JallowBah:

Or; you both pay for the house and electricity and food, and have a saving account together, and then the rest, you spend on hair, clothes, nails, shoes, cars, beers, whatever floats your boat.
( If both are working fulltime... )

jidegirl12: This Topic Againnn?

Michky: Why won't you open your dirty mouth in public. I don't blame you. You can talk your rubbish because Money has ensured a level playing field for both gender. If it was those days where you had to hunt where lions reside, am sure women would gladly stay home and cook. Money makes it all easy doesn't it?

Now, a woman can be the boss and send the male messanger on errands and scream at them if they default. Now, you're carrying this mentality into the home saying since you both work, both have to share chores. Abi?

I have one answer for you. Marriage is an institution where women do chores while men provide. Just like university is a place where VCs administer while students do assignments. Try asking your VC to do your assignments for you and see whether your time in that school will not end. Same goes with marriage, If you don't wanna do chores (and don't want house help) then don't get married. Simple! Don't forget that the clock is ticking against you o. Many women are out there eagerly waiting to take your place if you don't know.

[CHocolaTE:
]No need for plenty talk. All the men saying they can't assist with housework should also not expect any type of financial assistance from their wives. No matter how dire your need for money is and no matter how urgently money is needed in the house, you should never think of asking your wife for help since you have refused to help her out in the house.
See them making noise about how they go to work and earn money as if women don't also work.

[CHocolaTE:
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Jump am pass if you are tired of seeing it. It is not compulsory for you to read or contribute.

jidegirl12:

Are you okay upstairs at all? When has it been a crime to comment here ? you should kuku do rota and sit him down with a cane to delegate chores to him, if you're having a hard time with your hubby doing house chores , get yourselves Ekaette since both of you 'contribute' to your family purse! Mtcheeew

byvan: Do I think men should help more around the house?YES!!!is it enough to make trouble about??A CAPITAL NO.Do your best and carryover the rest,if your hubby helps,FINE!!!if he doesn't,Let it be.This is Marrafackin Africa!!!!

Some really will love to help but get too lazy to do house chores.It bores most to tears and dirt doesn't bother a lot guys.

@Chocolate,don't let this chores thing be a hitch to your marital bliss,get a househelp if chores really bother you that much.

Brand_new: I'm just not caught out for it. Kinda too menial though I do it once in a blue moon and I love having a clean environment too. I'd rather do more challenging things like the gardens, repairs, paint jobs e.t.c. Is there any problem with that?

Michky: Are you giving conditions for your marriage? If he won't do house work, you won't give him a dime. Right? I see your marriage heading for the walls soon. Guaranteed!

You've gotten it all twisted. Woman is supposed to be helping MAN in marriage. Not the other way around.

Oyinprince: wen i ws a kid, i usd to see my fada help my mum anytym he was free nd had d opportunity... if u love ur wife,then i believe u wuld want to help her except u married her as a servant nd not as a partner

Michky:

You call him wicked man because he refuses to do house chores? Interesting. I think you're the wicked one. Knowing your duty and yet trying to over-burden the husband who's burden already is immense. Lets put it simply: You're a weakling. Not a man. You forget that these same women will turn it to their right when you refuse to do those same tasks tomorrow.

Question is: Will you divorce me if i refuse to do chores?

Brand_new: Other tasks I mentioned is menial too but I just feel house cleaning is too petty and monotonous hence me not liking it.
Hey! I'm not yet married but will soon be.

Originalsly: Hmmm....if OP and some of these women are married...I guess at least one is at home typing away while they wait for the loving husband to come home and help with work that can be done right now. Give some women an inch and they would want to take a yard.

lucenzo: @op wetin you score for ur waec (english) because I cannot understand why someone will be writing “if so thanks be to obatala“in 2013. Can you now see the reason why we refuse to help you?


On a serious note, try and register for the next GCE. It will do you a lot of good.

lojik: Ur hussy doesn't have to help manually, he could as well get you:
a. washing machine
c. Vacuum cleaner
d. Deep freezer
e. Microwave oven

The unfortunate thing is that after getting all these gadgets, she'll still complain that u don't help her.
I don't know how to cook and i once tried to help with the stew and the whole thing got burnt. I got the nagging of my life. I don't plan to attempt any chore again anytime soon. Let the gadgets do their work.

I hope they invent a beans cooker with remote control soon.
I wonder why vacuum cleaners don't come with pre-programmable touch screen interfaces.

lojik: Ur hussy doesn't have to help manually, he could as well get you:
a. washing machine
b. Dish washer
c. Vacuum cleaner
d. Deep freezer
e. Microwave oven
f. Gas cooker with timer
g. Blender with timer
h. Rice cooker
i. Deep frier with timer
j. Fruit mixer with timer
k. Yam pounder with timer
l. electric kettle with alarm
j. Any other gadget

The unfortunate thing is that after getting all these gadgets, she'll still complain that u don't help her.
I don't know how to cook and i once tried to help with the stew and the whole thing got burnt. I got the nagging of my life. I don't plan to attempt any chore again anytime soon. Let the gadgets do their work.

I hope they invent a beans cooker with remote control soon.
I wonder why vacuum cleaners don't come with pre-programmable touch screen interfaces.