Candis009: @ paulipopor... I dnt have ansa to d@ ur questn... Am jst bin inquisitive to know about w@ guyz feel outside dere d@s y i brought up ds topic,it myt nt rilli mean am 1.

i thought as much. I hope you you'v gotten your answers.

Paulipopor,m lyk uuuuuuu

Candis009: . M sowi,i dnt write my notes lyk d@ bt wen it comes to typin on fone,m used to it,plsss elp me with patience to read it.

Please try and write properly, its for your own good so you don't end up writing application letters with the text pattern.

Anyways as for the topic at hand, virginity is not a criteria to judge someone with and it sure as heck isn't a gift to anybody either, so tell that your lecturer to live in this century.

Paulipopor:
i dey believe you die. I'm also a 'virginy' i want join your association. How much is the form?

You don't need a fee, you just need to be a real not technical virgin.

Candis009: . Hahahahahaha.. I lyk ur style jooor,i tink i wil lyk to join dis ur association

You can join if and only you are a real virgin o.

Candis009: Paulipopor,m lyk uuuuuuu

really Me is speechless oh. How do i respond. You know i'm still a virginy.

freecocoa: You don't need a fee, you just need to be a real not technical virgin.

... Paulipopor,hope u've heard ha? We nid to b real viiiiiirgiiiiiiiins nt technical ones. D@ sounds koooooool

freecocoa: You don't need a fee, you just need to be a real not technical virgin.

'technical virgin' that one is big grammar. But don't we've monthly meetings or something. The pressure here is really tempting oh...

freecocoa:

Anyways as for the topic at hand, virginity is not a criteria to judge someone with and it sure as heck isn't a gift to anybody either, so tell that your lecturer to live in this century.

Gbam!!!

I don't know why people ignore important things and chase shadows

Candis009: ... Paulipopor,hope u've heard ha? We nid to b real viiiiiirgiiiiiiiins nt technical ones. D@ sounds koooooool

Yep.

Candis009: ... Paulipopor,hope u've heard ha? We nid to b real viiiiiirgiiiiiiiins nt technical ones. D@ sounds koooooool

yes oh...i'd even add technology to mine!

Mynd_44:
When did decency become a sexual thing? You people need to change your thinking some virgins might just be as evil as the devil underneath

I see..

Paulipopor:
don't get it twisted dear, to be virgin is good but stop making your only virtue by 'carrying' it on your head. Telling every tom that you're one and feeling like the best tin in the world. Men value other tinzs much more than virginity.

Lol! Why is it itching you na? Show me one post on this thread where anyone called herself a virgin let alone me Smh for all these dudes on nl who love making a mountain out of a mole hill by turning a statement into a conclusion all in a bid to look smart. And who gives 2 fks about what guys care about? You think the world revolves around guys? Well guess what? Most girls don't make decisions based on what guys think!

sunny t:

Isn't it possible that she was a virgin when she got married? Are you one of those people who believe there are no longer virgins in existence?

There are many decent gals out there

Bros,
Virginity IS NOT EQUAL TO Decency, neither does it mean good behavior.

@Adeeze na you com vex pass now. Take am easy. I's not trying to be smart. I's just making a point ok, no vex.

I wanna think Adaeze's comment above is not directed to me but Paul

kunlejazz:

Bros,
Virginity IS NOT EQUAL TO Decency, neither does it mean good behavior.

This is a true statement. Unfortunately a lot of people have been brainwashed into believing this BS

Ds place s gettin hot.. Abeg make una drink wata small.. No vex all of una startin 4rm Ada,Paul,Mynd n....

@ mynd, you're right.

@ pauli, not vexed o. Just that someone did the same thing yesterday ie drawing conclusions about me from what I wrote. Just leave the argument on nl and we're fine coz most times I just give my GENERAL view on the topic.

Yea,general view.. D@s it... Tnx all 4 ur contributions

Candis009: Ds place s gettin hot.. Abeg make una drink wata small.. No vex all of una startin 4rm Ada,Paul,Mynd n....

i don drink cold water oh (ruwa sai)!

Where is that virgin who knows more about sex than the prostitutets. She is in a better position to answer this.

tpacalipse: Where is that virgin who knows more about sex than the prostitutets. She is in a better position to answer this.

Are you asking after Onila?

#nobemetalkamo

freecocoa: Please don't tell me you don't know that I'm the chairwoman of NUVA( Nigerian United Virgin Association)

Virgins for life.

Sio!
No b free b d cocoa?

freecocoa: Are you asking after Onila?

#nobemetalkamo

Leave the poor confused girl out of this

Walexz02:
Sio!
No b free b d cocoa?

free for members of NUVA only.

NAOFV(Nairaland Association Of Fake Virgins)

I know people that are wayward and want to take advantage of others will be saying rubbish about virginity saying it is not important. Believe me if lost your virginity before marriage , nothing like trust for you . The analogy is like buying a tin of tea at a supermarket only to discover that the cover had been opened , will you still prefer it as you would if intact
I still remember a programme in which four married ladies on NTA trying to passuade women that are not married of the need to keep their virginity. These ladies regretted not married as virgins , their main reason is lack of trust. Imagine going to the market and your husband saying you don they go meet them...

I know people that are wayward and want to take advantage of others will be saying rubbish about virginity saying it is not important. Believe me if you lost your virginity before marriage , nothing like trust for you . The analogy is like buying a tin of tea at a supermarket only to discover that the cover had been opened , will you still prefer it as you would if intact
I still remember a programme in which four married ladies on NTA trying to persuade women that are not married of the need to keep their virginity. These ladies regretted not married as virgins , their main reason is lack of trust. Imagine going to the market and your husband saying you don they go meet them...

Mynd_44:
When did virginity become a measure used to detect is one is decent of not?

Pls what does decency means?

sunny t:

Pls what does decency means?

You need to stop being myopic and look at the bigger picture bro. Virginity just shows that she decided not to have sex. If does not prove that she is a good human being. Decency is an entire package and virginity is one element in that package

Mynd_44:
You need to stop being myopic and look at the bigger picture bro. Virginity just shows that she decided not to have sex. If does not prove that she is a good human being. Decency is an entire package and virginity is one element in that package

If you discover a gal is a virgin what wud come to your mind?

If you tell 10 people a gal is a virgin what wud dey say?

I understand that the fact that a gal is a virgin wudnt make her a gud wife, or courteous and it doesnt stop her frm being rude or disrespectful.

Decency is alwaz attached to sex

If my GF tells me she is a virgin, it does not increase her worth or decrease to me. And that is to me.

Why should I use other poeple's standard for my life? Sounds silly don't it?