BodyKiss:

Yeah, we know already, so shutup and advice.

Fhemmmy:

Please state only 2

Richvkunt: @OP,
Fist of all the mistakes have been made,so what is the solution?
You are 27 weeks gone and already contemplating giving out your baby for adopton? Is that the solution? Are you very sure in the future you will not want this baby back? Do not act on emotions,because I know you are so confused right now. Right now you claim the unborn babys daddy does not want anything to do with this child but what about in the future? Have you and yourr parents tried to have a sit down with your boy friends family on the way forward? Have either of you talked about getting a job?
How old are you? And how old is your boy friend?
I know you are pretty mixed up now,but you need to take a deep breath and think very deeply and carefully before even contemplating giving your baby away to strangers.
A word is enough for the wise.

Brimmie: MORAL: Use Condom To Avoid Unwanted Pregnancy

Desloaaa:
must d baby wear diapers??
What happened to breast milk??

what? is this even a serious question?

coogar: some men are heartless.....
this is when i sometimes wish men should be getting pregnant like the ladies. he offloaded his debris into her before realising he has a career to pursue - why didn't he think of that before sticking it in her?

Odunnu: Some of us don't seem to understand the unique way this adoption is.
I think its, she gives the home the baby for a period of time on agreement and comes back for it when she is on her feet. This goes with payment for the home's support and care.
Nobody will adopt the baby from the home, she will have custody of her baby after a passage of time

debrief08: Yes Odunnu, all states have welfare offices at the local Government secretariate with qualified social workers.
Due to budget constraint and bad Government Policies their activities are not highlighted and promoted so people can know where to turn to when they need help.

Fhemmmy:

What?

Odunnu:
Really? Thank you. This info will come handy some day.

c++_crazy:
some women are heartless.....
That is why sometimes i wish we are hermophrodite....
Maybe the guy didn't want to hav sex on dat day but the lady was 2 hor*ny like during her ovulation period and forced d guy to plunge his plunger into her okpa awara awa and now she wants to blame the guy and pause his dreams.

lovemychild: Am 27 weeks pregnant and i cant afford to take care of myself fianancialy cos i dont have anything doing yet.

my boyfriend who is the father of my child walk away cos he said he's not ready to be a father yet, that he has his career to pursue.

i actually never wanted to keep this pregnancy, but he convinced me to keep it, but just of a recent, he said he's scared that we should remove it. which i agree with him. we went to the hospital and met a doctor who adviced us to keep it. that i may die in the process.

since then, he stop calling me, visiting and even stop picking my calls. I've been so depressed and scared. i don't have money to even go for antenatal not to talk of what to use and take care of my baby when i give birth.

i've really disappointed my mom and my two younger brothers and don't know what to do. since last week i started thinking of giving out my baby for adoption, but i don't know how to go about it.

my question is:
1. does the thought of given out my child for adoption makes me a terrible mom to be?

pls if u know of any legal organization or foundation in abuja that can adopt my child for a year so that i can come back and get my baby, pls let me know and if u have any advice or help, pls advice me.

pls dont judge me nor condemn me. i already know i did wrong by not been careful, believing in promises that easily failed me and given out my trust to love . thank u

ocman: IF YOU ARE SERIOUS ABOUT YOUR UNBORN BABY, I WOULD LOVE TO ADOPT HIM/HER AND GIVER HIM/HER THE BEST FUTURE AND CARE!

elkol: 27 weeks! Still 'abortable'

c++_crazy:
ar u 20 weeks pregnant and planning to give out ur baby also?

lovemychild: Am 27 weeks pregnant and i cant afford to take care of myself fianancialy cos i dont have anything doing yet.

my boyfriend who is the father of my child walk away cos he said he's not ready to be a father yet, that he has his career to pursue.

i actually never wanted to keep this pregnancy, but he convinced me to keep it, but just of a recent, he said he's scared that we should remove it. which i agree with him. we went to the hospital and met a doctor who adviced us to keep it. that i may die in the process.

sunnshyn: Well, i just think that the OP is still too scared to think properly and 27weeks is a tad still early...

Please you would have to think this through well enough. By all means go and find out what it takes to give babies up for adoption, but please do not sign contracts and its likes yet..

All you feel now isnt new, I would never advise you give your baby up for adoption to unknown people, im sure that as you progress with the pregnancy, feeling your baby breath and kick would make you have a re-think.

Children are blessings from God. Pray through this times and ask that God guides you and give you direction.

You are not a bad mother,

Stay safe,
sunnshyn

Odunnu:
That man who wont want me to have his baby isnt born yet.
I havent ever done it with a man who wont stand to his responsibilites.
BTW, i'm a virgin. Ask Coogar if you doubt me.

Fhemmmy:

Very true but not being able to provide for that same child wont help either . . .

Odunnu:
That man who wont want me to have his baby isnt born yet.
I havent ever done it with a man who wont stand to his responsibilites.
BTW, i'm a virgin. Ask Coogar if you doubt me.