robinhoodd2: the question that begs for answers is; who are those impatient guys having it with?

i tire o

Thay're not

If you want to be realistic then there's no reason not to have sex before marriage..that completes the body chemistry.ok..what if you both now turn out sexually incompatible that wedding night?what if she has psychological dyspareunia(google is your friend)?or the guy has a "tinnie winnie winkie"?or the guy "dey cook indomie"2 mins?..don't call it "sex",just call it love making before marriage.

Yes.

I go test am 1st o weda e dey work oooooooo

To me , that depends solely on the two parties involved. If both can wait , fine then , if they can't what the hell , knock it off and enjoy it . Have seen ppl who dated for years without it , and end up not getting married , while some do it for years and still end up happily married . It goes vice versa. So it solely depends on the ppl involved , understanding , respect and maturity are the keys

fem30: Foolish men would.

And you're wise?

O well, it doesn't matter what guys think. If a lady wants to wait till marriage she can! Everyone has his/her life so live it according to your convictions/own your life! Don't let anyone pressure you into anything you don't wanna do. That's my take!

Someone once said, a man can bee considered a virgin in this age if he remains celibate for 2months. So except the marriage is in 2 months, no way!

No.

But, It is fun when you try to have sex with her and she says NO. You pull all your stunts and she stills says No. Then that special day when you'v given up and least expect, she gives you all after making her point. Mannnn, honestly its fun, it's fun. The adventure of convincing her is fun. great memories.

Kai!!! Dont say it,

It aint easy.....but a lot of hypocrisies being displayed on this thread!*Smdh*

fem30: Foolish men would.

Meaning the authors of the holy books (Bible) were foolish to have instructed against fornication/adultry/pre-marital sex?

Na you wise pass.

Nope.

@Post

The only men willing to wait till marriage to have sex are those who are truly God fearing Christians and not those who call themselves Christians yet live or act like heathens.

I'm waitin.. Its not being easy though

omidhe: To me , that depends solely on the two parties involved. If both can wait , fine then , if they can't what the hell , knock it off and enjoy it . Have seen ppl who dated for years without it , and end up not getting married , while some do it for years and still end up happily married . It goes vice versa . So it solely depends on the ppl involved , understanding , respect and maturity are the keys

You know the vise versa is the norm! So, to avoid regrets make sure its your choice! Yes, I ​A̶̲̥̅♏ saying you should be selfish! Its your body. I preach abstinence but if you wanna engage in premarital $€x just make sure you're doing it for YOU and not him/her.

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strangest: yes , if women are willing to stop asking for money till marriage... its that simple...

#word

Most Women want money, while most men want sex....
Well let both stay away from both till marriage to make it equal


But come to think of it. How do we get to know if our fiance is our type on bed? How would we know if he/she is would make us happy. This is a reason why most men/women have affairs outside their home cos they find out after marriage that their wife/hubby isn't all that it on bed... Just months ago my tenant and his wife got into a fight and they were loud. When everyone went to see what was happening. The wife said he was cheating on her and she warned him severally to stop seeing the lady. Guess what he said? He said he never knew she wasn't up to his satisfaction on bed. *smdh*

nikkyshyne: I wish they were.

Wrong. I am still a virgin. Waiting for my fiancee to graduate to marry her. In Islam, Fornication is a very big sin. ALLAH forbids it, and dat is the sole reason am still a virgin.

Men are willing to wait for sex till marriage. I've waited and I'm going to wait till I bring my woman home. That's what my Bible has taught me and I'm going to stick with it.

Omo, e no easy oh. i am sure i cant wait till marriage.

No! We're not ready for that wasteful wait that doesn't guarantee any better relationship. Don't ask us to wait till the wedding night b'cos it aint worth the wait.
Truth is, if u're not ready for sex, don't jump into a relationship and frustrate a man's life. Kapish?

if you're willing to wait till marriage then be prepared to manage whatever you see. Anyone that has seen what my eyes have seen would love to test run before marriage. Some vagi*nas just make your dik go llimp. The smell of some vaginas can kill a thousand flies The funny aspect of this whole shit is you can't tell who has a good vag*ina just by looking at the face.

Obinnau: but come o! Is it only men? What about our women? I am rolling my eyes.

Why you dey act like woman-wrapper? You be gay?

it depends on d individual involved.wit God nd ur own personal effort u can wait till i get married b4 havn sex

it depends on d individual involved.wit God nd ur own personal effort u can wait till u get married b4 havn sex

honeric01:

Meaning the authors of the holy books (Bible) were foolish to have instructed against fornication/adultry/pre-marital sex?

Na you wise pass.

@Oga honeric01,rid dis-"if a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed,and lies with her,he shall give the marriage present for her,and make her his wife.if her father utterly refuses to give her to him,he shall pay money equivalent to the marriage present for virgins"EXODUS 22:16,17

Omo na from age 18 I begin pull the g-strings down south...

A day to JAMB exam when my mates dey jack, awon boy dey premiere the nyashing parole...

No wonder I no pass JAMB that year...

Meanwhile, throughout my sexcapades... I don meet two babes wey their toto na "Wider! Wider!!... Wider!!"

Chai...if I for marry first, nyash, come notice say the orifice na mega-circumference...Alu-eme!!

I for regret am oh...

Jaidey-one:
if you're willing to wait till marriage then be prepared to manage whatever you see. Anyone that has seen what my eyes have seen would love to test run before marriage. Some vagi*nas just make your dik go llimp. The smell of some vaginas can kill a thousand flies The funny aspect of this whole shit is you can't tell who has a good vag*ina just by looking at the face.

Lol,chai

softsparky: The truth of this matter is that there is no way to tell if a man is a virgin or not.if its d same way with girls I bet everybody in this world will be a virgin.

u are wrong bros. As a virgin, I can detect if a guy is a virgin or not by adopting the following methods:

1. Physically:

There is physical way to check if a male is a virgin or not. Same as girls virginity can be checked boys virginity can also be checked. The only way is his sex organ i.e his penis.
Penis at the lower part is connected with very thin skin which separates out at the time of its enlargement but the thin attachment remains.
But after male have sex this attachment detaches from penis and now the skin could easily separate out..........
This is how a male virginity could be checked

2. ANATOMICALLY:

it is actually far easier to tell if a guy is a virgin than if a girl is. Virgin guys tend to share a group of physical traits that often prevent them from having sex. The behavioural clues are an even stronger indicator of virginity. With obvious behavioural clues and often a different physical appearance females do not even need this clue to tell if a guy is a virgin.

3. APPEARANCE

Virgin guys tend to have a unique appearance when compared to other males. More importantly though, virgins are universally weak. They have very little muscle mass and are often weaker than females. They can be any size but they are normally skinny or they are fat asses. Most often, they also have very small joysticks.


4. BEHAVIOUR

Male virgins also share a unique pattern of behaviour that is almost universal in all of them. This includes cowardice, femininity, social and sexual ineptness, poor motor coordination, and passivity. You can usually tell a male virgin by seeing what games they play. Some of these games include magic the gathering and Runescape. Most male virgins tend to only be able to talk to women on mmo's as this requires no face to face interaction. They are usually afraid of women and in the rare case that a woman will show interest in them, they will go through great lengths to please them. Although they are often afraid of women, most shrinks agree that male virgins do desire relationships with the opposite sex. They are usually just unable to handle a relationship with a woman because they lack the social and sexual skills to keep her satisfied. As a result, they often resort to childish behaviour in order to keep any woman they do get around. Some of these behaviours include kissing her ass, acting like a woman, being a needy wuss bag, buying her shit, begging women to go out with them, and being sensitive. Unfortunately this usually backfires and the woman will usually leave the virgin nerd for a smooth talking guy