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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by sage2(m): 4:20pm On Jan 07, 2013
Well, I am a nice and shy guy like 2face. I need not tell you my reputation with gurls.

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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jan 07, 2013
djmally:
14. They talk a lot. Babes want action not mere long talk
15. CHICS HAVE A DONKEY STRAIN ENCRYPTED IN THEIR DNA. THEY CRAVE ABUSE. wink
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by tushbobo(m): 4:24pm On Jan 07, 2013
Anything goes peeps.From bad to smooth to nice to witty... as long as ur emotionally intelligent and know the right buttons to press.You are good to go.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jan 07, 2013
nollywood20: Who says women don't date nice guys?
My senior bros who is a really nice guy is a serial dater and in fact tired of many girls and even older women coming to him. At the last time I checked, he has reduced the number of his girlfriends from 10 to 4 and turns down the requests of others. His buddies even hide their girlfriends from meeting him, because most girls and women who meet him drool over him.

If a nice guy is good looking and loaded too, girls will harass him, except he is ugly and poor.

... AND U CALL HIM NICE.... THAT NIGGA IS BAD 2 THA BONE.

IM WITH U ON THE MONEY PART. WE KNOW THAT BABES WILL DATE A PIG IF ITS LOADED cool

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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jan 07, 2013
Babzilla:

...BABES WILL DATE A PIG IF ITS LOADED cool
#WORD

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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by PedroJP(m): 4:39pm On Jan 07, 2013
cash cash cash cash cash cash cash and u'll see them flying like jet fighter towards u,be u a bad or a nice guy.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Niseamaka(m): 4:50pm On Jan 07, 2013
[/b][b][quote author=Dave ama]


2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control.



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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by PedroJP(m): 4:58pm On Jan 07, 2013
buh wait oooo!!! Na who suppose de make choice for this our world now,na ladies abi na men ? What's d essence of their multifarious nature to men ? Na men suppose even relax make dem de write application de bring with their type of person stated inside,then we'll bend down low and select and cast out others.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Joe5(m): 5:22pm On Jan 07, 2013
makky:
Exactly, no woman wants to end up with a bad guy esp if thats what he is inside. Dress well, talk naughty, do stuff but have a heart n be humane... Thats what i want cos believe me i want my man to take charge and be as free and as naughty as i am. But BAD, thats a no no!
pls whats the difference between being bad and being naughty ?
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by johnstar(m): 5:37pm On Jan 07, 2013
Ohk *continue kissing my babe *
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by victorD3: 5:37pm On Jan 07, 2013
Thank G am a bad boy

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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jan 07, 2013
The Best kinda guy for a woman is like me--

A Good Bad Guy.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by victorD3: 5:49pm On Jan 07, 2013
Babzilla:
15. CHICS HAVE A DONKEY STRAIN ENCRYPTED IN THEIR DNA. THEY CRAVE ABUSE. wink


The earlier you realize this breed called females are more intelligent,smarter apart from your physical ability the better for you.

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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by AdeniyiA(m): 6:57pm On Jan 07, 2013
Drdaps: All your reasons are not real when they don't date nice guy,why do they marry nice guy after having fun with mr bad guy
many women don't know what they want.
they use their youthful age to date bad guy for full 'explorative' fun and finally bring their 'rough'- & manhandled bodies to marry a gentle/nice guy to have kids.
chei!...nice guys don suffer,some even find it difficult to forsake d old lives by having n keeping d 'bad guys' for dea insatiable libido...

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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Tgirl4real(f): 7:35pm On Jan 07, 2013
4 n 5 got me laffing. cheesy
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 07, 2013
Why do people like tittering around extremes instead of settling for a healthy medium?
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nduson20: 7:50pm On Jan 07, 2013
Am a nice guy, yet girls do lyk me much. Op is wrong.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jan 07, 2013
@ op was right τ̲̅ȍ an extent cos only lastweek did a married lady tell me y she left her ex who is my friend,when she actually wanted my attention cos he was a door mat,good guy for all τ̲̅ȍ step on and ladies don't want ‎​dat cos 1.she can't count on him when in need of some support and according τ̲̅ȍ her 2. "boring",and me a self confessed player 6feet 2inches tall,a phisique (tyson Beckford would die for and badi boi I never hid my lifestyle yet they(ladies)older and younger kept on coming @ me though very good looking sha,dreamers that was d past cos I'm happily married now.and for those •̸№t so lucky in d looks department,better luck next tyme.@ op big ups
cos we ve been there done that.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jan 07, 2013
Lol@bad guys! Bad guys are cheats for life! I am OK with being a good guy, and I find the girl who loves me for whom I am.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jan 07, 2013
Hey let's •̸№t forget d law of nature that opposites attract right.Bad boys get the good girls and ashantis get d goodguys,so simple.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 07, 2013
nony30: @ op was right τ̲̅ȍ an extent cos only lastweek did a married lady tell me y she left her ex who is my friend,when she actually wanted my attention cos he was a door mat,good guy for all τ̲̅ȍ step on and ladies don't want ‎​dat cos 1.she can't count on him when in need of some support and according τ̲̅ȍ her 2. "boring",and me a self confessed player 6feet 2inches tall,a phisique (tyson Beckford would die for and badi boi I never hid my lifestyle yet they(ladies)older and younger kept on coming @ me though very good looking sha,dreamers that was d past cos I'm happily married now.and for those •̸№t so lucky in d looks department,better luck next tyme.@ op big ups
cos we ve been there done that.
one in a thousand situation. Please, get yourself some relief medication.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by star4(f): 8:36pm On Jan 07, 2013
@op hmmm this is maybe for girls who don't want to commit or have no self esteem.

Bad guys have a shelf life. Bad guys don't stay with one partner. If Karma is real? in 50 years time there's going to be a lot of old wrinkly 'I used to be hot' lonely sad men. Or if they do marry? lots of miserable women wishing they had made a better decision.
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by nwgoziri(m): 9:27pm On Jan 07, 2013
moreeni: OP is very correct. However, some of us clicked to nice guys and never let go when we found them.
...GBAM
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by vislabraye(m): 9:41pm On Jan 07, 2013
Pedro JP: cash cash cash cash cash cash cash and u'll see them flying like jet fighter towards u,be u a bad or a nice guy.

Beware. Cash ain't everything or you end up becoming a mugu.

Girls really don't know what they want. If you could be nice and bad at the same time, she'll fall for you.

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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by IYANGBALI: 9:52pm On Jan 07, 2013
How do I become a bad guy?
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jan 07, 2013
IYA NGBALI: How do I become a bad guy?
Go for penile enlargement. Flaunt it around any girl you see and wait for her to tell you what she thinks. That is how to become a bad guy!

Nincompoop!

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Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by free2ryhme: 10:13pm On Jan 07, 2013
Lobolintin: advert placement
I hate girls jare....

your mama and sister na woman ooo ... do you still hate them
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by free2ryhme: 10:24pm On Jan 07, 2013
Dave ama: Women say they want a nice guy, yet usually end up dating bad boys. Here’s why.

1. Not real. Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctively don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart.

2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect equals no attraction.

3. Predictable. Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad boy.

4. Mother Nature. Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved.

5. Fixer-upper. Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.

6. Sperm wars. Women are designed to procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave.

7. Fear of intimacy. If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary.

8. Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re not familiar with.

9. Sex. Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.

10. Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot.”

11. Charm. Nice guys don’t always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colours, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time letting go.

12. Protection. Historically, men have protected women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren’t so sure. Life is about balance. Most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. The ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. Until men learn how to do this, more often than not, women will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his good ones.

http://www.ynaija.com/no-show-12-reasons-why-women-dont-date-nice-guys/



this is the original web address copy cats
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lucia/12-reasons-women-can-t-stand-nice-guys
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by ITbomb(m): 10:32pm On Jan 07, 2013
free2ryhme:



this is the original web address copy cats
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/lucia/12-reasons-women-can-t-stand-nice-guys
So ? angry
Re: Why Women Do Not Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jan 07, 2013
Babzilla:
15. CHICS HAVE A DONKEY STRAIN ENCRYPTED IN THEIR DNA. THEY CRAVE ABUSE. wink

The sick ones, yes!

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