I came across dis gal during my service yr. She told me she was a virgin and after 1 yr and few months I told her dat I wnt 2 go and c her family she acepted and a nite wt her I came 2 find out she was nt wat she told me. Wat do u advice me 2 do wt her as some1 I kept for for a yr and?

Are you a virgin yourself? Why do you seek a virgin? Any special reason? Do they say non virgins dont make great wives?

I never went after her because she was a virgin. Bt she told me dat and I dcided 2 kp 4 her bt nw finding out dat she is nt wat she said she is.

forget it bro. Virgin or no Virgin, love reigns.

[color=soyouquotedme]There is little you can do now that you are married.

Trust is earned, with that she lost some trust points. Ask her why she lied?, ofcourse whatever she tells you is not enough excuse to lie though. [/color]

Oldest trick in the book.. Ts a pity you fell for it!
if I were you, I'd toss her aside. Not coz she's not a virgin but coz of the lie.

k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]There is little you can do now that you are married.

Trust is earned, with that she lost some trust points. Ask her why she lied?, ofcourse whatever she tells you is not enough excuse to lie though. [/color]

Pls read again, they aren't married!

pfii:
Pls read again, they aren't married!

[color=soyouquotedme]If they are not married and he came to find out she wasn't a virgin himself then he can as well call off the relationship, she can't be trusted. [/color]

No one shud keep u in a relationship by lying to you. Kick her out of ur life now as you have found out she is a lier. It does not matter wether u are a virgin ursef or not.

Hmmmm!

MarioHeaven: I came across dis gal during my service yr. She told me she was a virgin and after 1 yr and few months I told her dat I wnt 2 go and c her family she acepted and a nite wt her I came 2 find out she was nt wat she told me. Wat do u advice me 2 do wt her as some1 I kept for for a yr and?

NO PUN INTENDED, HOW DID YOU KNOW SHE WAS NOT A VIRGIN? YOU WANT A VIRGIN TO MARRY STILL YOU WENT AHEAD TO EAT THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT WITHOUT GETTING MARRIED TO HER. YOU DID NOT TELL US WHAT YOU PROMISED HER BEFORE SHE GAVE YOU THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT. LOVE NO SABI VIRGIN

This reminds me of what happened to my cousin. I opened a thread about it. @op, you might find it very useful. www.nairaland.com/828242/he-discovers-shes-not-vi.rgin

Since she is empty and has nothing 2 offer, since she didn't trust herself n ur feelings 4 her: abeg enter d place and scatter d place. I hate stories lyk dis; is it compulsory 2 claim virgin status?

Please let's be real. That tin can pain gan! She for no lie na. . . And u @op how could u believe such a lie.

I neva see d geh wey go tell me say she be virgin wey i go gree abeg. Anyway take heart. Maybe after dis incidence ur mumu go reduce.

Dont b comited to d relatnshp anymor..she'l find ha level

MarioHeaven: I came across dis gal during my service yr. She told me she was a virgin and after 1 yr and few months I told her dat I wnt 2 go and c her family she acepted and a nite wt her I came 2 find out she was nt wat she told me. Wat do u advice me 2 do wt her as some1 I kept for for a yr and?

you wan marry virgin! How many virgins wey you don disflowered in your life that you finally want to marry one.
Well, just to advice you sha. You can tell her to refund all the money you spent giving other girls outside while sleeping with them during that one year period.
But wait o, how do you know the girl ain't a virgin? No blood on the first night? Not all girls bleed dear!

This sounds like a time for.... [size=30pt]honor killing! [/size]

As much as we can claim that the guy too is not a virgin and should not ask for one we should know that the girl lied. I for one don't see the big deal in being a virgin but this girl lied to the guy about something and did not even tell him the truth until he found out which will affect the trust he has in her. And without trust, the relationship is as good as over.

OP@ the question here is not can you forgive her but can you trust her? If you still can, fine and if you don't, you know what to do

MarioHeaven: I came across dis gal during my service yr. She told me she was a virgin and after 1 yr and few months I told her dat I wnt 2 go and c her family she acepted and a nite wt her I came 2 find out she was nt wat she told me. Wat do u advice me 2 do wt her as some1 I kept for for a yr and?

Usually I don't bother to ask a girl if she's a virgin or not.

If I love you, I'll ask you out...and if you accept my proposal, then we become lovers.

But if a girl tells me she's a virgin without me asking her, and I come to discover that she actually lied to me, I would end that relationship cos such a girl cannot be trusted.

And u waited 4 a year nd some months 2 confirm?

mZ sleeq:
And u waited 4 a year nd some months 2 confirm?

He is a good guy


All that time he was steady servicing other chicks.

I wonder why people lie about such? Na wa oo! What will you achieve when you lie?