debosky:

You sef for ask say wetin cause koboko tinz? Do people just wake up and start beating people with Koboko or something actually provoked this? Secondly I don't believe this story as such - it's painted to make the wife look like the devil and the husband as a senseless man 'defending' his wife.

debosky:
The truth is, no sane woman should stay at the gate of someone else's house trying to harass a woman in her home. And being an older woman for that matter, she shows that a phool at old age can get that phoolishness punished by flogging.

A-40:

Was she strapped? Armed with a knife or something? Protecting from who? A fellow woman! Dude must be so gangsta! He must be Rocky infact let's play 'Eye of a Tiger' as his entrance music. Why would he beat a grown woman with a horsewhip!! na him pikin?? If the wife was married to Alistair Overeem,David Haye or the Klitschko brothers would he try such stunts? Dude is just a bully let's keep it a 100!

Two wrongs don't make a right and me I don't believe this is natural! There has to be an element of jazz involved for a man to turn and start flogging his own blood! Maybe she didn't play any role in his life sha but I don't believe this is a matter some diplomacy would not have solved

debosky:

Who knows whether she was strapped? I ask you the same question - why would a man just start beating a woman if she didn't do something to cause it?

debosky:
No one says two wrongs make a right, but we must get to the root of the issue - don't feel you can go acting gangsta in another woman's home because you bear the title of 'elder sister'. That the woman called her bro to show up would've given any woman with a church mind to pack her wahala and go back to her home.

She is simply an example - maybe after hearing this story other interfering and aproko-ing family members will think twice and keep their snouts out.

texazzpete:

Do you also have sex with him? Do you bear his children? Will he swear an oath to love and protect you until death parts you two?

Na people like you dey find am easy to use their sibling's kids for ritual

I repeat, for those who are too doltish to understand: Once a man marries, his immediate, most important family remains his wife and kids.

coogar:

not everybody she's beefing but everyone who threatens her in her own home. if this was on a neutral spot or if my wife had gone to her house, then it would be my wife's fault and she would have deserved whatever she got there as well.



she became an armed robber the moment she invaded my home with the intention to threaten my family. this woman was locked outside and she didn't move an inch(how idle this woman must be). brother arrived at the scene, tried to pacify her and she still refused till she assaulted him. she left the brother no choice......



what a daft assumption!
i have sisters and they are not idle and irresponsible as you appear to be - so this kind of incident can never happen between us. they respect my boundaries, i respect theirs. people like yourself give women a bad name. you would not sit down where your husband has instructed you - but go about other people's homes to cause chaos!

coogar:

no, you cannot agree with cc! she's too soft!
chaircover is the type that would see a snake around her kids and would call pest control services and wait 30 mins because she does not want to violate the rights of the snake. violence is not necessarily bad - we are humans and the things we love are the things we are very passionate about.

i wouldn't hesitate to beat all the male teachers in my daughter's school if she tells me she has been sëxually abused - that's also violence but it's necessary. i wouldn't hesitate to shoot down any robber invading my home to harass my family. that's also a necessary violence.

i pledged an allegiance to provide and protect my wife till my pulse stops on the church's altar and no irresponsible sister of mine would threaten/insult/harass my wife while i sit back. what kind of man would i be then? some violence are very very necessary and this man is within his rights to put down any individual invading his territory.

sirugos: My dear i hate u bcs of ur action. Flog ur elder sister? I hope u re nt an igbo tribe coz if she eventually report u 2 umuada, u will regreat ur life. Beside while shld ur wife insult ur elder sister @ first knwing fully well dat she seniored both of u. Guy u re a disgrace

wlex8:

I need you guys to comment on this, how right is it for one to beat up his elder sister for his wife?

This is a true life story

His family would love to have him and his wife separated if possible and this has been going on for a while, they believe she is not a good wife.

Recently, his wife and his elder sister had exchange of words somewhere, later the same day, the sister came to their house with intention to fight with the wife over the nasty things she said about her

The wife kept the house door locked so she could not gain entrance into the house to avoid further confrontation, she later alerted her husband on the phone that his sister has come to kill her

When the husband eventually came and met his sister outside, he tried to settle their quarrel all to no avail, he also insisted the sister must not enter the house

This resulted in a fight, he finally whipped and beat up his elder sister (another man's wife) to the extent that she was dripping with blood

Question: Can you beat up your elder sister for your wife, how can this issue be resolved as every member of his family are against him including his mother, should he go and beg them or not?

Of course he didn't come home carrying a koboko
He at some point in the confrontation went into the house and retrieved a koboko to whip his elder sister till she bled
Most sensible men would have gone in and locked her out if she couldn't be persuaded to leave,but he got a whip came out to whip her
Unbelievable
If I were their family,I would be more concerned with the mental state of our brother than his wife

jidegirl12:

Okay now.... waa ri ! otito ni mo so fun e niyen..... all jokes apart my man will ban that sister forever from my house like for real. That's just bullying.... extension of high school madness , for where?

ajibutter:

Sharaap you!
Did you read the post at all before writing this rubbish you wrote here
The sister deserved what she got ,next time she ll learn how to be calm.

coogar:

he did well considering the circumstance.....
like your story revealed - he tried to settle with the sister, he told her not to enter the house but she insisted on making trouble. i think the sister deserved what she got. a man must protect his wife from any threat(foreign or local)!!!

baby_123:

lol, i think this is about to be a family royal rumble for real. That woman's husband is looking at some pretty serious beatings. He better not go to any family function unprepared. LOL. But really, under no circumstance should things deteriorate to the level that people start getting verbal or physical with inlaws. It never ends well. I dont think any man will see his wife beaten and let it go down like that. . Younger brother or no, he crossed the line.

COOLDUN:

If he resorted to beating his senior sister, then what is difference from her sister beating his wife? Mr. Evil supporter, as a peace maker he would have continued with the pleadings till he gets his sister’s heart calmed. Beating his sister meant that he had already taken side with his wife. I love my wife but never in the level of losing my family because of her, because she herself has a family which she will not like to lose too. His wife is a member of his family no matter what is going wrong in the family; all hands should be on deck to settle the matter and move the family forward. The question is this, now he has turned back to his family because of his wife, will his wife do the same to her family because of him?

Marriage is 90% family affairs and 10% personal. Your family, your wife’s family are all directly involved in your marriage, for you to make things match, you have to share your love between your both families. The wicked wife always jam the heads of her husband’s family together, separate her husband from his family, before she will embark on her wicked mission, when she knows that her husband will not be rescued by any one.

I love my wife and my family because all are important to me. One can marry many wives, but you cannot have other family members. I have come a very long, good, bad and ugly ways with my family. No one will ever separate us.

My love to my wife is agape, while my love to my family is unconditional. He has no right to beat up his senior sister, who might be another man’s wife because of his wife.

debosky:

You sef for ask say wetin cause koboko tinz? Do people just wake up and start beating people with Koboko or something actually provoked this? Secondly I don't believe this story as such - it's painted to make the wife look like the devil and the husband as a senseless man 'defending' his wife.

The truth is, no sane woman should stay at the gate of someone else's house trying to harass a woman in her home. And being an older woman for that matter, she shows that a phool at old age can get that phoolishness punished by flogging.

wlex8:

I need you guys to comment on this, how right is it for one to beat up his elder sister for his wife?

This is a true life story

His family would love to have him and his wife separated if possible and this has been going on for a while, they believe she is not a good wife.

Recently, his wife and his elder sister had exchange of words somewhere, later the same day, the sister came to their house with intention to fight with the wife over the nasty things she said about her

The wife kept the house door locked so she could not gain entrance into the house to avoid further confrontation, she later alerted her husband on the phone that his sister has come to kill her

When the husband eventually came and met his sister outside, he tried to settle their quarrel all to no avail, he also insisted the sister must not enter the house

This resulted in a fight, he finally whipped and beat up his elder sister (another man's wife) to the extent that she was dripping with blood

Question: Can you beat up your elder sister for your wife, how can this issue be resolved as every member of his family are against him including his mother, should he go and beg them or not?


I can beat up my elderly sister for my wife just as i can beat-up my wife for my elderly sister,it depends on who is nasty among them.because i cant imagine my elderly sister leaving her matrimonial home to come to house and terrorize my wife in her own matrimonial home.

When the husband eventually came and met his sister outside, he tried to settle their quarrel all to no avail, he also insisted the sister must not enter the house

This resulted in a fight

wlex8:

Applying force for her to leave without addressing why she came led to the struggle, the brother later used "koboko" to whip her, reason why blood came out

donchris369: Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.