I think most women got life backwards. They have been westernised to place emphasis on things that, in the true sense, add no value to their lives. Who truly adds value to the life of a woman; a husband who buys her tons of flowers and calls her a dozen times in 24 hours while keeping a string of women he does the same thing for all over town, or a faithful man who is not romantic but diligently provides for his home and helps with house chores including changing his kids diapers?
To the ladies in the house, which would you prefer?

Most of them prefers the romantic guy that opens the door of his car for them to sit, merry-go-rounding the entire eatery in the community & making more calls than a customer care representive with fake voices like one suffering from sore throat..

A sensible woman who has her priority right will go for a responsible man

Tokotaya: I think most women got life backwards. They have been westernised to place emphasis on things that, in the true sense, add no value to their lives. Who truly adds value to the life of a woman; a husband who buys her tons of flowers and calls her a dozen times in 24 hours while keeping a string of women he does the same thing for all over town, or a faithful man who is not romantic but diligently provides for his home and helps with house chores including changing his kids diapers?
To the ladies in the house, which would you prefer?

I am not a very romantic type so I don't expect it from a man neither.

GEtting flowers EVERY NOW AND THEN is a nice move and can make a woman's day happy but it is not that important.

I think most women prefer a responsible guy to a romantic one but even I, a woman who is not that romantic, likes some flowers SOMETIMES.
I hate being called 10 times a day and receiving 5 txt messages every few hours. Everything in moderation, please

I will go for a responsible guy...
A responsible guy is the real man..

@op. Are u saying responsible men are not romantic?

xynerise: @op. Are u saying responsible men are not romantic?

I wonder o

Both

How about a romantic and responsible man? Or is it too much to ask?

I would choose a responsible man over a romantic one any day. A man being responsible is a sign of maturity, life experience, and, in most cases, good upbringing. Anyone can learn how to be romantic if they truly wanted to.

Many women do not know what they want.

ogugua88: I would choose a responsible man over a romantic one any day. A man being responsible is a sign of maturity, life experience, and, in most cases, good upbringing. Anyone can learn how to be romantic if they truly wanted to.

I am responsible and very romantic period!

cindyrella: How about a romantic and responsible man? Or is it too much to ask?

Really? Do you live in the real world?
A responsible man is not as romantic as women wants!!!
However the mature women that knows what they want, will hcoose a responsible man. They are the real deal.
Running after romanticism only ends in disaster most of the time.

He has to balance being romantic and being responsible (excluding the cheating part)...unless he wants to end up giving another man's child his surname...women want to have the best of both worlds

mondi_cheeks: He has to balance being romantic and being responsible (excluding the cheating part)...unless he wants to end up giving another man's child his surname...women want to have the best of both worlds

...which isnt exactly possible. The average woman likes fantasy, sweet lies, petty meaningless actions. A man that can perfectly do all this has got to be a player, cos he'd need to tell lots of lies all the time. A responsible man wouldnt do that, so women would think him unromantic.

Responsible anytime, i could teach him a thing or two in the romance department.

ummmmmm................
op no vex ooooo

cant he be both responsible and romantic?
i tink being romantic should be one of his responsibilities

Screw romantic mehn! Na romance pikin go chop? We can take romantica classes wen we retired. As for now... It's all about stacking up dat Benjamins and kofoworola pound sterling.

gree-die:
cant he be both responsible and romantic?
i tink being romantic should be one of his responsibilities

Joker! Go find oyinbo abeg!

I prefer the responsible guy

I guess they prefer a romantic and responsible guy. And he has to be funny, intelligent, handsome and other dozens of good adjectives

Most of these girls making comments here are speaking from their anus.. Most ladies don't know what they want except some who have been inculcated with real life's values from responsible mothers. Ladies are still, deceived by romantic and stylish gesture, no matter how they pretend for the contrary but in their innermost mind, they just want a man that can be naughty.. So guys if you won't your woman to treasure you, show more romance and style in your union than than playing a good boy. If I hear mk I help her change diaper?!.

Oahray: Many women do not know what they want.

this picture came to my mind when i saw the topic. nice to know someone thinks like me

jimctu: I guess they prefer a romantic and responsible guy. And he has to be funny, intelligent, handsome and other dozens of good adjectives

Remember! Jesus Christ said he will come again

gree-die:
cant he be both responsible and romantic?
i tink being romantic should be one of his responsibilities

You have just said the truth and your heart as pure as an unicorn. Your fellows are busy hurting their feelings as if saying the truth cost a diamond.

A responsible man of course & as a woman there is a way u can make ur man romantic.

Are you saying A romantic man can't be responsible..

Oahray: ...which isnt exactly possible. The average woman likes fantasy, sweet lies, petty meaningless actions. A man that can perfectly do all this has got to be a player, cos he'd need to tell lots of lies all the time. A responsible man wouldnt do that, so women would think him unromantic.

but i said he should balance it out, the same way women manage being a mom, wife and an employee (or employer) at the same time.

Do you think our ladies know what they want?

I'm neither romantic nor responsible. Is that what you wanna hear?!

The truth is, ladies like handsome and or responsible guys BUT THEY PREFER THE LOADED (IN CASH) KINDDA GUYS...