Mrs.Chima:
There are many couples in America where women have proposed to the men. Many of those couples are still happily married.

It is all about the person.

preshuzpearl: I see that move as been desperate.
Motives are important.
Recently i started talkin wit dis guy and as we were chattin,i mentioned to him that he was breakin my heart by not giving me wat i want. Somehow along d line, our conversation veered into relationship and he started sayin dat i wasnt 'good enough for him' or smthin. Altho i lafed it off,i made sure i passed d message across dat he was actually d one below me and was only foolin himself thinkin he could use that line to get at me
The point is, I have come to discover that guys dont usually give respect to ladies who come after themESPECIALLY if they are little stars having a lot of priviledges and 'fans'. they start thinkin they're doin u favours just by talking to you

booqee: In d old times, wooing a guy may seem or appear desperate and cheap or something. But now?? Oh puleazzze! Dis is freaking 2012! Its no big deal to ask a guy out..it just depends on the way you tell d guy. If i'm crushing on a guy, and he possess practically most of the tinz i want in a guy, why can't i approach him, rather dan stick to some goddamned loser who might end up breaking ur heart. My happiness'll always comes first. But because of our 'african mentality', pple still see it as unethical, immoral, desperate and a cheap attempt..which makes it difficult for african girls especially to do it.
Maybe i need to be reminded, pls which law or rule says its MUST be d guy dat must make d first move??

sadeiyare: Ladies : I am happy some guys are responding personally to this question(s).You can even be friendly and go a step further to ask the said guy you are interested in questions to know his heart ( likes, dis-likes, ideal wife e.t.c, just like guys do), and even try to know how he will respond if proposed to by a lady he admires, and see qualified to be his wife

sadeiyare: Ladies : I am happy some guys are responding personally to this question(s).You can even be friendly and go a step further to ask the said guy you are interested in questions to know his heart ( likes, dis-likes, ideal wife e.t.c, just like guys do), and even try to know how he will respond if proposed to by a lady he admires, and see qualified to be his wife

dmcdad:

Yeah! You right brah.. Personally, I am very reluctant in approaching women. I dont knw why buh I'm not just too enthusiastic about it. If a woman should approach me and she has the core features I crave for, wetin I go say I dey wait for... Lol

agitator:



guy your head correct so? why u come start this mumu topic, dey converse with yourself. Girls no dey ask out broke guys like you. make your pepper rest first and leave the rest for the girls.

sadeiyare: As a result of the nature of my job I tend to come accross many ladies and gents intending marriage. But one thing I have discovered with the ladies is that, if they had the mind set they could have initiated marriage, not waiting for the guy to ask them first. So my questions to matured single ladies and guys, and even married ones. If you have/had your way as a lady can you ask a guy out on a date, woo him if he is a husband material and propose marriage and marry him ? And to the guys, will you marry a lady, that asked you out, wooed you and propose to marry you, if she is your ideal wife material ?

Mrs.Chima:
There are many couples in America where women have proposed to the men. Many of those couples are still happily married.

It is all about the person.

Mrs.Chima:
There are many couples in America where women have proposed to the men. Many of those couples are still happily married.

It is all about the person.

ochallo: please the correct question should be , would you marry a lady that proposes marriage to you?. i can't believe this is on front page and is grammatically wrong.