I am 35 Years old of age and a virgin ,and my husband to be wants to taste it before the wedding day ,and am a christian, he told me either to do it ,or to go and marry my pastor, and i don't want to loss him,because i so much luv him .and my father ask me to do it ,that it does not matter.Please nairalanders help out in this case because am confused in this issue .

When are you going to wed?
Has he paid your bride price?
How long did you go out before the wedding?

Na wa o, in this Computer age u still dey claim virgin @ 35.

U better let him have a taste b/4 u started using ur virginity thing dey Beg man.

Toonice:

Na wa o, in this Computer age u still dey claim virgin @ 35.

U better let him have a taste b/4 u started using your virginity thing dey Beg man.

That's her choice not yours. Everybody must not follow the crowd

Don't do it,if he's going to marry you,he will,
listen to your instinct,because if you should sleep with him,he might even change his mind
on the wedding,so i think you should pray to God for total guidance,cause i don't see why
someone who claims to love you and is ready to marry you,would want to force you against
your will,to sleep with you first.
pray to God to change your fiancé's mind.

Do not do it if you don't want to do it.

Its your body.

35yr Old virgin still dilly dallying. Lady, you have bigger problems, like while you were busy accumulating spiderwebs, your eggs were busy getting scrambled. Get on with it already!

pour plenty pepper inside to scare him away from doing it

He has given you a choice - the ball is now in your court.

Your choice.

YOU'VE BEEN KEEPING YOUR VIRGINITY FOR 35YEARS, BELIEVE ME MAM, YOU ARE ONE IN A BILLION,
IF HE REALLY WORTH YOU, THEN HE WILL WAIT NO MATTER WHAT, SO MY ADVICE IS DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM.
HE IS PROBABLY THE DEVIL WHO WANTS TO DESTROY A STRUCTURE THAT HAS BEEN BUILT FOR 35 YEARS, TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS YOU,

blessin011:

I am 35 Years old of age and a virgin ,and my husband to be wants to taste it before the wedding day ,and am a christian, he told me either to do it ,or to go and marry my pastor, and i don't want to loss him,because i so much luv him .and my father ask me to do it ,that it does not matter.Please nairalanders help out in this case because am confused in this issue .

BTW, what is he tasting . . pls clarify  

I did not know 'christians' talked like that

the important questions are:
- are you willing to lose this guy over this issue?
- is your beliefs bigger than the love you have for this ignoramus guy?
- didnt they say in the bible that you shoud listen to your father?
- what does YOUR pastor say about it all?

truly the most important question you should ask yourself is:"am i ready to throw all my beliefs and wishes down the drain simply because of marriage"
ps if you do, be ready to do whatever this guy asks you to, from that day forth:

Blessing can you answer my questions so I will be able to tell you what I think.

dont do what?
ordinary Womanliness he can just buy in a brothel from ashawo,
just give him Womanliness, is he not ur husband u should be ashamed of ur self 35 still a virgin when correct chicks of now dayz lose dere virginity in dere mother's womb.
But mind u if u lose dat guy u can buy anoda husband but he can buy anoda wife.
So just give him d Womanliness.
HAPPY WEDLOCK IN ADVANCE.

M M M:

ordinary Womanliness he can just buy in a brothel from ashawo,

maybe he should just and do that then. The poster is not an ashawo.

She lived a virgin, Died a virgin

What she denied humans, maggot took for free

One word- CRAZYYYFIANCE.

Why can't he wait?

@ op, what exactly do you want us to 'do'.you say he's your 'husband', why are you denying him his entitlement

LadyT:

Why can't he wait?

Wait for wetin, You want make the guy buy black market?

Who doesnt test-drive nowadays?

But Blessing

blessin011:

hi nairalanders
I NEED HELP, MY HUSBAND REFUSE TO BUY ME A WEDDING RING AS A RESULT OF HIS RELIGIOUS BELIEVE WHEN WE DID OUR WEDDING,  HE BELIEVES RING IS NOT BIBLICAL,WE ACTUALLY WEDDED WITH THE BIBLE, PRESENTLY GUYS TRY TO COME AROUND AND TOAST  DUE TO THE FACT ,THERE IS NO SIGN OF THAT IN MY HAND.

Which wedding be this one by the way?

I see we have a lot of fornicators and adulterers here.

@OP, You said you are a Christan and if that is true you don't need to cry on Nairaland about this because your bible has answers to it.

poster

there are so many questions that you need to answer before we all can give good/bad advice. So please answer the questions that the folks asked

the issues should be, when is the wedding?
and are you sure he wont leave?
if you are sure, please let him have his way.

kokoye:

maybe he should just and do that then. The poster is not an ashawo.

but d wife 2 be will start crying,
saying if u had ask me 4 Womanliness i
for give u.

dayokanu:

She lived a virgin, Died a virgin

What she denied humans, maggot took for free

u just said it all

@ OP : don't do it.

I have had of a case where after the act, the guy changed his mind.Your principle should be ur principle.Why cant he wait after all na him own for life.Know his reason for wanting it,get ur pastor involved if he is not interested in waiting, let him go someone better we come

Please, don't do it, wait till you are 45yrs old

@ OP PLS DON'T DO IT!!!!!

WHAT THE 4UCK?! WHAT IS THIS WORLD TURNING INTO? SOME OF THESE REPLIES ARE SCARING ME O!!

Hmmm-- Na wa o!

But anyways, you still have a choice. You can choose to lose it or not to. I advice you not to though. Damn, all the hard work for the past 35 yrs is just gonna kpeme like that? That doesn't make sense. So, tell your guy to chill out.

Why cant he wait for you? Is he marrying you for sex? Are u sure this man is God's will for your life? Poster u really need to fast and pray because God's word is very explicit concerning the issue of fornication. Just because society indulges in and glorifies sexual immorality does not make it right. Lady, u are gem amongst women and this is the devil tempting you. Don't mortgage your destiny on the altar of sex. Fast and pray and God will surprise you