ferhyntorlah: So this thread made front page? No wonder I was seeing new and entirely different comments.

This thread has been enlightening, educative, informative and entertaining for me.

Nairaland, my stress relieving and laughter tonic!

shymexx: Damn!!! Empty barrels messed up a good thread with their non-existent wealth... Why am I even surprised, anyway Nigerians are the loudest people in the world with absolutely nothing to show for it...

Anyway, it's the family section, a play ground for jobless old hags and single mums... Don't you lot have kids to baby sit??

*Spits on the thread*

anitank:
Help me rate this BRAIN people, because when I checked it wasn't up to ZERO on the scale

anitank:
U mean u kept reading all the way to page 8.....wow!!

I was on the thread from page 3 to almost the end
Na me help populate the thread
The posters last two posts were questions I asked her
Na now it just hit frontpage
We slept on this thread last night lol

anitank:
Help me rate this BRAIN people, because when I checked it wasn't up to ZERO on the scale

baby_mama:

I was on the thread from page 3 to almost the end
Na me help populate the thread
The posters last two posts were questions I asked her
Na now it just hit frontpage
We slept on this thread last night lol

shymexx:

How about let me rate your wall-less pum and see if I can put my two feet in there??

Go sing lullaby to your kids or something, you jobless hag!

Fvck off!

berem: I actually saw the thread when it was on the first page and i didnt bother commenting.i never knew it was gonna be interesting.damn! I must have missed

anitank:
Help me rate this BRAIN people, because when I checked it wasn't up to ZERO on the scale

berem: Babe take am easy make dem no spit for your face.

ferhyntorlah:

Anitank, please don't start another WW2 on this thread; WW1 just ended when this thread made it to front page. Let's leave it at that, thanks!

baby_mama:

Berem,you missed
Chai
This was the thread of the year
Just relax and read through, you will finish one tray of meat pies and a carton of malt just reading
Shebi you are eating for umu ejima?

tarababy: I have been married to my hubby for 5 years now.For the past two years anytime we have disagreement or quarrel,he would spit on my face.I have had a heart to heart discussion with him to stop this disgraceful habit and he promised to stop but still did it four days ago.

Even my mum came all the way from Nigeria to plead with him here in England to stop spitting on me. Anytime I call my mum about this matter,she would start crying saying my husband is laying a curse on me and nothing good will come out of me if he continues.

I am losing interest in this marriage because there is no hope that he would ever change.I do not think any normal man would spit on his dog,let alone his wife.
He says he sees me as a poo at that moment and that his why he does it.HE is the type that loses his temper easily and would do nasty thing,which he later regrets .He is a forty year old man,who has refused to grow up.

married and matured minds in the house, do you think am wasting my time with this man?

Zemhen 1:

What non sense?............sweetheart this is the high...... My sister MISTAKENINGLY spat on our dog and my dad was quarrelling her to clean it up. It's simply inhuman ......seriously speaking I am an African guy to the core, I will love and respect my wife when I get married and I will put her in line when she misbehaves which women always do but to spit on her, I was raised by queens and I don't treat women that way.......there are numerous ways to put a woman in line but this is out of the question.
Your location is even to your favor .......sweetheart if he spits on you spit on him back[color=#000000][/color] ......if he tries anything funny kick hims ass and call the police, sue him for every penny he has.....you are his partner and helper not his slave or cleaner...........life is too short to be crying and begging .......if your mother can leave Nigeria to England to talk to him and he doesn't change that only means he doesn't care........take care

coogar:

spit on your face? is he a king cobra?
what a disgusting attitude.........didn't you check his background before walking the aisle with him? i think you should gather his friends/colleagues and bring the matter up. let them put some sense in his head. it's so dehumanising to be spat on....ewwwww!

tarababy:

I have spoken to the pastor,friends and family.He promised all of them he would stop but obviously he can't control his temper.
i have suggested anger management course but he has refused to ever attend such course.
He would destroy door,throw pot of stew in the sink and any disgusting thing when he is angry.

tarababy: I have been married to my hubby for 5 years now.For the past two years anytime we have disagreement or quarrel,he would spit on my face.I have had a heart to heart discussion with him to stop this disgraceful habit and he promised to stop but still did it four days ago.

Even my mum came all the way from Nigeria to plead with him here in England to stop spitting on me. Anytime I call my mum about this matter,she would start crying saying my husband is laying a curse on me and nothing good will come out of me if he continues.

I am losing interest in this marriage because there is no hope that he would ever change.I do not think any normal man would spit on his dog,let alone his wife.
He says he sees me as a poo at that moment and that his why he does it.HE is the type that loses his temper easily and would do nasty thing,which he later regrets .He is a forty year old man,who has refused to grow up.

married and matured minds in the house, do you think am wasting my time with this man?

tjack: Young lady let me not decive u,look at your husbanD problem from the spiritual angle,they is a wicked spirit inside your husband that is tormenting him and making him spit on u,he is not the one doing dat it the spirit that is controling him.ur husband need a deliverance the best solution is take him to synagogue church T.b joshua for deliverance after he has been delivered u will hear him confess and u will come back to give testimony they is no any other advice than dis advice I gave u.try and do it before it late bye.

Did you say she should take her husband to T.B Joshua?? ?? ??
You must be bleeping frigging creepy joking sniffing fucking kidding. WHAT THE F.UCK??

kulyie: If you know your worth,if you know how inestimably valuable you are you will not reduce yourself to a level where anybody will spit on you.its obvious you lack self esteem and you need to get your dignity back,abi did they have sex with you in the bush and your parents forced you on him without proper marriage rites when they realised you were pregnant? Because thats the only people i know men treat with contempt.you deserve better than this,because i cant imagine anyone spitting on me,men,whoever he is he will pay for damages and his entire family will go through hell before i back off.he will have to apologize prostrating wherever he did that act including his parents otherwise i will use everything am worth to reduce him to a nonentity

tarababy: [size=14pt][I have tried my best to save this marriage[/size]

and i don't know what else to do.I separated from him for four months last year, but he was calling the pastor,my mum,brother and friends to plead on his behalf.

He is a typical nigerian man who wants a wife he can walk on and dictate how she can live her life.How do you live with a man who does not agree with you before taking major steps in life.
he wants to be a leader but does not set good examples.He wants automatic respect but forgets it is earned.
Unfortunately am not one of the women,any man can boss around.I am not claiming to be perfect but i definately know what i want from life.

He believes he is the head and so i should not question his authority.This is 21st century where man and woman work together in partnership.He still lives in the old age,where he believes the husband is always right.

He is a businessman who is always home most of the time cos he has people working for him but he still expects me to come back from work to make his meal eventhough there is always stew in the fridge and he is a good cook.

he complains that i don't wake up early enough to cook and get the kids ready for school but he wakes up earlier but will not lift a finger cos he believes it is a woman's duty.

He said am not been submissive cos i have questioned why he can't cook his meal and have the kids shower since he wakes up earlier.

The only thing he is responsible for is the mortgage and i pay the rest of the bills,just to let people know that am a fair person.

i have to mention that he graduated from beating me to spitting.

[size=14pt]I am quitting the marriage cos am fed up and not cos some people advised me to do so.[/size]