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10 Ways To Keep Your Man From Cheating by olokfor: 5:04pm On Dec 22, 2012
1. Be willing to initiate sex.
Men equate sex with desirability. Help your man to feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way

2. Be open to experimentation. . It can be easy to get comfortable and fear of the unknown can stop you from being open to different sexual
experiences. Allow your man to try new things with you. If you won’t, there will be someone else who will. I’m not saying to engage in sexual activity you find repulsive but allow yourself to experience new things with the man you love.

3. Don’t over-accomodate.
Sometimes in a relationship, a woman can become too accommodating. Men get into relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime partner looks
like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may have dated casually. Women work to become the person their partner wants them to be and in doing so, they lose themselves. One day, their
man realizes this is what he asked for but he isn’t sure it’s what he really wants. Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.

4. Don’t become too controlling.. Often
without realizing it, when we get into
relationships we attempt to control the other person to do what works best for us. We engage in destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or rewarding to control.

5. Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him.Sometimes when women “get” the guy and get married, they begin to get a false
sense of security. Remember, all relationships are voluntary. A person can leave at any time. With an over 50% divorce rate in this country, we need to
remember how important it is to maintain a positive relationship, not simply to acquire one.

6. Let him have time to himself. Some men
cheat because they begin to feel hemmed in by the relationship. Engaging in an affair can provide them the sense of freedom they lose in a relationship. Allow your man time for himself
without you. Don’t try to monopolize all your guy’s time. Be open to time apart for him to spend with friends, pursue hobbies, etc. so he does not feel
he has no freedom.

7. Be aware of your emotions. Whether or not we are aware of it, women are masters at using their emotions to communicate volumes without speaking any words. We communicate anger, rage, sadness and disappointment that is received
by our partners.

Instead of taking that as a cue to do something different, some men begin to look for another partner who idolizes them the way you used to.

Don’t forget, your man wants to know he lights you up not that he is constantly disappointing you.

8. Prioritize your relationship. Often, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is also having an “affair” that’s not sexual. It’s more socially appropriate. This “affair” takes the form of prioritizing something, anything, over the relationship. This could be a job, children, a sick relative, a charity or anything that puts her man lower on her totem pole than the first position. Prioritize your relationship over everything else. This is the relationship you want to last for all your life. Other things will fade away and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it carefully.

9. Learn his love language. If you are not
familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages, please read it. It has the potential to save more marriages than marriage counseling has. Learn your man’s love language and speak it
to him regularly. He will know he is loved and remain true to you.

10. Find his relationship pattern. I do not know how to combat the biology argument. Some men simply believe it is hard wired into their
genes to have sexual relations with as many women as they can. If this is your man, it probably won’t matter what you do. Try to recognize these men early on by asking about their dating history.
If this is a pattern with your man, he probably isn’t likely to change just because you love him
best.

Your best defense against this problem is to be discriminating at the onset.
If you have read this article and wonder, what about him? What does he need to do? I wanted to write an article for women. I encounter more women in pain over their mate’s infidelity than I
do men. This is for you.

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Re: 10 Ways To Keep Your Man From Cheating by DExplorer1: 5:29pm On Dec 22, 2012
I won't discourage you. Thanks for posting but know that a cheat is always a cheat even if his wife open her laps 24/7.

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Re: 10 Ways To Keep Your Man From Cheating by Nobody: 5:31pm On Dec 22, 2012
Its a known fact that whoever wants to cheat,will cheat.But this article is quite laudable as many vital reasons for which men cheat are highlited...hence,if a lady should apply the above tips(esp. 1,2,5,8 & 9) in her r/ship,she is certain to have her man all to herself for a long time.

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Re: 10 Ways To Keep Your Man From Cheating by Caracta(f): 9:48pm On Dec 22, 2012
A cheat is a cheat!
Re: 10 Ways To Keep Your Man From Cheating by olokfor: 10:22pm On Dec 22, 2012
Thks guys

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