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Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by kagari: 11:01pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
edelweiss: I have never being able to start from friendship to romantic, because I have never being able to switch on that thing. The moment I take u as a friend its friends for life.but when I think I want to date u, then I date and create friendship in the relationship. End of discussion. U make sence die |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by WuzilistiQ(m): 2:00am On Dec 23, 2012 |
An intimate relationship should start from casual friendship.......simple. |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by benbrains(m): 3:01am On Dec 23, 2012 |
jhydebaba: It works in this order... Can we all just stop quoting dis rI-tAd... he wanted an attention, and he s got it. At first, i thought there was sence in hs nonsence, nw it s confirmed. ... it s all CRAP! |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by buchostags(m): 8:00am On Dec 23, 2012 |
lola.luv:gud tuk but u r just a gal n an african gal at tht...probably u stl gat dose btiful deep african morals but for us in d street morals in gone outta d window. so we do sex n if its wot keepin we go wt a rltnshp n if we broke up we act matured n bcum frnds... call on bdays but nt aniversaries |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by buchostags(m): 8:08am On Dec 23, 2012 |
lola.luv:sum tyms u mite b tempted to keep d cash flow hangin n nt d person *winks* |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by buchostags(m): 8:16am On Dec 23, 2012 |
lola.luv:babe u r on key but u forgot to mention tht u gals r d peeps dat invented d dreaded *friend zone* u dnt want me to explain tht ryt na...n fyi we dnt do it accordin to d books we do it accordin to d street |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by buchostags(m): 8:22am On Dec 23, 2012 |
use d power of attraction to make d gal cum to u den get in her pants. make her understnd tht its just d game den if she wants more of d candy bar increase supply den if u r safe n cool wt d way thns r goin, whn she suggests relationship play along...always keep ur head in d game...n anoda thn keep ur feelin bottled up n parked at d bottom of ur biggest box. dnt let it out cos gals of nowadays no dey fear God |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by ceaser: 12:07pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
dmcdad:Na wa o. You dey vex fa. |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 12:14pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
ceaser: Guy! It's not as if I am perturbed or angered by this phenomenon, but the thing is; this is a pretty common theme in many romantic movies… You see the nice guy becoming friends with the girl….He does everything to keep her happy and eventually they fall in love and live happily ever after. Now reality doesn’t really work that way, and in fact in reality it’s the exact opposite of what you see in the movies, because once you fall into the “friends zone” the female will never see you as a potential lover. In the end, you will always be considered as just a friend, and she will only treat you like one of her girlfriends in a male form and nothing more. In fact, when you make your move or try to let her know that you are interested in more than just friendship, she would freak out and would most probably avoid you from that point on. Fact- Never be friends with a woman if you want to be her lover. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Nobody: 2:38pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
Only because they don't want to lose a good friend if the relationship goes bad. dmcdad: 1 Like |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 2:47pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
SniperInADiaper: Only because they don't want to lose a good friend if the relationship goes bad. If the relationship goes bad? That is pessimism. That's balderdash to me. If I come for friendship, then we can be in for friendship. Nut if I come for a relationship and she ain't dispose to accept me, then we go our separate ways. What am I doing with a lady's friendship? 1 Like |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Nobody: 3:00pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
dmcdad:what if things change and you and your friend want to pursue a relationship? Just because you are friends with somebody doesn't mean you can't be something else later. |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 3:10pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
SniperInADiaper: Are you saying whenever you have a chance of going into a relationship with a guy, u be-cloud your mind with pessimism and premonitions Buh, you will also agree with me that in often cases, friends from the outset might mean friends forever. What would a guy do at such juncture? Don't you realise that there are dangerz that lie in being friends first especially on the part of the guy? Please, see right through me and understand where I am driving at. |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Abbey2sam(m): 3:42pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
lola.luv:Rubbbbish,starting as a friend will only make you a very good friend to that person, mostly with girls you end up in the friends ZONE. While in the friend ZONE one sharp guy will just be phurking her pussy ......hahaha |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Nobody: 3:43pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
Of course I understand what you mean... sending you a pm...... dmcdad: |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by ceaser: 8:40am On Dec 24, 2012 |
dmcdad:All your replies have actually mirrored my own side to the issue. I've had personal experiences of ladies using annoying terms to wash down guys' romantic relationships with 'em. A lady we've dated for about 9 months (s3x-free though ) gave me the shivers when she replied to my own "I love you baby" with her own version. Guess what it was? "I APPRECIATE you too" - trying to avoid the use of the L- word. What in the hell! Whatever that means. I simply told her- "girl, do i look daft to you? Cos I the last time I checked, love and appreciate doesn't share the same meaning". That point on I got suspicious and later discovered she was slugging it out with a US based eastern bro each time they both travel to the village december for the yuletide (I'm from south west). Of course I nursed my wounds for few months and got off on another footing and tried to be closer home this time around. Well, I'd say the friend zone part was rather blurry cos we got to like each other almost immediately. Her cold feet again in six months and I was again battling to save my treasured relationship. Damning the effects on me, she broke up saying she needed SOME TIME AND SPACE to re-structure....whatever that means (I suspected she had to do this as she was going for NYSC and wanted a taste of the free life out there and i was still in my 5th year of a bloody 6yr course). Funny thing is she promised we could resume our odessey later on but wanted us to REMAIN AS FRIENDS while she "timed and spaced" it out, playing on my naivety and inexperience. Silly me, I called every other day for several months (oh my pocket money and feeding allowances, dang!). Through perhaps some act of divine providence, I broke free of her bondage and was free to have a promising relationship. In exactly two years after she came knocking, apologising and chanting the mantra - "CAN WE BE FRIENDS AGAIN?" wtf, we've never been enemies before, have we? "Friends" gini? Tufiakwa! This gender, or maybe most of 'em, don't seem to get tired of that line o' lyrics, do they? Friends ko, friends ni! Why make friends with a girl if not for a relationship. That's why the only female friend I'll always have will be my wife. |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 11:49pm On Dec 24, 2012 |
ceaser: Gbam!!! You have actually learnt from the school of hard knocks too. I think with your experience, you can tell a lot of people how its going with the friend thing.. But for me, I have never been into that zone, and will never be relegated to that zone.. What is wrong with being friends as we are in a relationship? Because friendship cuts across every other form of intimacy, be it friends, lovers, families, relatives and so on... I think its rather over-emphasized... More like an escape root for them gurlz |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 11:52pm On Dec 24, 2012 |
Abbey2sam: Gbam!!! |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by buchostags(m): 2:22pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
SniperInADiaper:havent u hrd its d most dangerous to turn friend into lover? |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by mecussey(m): 9:25am On Dec 28, 2012 |
I advise guys to always act like male animals, women usually pick offence when you act alpha but they usually come back. If she does not, then she didnt like you the first place, just move. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by edelweiss(f): 3:33pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
kagari:yes oo |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Nobody: 6:38am On Feb 03, 2013 |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by WHIZKIDEFE(m): 6:47am On Dec 14, 2016 |
k2039:You dread dat Zone.. Lol |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by donMIG(m): 7:32am On Dec 14, 2016 |
I dont blv in it...but d sh!t works dou Long cut i begdown or not...if no moe on to next target |
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by WHIZKIDEFE(m): 8:06am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Nice read.. |
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