herseys01:
The comment will be dumb to dummies like you. If she is so beautiful, why did he not marry an ugly woman? It is only insecure men that would do such. Listen to yourself "They all cheat themselves". Like you are there with them. Abeg go and have several seats. This is a forum to share ones views. If you are not happy with what was said, simply ignore if you have no reasonable comments to add.

Who is this impotent fellow What does my post have to do with been beautiful? Abi u see your name for my post?? I bet you don't even have a girlfriend talkless of the one that would cheat on you.

Nigerians and their shallow way of reasoning.

All this talk of trust and trust is bs.
Trust is over rated, especially in Nigeria.
Should any sensible person have to trust with his eyes closed?
Who is most likely to cheat, dupe or kill you, someone you trust or someone you dont trust?

Everyone deserves to know the truth, irrespective of how bitter it may turn out.
If you have any reasons to believe or suspect that a trust has been breached, then you owe it yourself to take any measure to confirm or erase your suspicions.

Obviously the Op suspects his wife and wants proof for his suspicions.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. He is being smart.
It might turn out to be the best thing he has ever done for himself.

Its simple. dont marry someone u cant /dont trust

sunny t: Its simple. dont marry someone u cant /dont trust

Young man, what is very simple? People rarely marry someone they don't trust and most times its when they become a couple that one person gives the other a reason not to trust him or her. So throw away this don't marry who you don't trust.
I have a question for you. Are u married?