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4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by neowelsh(m): 7:26pm On Mar 29, 2008
1. The guy isn't paying attention, and he does
something stupid to begin with.
Some guys think it's appropriate to walk up to
a woman, put their arm around her, and say, "Hey
baby, you sure do look hot tonight".
Some guys don't see anything wrong with
following a woman around all night, staring at her
constantly, then walking over with a nervous,
sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying, "You
remind me of my sister".
These are bad ideas.
2. The guy doesn't stop when he should.
If two women are sitting alone at a table in
the corner, and one of them is obviously upset,
and you walk over to them and say, "Hi, can I buy
you a drink?", and the upset one looks at you
and says, "No thanks, we're in the middle of a
conversation" (then looks away from you back at
her friend), and you say, "Aw, cummon, have a
drink. You need to lighten up and have some
fun", and she looks back at you and says firmly,
"We're busy", and you say, "What, are you in a
bad mood or something? I'm just trying to buy you
a drink", and she says, "We don't want a
drink", and you say, "Well maybe your friend
does", and the friend says, "No, I don't want
one either",
OK, hopefully you get it.
If you ever do something like this, you are a
dumb ass, and you deserve to be slapped and have
47 drinks thrown in your lap.
3. Making a woman nervous with your body
language.
If you start talking to a woman, but your
posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting
around but not meeting hers, and you're wearing an
unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails
tucked in, you're probably not going to get a
favorable response.
If you creep a woman out, things aren't going
to work for you.
4. Not understanding a woman's body language and
other communication.
When you start talking to a woman, she will let
you know within a very short time if she's
receptive to talking to you.
If you've been reading too many books that say
"A woman will signal her availability and interest
by flipping her hair, licking her lips, and
cocking her head coyly at you", then get over it.
This stuff happens to Brat Pitt, not to YOU.
And if it DOES happen to you, then skip this
part.
When you first start talking to a woman she's
either going to keep talking to you in an open,
comfortable way or she's not.
She's either going to act like things are cool
or she's going to act like they're not.
This is an amazing thought, but women get
nervous too. They will often stop talking just
because they can't think of anything to say, etc.
But you need to pay attention.
Experience is the best teacher here.
My simple point is that MOST GUYS CAUSE
REJECTION by what they're doing. They aren't
paying attention, or they're doing things that are
offensive.
If you just avoid a few major mistakes, learn
how to start conversations with women, and do a
few simple things RIGHT, you'll all but totally
avoid "rejection" from the women you approach.
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by almondjoy(f): 7:44pm On Mar 29, 2008
Wey #5-10?
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by naijadiva2(f): 7:52pm On Mar 29, 2008
you forgot if :

5. he's not too good looking. (that's my number one even though it shouldn't but i can't help it. )
6. he looks old enough to be my dad
someone can do 7-10 LOL
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by uspry1(f): 8:00pm On Mar 29, 2008
7. he is so stingy refuse to share expenses even small to pay. so selfish, just too much taker!

8. he is money-spending recklessly. debt-ridden!!!

9. he is potato couch all day playing with video games or watching tv. JOBLESS and LAZY!!!

10. he is hot-tempered throwing things, yelling, and woman-beater.
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by almondjoy(f): 8:40pm On Mar 29, 2008
Excellenteee! Now I can agree that all are correct!

Tell the guys to "shape up" Or "Ship out"!
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Cassiel(f): 8:48pm On Mar 29, 2008
5. Hez got a mouth odour as pungent as a rain forest swamp.

6.Hez got so much armpit hair that you choke on the stench every time he raises his arms.

7.He chews with his mouth open.

8.He cannot hold his end of a conversation.

9.Hez got neither wit nor humor.

10.Hez got smelly feet
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by pahtahkee: 10:04pm On Mar 29, 2008
Thank God them born me well! cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Chacal: 10:14pm On Mar 29, 2008
@ Cassiel,

grin cheesy grin cheesy grin

This is breath-taking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What kinda guys have u been rolling with?
Halitosis, BO, disgusting table manners, nitwit and smelly feet?
U are a meanie!!!! cheesy grin
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by pahtahkee: 10:15pm On Mar 29, 2008
Chacal:

@ Cassiel,

grin cheesy grin cheesy grin

This is breath-taking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What kind of guys have u been rolling with?
Halitosis, BO, disgusting table manners, nitwit and smelly feet?
You are a meanie!!!! cheesy grin

Exactly my sentiments Jackal!!!!!! grin grin
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Cassiel(f): 10:19pm On Mar 29, 2008
@Chacal
Sounds to me like my bullet hit home,Jackal. Guess you're guilty of all of them. You must be one of those that see those things as normal. What kind of girls have you been rolling with?Olfactorily-challenged ones?
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Mar 29, 2008
Lmao!!!!!! cheesy cheesy cheesy

Some guys think it's appropriate to walk up to
a woman, put their arms around her, and say, "Hey
baby, you sure do look hot tonight".


More like suffocating the heck out of the lady.

If you've been reading too many books that say
"A woman will signal her availability and interest
by flipping her hair, licking her lips, and
cocking her head coyly at you", then get over it.
  This stuff happens to Brat Pitt, not to YOU.
  And if it DOES happen to you, then skip this
part.


This cracked me up grin grin grin
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Chacal: 10:25pm On Mar 29, 2008
Cassiel:

@Chacal
Sounds to me like my bullet hit home,Jackal. Guess you're guilty of all of them. You must be one of those that see those things as normal. What kind of girls have you been rolling with?Olfactorily-challenged ones?

Guilty of em stuffs? Nah!!!!
Your bullet missed the target completely.
I have a feening u, Danity, Stillwater and 2 other lasses have launched a personal vendetta on NL geezers since last weekend.

Seriously, is it possible for a geezer to possess all these attributes? Is he a pig?
Anyways, i don't have to blow ma trumpet!!!!
The few peops that have seen me know i am buff! tongue grin tongue
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by TheSly: 10:29pm On Mar 29, 2008
Thank God them born me well!
God bless ma parents too! cool
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Nobody: 10:31pm On Mar 29, 2008
Personal vendetta? I'm innocent. cool
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Cassiel(f): 10:34pm On Mar 29, 2008
@Chac
Personal vendetta on NL geezers? Sure i'm on that list? I don't involve myself in such dearie grin
A dude possessing all those attributes is possible.As for possessing some,oh,extremely true.I'm just being honest here.
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Mar 29, 2008
1. Not goodlookn. 2. No attractive character or personality 3.he is a brokeass 4. He has baby mama(s).
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by tRoOE(f): 11:32pm On Mar 29, 2008
Stingy - Very cheap

Stinky - majority of Naija men falls into this category

Ugly

Rude, ignorant, so full of himself

Feet ewwwwwwwwww come on guys medi cure is not that expensive

Has no good taste when it comes to fashion lol rainbow color

Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Mar 29, 2008
ROTFLMGBO. . .LOL
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by tRoOE(f): 11:39pm On Mar 29, 2008
grin grin grinLmfao you know it ths truth
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by TheSly: 11:40pm On Mar 29, 2008
1. Not goodlookn. 2. No attractive character or personality 3.he is a brokeass 4. He has baby mama(s).
U dont have to worry no more laydie!!. . . .
At least that drug dealer u hitched yourself with aint a broke ass tongue
olo-ju-ko-ko-ro. . . .!!! cool
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Imani(f): 11:42pm On Mar 29, 2008
tRoOE:

Stingy - Very cheap

Stinky - majority of Naija men falls into this category

Ugly

Rude, ignorant, so full of himself

Feet ewwwwwwwwww come on guys medi cure is not that expensive

Has no good taste when it comes to fashion lol rainbow color



Omoeko, hope you are insulated enough to face the barrage of abuse that may be targeted at you? grin
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Nobody: 11:42pm On Mar 29, 2008
tRoOE:

Stingy - Very cheap

Stinky - majority of Naija men falls into this category

Ugly

Rude, ignorant, so full of himself

Feet ewwwwwwwwww come on guys medi cure is not that expensive

Has no good taste when it comes to fashion lol rainbow color


lol the word stinky in general makes me laugh!  cheesy
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by henry007(m): 11:48pm On Mar 29, 2008
Cheapness
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by tRoOE(f): 11:53pm On Mar 29, 2008
Imani:

Omoeko, hope you are insulated enough to face the barrage of abuse that may be targeted at you? grin
It's the truth nah, have you ever wonder why they sweat like Christmas pig, to make it worth they use those cheap ass cologne, Oh my gosh how can I forget their mouth odor!!!!!!! disgusting.  



ibkaye:

lol the word stinky in general makes me laugh!  cheesy
LOL u are silly grin grin
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Nobody: 11:57pm On Mar 29, 2008
At SLY. , U dey vex? Jealous of my drugdealin hubby? As long as he brings the greens home. No vex jare:-P
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by henry007(m): 11:59pm On Mar 29, 2008
women getty their own body odour mehn and their own worse pass oh
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by bawomolo(m): 12:00am On Mar 30, 2008
At SLY. , You dey vex? Jealous of my drugdealin hubby? As long as he brings the greens home. No vex jare:-P

by greens, do u mean weed tongue tongue tongue
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by 4Him(m): 12:00am On Mar 30, 2008
Stingy - Very cheap - Its not our fault, the vast majority of women really arent worth putting a hole in your pocket. From now on its pay as you go.

Stinky - majority of Naija men falls into this category - Ditto for majority of Nigerian women.

Ugly - I reserve my comment but i don't think you have any grounds to call anyone ugly.

Rude, ignorant, so full of himself - Its self-confidence madamme, i suggest you deal with it.

Feet ewwwwwwwwww come on guys medi cure is not that expensive - As if the corns on your heels are any better.

Has no good taste when it comes to fashion lol rainbow color - Its easier for women to pretend to have "good fashion sense" . . . one good male shirt is worth more than 10 tacky female tank tops.
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by TheSly: 12:02am On Mar 30, 2008
Well done bro!!! cool
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by Nobody: 12:02am On Mar 30, 2008
Bawomolo. You should knw;-)
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by bawomolo(m): 12:04am On Mar 30, 2008
damn 4him. u shut shit down, especially with the fashion thing. these women can buy a cargo load of clothes for 10.99 grin grin grin


Bawomolo. You should knw;-)

of course i know, the only greens u know are the efo u eat tongue tongue
Re: 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men. by tRoOE(f): 12:08am On Mar 30, 2008
4Him:

Stingy - Very cheap - Its not our fault, the vast majority of women really arent worth putting a hole in your pocket. From now on its pay as you go.

Stinky - majority of Naija men falls into this category - Ditto for majority of Nigerian women.

Ugly - I reserve my comment but i don't think you have any grounds to call anyone ugly.

Rude, ignorant, so full of himself - Its self-confidence madamme, i suggest you deal with it.

Feet ewwwwwwwwww come on guys medi cure is not that expensive - As if the corns on your heels are any better.

Has no good taste when it comes to fashion lol rainbow color - Its easier for women to pretend to have "good fashion sense" . . . one good male shirt is worth more than 10 tacky female tank tops.

Heheh  my opinion, you can jump over the bridge if you don’t like it, not my business.

Ahahaha If am Ugly what makes you, A gorilla lmfao, dude you thought doesn’t matter or count jare, anyway am done with this thread.

Ciao  

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