ItsModella:
Yes, I mean retardeen. Are you dumb not to understand what I'm driving at even though the word is not in the dictionary?

sexkillz: Seem or seems? Common girl, "are us silly?"

sexkillz: I only deal with "Facts". . . Sorry.

sexkillz: You get a difficult word or phrase and they get you the links from webster as factual proofs. . .

Shollypopz:
Well, that depends if u meant none or no one in ur previous statement!

Idowuogbo: *Yawns* bck to topic....Vivi! Who changed who?

ItsModella:
oops my bad!! I didn't think you were smart enough to comprehend "facts"

Shollypopz: This is so childish!!

Abeg who wants to join me in the "derailers" section?!

ItsModella:
oops my bad!! I didn't think you were smart enough to comprehend "facts"

Idowuogbo: *Yawns* bck to topic....Vivi! Who changed who?

D-Explorer:

Ok, my word is "lunkheads" who's checking that please?

They know themselves. . .

D-Explorer:

Nah! My italian potato changed herself.

vivian chinaza:

sexkillz: Why were you slow in thinking? As in, slow.

Shollypopz: This is so childish!!

Abeg who wants to join me in the "derailers" section?!

Shollypopz: A woman cannot change a man to match her preference. Even if he changes, it will only be temporal. He will always return back to his old self sooner or later. It's better to change yourself and accept that your partner wouldn't change instead of wasting energy on trying to change him.

If you are constantly trying to change your man then the whole foundation of your relationship is already flawed. A relationship only works when two partners accept each other for what they are. The moment you try to change your man you can start counting the days before your relationship ends.

"I know if I try hard enough he will eventually change." A man won't change because you want him to. He will only change when he is ready!
First of all, you don't control his mind, you don't run his life and you can't make him do things unless he personally wants to do them.
He is another human being and his life decisions will be completely out of your control just like your life decisions are completely out of his control.
Sure both of you can influence each other but that doesn't mean that one or both of you will do everything exactly as the other partner pleases.

"Can a woman change her man??" The answer is NO! And even if she does attempts to, it's going to be one big hill climb and in the end the reward might not be what she expected, SHIKENA! (Now that I've discovered this word Shikena, I always want to use it )

Idowuogbo:

Idowuogbo:
Typical London chick! U stay in shelf or u moved for uni?

sexkillz: Vivi changed me. . .

sexkillz: They know themselves. . .

vivian chinaza:

Biko ike mji alu ogu adirom n'abalia.

"Beht you shange me flom a bad kisser to a veli veli good kisser". . . Shît! I changed myself. . .

abiL*:



I'm not from London

I stay in Sheffield. Steel city

sexkillz: "Beht you shange me flom a bad kisser to a veli veli good kisser". . . Shît! I changed myself. . .

Idowuogbo:
Talk joor!

Idowuogbo:
Hmmmm.... Interesting!

vivian chinaza:

Biko ike mji alu ogu adirom n'abalia.

abiL*:
I hope this thing ends well sha.

sexkillz: "Beht you shange me flom a bad kisser to a veli veli good kisser". . . Shît! I changed myself. . .