Got this from across and thought i should share:

I had the best séx of my life with my boss – and it’s making me wonder whether I can marry my fiancé.

I am 25 and my boss is 35. I got off with him at our office party before Christmas. I knew he liked me - we’d been flirting in the office for weeks. I went outside for a cigarette and he followed me. We started chatting, then kissing, and we were all over one another. We shared a taxi home and he asked if he could stay over at my flat.

We had the most amazing night of séx ever. I have had good séx before but this was something else. I know nothing will come of it, as he’s getting married before I am, but it’s making me think seriously whether I can stay with my fiancé.


He is 23, a lovely guy, kind and thoughtful, but he is very small séxually compared to other guys I’ve slept with. He doesn’t have any hang-ups about it so I don’t say anything which might upset him.
When we make love there is no pre-intimacy, and it’s all over within minutes. It is not pleasurable for me and I never think, “Wow, that was fantastic.”
He is pressing on with arranging our wedding but I can’t get up any enthusiasm. I don’t even know if I can stay faithful, though I know he’d be a great husband.

I love my fiancé but I also love good séx and he bores me in bed. Should I stay and just deal with being unsatisfied, or drop him because of my craving for better séx?


......i do bliv guys can have it all.

You're really living up to your name.you always like anything that has to do with sex.nawa o.are you a sex freak? Is this how youre so obsessed with sex

HARDDON:

I love my fiancé but I also love good séx and he bores me in bed. Should I stay and just deal with being unsatisfied, or drop him because of my craving for better séx?

marriage isn't all about sex. try shopping instead...its better than sex

mondi_cheeks: marriage isn't all about sex. try shopping instead...its better than sex

I disagree with u on dis,Sex plays a very vital role in marriage.@Don to me the choice is her's to make.Communication is also essential,she has-never told him-how she feels which is wrong

mondi_cheeks: marriage isn't all about sex. try shopping instead...its better than sex

M gurl! Cud you scrol up and reread d very first sentence?

d abv isn't mua talkin! Arrrrh!

How does the question relate to the superstory??

ceewai lebi: I disagree with u on dis,Sex plays a very vital role in marriage.@Don to me the choice is her's to make.Communication is also essential,she has-never told him-how she feels which is wrong

Ʈ♓ªƞƘ§ Ʊ C!

But come to fink of it, aint women just too shy to raise dis kinda issue?

Dey only talk or blatantly show it wen it is painful but Kip mute or fake it all up wen dey aint enjoyin it. Den she starts giving you all sorts of reason y she can't Come see you. Hehehe

C wot wud you do if you were in ha shoes?

if you are having sex with your fiance and are unable to talk to him about your sex life and the issues with it, you shouldn't be getting married in the first place

Flashaldrin: How does the question relate to the superstory??

herez some light: wanted to help educate d men folks that they can éasily afford to have gud luks, brains, generous and extremely gud in joyrod ride. most of us tink money is all a gurl really wants.

Cos after all d spending and karing, she really wud luvv it if you can gently take ha to d skies , show her waves of wonders and dnt leave ha hanging dere saying what-de-heck? How cud dis just end §☺̣̣̥̇ ѕσση!

Guys Nid to work on demselves. Hope i'v bin able to confuse you d more? And hey, daz really life right up dere not som super story.

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Someone is on a high horse again!

At topic,
It depends on the lady involved. Even if you have it all, some ladies will still take it for granted and think there is actually something out there she is missing.

So, you can't get a perfect answer to this.

KateSpade: if you are having sex with your fiance and are unable to talk to him about your sex life and the issues with it, you shouldn't be getting married in the first place

Question is how does a lady go about presenting or raising dis kinda issue?

Vikin: Someone is on a high horse again!

At topic,
It depends on the lady involved. Even if you have it all, some ladies will still take it for granted and think there is actually something out there she is missing.

So, you can't get a perfect answer to this.

Oh heck, guess ωнo just strolled in ! Vivi!

*picks ha up and with a lil flicker of sleek smile, dumps ha in the waste bin! Daz ƒoя yesterday. Tongue out. Hehehe

Educate us puleez : so ladies always feel dere is more to life out there?

Wor sort of creatures r Ʊ guys? :x

HARDDON:

Oh heck, guess ωнo just strolled in ! Vivi!

*picks ha up and with a lil flicker of sleek smile, dumps ha in the waste bin! Daz ƒoя yesterday. Tongue out. Hehehe

Educate us puleez : so ladies always feel dere is more to life out there?

Wor sort of creatures r Ʊ guys? :x

After dumping me in waste bin, you want an answer from me?

I don't think so..

Berra pick me up and find a way to compensate me.

Of cos there is more out there for everyone, most ladies feels so especially the ones that didn't really go through the dating scene with other guys.....
Note : I said dating not necessary what HARD ON is good at!

Oh...I see! Thats great!

Reading through the comments from previous posters without any reference to the super-imposed s+upidity of that lady makes me think CHEATING is now LEGAL & acceptable in our various relationships! wow!

HARDDON:

Question is how does a lady go about presenting or raising dis kinda issue?

depends, you have to know your partner pretty well and how they take criticism of any kind. You also have to make sure that you arent pretending or faking that something is much better than it really is. There has to be something that he does that you like, make sure he knows it. you can also suggest things lightly.

KateSpade:

depends, you have to know your partner pretty well and how they take criticism of any kind. You also have to make sure that you arent pretending or faking that something is much better than it really is. There has to be something that he does that you like, make sure he knows it. you can also suggest things lightly.

Wot happens wen after all d talks, he can't really do much to improve? Let's Saч his jrod is of d banana size and d lady wud appreciate som cucumber-sized magnum?

You wud agree with ♏ԑ that d talk wud serve as to put him down right? And dere wud automatically be a strain on the r/ship?

In dis case, haw do Ʊ present it?

HARDDON:

Wot happens wen after all d talks, he can't really do much to improve? Let's Saч his jrod is of d banana size and d lady wud appreciate som cucumber-sized magnum?

You wud agree with ♏ԑ that d talk wud serve as to put him down right? And dere wud automatically be a strain on the r/ship?

In dis case, haw do Ʊ present it?

obviously,his size and your sex-life with this man is putting a major strain on the relationship. if you are thinking abt it this much and its changing your outlook on him you should leave.

i dont agree that the talk would be a put down. i said to mention things u do like so that it wouldnt be so.

KateSpade:

obviously,his size and your sex-life with this man is putting a major strain on the relationship. if you are thinking abt it this much and its changing your outlook on him you should leave.

i dont agree that the talk would be a put down. i said to mention things u do like so that it wouldnt be so.

Oops! I'm not d oηε K gurl. And hey, I'm a guy.

Sure, best to leave ?

HARDDON:

Wot happens wen after all d talks, he can't really do much to improve? Let's Saч his jrod is of d banana size and d lady wud appreciate som cucumber-sized magnum?

You wud agree with ♏ԑ that d talk wud serve as to put him down right? And dere wud automatically be a strain on the r/ship?

In dis case, haw do Ʊ present it?

Hahahaha! hahaha! N/L never a boring place to be.. ur fiancee to be u label his mr as banana-size? and u needed a cucumber size?.. hahaha! honestly seun thanks for N/l.

U better live this young man alone to find someone who deserve him than ended up with a cheat as u are...

chikeorji123:

Hahahaha! hahaha! N/L never a boring place to be.. ur fiancee to be u label his mr as banana-size? and u needed a cucumber size?.. hahaha! honestly seun thanks for N/l.

U better live this young man alone to find someone who deserve him than ended up with a cheat as u are...

Vikin:

After dumping me in waste bin, you want an answer from me?

I don't think so..

Berra pick me up and find a way to compensate me.

Of cos there is more out there for everyone, most ladies feels so especially the ones that didn't really go through the dating scene with other guys.....
Note : I said dating not necessary what HARD ON is good at!

Oops! Oh dearest Vivi, you ĸпoω Ʊ were just a handful d day b4 yesterday ryt?

*picks ha up frm d trash bin , luckily she doesn't smell §☺̣̣̥̇ badly. Dust ha up and puts his jacket on ha. With a hand on ha shldas, leads ha to da ice cream mall. Hehehe

Yea, no matter what, we all must explore, be it in younga years or wen we r married.

V? Haw cud you be so sure I'm gud @ anytin? ℓ☺ℓz

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HARDDON:

Ʈ♓ªƞƘ§ Ʊ C!

But come to fink of it, aint women just too shy to raise dis kinda issue?

Dey only talk or blatantly show it wen it is painful but Kip mute or fake it all up wen dey aint enjoyin it. Den she starts giving you all sorts of reason y she can't Come see you. Hehehe

C wot wud you do if you were in ha shoes?

I agree with U,talking about it is difficult.I had an issue years back it was hard 4 me but i summoned up courage and spoke bout it and am enjoying the benefits today.Sex is like a skill,some people are born with it-Others learn it.If i were in her shoe,i will talk to my fiance,and we will both work on it,If i give it say one month and no improvement,i will leave him.If she does not,give her 6 months and she will be frustrated in the marriage.Since she needs Cucumber size,she should leave his banana size 4 girls dat are looking for banana

[quote author;Den she starts giving you all sorts of reason y she can't Come see you.
[/quote]lol*haba*

A man dat cant satisfy a woman in bed isnt worth marryin

ceewai lebi: I agree with U,talking about it is difficult.I had an issue years back it was hard 4 me but i summoned up courage and spoke bout it and am enjoying the benefits today.Sex is like a skill,some people are born with it-Others learn it.If i were in her shoe,i will talk to my fiance,and we will both work on it,If i give it say one month and no improvement,i will leave him.If she does not,give her 6 months and she will be frustrated in the marriage.Since she needs Cucumber size,she should leave his banana size 4 girls dat are looking for banana

wow, didnt know women love the koko like dis o that they can even give up gud sumptuous life for ehmmm

lawd have mercy on men

olumaxi: A man dat cant satisfy a woman in bed isnt worth marryin

huh? coming from a guy?

lets disect dis: you work your ass out so as to cater for your family,
come back home all jet-lagged, and you still pose gallantly to
to perform some horizontal tangling? lolo

but come to think of it, work tiredness isnt in no way related to bed tireness
go figure

Cheers to dem alpha males out there.

uhm.... pls wat is she doing wit a 23yr old guy?
is she d one paying his bride price?

gree-die:
uhm.... pls wat is she doing wit a 23yr old guy?
is she d one paying his bride price?

love knows no bounds: age, race, skin style, status.... you just name it.

crips up on you wen you least xpect and

lay shred to all laws of logic.

but ofcos, you should already know....

HARDDON:

M gurl! Cud you scrol up and reread d very first sentence?

d abv isn't mua talkin! Arrrrh!

I'm still sticking to my advice to the lady u mentioned above

HARDDON:

huh? coming from a guy?

lets disect dis: you work your ass out so as to cater for your family,
come back home all jet-lagged, and you still pose gallantly to
to perform some horizontal tangling? lolo

but come to think of it, work tiredness isnt in no way related to bed tireness
go figure

Cheers to dem alpha males out there.

u v already said it all..and so also a woman dat cant satisfy her man isnt worth it..cos i heard some women wil jst slp lyk log of wood..home tirednes isnt bed tirednes

olumaxi: cos i heard some women wil jst slp lyk log of wood..home tirednes isnt bed tirednes

have u ever thought abt the fact that maybe the guy isn't worth the whining and grinding Dead log going up and down wit no satisfactory results