teeowl:

Valuable men all know that there is no girl that is the ONE! They know that there is an abundance of good girls that fit their criteria as long as they are willing to make the effort to meet them. A valuable man would rather make a phone call to 30 girls 3 times than make a phone call to 1 girl 90 times.... In the first case, he learns a lot about female psychology and at the end of the day, his chances of being the kind of guy that his dream girl also likes improves drastically. As for the 2nd case of calling 1 girl 90 times, he gives up 100% of the control to the girl and has no say in the interaction! Valuable men are fiercely aware of that fact!!!!

A VALUABLE MAN CANNOT PURSUE A GIRL FOR 2 YEARS... BECAUSE HE HAS THE LOOKS, SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE, INTERPERSONAL SKILLS AND FINANCES TO GET THE KIND OF DREAM GIRL THAT HE WANTS!

A valuable man CANNOT purse a woman for 2 years... Can u imagine C.Ronaldo, Usher, Tyrese, Trey Songs pursuing a woman for 2 years?.... IMPOSSIBLE!!!

freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times.

A few months is ok in my opinion.

shymexx: Can ladies give me one reason why I need to "pursue" them

If fugly ar.se Flavor Flav could get ladies running after him because of success, why would I want to "pursue" women, when I can "pursue" success and get multitudes of women "pursuing" me? Really and truly, most guys are wiser now and they know how the game is....

Don't blame guys for a change in mentality, blame the "modern woman" for being a cheap commodity...

freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times.

A few months is ok in my opinion.

shymexx:

Lmao @ the bolded...

Well said - imagine chics also giving useless rules like: no kissing on the first date, no sex for the first 6 months etc. like it's going to make any difference whatsoever... Guys are frustrated and most can't be ars.ed anymore - and they'd rather chase "other things" with greater returns than chase women... At the end of the day, when they become a success in achieving those "other things" - they'll get more women with ease...

freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times.

A few months is ok in my opinion.

ekiyor3: just passing oh

shymexx:

Did you just say a few months

That's too long!!

pc guru:

Same here o, Money changes everything Career too important .

omo_to_dun: @ Ladies
If you had a son chasing a lady for 2 years, wouldn't you scold him?

........ Na so I knack her best friend. I just show am sey if you no ready, another person dey kampe. The kain curse wey she rain for my head when she find out, oh boy, come see creative curse.

Times af changed o.

k2039:
That's the real issue.

Become succesful, have money, a good career etc and the girls will chase you, in fact you have a wide variety to choose from.

A reasonable person will rather focus on achieving success in life than chase a girl.

teeowl:

Now u coming closer to reality... however Valuable men don't wait for a few months...
Asking a guy to wait a few months (assuming that means 3 months) means he has to ask you out 12 times (assuming he has ask u out every friday = 4 x 3)... this is still to much for the Modern Day Valuable Guy!!!

Ugly, broke, low self esteemed, awkward guys can wait that long and ask a girl out 12 times... BUT NOT the guys that have gotten their act together!

shymexx:

Bro., that's how the game goes - you have to be a step ahead of them...

And when you 'arrive', let them do the chasing, not the other way around...

A-40:

Honestly a lot of girls out there are not worth it! Some of you broads of nowadays are so vain! So materialistic and so fickle makes more sense to chase the greenbacks

You look at some girls and apart from what's between their legs there's truly not much else they bring to the table.

freecocoa: Okay then, how short a time do you think asking and accepting should take?

freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times.

A few months is ok in my opinion.

freecocoa: I said I don't want to argue but I can't ignore this so...

Do you expect her to just say yes immediately? I don't and won't say yes just like that, just how do you expect me to find out the basic things I need to know before agreeing to date a guy if I say yes just when he first asked?

P.S, Flavor is one hell of a fine and sexy guy, stop hating and hit the gym to get abs like his .

pc guru:
chasing babes is not my thing because i have too much debtors to chase instead

k2039: My offer is valid for a week.

pc guru:
chasing babes is not my thing because i have too much debtors to chase instead

shymexx:

The point of correction is; what difference does it make

Finding out the basic things is just a fallacy, there are too many fakers out there, trust me...

freecocoa: I said I don't want to argue but I can't ignore this so...

Do you expect her to just say yes immediately? I don't and won't say yes just like that, just how do you expect me to find out the basic things I need to know before agreeing to date a guy if I say yes just when he first asked?

P.S, Flavor is one hell of a fine and sexy guy, stop hating and hit the gym to get abs like his .

freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times.

A few months is ok in my opinion.

teeowl:

You are going to the Extreme end of the scenario!

You are not getting it... The point here is this -> If a guy asks a girl out she should say yes after the 2nd, 3rd or 4th attempt. When she is on a date with him, she should ask mini-questions to access the kind of guy she is dealing with. Girls need to increase their level of intelligence in being able to discern the kind of guy that he is! This strategy is a lot better than expecting him to chase for months.

k2039:

She knows that too and that's more reason why guys like that don't eventually get them because the girl sense he is suffering from a low self esteem.

And for those who get them they lose them easily later because they realised what they waited and chased for so long was overated.

A guy with a good self esteem understand know girl is worth overating, what simply makes a lady a lady is the hole in between her legs.

You here the 'real men'(mumus) say things like she is the nicest(if she was, she wouldnt stree him that much), she is intelligent(as if she is the only intelligent female in the world), she is the most beautiful, I can go on and on, but in reality the statement just reflects plain and simple stupidity.