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| Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 2:35am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Dear all, a friend was hurt by a guy and wants to revenge. Edited |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by tpia5: 2:50am On Mar 06, 2013 |
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| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 2:52am On Mar 06, 2013 |
^^^^^^^^^What you mean?  Its okay if you do not know what to say just do not spoil this thread. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by biolabee(m): 6:39am On Mar 06, 2013 |
*subscribing* |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 6:50am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Now she knows, everyone makes mistakes, move on. Deciding to hurt his wife by making him "loose" her is just silly and she will hurt herself Happiness can never come from hurting others. She has been hurt and lied to, yea, move on, cry let go and build your own life, living a life just to "revenge" now is stupidity at its peak. He has no respect for her or his wife, let the man deal with his issues, don't put yourself into the silly mix. 4 Likes |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by ifyalways(f): 6:55am On Mar 06, 2013 |
How and when did the "honey honey" lady disappear from the scene?your friend went over, spent 10 days, where was the other woman?what did the guy tell/was doing with her for 10 days? So, is your friend planning to kill the other woman and why?a guy has proposed to her but she's more interested in chasing shadows with this very man that have zero plans or regards for her? Super story sha  2 Likes |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by peggykorol(f): 7:36am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Hmmn why do I have this feeling bluivy is not new on NL.you sound like damiso or...Whatever sha.this ur friends issue is not a case nah. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 8:21am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@ Poster . . . What kind of 'big plan's does she have for him? Hope she's not planning to kill him or hurt his family . . . Your friend has been duped, sad but not the end of the world. She should just move on and forget about the guy. That she's still visiting for 10 days, even after knowing he's married is pathetic. She's just going to come off as desperate and immature! Please tell her to go fishing in the river, there's a lot more out there . . 2 Likes |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by specialguest(f): 8:33am On Mar 06, 2013 |
I got confused midway.. Some details are not correlating i,e she spent 10 days at the guy's house and so on.. Mind you a Nigerian man can even go to the extent of telling a girl he no longer loves his wife or he doeznt care about his family anymore but the last thing he would actually do is to divorce that same wife.. "What God has put together, let no man put asunder " so if he is indeed married, i advise she counts her loss and moves ahead because nothing good can come out of that relationship. Remember he deceived her once already and is prepared to continue doing so till she becomes a pulp. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by agiboma(f): 9:03am On Mar 06, 2013 |
tell your freind to forget about the vengence and move on with the guy that wants to marry her and leave the married man alone. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 9:37am On Mar 06, 2013 |
debrief08: Now she knows, everyone makes mistakes, move on. Deciding to hurt his wife by making him "loose" her is just silly and she will hurt herself I agree with you but she feels he would be getting away with being a jerk. Yeah i hope over time she would change her mind. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 9:48am On Mar 06, 2013 |
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| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 9:49am On Mar 06, 2013 |
peggykorol: Hmmn why do I have this feeling bluivy is not new on NL.you sound like damiso or...Whatever sha.this ur friends issue is not a case nah. ? |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 10:05am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Ujujoan: @ Poster . . . No not to physically hurt anyone. Honestly though i personally think one cannot jump to protect sanctity of marriage when all other biblical commands are ignored, thats hipocricy at a the highest degree. And I have really not heared one person just calling the Nigerian men to stop doing this and their wives, families and friebds to stop aiding destroying peoples lives. Why is no one saying " do not be a false witness ". Everyone seems to find something wrong with her. She is hurting and angry, people react differently to things. He changed her life without her approval. That is seriously massed up but she will not stop loving him over night. That we can not say she is pathetic for spending time with him after he told her about the marriage. Was she to just turn off the love she shared with him for all this time just like that? Life does not work that way. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 10:30am On Mar 06, 2013 |
[quote author=specialguest]I got confused midway.. Some details are not correlating i,e she spent 10 days at the guy's house and so on.. Mind you a Nigerian man can even go to the extent of telling a girl he no longer loves his wife or he doeznt care about his family anymore but the last thing he would actually do is to divorce that same wife.. "What God has put together, let no man put asunder " so if he is indeed married, i advise she counts her loss and moves ahead because nothing good can come out of that relationship. Remember he deceived her once already and is prepared to continue doing so till she becomes ah Really? These people must stop! Lies, deciet and hurting others is a sin as well as " what God has put together..." story. I sometimes wonder what Nigeria's account with God looks like? When God is mundated by broken hearts, tears and destroyed futures caused always by the same people And are never repraminded by their fellow country men and women. Heaven is flooding with tears coused by such people for their own benefit. When tears came flooding from my friends beautiful eyes in a public resturant as she tried to tell me what happened, I wished to have never known this beast of a man. I wished our paths should have never crossed. I sweared that from then onwards I will warn people I care about of such and never encourage anyone I know to go near a Nigerian man. Never ever again, not as a friend or business partner. He disapointed me too. I do not know how to deal with him let alone be his friend again. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 10:30am On Mar 06, 2013 |
agiboma: tell your freind to forget about the vengence and move on with the guy that wants to marry her and leave the married man alone.  |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 11:29am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Get over it mmy dear. This happened to you and not your friend, you are taking it to personal to be a "friends" story Get over it, people are jerks everyday, if you or your "friend" decides to do personal vigilante against bad people then Goodluck. People act worse than this and short of suing him for emotional distress I don't know what you want. Since you are your friend have decided to punsih him what do you want advice for again? Please get over it, people hurt people, that's the reality of life. You can choose to be weighed down by bitterness or choose to learn and move on. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 11:57am On Mar 06, 2013 |
debrief08: Get over it mmy dear. The last line is always easier said than done. As much as this is a friends story it affects me as well as a friend and as another woman. I am also mad at him and justifiably so becouse he used me to get to her and now he has destroyed her life. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by mawuqueyan(f): 11:58am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Let her jst 4gt abt revenge... Karma is a bi*tch ΑϞ∂ bsides God has gven her what is her's,y dsturb ursef with revenge dt can make Ɣ☺ΰ regret lateron |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 12:02pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
mawuqueyan: Let her jst 4gt abt revenge... Karma is a bi*tch ΑϞ∂ bsides God has gven her what is her's,y dsturb ursef with revenge dt can make Ɣ☺ΰ regret lateron I do not mind helping Karma along. But not leaving this one on her alone.  |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by dlight1(m): 12:37pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
distraught though she just have to forget about the guy and live on or what else does she want from a man who had hidden such secret from her for that long giving her false hope. She should just let the man alone and think of forging ahead |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by mawuqueyan(f): 1:51pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
BluIvy: |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 1:59pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
d light: distraught though she just have to forget about the guy and live on or what else does she want from a man who had hidden such secret from her for that long giving her false hope. She should just let the man alone and think of forging ahead True but he needs to swallow some of his own medicine. She knows theres no future for the two of them. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by mawuqueyan(f): 2:11pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
So unfortunate she found hersef in such precarious  As much as ℓ̊ wl want †̥☺ seee †ђξ guy suffer ΑϞ∂ b in pains jst lyk Uя frend,what joy ΑϞ∂ peace wl Ɣ☺ΰ guys derieve 4rm causing his downfall...Let her just dump him in a painful way when he least xpects it... Karma needs no help,it wl alws catch upp with him... 3 Likes |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by baby124: 2:42pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
tpia@: |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 3:38pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
debrief08: Get over it mmy dear.I dont blame her cos her thinks she knows about it since she lives in d same state with the man. How can convince her friend dat she knows nothing about it? Its painful when ur friend loses trust in you esp in a matter like ds she is only trying ot show empathy They are our men and we r used to dir cruelty but some foreigners will never take it cos it is a wicked act 1 Like |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 4:24pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
nikkykay: Thank you girl, you are the only person who seem to understand my point. It is such unspeakable cruelty. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by vanitty: 5:41pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
Men like that, the only way they will feel any sort of remorse is if their pocket get seriously hit or by making him an outsider in his clique. She should face the man squarely and live the poor wife alone. Men especially married men need to be extra careful. You can't be treating women like they are a piece of toy and expect that there won't be no repercussions. Not all women are "Jesus believers" Not all women believe in "Karma". Some women will actually ruin you. The evil some women will embark on is very frightening. I definitely believe revenge is the Lord's but that is my opinion. My take on this is she should just let go of the bitterness. Let go and move on. Yes it is easier said than done but that is the easiest thing to do. Revenge is hard work, all the plotting etc. If the woman want to revenge. She should remember 1. The wife is also a victim 2. If you kill someone, you more or less destroy your own life. Any criminal activity you do will more or less affect you negatively 3 Likes |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by kay9(m): 6:05pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
BluIvy: BluIvy: BluIvy: @Op, u sure u weren't the victim? Cos u sound like u are... But anyway, if u say its ''your friend'', then your friend it is. Ok, first things first. Lady, your friend was wronged. She was hurt. And she was heart-broken by someone she trusted. She doesnt deserve to be treated that way, and it was wrong. Very very wrong. And for this, as a Nigerian, i am truly sorry. As for ''telling Nigerian men to stop doing this...'', *smiles* I understand its just your grief talking; we all know using and dumping a woman isn't solely a Nigerian trait. - Now, if your friend insists that creating conflict between this man and his wife is going to give her peace and right the wrong that was done to her, then by all means she should go ahead. She should just do it and get it over with. Otherwise, dump the useless guy and get on with her life. End of story! All this going back forth about how she's so hurt but just can't stop loving the guy is just plain irritating. And the thing about not divorcing his wife is just the truth: a Nigerian may be irresponsible about his marriage vows, but he takes the marriage BOND serious. Sorry, but thats the way we are. Lastly, u make it seem like Nigerians are the only heartbreakers in the world; so all the men in your country are all oh so loving and faithful? I've already said i understand its your grief talking, but hey, if you wana hate on ALL Nigerians, feel free. But kindly tell me where u're from so i can hate on ALL your countrymen (and women) too. Its only fair. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 6:23pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
vanitty: Men like that, the only way they will feel any sort of remorse is if their pocket get seriously hit or by making him an outsider in his clique. She should face the man squarely and live the poor wife alone. PLEAEEEEEESSSSSEEEEE READ THE POST CLEARLY SHE CANNOT EVEN PHYSICALLY HURT A FLY LET ALONE KILL SOMEONE I HAVE EXPLAINED WHAT HER PLAN IS: 1. ALIANATE HIM AND EXPOSE HIS LIES! THERE IS NOTHING ILLEGAL OR CRUEL BUT TO EXPOSE HIM AND THE LIES HE STANDS FOR. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 6:34pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
kay9: You know there are cheats all over the world but Nigerians are liers that you cannot even track as your country has no databases that are tied up to the global databases to check people. And the whole community, friends, family and including wives become involve in the scheming. That is what makes it disgusting and way unintolarable. Wake up and smell the coffee, how many cheated lovers make the news in the countries other than the ones cheated by Nigerians? They are heartless and disregard other people's life to get whatever they want. |
| Re: Fury Of A Woman sconned by Nobody: 6:39pm On Mar 06, 2013 |
BluIvy: I have no problem with this. I wouldn't do it personally but I have no problem with it. The only thing is, it probably won't cause a huge problem for him at the end of the day. If you dump him, so what? He will move on with his wife. If you tell his wife nko, I bet they will be on rosy terms in no time. You're far away enough where it's easy for him to cook up lies that she will believe. So this plan is not nearly devious enough sorry.  |
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