OCTAVO: She gave her husband a call and said “Honey please kindly help wash those dishes in the kitchen, I‘ll be very tired by the time I get home. The traffic is not even helping matters at all. When I get home, I‘ll just cook.“
She had the guts to say this cos her husband normally assists her in the kitchen.
The husband‘s mother was sitting right beside him when she made the call.

lalaosky:

SMDH...chei, what kinda posts won't i see on NL

how the fûck is it bad for the husband to help her out with the dishes?...was she lazying around?..before you posted that shît didn't see where she said, she was caught up in the traffic jam?..so what if her husby's mom was there?...will heaven fall if he helps her wife out?.for chrissakes we are talking about his wife not his househelp!!

I guess your type will see his wife in labour and come on here to ask if its romantic enough to help your wife out?.this chavnustic crap is getting on my balls!!..the same man will complain if the wife comes back late from work due to traffic jam, washes the plate and cooks late.for crying out loud, she was caught up in a traffic jam and i don't think there was a househelp around or else she will be the one washing the dishes.

Next thing, some guys will be saying that this generation aint got "wife material" when actually, themselves aint "HUABAND MATERIAL".

I can still remeber vividly how my dad use to cook ofe nsala( nsala soup) sometimes for us even when my mom is around cos we(my siblings) prefer his way of cooking that soup and never for once did he complain but rather he was glad that he could teach his sons that he still got game when it comes to the cooking industry.

I'm amazed by the OP's post.smh

lalaosky: if helping my future wifey out with the dishes when the househelp aint around cos she is stuck in the traffic aint romantic, i'm happy to be the most UNROMANTIC DUDE to ever exist

Plarp: Lalaosky is just a mugu waiting to happen... you can spot his type from a mile away. Over-protective of women, very emotional, crave female approval etc etc etc.

Kslib: I think there is nothing wrong in it if she says it in a polite manner...
First of all,if your wife normally washes the dishes herself,you have to understand the situation she was in at that particular time......
Secondly,she's your wife,so from the tune she used in asking you to help wash the dishes,you should be able to tell if she's being manipulative or asks it in form of a favour...
Thirdly,from your wife's behaviour,you should be able to decide.. Is she the respectful type. If she is,you have to understand her situation but if she is the arrogant type,then na God go punish you if you dare touch those plates...
###sent from keke napep engine###

lalaosky:

yeah...i'm a mugu for choosing to help out my WIFE who got caught up in a traffic jam and whom i would wan't to prepare my dinner when she comes back right?...

I've got a conscience dude and if that makes me a mugu, i'm proud to be one

Plarp:
Then you are a dumbass plain and simple

Plarp: Look you poor little emotional mangina... chill out. Every reasonable man here can agree that this topic is over the top. There is nothing wrong with helping a girl out wit dishes.

Its the fact that you spazzed the hell out that marks you as a mugu... not your conscience. If you are proud do be this:

Then you are a dumbass plain and simple

LastApostle: may God forgive any woman that ask me to do the dishes. I can voluntarily assist in doing house chores but reminding me of it is unpardonable, unforgettable, irresponsibility and rare display of stupidi.ty. She must be on probation for a while.

jay bee: I'd wash the dishes and cook her a good meal before she gets back.
I'm sure she probably does that all the time so a lil help here and there from moi won't hurt.
Wives aren't meant to be slaves

jay bee: I'd wash the dishes and cook her a good meal before she gets back.
I'm sure she probably does that all the time so a lil help here and there from moi won't hurt.
Wives aren't meant to be slaves

jay bee: I'd wash the dishes and cook her a good meal before she gets back.
I'm sure she probably does that all the time so a lil help here and there from moi won't hurt.
Wives aren't meant to be slaves

lalaosky:

thanks man...if i had said such, they woulda labelled me silly and dumb..maybe i've to login with your ID whenever i wanna comment.lol

Flytefalls: There will always be a third person looking at your act of love and calling it manipulation. I will do nothing but love him the way I know how to.

lalaosky:

yeah...i'm a mugu for choosing to help out my WIFE who got caught up in a traffic jam and whom i would wan't to prepare my dinner when she comes back right?...

I've got a conscience dude and if that makes me a mugu, i'm proud to be one

2buff: I see nothing wrong with that request.
With the mindset y'all take into marriage no wonder y'all have problems.

Marriage is a team work. You and your wife work. She's running late, you are home. What's the crime in helping around the house and heavens, maybe cooking a meal for y'all?
So after you make her do all the kitchen runz after long traffic etc, why do you think you'll be getting any action that night?

If we all follow the simple rule of "do onto others as you would like others to do onto you", I'm sure most of you will find your marriages to be something close to a bed of roses.
Instead you prefer to act like entitled children and bich, moan and throw tantrums over everything.