Guys usually say i made love to her or the girl would say he made love to me after having sex. My question is, at what point does LOVE equate SEX?

I also have an issue with the phrase girls use i.e 'he made love to me', this gives the impression that only the man actually benefited from the act. A better phrase would be 'we had s-ex together', this means we both enjoyed the act.

Maybe its cos the guy does more of the action that some girls say 'He instead of 'we',u knw some girls just lie down like a log of wood while d guy does evrythng,while some girls take the lead and the guy is just looking like lucozade

^^
Looking like lucozade! Oh my dayz!

@topic
To 'make love' sounds more romantic in my opinion.

Remember the evergreen song:

'I'll make love to you
Like you want me to
And I'll hold you tight
Baby all through the night...'

How would it have sounded if it was:

'I'll have s.ex with you,
Like you want me to,
And I'll hold you...bla bla'

To make love connotes passion, ardour, desire...

To have s.ex? Not as much....

I don't use any of them. In what context will I use them anyway?

190-the-clown:
lola luv let's make love

lola luv let's make babies ' would be much more lomantic

Gals use d word made luv cos is more of emotion n luv 2 dem while guys use sex cos is more of fun n play 2 dem

**following**

ITbomb:
lola luv let's make babies ' would be much more lomantic

Ehen, ok

Lola love let's make babies

"Let's make love" sounds moree loving and romantic.

"Let's have s.eXx on the other hand, means not having any feelings for the other person at all.

My 2centz though

190-the-clown:


Ehen, ok

Lola love let's make babies

Babies ke? Making love is different from making babies. You gotta come harder, 190. C'mon. You can do better!

Same noni....
phuck....na wash
made love.....na wash
sex.....na wash
be intimate.....na wash
........ Preeck enter toto (d koko)

This is getting interesting butI prefer to say "we had sex"

I personally use d two depending on the occasion;
1. When my chic and i agree to make love...it wud be d normal borin missionary style...i'll move slowly into her with a nice R&B music...i wud handle her softly and gently but....
2 when we agree to have s.ex (oh ya ya yah!)...it will b an explosive section....tryin all nonsense that comes to our head...i rough handle her while she does d same to me....she gives it back to me as i give it to her.....it can last up to 4hrs with hard rock music load on the speakers!

@mynd
Just like we've been saying, men mostly prefer using 'having s.ex'.
Women make love.

@exponental
The various terms might have the same end result, but they all have different connotations.

Lets make love bawo? No time! My own na...Darlingo! Come let's import and export or in my ngbatified moments, na bebe! Wa lana sibe. No more no less!

Idowuogbo: Lets make love bawo? No time! My own na...Darlingo! Come let's import and export or in my ngbatified moments, na bebe! Wa lana sibe. No more no less!

Agbero ni e jor

lola.luv:
@mynd
Just like we've been saying, men mostly prefer using 'having s.ex'.
Women make love.

I don't care jorh. Its about the fact that I am not into those mushy stuff jorh

Omolola1:

Agbero ni e jor

I deny?

Idowuogbo: Lets make love bawo? No time! My own na...Darlingo! Come let's import and export or in my ngbatified moments, na bebe! Wa lana sibe. No more no less!

igbo in d system

Idowuogbo:
I deny?

You don fori gbale

lola.luv:


Babies ke? Making love is different from making babies. You gotta come harder, 190. C'mon. You can do better!

Let's jst get serious

Marry me

Jinadu-Josefu:

igbo in d system

I no deny!

Mynd_44:
You don fori gbale

Den u must have ja bo leyin mAma e ni kekere.

Idowuogbo:
Den u must have ja bo leyin mAma e ni kekere.

No be your back I fall

Mynd_44:
No be your back I fall

Na boss! On dis occasion.... Iya mo eye omo to bi.

Idowuogbo:
Na boss! On dis occasion.... Iya mo eye omo to bi.

IYE OMO. Not EYE

Mynd_44:
IYE OMO. Not EYE

Shaarap joor! I try na! I resemble omo ibile ni?

Mynd_44:
I don't care jorh. Its about the fact that I am not into those mushy stuff jorh

Being hard has its time and place but best believe there's a time for mushiness too! You gats to mix it all up! :-/

190-the-clown:


Let's jst get serious

Marry me

Is that a plea, a command, a threat or an assertion?:-/


@id
na u biko.
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