Hi folks, you are welcome to comment on this topic?

We had a hot debate about this with my female colleagues at work during a lunch break, and felt I should throw it open.
Do you really think girls should spend on guys, whether they are seriously dating or not.

uhm. . . .
*make i find trouble*
ladies should spend ooooo,gone are the days when men spend

@ vivyn
what do you think

I used to think its a fifty-fifty thing, or probably 60% for guys, and 40% for babes. Well right now I`m not so sure.
Whats your view?

Notin dey wrong on a sista spending on a man, me I dey don am cos relationship na all about GIVING.

Whatever, who ever is richer should do more giving.

@ jkpretty
thank you very much

^{calls all my girlfriends***make una begin spend for me,i no get money oooo***}

I see nothing wrong in spending on your guy once in a while. but it should be a guy who is totally worth it, not some jerk.

my opinion is that ladies can also spend on guys.it is time we change the mentality that only men are meant to spend .so, please spend on dat precious guy because are just too precious,treat us well

@ poster

yes!

but 2 the deserving and appreciating type.

how can someone ask 4 money?

personally, i don't know how 2 ask my guy 4 money.

is anything wrong with me?

NO INSULTS PLZ.

ufobabe:

@ poster

yes!

but 2 the deserving and appreciating type.

how can someone ask 4 money?

personally, i don't know how 2 ask my guy 4 money.

is anything wrong with me?

NO INSULTS PLZ.

Nothing is wrong with u. Its normal, i had that problem too. Still do anyways. Its because u love him, u find it difficult to ask. your lips simply seal up. But note that not every guy deserves that, they could take u for a ride. If He truly loves u tho, u need not ask, they know. & they provide

by the way, why r u not on your IM?

@Sauce Kid i told ur GF before u, that u are rich, they r coming after u, in full force

As 4 me,

Any which way na way.
Whichever way it comes from (guy or babe) its ok.
But some guys cant afford 2 see his babe picking up the bills always.
A man's dignity will be degenerating gradually if babes spend.

One day, na babe go start to marry guyz

Hand goes, hand comes. . . . but i don't entertain opportunists!! It's hard asking for money from a guy talk of he parasiting me

,.

viviyn:

Hi folks, you are welcome to comment on this topic?

We had a hot debate about this with my female colleagues at work during a lunch break, and felt I should throw it open.
Do you really think girls should spend on guys, whether they are seriously dating or not.

@poster

Help me answer this question please:

Do you really think girls should remain selfish and self-centered in the 21st century, whether they are seriously dating or not?

Inspite of the various exposure and education that our generation can boast of?

If you and your friends can candidly answer this question, then you have found the answer.

Spend or not to spend? Women can be sooooooo selfish and self-centered

Of course! Just like he spends on me. Exchange is not robbery. That is what you do when you care.

But the guy must be worth every penny, not a doggone piece of trailer park trash!

personally i don t see anything wrong in spending on a guy as long as he is the appreciating type. there is love in sharing.

@ jkpretty
but why now?
u wan make vultures attack me?