I met a friend in one of this social media and we became close ,onetin lead to another nd den we started dating..it was lovely cus it was d kinda relationship I av always wanted ..but little by little I found out that we always av issues nd wen ever we do we can stay withOut talking †̥☺ each other for days...hmmmmm nd i tell u this made me to have a rethinking ..cus we r not yet married but i act like a wife already not be sex or anytin but by putting my knees on d ground to pray for him..dou he does not work or give me money for my up keeps but i still loved him..recently he did the one can take anymore..he dint call me for 6days ..in dis days I needed him d mst but he failed..in dis 6day a gap was created in my heart for him .nd wen i told him i want to break up with him ,he was not remorseful hmmmmm he laffed nd said you r still my gal ..i told him i was serious and all he cud say was i sud give him a second chance nd wen i said no i cant he said okay if dat wud make u happy nd dat i sud not beat around the bush ,dat i sud just tell him its over nd dat we r. Not compatible nd so on ...was thinking if a guy really loves a girl he will beg her not to leave ?nd if a guy really loves a gal he cant do without calling her? I told d sist abt it nd she was like d brother really love me dat i sud forgive him nd take him back nd den told her that he does not cus if he Was,he will show his gentility if not for anytin but for d love he has for her ..plzzz nairalanders ђã†̥ r your take on dis ?advice plzzzz

How old is this relationship?
Any trace of cheating by him before?
what level of seriousness has he shown to the relationship, did he introduce you his friends and family?

I see no responsibility nor respect in your relationship.
Once you make him to realise that you have nowhere to go no matter how he treats you then he will just be showing you luv at his convenience.
I don't know how old you are but u surely need a mutual relationship that doesn't keep you guessing.
I wonder why girls do think that only one person could love them and so afraid to let go no matter the treatment.

u didnt mention if u guys have met in person, and if you still feel soft part for him, c'mon leave your ego and press on try to see what he is up to, definitely there's a distraction somewhere..u guys should have a good chat if it warrant breaking up from there you will get to know..above all follow your heart, Goodluck!

This is not a relationship... but flirting...

Does he possess what you want in a man? Also, ask him if he sees what he want in a woman in you, if yes, then give him a second chance, if no, move on with your life without bitterness from any of you.
Goodluck!

He's taking you for a ride

Here we go again! CALL
He didnt call u 4 6days n u 2 did not call 4 6 days, yet he is d one dat commited a crime
Which rule says he has 2 b d one 2 call. SUPPOSE dats wat destroys most relationship. STOP ASSIGNING ROLES TO HIM.

U want to break up wit him yet it is a problem dat he did not beg. ON HIS BEHALF am sorry 4 d DISAPPOINTMENT.
Mayb he's thinking u hv 2 many issues, inasmuch as he loves u mayb its best 4 both of u 2 b apart.

Out of curiosity, if he had begged u 4 breaking up wit him ova a call, which sacrifice will he offer wen he has done somthing serious mayb like cheating?

pele but i have difficulty understanding what you wrote and doubt i can call what you have a relationship.

I thank u all for ur comment ...for does who wanna know how old d relationship is ,well d relationship is just 2month old nd I tell u ,dere is no rule dat says a guy sud do d calling u get ?but wen it keeps occurring one have to be vigilant ...if not if u see d fire in a relationship nd u bear it saying u can change him or her ,lol its gonna cost u if u try to take dat kinda relationship further.for its better to av a broken relationship dan for u to have a broken marriage @ tulk2mi ...pleading with a gal not to leave does not take ur manliness from u it only tells how gentle u r nd d love u av for her..
This was a guy i told abt sometins i do not like dat i see after one of d misunderstanding we had wen we dint tok to each other for days ..his response were if U̶̲̥̅̊ know dis is how u wanna be correcting me why dont u just end d relationship..hmmmm I was shocked cus I was thinking if u dating someone nd den he or she calls u †̥☺ tell u wat she like or wat he like nd wat dey dnt ,one is suppose to listen nd den change

was thinking if a guy really loves a girl he will beg her not to leave ?

I don't necessary have to beg a girl because I love her, I can beg a girl because of the benefits I receive from her.

and if a guy really loves a gal he cant do without calling her?

I spend minutes talking to girls I don't necessarily have any romantic attraction too. I just found conversing with them interesting.

A man will do anything for his selfish interest.

Don't be fooled, if he doesn't reflect a picture of your ideal man, then let him go. There are thousands of potential men for you, never settle for less when there is more.

Hmmmmmm well i thank you all for ur advice once more..i av taking my stand..in live dere r piple U̶̲̥̅̊ av to miss nd does u av to meet ...

spice4j: Hmmmmmm well i thank you all for ur advice once more..i av taking my stand..in live dere r piple U̶̲̥̅̊ av to miss nd does u av to meet ...

2 months relationship & threaten to quit? then how can u handle marriage that will last for years? learning how to divoice at this stage...pele.

He did not call you for 6 days and you did not call too yet you complain?

Abegi

That is why u sud cut off any relationship dat d downs r more dan the ups ,cus if u bear a relationship dat u no its not working all d name of lets see if i can change him or her ..it will cost u in marriage ooooo ,so dat is it Ooº°˚

Mr mayb u dont understand me,it is not a new tin in the relationship ..let me now ask u Mr will u wanna date a lady who does not take ur suggestions? Even if dat suggestions ain't gonna cost him anytin if he tries dem out?nd den after one month she tells u ohhh dear I think ur suggestion I̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ d best cus her own has failed..u go date dat kind person?nd even if u notice a misunderstanding on d way nd U̶̲̥̅̊ try to say ohh wat I said was on joke omo guy still go on with d misunderstanding nd do d normal by not speaking with u for days? U go date? Mr man? The 6day was for me to stand my ground ..am not really complaining cus it dint call me ,just saying dat not how i want my man to be ..dat 6days was for me to av a rethink ,dat 6days was anuf for me to plan again dat 6day was for me to pray for my ideal man o

@op, u need to set ur priorities right.