stillwater:

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I'll keep silent and watch him while he rants and raves, then I'll walk away!

We think alike.

mmmh, you don't sound like that on Nairaland

Ouch!

The truth hurts, ndo

yeah.

Rofl.

i dont pray it happen and if it happened, i wil walk away without saying a word

slapping the man could backfire. lots of u chicks could end up like this.



each individual scenario is unique. walking away depends on how much time was invested in the relationship

walk off and pretend not to hear him. jus cant imagine the embrassment

I see not many here will admit to staying and enjoying it however that option is in second place. I thought it was too funny to pass up the oportunity on voting for stay and enjoy it so I did. I would most likely insult him right back, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. If it embarrasses him he will know how I feel. If he hits me he will thank God for all the years he was alive before he met me, but I don't have a boyfriend and I hate what if moments.

walk off and pretend not to hear him. jus can't imagine the embrassment

are u going to keep on pretending until the situation escalates??

If he hits me he will thank God for all the years he was alive before he met me

most women that have been physically abused hardly ever do anything. especially in naija. all talk and no action

Is that pic your handiwork, bawomolo?

Its not all talk no action its based on how you were brought up. Some women think that their men hitting them is love. Others think if they fight back and the man leaves them they are done for. However if you were brought up that the only people who have the right to hit you are those that supplied the egg and sperm that fertilized you then no one has the audacity to touch you. The question does not now become whether or not its all talk no action but which of the many implements of retaliation is suited with the situation Examples acid, a pot of boiling water frying pan, pepper spray, your shoes spit or just going for the nuts, exactly where it always hurts.

And why would i be involved with a lunatic.

Is that pic your handiwork, bawomolo?

[shaggy voice]It wasn't me[shaggyvoice]

Examples acid, a pot of boiling water frying pan, pepper spray, your shoes spit or just going for the nuts, exactly where it always hurts.

what makes u think he won't come back for me,acid ke

what makes u think he won't come back for me,acid ke

If you have ever been struck with crippling fear you will understand why he would not come back. I told you if you had the audacity to physically abuse me prepare to be greatful for all the peaceful years before our contact. That is the problem with some women they see abuse as the norm and let it happen when you know your rights then a man would not want to brutalize you in public or private. If he won't hit his mother why hit me and even if he would shamelessly hit his mother I won't play that.

If he won't hit his mother why hit me and even if he would shamelessly hit his mother I won't play that.

i don't see anything wrong in hitting a woman in self-defense. don't hit someone if u don't want to get hit, it's as simple as that . it's a bit gross to be comparing a random woman to someone's mom. arguing in public is not cool though, everyone shouldn't know ur business lol

i don't see anything wrong in hitting a woman in self-defense. don't hit someone if u don't want to get hit, it's as simple as that Huh. it's a bit gross to be comparing a random woman to someone's mom. arguing in public is not cool though, everyone shouldn't know your business lol

So now its self-defense, which one is the argument. Does the man arguing in public hit the woman first or what are you talking about? Anyways I have no reason to hit or attack anyone except for self-defense. If he argues I will will retaliate with words if it gets physical so will I, that is retaliation. In terms of mothers no one is trying to disrespect anyones mother, everyone gets ancy when mother is mentioned without understanding what is being said. If you don't hit your mother don't hit any other woman, whether or not the woman is random . That is why some government official slapped a woman for not letting him have all the road because he couldn't relate. Even though she is a random woman she is a mother and just like he would not hit his mother or want someone to hit his mother he should not hit another person's mother or any women for that matter

Even though she is a random woman she is a mother and just like he would not hit his mother or want someone to hit his mother he should not hit another person's mother or any women for that matter

i don't see what's so special about a woman that she should be exempt from getting hit if she starts some shit. rather than just screaming insults at each other. it would be best if both sides walked and discussed the matter when all heads are cool. contrary to what is being said on this board, lots of women are gluttons for punishment, i doubt they would just away from the relationship like that.

i don't see what's so special about a woman that she should be exempt from getting hit if she starts some shit. rather than just screaming insults at each other. it would be best if both sides walked and discussed the matter when all heads are cool. contrary to what is being said on this board, lots of women are gluttons for punishment, i doubt they would just away from the relationship like that.

If you think she started something and you scream at her she might think your starting something and yell back. If you don't have self control interms of getting physical then you should realize that there is nothing special about men that makes them exempt from a woman defending herself by hitting him back where it hurts. The screaming insults back and forth thing could have been stopped by not starting it in the first place because "what is good for the goose is good for the gander". I am not in the least bit denying that some women deem abuse as love however there are others that are not like that, so make sure when you make your pick you do so with immense care because if you choose the wrong woman then dog eat you supper.

What is good for the goose is good for the gander

it may not be that good if it could get the gander trampled

I am not in the least bit denying that some women deem abuse as love however there are others that are not so make sure when you make your pick you do so with immense care because if you choose the wrong woman then dog eat you supper.

oh shit, someone is sounding tough . u are right, people should select their partners carefully.

oh shit, someone is sounding tough

Not sounding tough just forewarning you. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. I most likely will never meet you for you to know my character so,

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i wud do exactly wat cassie said nd walk away fast,i no wan mk dey guy charge come giv me dirty slap.

I would walk away and never look back.

Disrespect (public or otherwise) is not cool.

[color=#770077][/color]my darling husband would never do such a thing and i dont think i could ever disregard him to that level, and nothing would ever lead to that kind of situation cos the both of u would be disgracing yourselves, anyway in relationships quarells are bound to happen but everythng depends on the two parties involved, cos if u are dating and u are exchanging words publicly i wonder what would happen when the two of u are married, shalom

oriade mi:

[color=#770077][/color]my darling husband would never do such a thing and i don't think i could ever disregard him to that level, and nothing would ever lead to that kind of situation because the both of u would be disgracing yourselves, anyway in relationships quarells are bound to happen but everythng depends on the two parties involved, because if u are dating and u are exchanging words publicly i wonder what would happen when the two of u are married, shalom

i like your name orioko mi oriade mi

bawomolo:

i don't see what's so special about a woman that she should be exempt from getting hit if she starts some shit.

the simple fact that the woman is physically weaker than the man, and has a much lower muscle mass. charlie's angels and kill bill are the rare one in every 100 million women.

wendymanda:

Not sounding tough just forewarning you. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. I most likely will never meet you for you to know my character so,

i beg, no try just any woman o! one late lecturer in calabar can testify to what a woman can do if sufficiently enraged. and she killed him without help.


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very simple. there's nothing that disorients a guy like when he thinks he's in control, but finds out he isnt. and if it's really an outburst that's unusual for him, it's even easier to handle.

i'll stand, watch, then seal my lips for the rest of the evening. be very polite to any other guests at our table. behave like he doesn't exist. leave with him, but give him the cold treatment. when we're alone, sit him down and talk to him like he's a child - and walk out only then, wont wait for an apology. if he's really a sensible somebody, the begging will begin

if violent outbursts is a part of him, same treatment, but dont let him back. no be fight.

@wendymanda
WORD!! no mind them. they are used to dating women who feel that their definition as humans come from the man.

Im walking away. It will take heaven and earth for us to come together again

This is funny because i was going to start the same topic this am.

Last night as I was waiting on a friend to get home from work I watched this guy who was shorter than the girl, insult the girl and yell at her in public on a busy street. I was waiting for him to put his hands on her so i could call the police. Just one flinch from him and 911 would have been dialed.

there were two younger girls that walked past and saw the yelling what i told them was if a guy ever tries to pull that on you, you just walk away. Please dont let a guy insult you in public or private like that.

So my answer is walk away and have your brothers deal with his ignorant ass.

I have never had a dude do this to me i guess cuz i have never been the type to even tolerate a rasied voice to me even in private. I will/have quickly put men in thier place when the tone of thier voice is not right.