Hi house.
I will go straight to the point. My man called me last week that he had to leave town on a sudden job assignment lasting some days, something to with the report of funding by parent organisations. So I rushed down to see him and met him dumping his cloths hapharzardly in his travel case. I knew he was in a hurry and that he always had them ironed at any hotel he stays, so I left him to it and offered to make him a quick lunch but he refused.

He was still getting things together when he was called out by his colleagues to go sort out some things at the office before travelling. As he left for the office, he agreed I make him lunch but asked I put it in a warmer for when he gets to his destination.

The deal is this.
I made spaghetti and since he wasn't back decided to help him fold his travel things. I was doing that when I discovered he had some packs of protection in the travel box.

I was surprised but I managed to scatter the cloths and leave the box just as he left it.

I have been going crazy all week and when he got back, I made sure I was around at his place. He just left for the office and I went through the box. Nothing! Not even one protection. They've obviously been used, else where are they?

Do I confront him when he gets back from the office?
Is this what I get after loving this man the way I do? I feel sick of the two-faced cheating heckler!

Well, I'm so speechless. It doesn't matter what you tell him if he's unrepentant. I think you should confront him and talk about it. Fine, he's heckler, and so what?

You don't have any choice than to let him know what you observed and how you feel. Truly, you love this man? Cover yourself in tears, he'll definitely be remorseful and pray he changes. The assertion "The only woman who is 100% sure of where her Man is every night is only a widow" is true after all.

U r even lucky he did it secretly(as in outside town). The fact is dat dnt confront him coz u might worsen d situation. Show him lots of luv and k, b around him by spending quality time wid him. Next time he wants to travel, sugest u go wid him

^^^ She is far from lucky because cheating outside or in town is still the same
@ Op, I suggest you confront him instead of pretending that all is well. You can keep mute if you've got 100% tolerance for cheaters :X
The truth is, you can't monitor him wherever he is or what he does at all times!

Why is dere a parallel topic here? Moderators kindly close this thread.
Original thread is here: https://www.nairaland.com/1158974/he-cheated-me-when-he