Richfella: I smell fabrication .

drnoel: So after seeing her nyash u now want to pour sand on her garri. I pity u. GEJ has not yet outlawed assasins and highed killer in Nigeria, so they are not scarce.

MRbrownJAY: see all these clueless people talking shiit here...... so if you were the person in question living abroad, and your friend was A) fukcing your future partner and B) knew that you future partner was a local biatch, you would want that friend to NOT TELL YOU?!"
how many of you would gladly have your brotha/sista/son/daughter/family member marry the local (male) biatch?

@OP
your problem is that you were dishonest to your friend, because the minute you realized that this gal was the biatch you were fukcing, you should have TOLD HIM....and clean your conscience about this stuff. what are friends for?!

but hey, if thats the kind of life than any of you people here want, a life of dishonesty and deceit, then not even God can save you lot!

chidyhels: U knew she had a boyfrnd abroad, but u still went ahead to play silly games with her
Now the boyfrnd turned out to be ur childhood frnd, u wanna play the nice guy
......Abegi!!! face ur bizns..he without sin should cast the first stone...btw,u can't stop anything with ur revelation...they are already married.

fluid26: Kai! Umu nwanyi!! Airport bf, school bf, Denmark bf (a.k.a husband-to-be)...how many more? Ok, maybe Street bf, cinema bf, swimming pool bf...etc...etc... Amaka baby! Hot babe!

OP, if u must tell ur padi, tell him not to worry and go ahead with his marriage plans. She's not the only slut in the world. There are about 3billion sluts operating @ the same frequency.

you forgot to add shawama boyfriend, You know NIGERIAN GIRLS nor dey take eye see shawama

Richfella: I smell fabrication .

gree-die:
And you waited all these while to tell him?

Im not saying you shouldnt tell him but just know that when you finally tell him, you ll have 2 enemies added to your list of enemies. Guess you know who they are?

Sam xiu lee: its not about who without sin sin cast the first stone,friendship and loyalty,we men av this thing between us when u call someone your friend you ve got to tell him right from the first minute he knew,that might not change anything depending on his friend choice,he might just take it has a thing of the past cos ppl do change.
Its not going to be easy,but its better he tells than keeping it,if his friend gets to know from another source then he should be ready to add one enemy to the squad....cos she might tell her husband after the marriage that his friend was hitting on her durring thhe wedding,just to separate the two friends..she would never b happy seeing them together.but I think its too late for you to talk cos your friend will still hate your ass cos u took so long to talk,what if you were in his shoes?would you like your friend not telling you about your Gf immediately he knew you were going to marry her?

Tedpgrass:
Come on..... honeytrap needed here.

Simply set her up!!!!!.......... with your childhood friend as an observer
Dont let out to either party what's on except the "bait".
Make sure the bait is really "tight"
No room for excuses......
preferably with video evidence for loudmouthed relatives

That solves the problems of whether she's reformed or not, agro of telling your friend, no nasty reprisals!!!!!!!!

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chidyhels: U knew she had a boyfrnd abroad, but u still went ahead to play silly games with her
Now the boyfrnd turned out to be ur childhood frnd, u wanna play the nice guy
......Abegi!!! face ur bizns..he without sin should cast the first stone...btw,u can't stop anything with ur revelation...they are already married.

gilmaro: I met Amaka at mm2 when I went to drop my brother who was traveling that day. I offered her a lift but before she got to her bus stop, I gathered she was a student in my state university, she had a fiance who resides in Europe. Though we agreed to meet that weekend.

After that first encounter, i called her frequently so as to turn her on which yielded success after our meeting during the weekend. Though we agreed there was no future for us since she was getting married the next year. I started falling in love not only because she was pretty,but she was also good at knokkin (she's got skills and stamina).

One faithful weekend, I decided to pay her a surprise visit at school and enjoy those swell time once more. But to my surprise she introduced me to the guy i met in her room as her uncle. Later that night she came to my hotel room to apologise and blamed me for not pre-informing her about my visit and that the guy i met in her room was just a school bf. That was how it all ended cos i never visited nor called her again.

My problem now is that my childhood friend who's based in demark came in two weeks back and i just discovered that he's the fiance amaka told me about. As I type this message, we did her introduction last Friday, the marriage comes up on the 23rd of November and my friend has chosen me as his best man. Infact since his arrival, we've always been together making all arrangements for the marriage.

What should i do?
Should i tell my friend what happened between me and amaka and her life style or not? Advice please.