From one of my blog reader,she needs your Advice...comment

I am 25 year old and my fiance is 30 year old,he wants us to have sex. We have been dating for a year and 6 months,i told him no sex until marriage and he says that i dont fully trust him because im not giving it to him, i told him there are other things we can do beside sex, he said sex is love so he's telling me its about love and i dont love him cause i dont wanna do it and he said you should be ready by now.

He also says im not giving him my everything to him and he said i made him cry which i was sorry but i told him he needs to wait until i am ready.He called me selfish and he told me its not about sex.. its about me giving him my mind, body and soul.

So am i wrong for what i am doing?

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No..dont do it

He said love is sex? dat means he hasn't loved you for the 18mnths you guys hav been together if that is how he sees it..... All those cryn thngs na washy, if he insists, and you knw you don't want to do it, my dear - fleeeeeeeeee

BTW were the pics necessary?

VERY CONY, HIM SAYING TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM IS TO SHOW YOU LOVE HIM. . PLS LOOK FOR THE BOOK WRITTEN BY SINMISOLA OGUNYINKA(TITTLED) PLS BUY AND BUY A COPY FOR HIM.(THE DEVIL LIED). Keep yourself till marriage if he cant waite he is not for you. HE IS ONLY AFTER YOUR BODY

He's just using psychology on the lady. He makes her feel bad to get his desired results. Gosh! men can be sooooo annoying sumtyms

He simply proposed 2 her as a quicker means of boning d lady. Na wa 4 d so called 'husband 2 be'

sweet-tease:
He said love is sex? dat means he hasn't loved you for the 18mnths you guys hav been together if that is how he sees it..... All those cryn thngs na washy, if he insists, and you knw you don't want to do it, my dear - fleeeeeeeeee

BTW were the pics necessary?

No myn am. The OP just post the pix to totori us

If you are not ready don't do it. If he loves you he would respect your decision and wait. Love is patient .

the fiance is a scammer!!

Run for your dear life, it's not worth it

If you are not ready, don't do it
Lmao @ sex is love

If you ain't ready, don't jump into it

I am 25 year old and my fiance is 30 year old,he wants us to Be Intimate. We have been dating for a year and 6 months,

How sure are you that the bolded is not his motive?

i told him no sex until marriage and he says that i dont fully trust him because im not giving it to him,

Those who have gone ahead of you heard the same story and in the end they were dumped.

he said sex is love so he's telling me its about love and i dont love him cause i dont wanna do it and he said you should be ready by now.

I assume if I have sex with a prostitute, I love her since sex is love.

He also says im not giving him my everything to him and he said i made him cry which i was sorry

I assume you are his mum.

but i told him he needs to wait until i am ready.He called me selfish and he told me its not about sex.. its about me giving him my mind, body and soul.

He as well is selfish for wanting it his own way. If he loves you he will wait.

So am i wrong for what i am doing?

You will only be wrong if you have to please someone else other than yourself. Never compromise your convictions f[quote][/quote]or any reason.

Please my dear, dont mind all this bullshit they are telling you.... Since you said you are already 25years i beg you DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO SAVE THAT R/SHIP or you go arrange chair for singles fellowship tire...#justsaying.

@ op,if she is a virgin,then she can decide to hold on till marriage,but if she is not,I will advice her to consider d guy since she said he is her fiance not a boy friend.

U refuse d one dat wants to marry bt gv to d one wth no intention of marriage. Except u r a virgn if not u hv not tried.

Osc: U refuse d one dat wants to marry bt gv to d one wth no intention of marriage. Except u r a virgn if not u hv not tried.

What if she decides to chage from her ways and be a person who follows her religion?

If you are a virgin, don't do it!!if not,do what seem right to you.

The only sad thing about this situation is that you called him your fiance, even if you are not a virgin, he should respect your decision to not have sex, if he really has a plan for you then he would put a ring on it quickly.


You need to read this

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

That man may likely dump you days after satisfying his libido, he is not worth it.

oleku baby: VERY CONY, HIM SAYING TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM IS TO SHOW YOU LOVE HIM. . PLS LOOK FOR THE BOOK WRITTEN BY SINMISOLA OGUNYINKA(TITTLED) PLS BUY AND BUY A COPY FOR HIM.(THE DEVIL LIED). Keep yourself till marriage if he cant waite he is not for you. HE IS ONLY AFTER YOUR BODY

U have said it all