Im starting to notice some red flags within my relationship. Fewer calls and lesser concern about how I am doing and other things. I just want to ask what are the things someone should watch out for in a girl when a relationship is about to end?

On the contrary, what are the things you noticed and you took lightly before your relationship ended?

May God allow your anticipated comments help me and others.

I know there is some sense in what you want to say. I wish you could try to expatiate more.

As you have said, from my experience, its like when an earthen pot rools on a steppy slope..its gonna crash. sorry bro, take heart

T_Bademosi: Im starting to notice some red flags within my relationship. Fewer calls and lesser concern about how I am doing and other things. I just want to ask what are the things someone should watch out for in a girl when a relationship is about to end?

On the contrary, what are the things you noticed and you took lightly before your relationship ended?

May God allow your anticipated comments help me and others.

BRO,YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS HEADING FOR THE ROCKS......

Mine :less calls and concern,too much demanding of money,number always busy and lack of eye contact when talking to her...

There surely were red flags in mine, so i quickly made d first "break-up move" b4 he did(i feared he was gonna break up), so i wouldn't be feeling d brunt of a broken heart. I still felt it anyway.
To ur post, omo forget oh, d girl don dey tire, prolly she's seeing another dude whose spending on her. Dats wat is killing some girls..money money money. Try breaking up with her(maybe jokingly) then see her reaction. You'd know if she's getting tired of you or not.

^^^
signs of an insecure lady. sad

@op. No more midnight calls, unnecessary demands

kokoye: ^^^
signs of an insecure lady. sad

this aint bout being insecure. I Suspected he was cheating on me, and i only broke up when my suspicions were eventually confirmed..
But this thread aint about me, its bout d poster. #Back to topic...

Thanks y'all for the responses. I pray it doesn't end anyway. Perhaps it could be re-vitalize, perhaps I should end it now.

booqee: There surely were red flags in mine, so i quickly made d first "break-up move" b4 he did(i feared he was gonna break up), so i wouldn't be feeling d brunt of a broken heart. I still felt it anyway.
To ur post, omo forget oh, d girl don dey tire, prolly she's seeing another dude whose spending on her. Dats wat is killing some girls..money money money. Try breaking up with her(maybe jokingly) then see her reaction. You'd know if she's getting tired of you or not.

Your contribution is flawed on many levels.
1: It is possible the person is testing the ground you stand on! You rushed into a break-up and confirmed....... It is better to be the last one out of the door in a break-up. In that way, the laws of the universe will work in your favour. Do all you can to show that the relation means a lot to you, even when the other party is simply crazy!!!!

2: it is good(in your opinion) to say, i want to leave -jokingly-. But you must NOT play with such words. If you continue like that, she/he will not take you seriously next time!. When you say, "I want out" you should be serious about it: UNLESS the other party make a major move to reverse the trend! Furthermore, if you decide to give him/her another chance, you must make it clear that you will not tolerate games. Let your words have weight!

But more important, is ur contribution on d topic.

Complains every now & then abt money, takin decisions without involvin ♍ε. i felt really hrt brokn.

T_Bademosi: Im starting to notice some red flags within my relationship. Fewer calls and lesser concern about how I am doing and other things. I just want to ask what are the things someone should watch out for in a girl when a relationship is about to end?

On the contrary, what are the things you noticed and you took lightly before your relationship ended?

May God allow your anticipated comments help me and others.

All right I'm willing to help. @OP How long have you guys dated?

A year plus. I approached her about my feelings & she claims she still loves me but that she believes I dnt cherish her enuf & that we mate too often & dts why shes avoiding me & dat shes watching spendings thats why she doesnt call often.

I understand her but im just having this strange feeling.

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