot i want to achiev before goin into marraige..the ball is in ur court play it well dear.....25.24 goin into marraige mmmmmmmmmm..

Thank u so much crazzy man, ur nick name sounds funny. Well i like ur points. Thank u too angel kemmy, you are really an angel. I will keep to ur advice. I am ready to let go of her now cos i already explain things to her but she is not listening. To her, she said her younger sister is already married and she dont want next year to pass her. Although She is a nurse. And i am a civil engineer. I am working with O.N.D in a construction company but i am not a full staff yet.

Your 24-yr old girl wants to get married right away simply because her younger sister is married.

That is the only reason she wants to get married.

_Some Women!!!!

Na wah o.

In addition to the advice here, be careful so she does not get pregnant